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"Are mum-tums a turn on / turn off? Ive always been incredibly embarrassed by mine and try to hide it with specific styles of lingerie. Hubby loves it though. Thoughts? " Nothing to be embarrassed about, a mum tum is very sexy | |||
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"Are mum-tums a turn on / turn off? Ive always been incredibly embarrassed by mine and try to hide it with specific styles of lingerie. Hubby loves it though. Thoughts? " Mum-tums are beautiful. I personally think you should never hide it. We all love different things. We are never made for all | |||
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"We all love different things. We are never made for all " Tell me of this. Imagine a camp fire. Or a fire in a camp. | |||
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"Are mum-tums a turn on / turn off? Ive always been incredibly embarrassed by mine and try to hide it with specific styles of lingerie. Hubby loves it though. Thoughts? " massive turn on! | |||
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"Are mum-tums a turn on / turn off? Ive always been incredibly embarrassed by mine and try to hide it with specific styles of lingerie. Hubby loves it though. Thoughts? " bet your mum tum looks great mmmmmmm | |||
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"Are mum-tums a turn on / turn off? Ive always been incredibly embarrassed by mine and try to hide it with specific styles of lingerie. Hubby loves it though. Thoughts? " You have absolutely nothing to worry about OP i like a really woman curves and all | |||
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"My personal experience here is men either don't notice which is doubtful or they just don't care about bellys. I think everyone has their own hangups men included. The men I've met here have been nothing but incredible to me and worshipped my body belly and all. " This. 🙌🏾😁💯💙 | |||
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"My personal experience here is men either don't notice which is doubtful or they just don't care about bellys. I think everyone has their own hangups men included. The men I've met here have been nothing but incredible to me and worshipped my body belly and all. " ❤️❤️ | |||
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"Are mum-tums a turn on / turn off? Ive always been incredibly embarrassed by mine and try to hide it with specific styles of lingerie. Hubby loves it though. Thoughts? " Love them, and you look absolutly stunning nothing to be ashamed off show it off | |||
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"Absolutely nothing bad about a Mum Tum, ladies always try and hide them in photos either my taking the picture overhead our a hand across their belly, men mostly find them a massive turn on " Yes to this ⬆️ This has always been my go to! | |||
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"I wish men would be this supportive of each other on here. " Me too. Future thread perhaps. How to be more supportive to each other. | |||
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"I wish men would be this supportive of each other on here. Me too. Future thread perhaps. How to be more supportive to each other." Yes - this should be a thing! Body positivity is for everyone. It's crazy how many of us have unnecessary hang ups | |||
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"I wish men would be this supportive of each other on here. " We totally are! I can’t give any examples but we so are! | |||
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"Are mum-tums a turn on / turn off? Ive always been incredibly embarrassed by mine and try to hide it with specific styles of lingerie. Hubby loves it though. Thoughts? " Definitely a turn on for me, it's part of a curvy woman, a real woman if you will | |||
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"Are mum-tums a turn on / turn off? Ive always been incredibly embarrassed by mine and try to hide it with specific styles of lingerie. Hubby loves it though. Thoughts? " They’re sexy as fuck trust me | |||
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"I hate mine " I think you’re being too negative. You look great | |||
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"I hate mine " Nothing to hate about yours | |||
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"I hate mine I think you’re being too negative. You look great " Completely agree, you looking stunning! | |||
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"I wish men would be this supportive of each other on here. We totally are! I can’t give any examples but we so are!" Bugger. Ok then. Be kind to yourselves. And each other. [it’s gonna boil my piss if I find out people are already doing that too] | |||
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"Mum tums are as sexy as the last they belong to x" Lady | |||
