FabSwingers.com forum: Is a lady being called a Milf/Cougar a good thing or a bad thing?

By *rishGent69 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Tralee

I recently had a lady say that my username was disrespectful to her when I messaged her but I never thought of it that way myself so I’m just wondering, do people think it’s a good thing to be called it or do they agree with her and they don’t like it?

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By *evilinDavina1Man
2 weeks ago

Bristol

Different people will view it differently, as long as long as you mean it as a compliment though then it's all good in my book

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Better than been called Hun

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
2 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

To be honest it depends on the individual..Some like it and some dont. Bit like marmite

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 weeks ago

funky town

I just think its a silly word tbh. I get called it and i dont even have any kids it just makes me laugh. I wouldnt say im offended by it though just makes me giggle and think im probs not for you so helps me filter

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

Personally hate it, makes me feel objectified for being a certain age or a parent. Theres more to me than that.

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By *ocialablechapMan
2 weeks ago

Paphos and also SW UK

I don't mind being called a DILF

Maybe it should be S for shag instead of F, sound more polite!

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By *evilinDavina1Man
2 weeks ago

Bristol

"I don't mind being called a DILF

Maybe it should be S for shag instead of F, sound more polite! "

Dude is Listerine fresh ?

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By *ustAnotherMan
2 weeks ago

Tamworth

If they like it? Sure. If they don't? No!

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Herts/Leeds

"I just think its a silly word tbh. I get called it and i dont even have any kids it just makes me laugh. I wouldnt say im offended by it though just makes me giggle and think im probs not for you so helps me filter

I get it and I’m not even a woman.

It’s a damning indictment of the education system in this country. Some people need to pay more attention in biology class.

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By *ocialablechapMan
2 weeks ago

Paphos and also SW UK

"I don't mind being called a DILF

Maybe it should be S for shag instead of F, sound more polite!

Dude is Listerine fresh ? "

Lol, that too

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

In a galaxy far far away

Porn has a lot to answer for sometimes.

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By *evilinDavina1Man
2 weeks ago

Bristol

"I don't mind being called a DILF

Maybe it should be S for shag instead of F, sound more polite!

Dude is Listerine fresh ?

Lol, that too"

Glad someone liked it 😔🤣🤣🤣

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Herts/Leeds

"I don't mind being called a DILF

Maybe it should be S for shag instead of F, sound more polite!

Dude is Listerine fresh ?

Lol, that too

Glad someone liked it 😔🤣🤣🤣"

I liked it.

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By *evilinDavina1Man
2 weeks ago

Bristol

"I don't mind being called a DILF

Maybe it should be S for shag instead of F, sound more polite!

Dude is Listerine fresh ?

Lol, that too

Glad someone liked it 😔🤣🤣🤣

I liked it. "

Aww you can come hid in my nuclear bunker when the world ends too 🤣🤣🤣

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By *rishGent69 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Tralee

That’s actually very understandable and for me a “milf” doesn’t actually have to be a mum I use it as a term of endearment for a pretty lady but I know not everyone understands that, which is why I don’t actually say it to someone unless they like being called it. My username is just a bit of a hindrance for me at this stage because like you said people probably just see my username, could be attracted to me but don’t even bother because of that word which again is totally fair enough.

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 weeks ago

funky town

Yeah you should totally have whatever username you want but me personally wouldnt reply because i would take it you love MILFS as in mums and i'm not one so i would save us both the hassle and delete haha.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Herts/Leeds

"I don't mind being called a DILF

Maybe it should be S for shag instead of F, sound more polite!

Dude is Listerine fresh ?

Lol, that too

Glad someone liked it 😔🤣🤣🤣

I liked it.

Aww you can come hid in my nuclear bunker when the world ends too 🤣🤣🤣"

Thanks! Handy too as my nuclear bunker is full of nuclear material I’ve been trying to shift.

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By *evilinDavina1Man
2 weeks ago

Bristol

"I don't mind being called a DILF

Maybe it should be S for shag instead of F, sound more polite!

Dude is Listerine fresh ?

Lol, that too

Glad someone liked it 😔🤣🤣🤣

I liked it.

Aww you can come hid in my nuclear bunker when the world ends too 🤣🤣🤣

Thanks! Handy too as my nuclear bunker is full of nuclear material I’ve been trying to shift."

🤣🤣🤣 It is a pain to despise of properly. I just take a leaf out of Japan's book and dump it in the sea

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By *oxy-RedWoman
2 weeks ago

pink panther territory

It's just another label used for women,some will like it,some will loath it

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I find milf a turn off & don't have kids anyway. plus I don't want someone to be into me just because I'm older, if that makes sense.

