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"Iv just had a 43year man ask me to sneak into his mums house to shag him. Gave me instant ick lol. Another thing is Pictures with messy backgrounds What's yours? " Definitely agree with the background mess!!  also guys who say "i'll be the best shag you've ever had" ew. | |||
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"Single profiles with action shots Gaping assholes/vaginas with love juice all over. Any hint of that alpha/sigma nonsense Oh and sorry OP but the word ick" Sorry lol | |||
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"Single profiles with action shots Gaping assholes/vaginas with love juice all over. Any hint of that alpha/sigma nonsense Oh and sorry OP but the word ick" Often wonder if the women in the pics know they are on these profiles lol | |||
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"Profiles looking for "exceptional men only". As if someone is going to go "nah I'm a bit shit actually" and not message." That just self selects for dipshits. If you think you're exceptional, you've probably got your head up your arse. | |||
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"Profiles looking for "exceptional men only". As if someone is going to go "nah I'm a bit shit actually" and not message. That just self selects for dipshits. If you think you're exceptional, you've probably got your head up your arse." Exactly that! I don't think it'll attract the people they think it will. | |||
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" A checklist of wants" For some reason that's shoved What a Girl Wants in my head. Bloody millennial earworms | |||
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"The 'not looking for single men' but really want you to fab my pics people "Ooops... 😅 | |||
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"The 'not looking for single men' but really want you to fab my pics people "It's why I turned my Fabs off. I send my own first messages, and I'm not doing it for Fabs 😂 | |||
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"The use of emoji's in photos whether that's covering up faces or other bits. I don't know why, but using them with text is fine, but on photos it just doesn't do it for me." Over pictures it reads as juvenile to me. But maybe I'm too old to get it | |||
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"Single profiles with action shots Gaping assholes/vaginas with love juice all over. Any hint of that alpha/sigma nonsense Oh and sorry OP but the word ick Often wonder if the women in the pics know they are on these profiles lol " I have a suspicioin a high percentage won't that also goes for women who do it too. | |||
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"The 'not looking for single men' but really want you to fab my pics people
Ooops... 😅" | |||
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"Profiles with Sydney University warnings. It makes me hover over the block button!" Mine is good 😇 | |||
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"Profiles with Sydney University warnings. It makes me hover over the block button! Mine is good 😇" It is! | |||
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"The use of emoji's in photos whether that's covering up faces or other bits. I don't know why, but using them with text is fine, but on photos it just doesn't do it for me. Over pictures it reads as juvenile to me. But maybe I'm too old to get it " Shamed into acting my age | |||
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"Overly filtered face pics that make people look like airbrush-smooth plastic sex dolls." How else am I supposed to convince people to have sex with me! | |||
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"Having specific likes on what they are looking for, then they message you when you're the complete opposite and they back track. " I think that's a cousin of "I know you said no smokers and my profile says I'm a smoker, but I've kind of maybe quit on Wednesdays and my smoking doesn't count, right?" | |||
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"Having specific likes on what they are looking for, then they message you when you're the complete opposite and they back track. I think that's a cousin of "I know you said no smokers and my profile says I'm a smoker, but I've kind of maybe quit on Wednesdays and my smoking doesn't count, right?"" I had someone message me the other day who had "only looking for slim women" on their profile. When I brought it up to them, it was all "yeah but only sometimes"  | |||
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"Having specific likes on what they are looking for, then they message you when you're the complete opposite and they back track. I think that's a cousin of "I know you said no smokers and my profile says I'm a smoker, but I've kind of maybe quit on Wednesdays and my smoking doesn't count, right?" I had someone message me the other day who had "only looking for slim women" on their profile. When I brought it up to them, it was all "yeah but only sometimes" " | |||
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"Profiles looking for "exceptional men only". As if someone is going to go "nah I'm a bit shit actually" and not message. That just self selects for dipshits. If you think you're exceptional, you've probably got your head up your arse." Now that would be exceptional | |||
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"A list of demands being passed off as "preferences". And the demand for a face pic first, or no reply, on profiles containing zero pics.." The flip side of that is "here's my face picture, now you have to reply". I didn't ask for that, and no I don't. (I'm not negating what you're saying, it's a yes and comment) | |||
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"Having specific likes on what they are looking for, then they message you when you're the complete opposite and they back track. " Woman’s profile: “I don’t meet married men or cheaters” Woman: Messages me *facepalm* | |||
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"I’m not being racist but white men only or no black/asian etc. fine but why put it in the profile? Puts me right off folk Also - I’m great with my tongue/cock/hands blah blah (or so I’m told) Meh " Agree but same with BBC only, or such like - though that is fine cos it just tells me I am not their cup of tea, so block instantly. | |||
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"Well just received one which definitely give me the ick Owend but given permission to F#$k you of my master !!! Wtf is that all about lol " You should be grateful don’t you know! 🤣 | |||