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"I definitely have not got a flat toned belly I have jelly and rolls and the annoying mum tum bit that won’t go ever ( apron belly haha) but I’m cool with it. I don’t mind sitting naked in front of hubby letting it all hang out and I never try and hide it. I can’t be dealing with spending time trying to hide it and worrying instead of enjoying the moment. I do however wish the apron type bit would fuck off though or shrink slightly as it ruins the side view 😂😂😂 Iv had someone try and make me self concious about my curves and lack of flat stomach before and actually it wasn’t about me, it was him, he was insecure and wanted to make me feel shit. If anyone is negative they ain’t for you and are probably deep down insecure because actually they think their punching so trying to drag you down " They’re clearly not worth your time | |||
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"I definitely have not got a flat toned belly I have jelly and rolls and the annoying mum tum bit that won’t go ever ( apron belly haha) but I’m cool with it. I don’t mind sitting naked in front of hubby letting it all hang out and I never try and hide it. I can’t be dealing with spending time trying to hide it and worrying instead of enjoying the moment. I do however wish the apron type bit would fuck off though or shrink slightly as it ruins the side view 😂😂😂 Iv had someone try and make me self concious about my curves and lack of flat stomach before and actually it wasn’t about me, it was him, he was insecure and wanted to make me feel shit. If anyone is negative they ain’t for you and are probably deep down insecure because actually they think their punching so trying to drag you down They’re clearly not worth your time " Not the hubby btw | |||
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"I definitely have not got a flat toned belly I have jelly and rolls and the annoying mum tum bit that won’t go ever ( apron belly haha) but I’m cool with it. I don’t mind sitting naked in front of hubby letting it all hang out and I never try and hide it. I can’t be dealing with spending time trying to hide it and worrying instead of enjoying the moment. I do however wish the apron type bit would fuck off though or shrink slightly as it ruins the side view 😂😂😂 Iv had someone try and make me self concious about my curves and lack of flat stomach before and actually it wasn’t about me, it was him, he was insecure and wanted to make me feel shit. If anyone is negative they ain’t for you and are probably deep down insecure because actually they think their punching so trying to drag you down They’re clearly not worth your time Not the hubby btw" That's horrendous! What a prick! Yes, the side view is the worst 🙈 | |||
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"I definitely have not got a flat toned belly I have jelly and rolls and the annoying mum tum bit that won’t go ever ( apron belly haha) but I’m cool with it. I don’t mind sitting naked in front of hubby letting it all hang out and I never try and hide it. I can’t be dealing with spending time trying to hide it and worrying instead of enjoying the moment. I do however wish the apron type bit would fuck off though or shrink slightly as it ruins the side view 😂😂😂 Iv had someone try and make me self concious about my curves and lack of flat stomach before and actually it wasn’t about me, it was him, he was insecure and wanted to make me feel shit. If anyone is negative they ain’t for you and are probably deep down insecure because actually they think their punching so trying to drag you down They’re clearly not worth your time Not the hubby btw" He does have a nice cock though | |||
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"I definitely have not got a flat toned belly I have jelly and rolls and the annoying mum tum bit that won’t go ever ( apron belly haha) but I’m cool with it. I don’t mind sitting naked in front of hubby letting it all hang out and I never try and hide it. I can’t be dealing with spending time trying to hide it and worrying instead of enjoying the moment. I do however wish the apron type bit would fuck off though or shrink slightly as it ruins the side view 😂😂😂 Iv had someone try and make me self concious about my curves and lack of flat stomach before and actually it wasn’t about me, it was him, he was insecure and wanted to make me feel shit. If anyone is negative they ain’t for you and are probably deep down insecure because actually they think their punching so trying to drag you down They’re clearly not worth your time Not the hubby btw That's horrendous! What a prick! Yes, the side view is the worst 🙈" Yeah he was just jealous because he was a bell end and better looking than him. That was a few years back. The hubby loves my jelly belly and I’m confident about it. Nothing wrong with your belly by the way!!! | |||
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"I definitely have not got a flat toned belly I have jelly and rolls and the annoying mum tum bit that won’t go ever ( apron belly haha) but I’m cool with it. I don’t mind sitting naked in front of hubby letting it all hang out and I never try and hide it. I can’t be dealing with spending time trying to hide it and worrying instead of enjoying the moment. I do however wish the apron type bit would fuck off though or shrink slightly as it ruins the side view 😂😂😂 Iv had someone try and make me self concious about my curves and lack of flat stomach before and actually it wasn’t about me, it was him, he was insecure and wanted to make me feel shit. If anyone is negative they ain’t for you and are probably deep down insecure because actually they think their punching so trying to drag you down They’re clearly not worth your time Not the hubby btw He does have a nice cock though" Hubby does have a nice cock yes haha | |||