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By *rishGent69 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Tralee

" Yeah you should totally have whatever username you want but me personally wouldnt reply because i would take it you love MILFS as in mums and i'm not one so i would save us both the hassle and delete haha. "

See I don’t particularly like my username so I’m actually thinking I’m going to change it because for me it was just so people would look at my username and think “oh he likes an older lady” which I do but it doesn’t matter if they have kids or not obviously.

And I never thought about someone not liking my username to the point that they wouldn’t even message me over it because they don’t like it so thanks for giving me a good bit of insight.

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By *ysteriousGirlOGWoman
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Men should probably clarify if they are infact mothers before using the term

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By *rishGent69 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Tralee

"I find milf a turn off & don't have kids anyway. plus I don't want someone to be into me just because I'm older, if that makes sense. "

That makes sense and I wouldn’t say that if I like someone it’s just because they are older it’s more what your body looks like and most ladies have a better personality than younger girls if I’m being honest

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By *weetiepie99Woman
2 weeks ago

cardiff

Yukky yuk yuk

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By *iss KinkWoman
2 weeks ago

Up North

I don’t like it at all

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's polarising.

I'll roll my eyes. It isn't a deal breaker, but it's a point in the con column (pros and cons of this person)

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By *estructionDollyWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

I get called a milf even though I'm not a mum, it makes me feel old. I don't find it flattering, nor being told by a guy in his 20s how much he loves older women. I'd rather not be reminded I'm 10+ years older than them. I'm still 18 in my head, not 38 😩

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By *evilinDavina1Man
2 weeks ago

Bristol

"I get called a milf even though I'm not a mum, it makes me feel old. I don't find it flattering, nor being told by a guy in his 20s how much he loves older women. I'd rather not be reminded I'm 10+ years older than them. I'm still 18 in my head, not 38 😩 "

I still think I'm 18, then I try to run and reality sets in 🤣🤣

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By *estructionDollyWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

I still think I'm 18, then I try to run and reality sets in 🤣🤣"

Oh my body reminds me all the time 🥲

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By *ildoshagginsWoman
2 weeks ago

South Wales

"I don't mind being called a DILF

Maybe it should be S for shag instead of F, sound more polite! "

See shag sounds a bit too indifferent to me, ie, yeah I'd shag you, almost a bit unbothered. But fuck feels way more intentional

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

Its even worse when its someone in their late 30s saying it to you 😭😭

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I actually find it less objectionable than being called "baby girl" by guys in their 20s who refer to themselves as "daddy". 🤮

I'm FIFTY-EIGHT FFS!

But, yeah, MILF... at least that's still calling me that and not GILF... putting aside the fact that I'm not someone's mother, even though I can be mother...

How's your day going? 😀🌈

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Some like it, some don't.

I'm guessing you've changed your username now. But if it was something like milfhunter then I'd be simultaneously put off by both being called a milf and the idea of being hunted for it 💜

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By *Effy-Woman
2 weeks ago

Scotland

Honestly, anything is better than being referred to as an "older woman" in your 30s 😭

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By *hoenixxFeatherWoman
2 weeks ago

Teesside

I grew up in the American Pie era, so I've always thought of MILF as a compliment 😆

Cougar feels a little more intentionally brazen.

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By *rishGent69 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Tralee

I ended up changing my username altogether so I appreciate all the comments! I actually prefer it a lot more the way it is now then being called Milflover😆

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
2 weeks ago

Niche

I personally hate both.

I'm not Lilo Lil.

Does not make me purr.

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
2 weeks ago

Telford

I hate both.

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

A good thing. MILF is a compliment

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By *eximus MaximusMan
1 week ago

Up North

I’ll call them anything as long as I get to spunk on her tits

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By *naswingdressWoman
1 week ago

Manchester (she/her)

"A good thing. MILF is a compliment "

You might intend it as a compliment. Not all women appreciate it.

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By *hickthighs26Woman
1 week ago

funky town

"I ended up changing my username altogether so I appreciate all the comments! I actually prefer it a lot more the way it is now then being called Milflover😆"

I think it suits you so much better OP.

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By *025IncomingMan
1 week ago

Co.Antrim

I guess some like it, some don't. But I definitely wouldn't call someone a milf if they didn't have kids

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By *almprintsWoman
1 week ago

deepest, darkest West

"I recently had a lady say that my username was disrespectful to her when I messaged her"

May have fundamentally misunderstood something here. How is your username (IrishGent69) disrespectful? Does she not like Irish people?

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By *naswingdressWoman
1 week ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I recently had a lady say that my username was disrespectful to her when I messaged her

May have fundamentally misunderstood something here. How is your username (IrishGent69) disrespectful? Does she not like Irish people? "

He changed it. It had milf in it before.