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"Well just received one which definitely give me the ick Owend but given permission to F#$k you of my master !!! Wtf is that all about lol " he man and the masters of the universe | |||
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"Having specific likes on what they are looking for, then they message you when you're the complete opposite and they back track. Woman’s profile: “I don’t meet married men or cheaters” Woman: Messages me *facepalm*" "You're the exception  " or whatever it is they say. | |||
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"Having specific likes on what they are looking for, then they message you when you're the complete opposite and they back track. Woman’s profile: “I don’t meet married men or cheaters” Woman: Messages me *facepalm* "You're the exception " or whatever it is they say."Oh god, gag me over the exception shit. | |||
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"I’m not being racist but white men only or no black/asian etc. fine but why put it in the profile? Puts me right off folk Also - I’m great with my tongue/cock/hands blah blah (or so I’m told) Meh " Usually when it also includes "it's just a preference" puts me off as well because it tells me that they don't know what the definition of a preference is. | |||
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"I’m not being racist but white men only or no black/asian etc. fine but why put it in the profile? Puts me right off folk Also - I’m great with my tongue/cock/hands blah blah (or so I’m told) Meh Usually when it also includes "it's just a preference" puts me off as well because it tells me that they don't know what the definition of a preference is." Yep. I can’t put this stuff in the same category as not liking beards/big people etc | |||
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"I fear our profile might be hitting the 'ick' button having read all the comments about dripping vaginas - sorry people "I think there's power in making a profile to suit you and the people you want to attract. It's not for me, either, but it's like, I dunno, Italian brainrot or whatever gen alpha are into at the moment. It's not for me, but that's ok. | |||
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"I fear our profile might be hitting the 'ick' button having read all the comments about dripping vaginas - sorry people "Oh don't be sorry. For every person that's put off will have someone who isn't and you can only be true to yourselves in terms of who you want to attract. | |||
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"I fear our profile might be hitting the 'ick' button having read all the comments about dripping vaginas - sorry people "Different people like different things. That’s the beauty of the scene. Some people might love something that someone else doesn’t. Do what you like. That’s all that matters. | |||
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"I fear our profile might be hitting the 'ick' button having read all the comments about dripping vaginas - sorry people "The beauty in having your own profile is running it how you want. I'm sure we all have things that will put certain people off, but do we really want to attract those people anyway🤷♀️ | |||
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"Well just received one which definitely give me the ick Owend but given permission to F#$k you of my master !!! Wtf is that all about lol You should be grateful don’t you know! 🤣" Hahaha , | |||
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"Follow up messages when their first one is ignored/deleted: ?? No speaking?? You shy? Not your type? Oi oi Mildly irritating." You shy babe? I won't bite. I see you're online, why don't you reply? I bet you can't handle this I'm only a few miles away. C'mon, please... Etc ad infinitum | |||
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" Agree but same with BBC only, or such like - though that is fine cos it just tells me I am not their cup of tea, so block instantly." For the life of me I can’t fathom why people cannot just say “black guys or black men” instead using that term 😡🙄 | |||
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" Agree but same with BBC only, or such like - though that is fine cos it just tells me I am not their cup of tea, so block instantly. For the life of me I can’t fathom why people cannot just say “black guys or black men” instead using that term 😡🙄" I do have a question as I've seen a few of your posts with this sentiment but how do you feel about black guys who play into that kink of providing a BBC if women or couples are looking for that or those who attend BMFC events? Do you think it hurts the overall narrative around black guys or is it more that it's not for you but others will do what they do. | |||
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"Passive aggressive phrases in the bio. Like, you sound miserable with this place, why are you here?" I agree with this. A steaming list of ‘no’ and ‘don’ts’ but nothing about what they offer or about what they are actually looking for. | |||
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" Agree but same with BBC only, or such like - though that is fine cos it just tells me I am not their cup of tea, so block instantly. For the life of me I can’t fathom why people cannot just say “black guys or black men” instead using that term 😡🙄 I do have a question as I've seen a few of your posts with this sentiment but how do you feel about black guys who play into that kink of providing a BBC if women or couples are looking for that or those who attend BMFC events? Do you think it hurts the overall narrative around black guys or is it more that it's not for you but others will do what they do." I find it objectifying (find quite a lot of comments in threads are objectifying, needn't be anything to do with colour). It's their preference, I don't fit it, so it is a simple block | |||
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"Iv just had a 43year man ask me to sneak into his mums house to shag him. Gave me instant ick lol. Another thing is Pictures with messy backgrounds What's yours? " Did you want to wait until his mum had gone to the shops? 🤔 | |||
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"Iv just had a 43year man ask me to sneak into his mums house to shag him. Gave me instant ick lol. Another thing is Pictures with messy backgrounds What's yours? Did you want to wait until his mum had gone to the shops? 🤔" Not a chance I'm sneaking Into a grown mans mums house | |||