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"I try to cover it with a pillow when chatting in bed I am telling you ( Mrs writing here) do not ever do this again!!! 😘 | |||
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"I try to cover it with a pillow when chatting in bed You genuinely look great. Don’t be insecure. ❤️ | |||
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"Assuming by mum Tum you mean that bloody pouch that hangs and will not go for love nor money ( female writing this) " Someone described this to me once as 'the veranda above the toy shop'. I thought it was a nice way to describe it. I think we are hung up more about ourselves and most others aren't that bothered about it x | |||
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"Are mum-tums a turn on / turn off? Ive always been incredibly embarrassed by mine and try to hide it with specific styles of lingerie. Hubby loves it though. Thoughts? " Totally understand on what OP is saying & like her hubby…mine also says it’s fine.. But as I get older you realise that it is what you are & who you are.. Embrace what you have..x | |||
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"Are mum-tums a turn on / turn off? Ive always been incredibly embarrassed by mine and try to hide it with specific styles of lingerie. Hubby loves it though. Thoughts? Totally understand on what OP is saying & like her hubby…mine also says it’s fine.. But as I get older you realise that it is what you are & who you are.. Embrace what you have..x" When I turned 40 I had a lot less fucks to give that’s for sure x | |||
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"Are mum-tums a turn on / turn off? Ive always been incredibly embarrassed by mine and try to hide it with specific styles of lingerie. Hubby loves it though. Thoughts? " I've been so surprised to find how many men love a mum tum, mine is very bad, it's a bloody mess, but my husband loves it and so have many men, funny what we get paranoid about guys like, like cellulite! | |||
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"Are mum-tums a turn on / turn off? Ive always been incredibly embarrassed by mine and try to hide it with specific styles of lingerie. Hubby loves it though. Thoughts? " I think mum tums are sexy! Yours is especially divine x | |||
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"I hate my stomach ( though I hate a lot of my body) Its one area that I find hard to hide. I hate the stretchmarks, the pouch and how it ruins many a nice outfit. However, in all my years no one has ever been put off by it , no one has ever seen it and been disgusted. I've never got naked and had someone suddenly stop and leave. I've come to realise we see our own flaws far more than others ever would. " You look absolutely fantastic | |||
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"I try to cover it with a pillow when chatting in bed You have a gorgeous body. Be proud of it and don’t hide it under a pillow, x | |||
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"I hate my stomach ( though I hate a lot of my body) Its one area that I find hard to hide. I hate the stretchmarks, the pouch and how it ruins many a nice outfit. However, in all my years no one has ever been put off by it , no one has ever seen it and been disgusted. I've never got naked and had someone suddenly stop and leave. I've come to realise we see our own flaws far more than others ever would. You look absolutely incredible x so yes it’s all down to how you see yourself because believe me, most people will agree with me. You look amazing x " | |||
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"Are mum-tums a turn on / turn off? Ive always been incredibly embarrassed by mine and try to hide it with specific styles of lingerie. Hubby loves it though. Thoughts? " I'm in the same camp hun xx hate my mum tum, left with an apron after having kids. Wish I had the money for surgery to remove it x | |||
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"Are mum-tums a turn on / turn off? Ive always been incredibly embarrassed by mine and try to hide it with specific styles of lingerie. Hubby loves it though. Thoughts? " Looking great tbf X | |||
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"I hate mine " Behave you have a stunning figure and an even better personality | |||
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"Are mum-tums a turn on / turn off? Ive always been incredibly embarrassed by mine and try to hide it with specific styles of lingerie. Hubby loves it though. Thoughts? " Mrs always tries to hide here but I keep telling her to embrace it. it’s a massive turn on for me 😈 | |||
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"Are mum-tums a turn on / turn off? Ive always been incredibly embarrassed by mine and try to hide it with specific styles of lingerie. Hubby loves it though. Thoughts? " It’s a massive turn on for me, nothing by beats it | |||
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"Love proper ladies" I think this is a bit harsh not everyone wants to be a mum but they are still real...and my mate has 2 kids but totally flat like she never had a child doesn't make her less of a lady | |||