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By *hickthighs26Woman
1 week ago

funky town

The word MILF always makes me think of the staceys mom era, the teenage lad lusting after his friends mum secretly.

When it comes from a grown adult who enjoys an older womans company i just think it sounds a bit naff and silly.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
1 week ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Well, I'm a T-milf. I'm being chatted up by a guy right now who has identified me as such. 😜

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
1 week ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"Well, I'm a T-milf. I'm being chatted up by a guy right now who has identified me as such. 😜"

I wonder if I need to stalk through the primeval forest roaring now. Or is that a T-Rex? Omg! Will I now have T-Rex trying to shag me? It's all got so complicated!

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
1 week ago

London

"I recently had a lady say that my username was disrespectful to her when I messaged her

May have fundamentally misunderstood something here. How is your username (IrishGent69) disrespectful? Does she not like Irish people?

He changed it. It had milf in it before."

He was milflover before. Or maybe she does hate Irish people? And 69. What a horrible person.

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
1 week ago

London

"The word MILF always makes me think of the staceys mom era, the teenage lad lusting after his friends mum secretly.

When it comes from a grown adult who enjoys an older womans company i just think it sounds a bit naff and silly."

This plus American Pie and porn. It's awkward to hear these terms in real life.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
1 week ago

Crumpet Castle

Milf and Gilf are derogatory labels that allow the users to place the 'object' into a line of 'things' they can cum into. A thing that exists to relieve their bursting balls.

What posesses people ( men mostly ) to imagine that telling someone you'd fuck them is a compliment ?

If someone considers that a compliment they've got a very low bar.

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By *udetwoCouple
1 week ago

north west

I think MILF sounds better than something like…. Older Woman I’d Like To F*#k.

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By *wingersGilfandDHCouple
1 week ago

London, United Kingdom

I hate being called gilf. I prefer milf if you're going to call me anything. I like knowing I'm desired.

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By *ANiCURETV/TS
1 week ago

Winchester

"Better than been called Hun "

🤣

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By *hickthighs26Woman
1 week ago

funky town

"I hate being called gilf. I prefer milf if you're going to call me anything. I like knowing I'm desired. "

Erm.. did you tell your name that 😬

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By *ildatheart01Man
1 week ago

Petersfield

If it the M that’s the most offensive? WILF does sound just…well…descriptive.

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By *wingersGilfandDHCouple
1 week ago

London, United Kingdom

"I hate being called gilf. I prefer milf if you're going to call me anything. I like knowing I'm desired.

Erm.. did you tell your name that 😬"

No haha. My oh did. I don't know how to change it.

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
1 week ago

North Welsh Borders

Not a fan of either acronym if I'm honest, I want to know i'm desired for me, not because of my age or because I'm a Mum

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By *hickthighs26Woman
1 week ago

funky town

"I hate being called gilf. I prefer milf if you're going to call me anything. I like knowing I'm desired.

Erm.. did you tell your name that 😬

No haha. My oh did. I don't know how to change it. "

Haha i am only playing if you go on your account settings it will allow you to change it if you dont like it x

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

The lady’s answer is quite sobering. It seems that, in general, women don’t like being labeled a “MILF.” That said, do some of them secretly enjoy the attention of a much younger man, someone energetic, enthusiastic, and perhaps more open to being guided or shaped according to their preferences and desires?

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By *eroLondonMan
1 week ago

Mayfair

"The lady’s answer is quite sobering. It seems that, in general, women don’t like being labeled a “MILF.” That said, do some of them secretly enjoy the attention of a much younger man, someone energetic, enthusiastic, and perhaps more open to being guided or shaped according to their preferences and desires?"

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"much younger man" — do you mean someone in their 20s...?

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By *parklingeclipseWoman
1 week ago

Lincolnshire

I dont mind it at all. I hate being called Gilf mainly because Im not a grandmother 😅 I often get called Mummy though!

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
1 week ago

South Wales

I’m not overly bothered by being called either xx 😘

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By *kphooey43Man
1 week ago

Barnet

"Is a lady being called a Milf/Cougar a good thing or a bad thing?"

I guess if they are in their 20s they might find it offensive.

If they are over 60, their hearing is probably not so good, and they may not have heard you - so you might get away with it

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By *eliWoman
1 week ago

I was called a MILF for the first time the other day and it really made my year, I'm finally fuckable.

Results may vary though, probably best to go with not.

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By *mf123Man
1 week ago

with one foot out the door

"I was called a MILF for the first time the other day and it really made my year, I'm finally fuckable.

Results may vary though, probably best to go with not."

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