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"What passes for erotica from a stranger. "When I get my hands on you... (Anatomically impossible grammatically criminal self congratulatory drivel goes here and I lose the will to live...) And you'll squirt so hard you'll flood from Stockport to Liverpool. How bout it baby. You can't resist this hunk of man meat"" I did say that I'd throw in a meal at Nandos 🤷🏽♂️😂 | |||
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"Iv just had a 43year man ask me to sneak into his mums house to shag him. Gave me instant ick lol. Another thing is Pictures with messy backgrounds What's yours? Did you want to wait until his mum had gone to the shops? 🤔 Not a chance I'm sneaking Into a grown mans mums house " But his mum might be quite fit, and you may fancy her more than him - go on give it a try, find out when he is going to be out next! | |||
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"Overly filtered face pics that make people look like airbrush-smooth plastic sex dolls. How else am I supposed to convince people to have sex with me! " Have you considered chloroform? 😂 | |||
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"Sending a follow up message when you havent replied in 12 minutes." Maybe they need an answer before the wank ends? 🤔 | |||
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"Iv just had a 43year man ask me to sneak into his mums house to shag him. Gave me instant ick lol. Another thing is Pictures with messy backgrounds What's yours? Did you want to wait until his mum had gone to the shops? 🤔 Not a chance I'm sneaking Into a grown mans mums house But his mum might be quite fit, and you may fancy her more than him - go on give it a try, find out when he is going to be out next!" £20 says she's got a beard... the mum that is 🤷🏽♂️ | |||
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"Had a nice guy last night ask if I wanted to watch him dildo his arse on cam." Did he at least say please, | |||
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"Sending a follow up message when you havent replied in 12 minutes. Maybe they need an answer before the wank ends? 🤔" 🤣 | |||
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"Had a nice guy last night ask if I wanted to watch him dildo his arse on cam. Did he at least say please," Unfortunately not. He disappeared offline quite quickly so I'm assuming he found a victim. | |||
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"Id like to change my answer please based upon the picture I've just received "Yeah. Yeah I remember what that's like | |||
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" I do have a question as I've seen a few of your posts with this sentiment but how do you feel about black guys who play into that kink of providing a BBC if women or couples are looking for that or those who attend BMFC events? Do you think it hurts the overall narrative around black guys or is it more that it's not for you but others will do what they do." It’s both to be honest for me. Obviously I can’t control how others wish to market themselves in order to get sex, although other black guys who don’t care and play up to it does irk me somewhat but I understand they’re just playing the game. I’m one half of an interracial couple & my girlfriend can’t stand all this just as much as me (if not more!). I also have white friends in the scene who attend interracial events, are part of interracial couples too and don’t feel the need to use these terms either. | |||
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"Profiles looking for "exceptional men only". As if someone is going to go "nah I'm a bit shit actually" and not message. That just self selects for dipshits. If you think you're exceptional, you've probably got your head up your arse." Even in the unlikely event that I meet all the criteria, I’m wary of people who are over-judgmental. I wouldn’t be able to relax and have fun, if I think they are grading me | |||
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"And probably one for Admin. When searching for Meets etc, can I have a second option with the location tab? I think that’s what it is. So I select South West and I get Lands End to Dorset etc and beyond. Can I narrow it down to the counties I want instead of wading through people 100 miles away? I think that’s it for a minute." Agree with all your points. But meets! If I could filter by “looking for me” and “distance “, as I can in the general search, I’d use it more | |||
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"Omg I just bn sent a video of guy toying his arse and let's say he's not prepared for anal It was caked" | |||
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"Omg I just bn sent a video of guy toying his arse and let's say he's not prepared for anal It was caked" That’s grim… | |||
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"Omg I just bn sent a video of guy toying his arse and let's say he's not prepared for anal It was caked" That’s plenty for today 😳 | |||
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"And probably one for Admin. When searching for Meets etc, can I have a second option with the location tab? I think that’s what it is. So I select South West and I get Lands End to Dorset etc and beyond. Can I narrow it down to the counties I want instead of wading through people 100 miles away? I think that’s it for a minute. Agree with all your points. But meets! If I could filter by “looking for me” and “distance “, as I can in the general search, I’d use it more " Think this whole site could do with a massive overhaul and brought into the 21st century. But that’s a debate for another post | |||
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"And probably one for Admin. When searching for Meets etc, can I have a second option with the location tab? I think that’s what it is. So I select South West and I get Lands End to Dorset etc and beyond. Can I narrow it down to the counties I want instead of wading through people 100 miles away? I think that’s it for a minute. Agree with all your points. But meets! If I could filter by “looking for me” and “distance “, as I can in the general search, I’d use it more Think this whole site could do with a massive overhaul and brought into the 21st century. But that’s a debate for another post " It's a same issue with searching in the East Mids and finding people 100-odd miles away 😤 | |||
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