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"I hate mine Behave you have a stunning figure and an even better personality " Thank you. I've always admired a fuller ladies figure..just not my own. I'm my own worse critic. If I hated it that much though, id stop eating the snacks.. By the way OP, you look lovely. | |||
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"Are mum-tums a turn on / turn off? Ive always been incredibly embarrassed by mine and try to hide it with specific styles of lingerie. Hubby loves it though. Thoughts? " I like em | |||
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"Are mum-tums a turn on / turn off? Ive always been incredibly embarrassed by mine and try to hide it with specific styles of lingerie. Hubby loves it though. Thoughts? " I personally love a mum tum and naturally curvy figure, I’m sure I’m not the only guy who thinks that is sexy ! | |||
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"Woman asks if there is something about her that's a turn off. All Men - No." Or yeah, they are all happy to stick it in a wet hole anyway | |||
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"Are mum-tums a turn on / turn off? Ive always been incredibly embarrassed by mine and try to hide it with specific styles of lingerie. Hubby loves it though. Thoughts? " Turn on, most definitely. | |||
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"It's not a determining factor either way: if I fancy you, I fancy you. More likely based on your face. I know this wasn't your intention, OP, but replies to threads like this always fall into the same traps. References to "real women" 🤢 - fairly sure slim women are real too. Assigning value to someone based on whether they had children or not 🤢. About time we stopped defining body shapes by whether you've had children. Same with Dad bod. Here endeth the sermon." Absolutely agree with this. I've been really blessed to have two children and I know how any women in this world would be envious of that (and the resulting apron belly). All bodies are sexy to some and not to others, but it's been really lovely to hear that it's not a huge turn off like I thought it was! | |||
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"I wish men would be this supportive of each other on here. " Agreed...unless it's on a football thread. Let's face it though, most of the women on here could come on with anything they see as a body issue and half a dozen guys will reply with "that is soo hot...been looking for this all my life". Many of the men that do speak out are just posting shallow comments to blow smoke up ANY given woman's arse. OP, no it's not an issue, it's just natural. | |||
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"Are mum-tums a turn on / turn off? Ive always been incredibly embarrassed by mine and try to hide it with specific styles of lingerie. Hubby loves it though. Thoughts? " Absolute perfection. Nothing wrong with it or yours. Embrace the natural body. We love it xx | |||
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"I think the o ly people who have issues with tums are the ladies with them !! And let's face it most mums have them , iv met women who ( on There pics ) do t have them but in real life they do , and the women you see on tele usually just hide them , and porn stars film a way as to not show them !! It's only going to get worse with AI !! I say embrace them because as a few people on here have said, people don't care I blame social media lol " 💋 Loving your post. Yes Im am one of these mums | |||
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"Are mum-tums a turn on / turn off? Ive always been incredibly embarrassed by mine and try to hide it with specific styles of lingerie. Hubby loves it though. Thoughts? " your pics look amazing | |||
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"Are mum-tums a turn on / turn off? Ive always been incredibly embarrassed by mine and try to hide it with specific styles of lingerie. Hubby loves it though. Thoughts? " Nothing beats a lovely mum tum. Massive turn on for me x | |||
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"Are mum-tums a turn on / turn off? Ive always been incredibly embarrassed by mine and try to hide it with specific styles of lingerie. Hubby loves it though. Thoughts? " For me definitely a turn on | |||
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"Are mum-tums a turn on / turn off? Ive always been incredibly embarrassed by mine and try to hide it with specific styles of lingerie. Hubby loves it though. Thoughts? " Are you kidding me? Mum-tums are sexy as fuck! Muffin-top rule! | |||
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"Are mum-tums a turn on / turn off? Ive always been incredibly embarrassed by mine and try to hide it with specific styles of lingerie. Hubby loves it though. Thoughts? " Wow, you're gorgeous, lucky hubby! | |||
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"Always feel self conscious about mine while getting ready to head to a club or meet a friend. But if you’re meeting the right people, you very quickly forget about it. You are more than your tum 😘 " Assuming that's the lady writing, you have a killer body. 😍 | |||
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