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By *river72 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Slough

Please tell me what is wrong with my profile

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By *nYourHotlistMan
3 weeks ago

near you

0 information about yourself, negative comment for your post and 0 confidence. Try selling yourself and sounding like your worth meeting for a good time.

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By *rightonsteveMan
3 weeks ago

Hove, mainly…

"Please tell me what is wrong with my profile "

It’s ‘you’re’ as in ‘you are’ rather than ‘your’ which is a ‘belonging’ word. SPaG matters to some so why put them off?

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By *dstefiMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

What they said above. Sounding butthurt because you're not getting immediate random sex offers isn't a good look and neither is one sentence of profile text saying what you aren't.

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By *ornucopiaMan
3 weeks ago

Bexley

You arevery obviously right leaning, from your photos.

Politics matter on here!

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By *apua New GuineaMan
3 weeks ago

nearby

What are people 'getting' if they meet you?

My first thoughts are the photos do not match the text (all smiles vs anger and bitterness) quite an unnerving combination.

Maybe let the photos give some intrigue and the text- sell your self! Are you worthy of a meet? If so, why, what are you looking for, whats great about you?

Good luck.

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By *isa cdcTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Crawley

"Please tell me what is wrong with my profile "

If it was me I'd ditch the complaint in the update, can't see in any way how complaining can help on a fab profile.

You drive all around the U.K. so maybe talk little about that, where you will be next week for example. Are you interested in going to clubs? That could be something else to say in place the one line that you have there.

On the plus side, I like the pictures.

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By *lderflowerAppleWoman
3 weeks ago

Hampshire

From a woman's perspective, I want to read a profile and understand a bit about the individual's personality. Looking at your profile I would assume that you are a pessimistic individual who perhaps feels a little entitled.

If you make some effort to tell me (other women and couples) what you can offer them instead of what you can't, that would be a great start!

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By *issy LanaTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Slough

Nothing's wrong with your profile OP, since you're merely expressing yourself.

My only observation would be the tone comes across as my glass is half empty as opposed to half full.

We're all on Fabs to enjoy having a good time, be it real time play, social, have a lil perv at pics / vids (voyeuring), etc...!

I would simply lose the negative emotions and not advertise your frustration and or say this is a waste of time, etc.

No two days are the same, we simply ride the wave of good and bad tides...!

Stay optimistic and allow time to bring you joy. There's plenty lovely profiles on Fabs and then there's always clubs and saunas you can attend, etc...!

Simply try to switch up your strategy and hope it'll bring you a more positive energy to your experience.

Remove any mentions of frustration, unmet expectations, or declarations of this is a waste of time.

Keep your profile bio light, clear, and focused on what and who you are hoping to attract.

Treat the online experience as a social hobby rather than a task.

Focus on enjoying the conversations you have, and don't take the quiet days personally.

You'll find a little shift in perspective often goes a long way in turning those bad tides into good ones!

Best wishes OP.

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By *allipygousMan
3 weeks ago

Leicester

"Please tell me what is wrong with my profile "

Little to no profile text and what there is a whinge. Instead of creating threads asking for profile advice blokes like you should be looking at the profiles of other men and try to emulate the ones that are 'successful'.

The only positive is you don't have a proliferation of dick pics from differing angles.

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By *oxy-RedWoman
3 weeks ago

pink panther territory

Your photos are all a plus for me,but your lack of what your looking for and a little something about yourself let's your profile down

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By *gly duck cdTV/TS
3 weeks ago

middlesbrough

Zero information about yourself and what you’re looking for , pics are ok , negative updates are a big no

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By *river72 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Slough

Ok thanks for the advice had a look at profile changed it a bit bit can see it being a working progress

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By *dstefiMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

"Ok thanks for the advice had a look at profile changed it a bit bit can see it being a working progress "

Still not much there but yes, a distinct improvement! If somebody did happen to like your pics, the accompanying text is a lot more cheerful

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By *isa cdcTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Crawley

What a turnaround.

It's so much better already.

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By *river72 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Slough

"Ok thanks for the advice had a look at profile changed it a bit bit can see it being a working progress

Still not much there but yes, a distinct improvement! If somebody did happen to like your pics, the accompanying text is a lot more cheerful

Thanks

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By *east with 2 backsCouple
3 weeks ago

near Whalley

Just read now.. grand profile, thank goodness no dick pics! Reads well!

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By *river72 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Slough

"Just read now.. grand profile, thank goodness no dick pics! Reads well!

Cheers

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By *parklingeclipseWoman
3 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

"Please tell me what is wrong with my profile "

Youve got clothes on

Just kidding by the way

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By *river72 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Slough

"Please tell me what is wrong with my profile

Youve got clothes on

Just kidding by the way "

But that is to let the human mind wonder what’s underneath like unwrapping a gift with excitement

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By *wcoMan
3 weeks ago

West Midlands

Coach drivers always come across a bit suspect to me.

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By *agic.MMan
3 weeks ago

Kent/London

5'6 is not average height 😶

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