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By (user no longer on site) OP
2 weeks ago

How do people with jobs that would sack them for being on here show enough to attract play mates?

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By *iver78Man
2 weeks ago

barton upon humber

No job can sack you for being on here

I met a cdi officer in here and a green party candidate , both had profile pics , granted not of there faces , but both shared once they were comfortable, but isent most people ?

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By *ealitybitesMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast

Attracting playmates involves a hell of a lot more than just what you show pictorially.

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It's a tough one, because without any public pics, you're unlikely to garner much interest.

I don't engage with silhouette profiles at all,many have little info on top, so I don't have any desire to get to know them.

I have seen police officers, emergency service workers in their uniforms here, with their faces on show though.

If it's written in a contract that you can't be on a site like this (I'm guessing it won't be in many people's) then what are you to do?.

Everyone can choose to run their profile the way they want, but others are perfectly entitled not to engage with these mystery profiles too.

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple
2 weeks ago

North Somerset

"How do people with jobs that would sack them for being on here show enough to attract play mates? "

Simple.

Don't have public face pics and hide any tattoos.

I got outed years ago to my then boss and ai had a reputational disrepute clause in my contract.

They couldnt prove it was me and ai denied it.

Nothing happed. Fab life went on. 🤷‍♂️

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By *WB85Man
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Dont show your face and send one time pics on other platforms if its that much for a concern.

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By *kphooey43Man
2 weeks ago

Barnet

"How do people with jobs that would sack them for being on here show enough to attract play mates? "

Mine isn't about being sacked, its more to do with clients and loss of contracts. So no face pics publicly displayed (they are in my private ones, and I do sent them to people I am talking to).

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By (user no longer on site) OP
1 week ago

Thanks,it's good advice but as a male on here you have to look like you are walking down catwalk model to even get a second glance. It's definitely a confidence breaker

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
1 week ago

Carlisle usually

By showing enough for someone to know they find you physically attractive. It doesn't have to include a face or identifying tattoos.

If you've decided your body isn't good enough to attract women then that's going to come through in the way you present yourself and communicate. If you think we're all so shallow that we won't bother if your body is less than supermodel perfect then I don't know why you'd want to engage with women at all.

Very very few of the people I've had sex with from here had public face photos. But none of them had none or only cock shots 💜

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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1 week ago

Central

"Thanks,it's good advice but as a male on here you have to look like you are walking down catwalk model to even get a second glance. It's definitely a confidence breaker "

I disagree. There's lots of interest in regular men but each one has to sell why they are right and of potential interest, for others to be able to understand and pick them

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By *partharmonyCouple
1 week ago

Tonbridge

"No job can sack you for being on here

I met a cdi officer in here and a green party candidate , both had profile pics , granted not of there faces , but both shared once they were comfortable, but isent most people ? "

They can. If you have security clearance and you haven't told them about this, you can lose your clearance and therefore your job.

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By *nmyknees69Man
1 week ago

Rushden

"How do people with jobs that would sack them for being on here show enough to attract play mates? "

How can you get the sack for being on here?

Unless you post racial or sexual hatred there isn’t anything any employer could or would do.

I once got sacked for telling my boss in a private message that he was a ‘fat lazy cunt that uses his position to bully’

IF I had texted him that I’d still be working there but as it was on FB albeit a private message I was binned off!!

Ironic really as he is a fat lazy cunt and he knows it.

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By *ysteriousGirlOGWoman
1 week ago

Birmingham

I don't understand the people that upload photos with company lanyards or in their work places. This is a sackable offence, just keep that side of your life private.

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
1 week ago

Telford

If they see you on this site then they can't say much can they, seeing as they would have to be here to see you.

If you've taken pics at work or have your lanyard on etc then well that's playing with fire.

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By *ynecplCouple
1 week ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Be careful and don't link your work with being on here. That applies to all social media. We have nothing on our social media profiles that links to our jobs, we don't discuss work on our social media platforms so there is no reason for anybody who does not know us to know what we do and where we work.

Therefore should anybody try and do something malicious and it has happened to friends of our then we can and would be quite happy to prosecute them.

That said if someone is that worried about losing their job by being on here then perhaps they shouldn't actually be on here.

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By *dstefiMan
1 week ago

Solihull

A funny story that ended better than it could have:

I used to use WA for my kinky sex life and it really tripped me up this one time. My manager in the office used it a lot for business purposes and it had never occurred to me that it's linked to my phone number (that he knew for work reasons obviously).

So one slow afternoon I guess he's checking his messages and in the way that Meta apps have, I guess all of a sudden I popped up on his "people you might know" feed. With an avatar of me in a black bra, thong and stockings (very sexy one I might add)

He blurts out "fackin ell Steve, is this a photo of you?" I just about died and wanted the floor to swallow me up. Went outside and rapidly changed my avatar to something bland and innocuous, but Mr Straight had seen my body in lingerie

The good thing is he seemed cool about it (we're good enough mates that a little embarrassing peccadillo like that wasn't going to fuck everything up), never mentioned it again and we still chat normally for work reasons although working at different places now.

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By *dstefiMan
1 week ago

Solihull

(the offending pic is available to any vaguely interested parties by the way, as you know about painting a thousand words and all that

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By *ermanentlyHorny8082Couple
1 week ago

North West

Thou Shalt Not Be On Fab isn’t written into my contract, but my job is such that bringing my profession into disrepute is gross misconduct and would lead to me being sacked. I tend to do A LOT of leg-work with potential meets (build up that trust, lots of checks that I don’t know them, they know my profession but not where I work, share face pics near a meet etc), but it’s never a guarantee. As for attracting them, we’re lucky that, as a couple, men tend to seek us out (not big-headed, just a fact for couples on here)

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By *iss DevilWoman
1 week ago

Bedford

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By *sWyldWoman
1 week ago

Edinburgh

I manage ok...

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By *vaRoseWoman
1 week ago

Ankh-Morpork

"I don't understand the people that upload photos with company lanyards or in their work places. This is a sackable offence, just keep that side of your life private. "

Or their work uniform

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By *ou only live onceMan
1 week ago

London

"Thanks,it's good advice but as a male on here you have to look like you are walking down catwalk model to even get a second glance. It's definitely a confidence breaker "

I don't see the connection between this point and someone's job?

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