FabSwingers.com forum: Your opinion

By *ustModeOn OP Man
3 hours ago

London

I broke up with my girlfriend. The story goes like this. I met her, I made her love me in desperation to the point that she was addicted to me, and then I broke up with her out of pure satisfaction. After some time she started a relationship, I couldn't stand it and I beat up that guy so bad, police was involved and everything ,I free anyway(I was loked for some mounts). Anyways,I met her and we fucked all night long like crazy fuck, she said this shit made her see how much I love her and she wants to get married with me, but I just don't want a relationship with her. So I told her that's not possible. I've reached the point where I don't care anymore about her. The moral of the story is "We all have a past, right?" can this past affect me if I want to have a relationship? Please just serious though

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By *y_CinnamonWoman
3 hours ago

Hampshire

You sound like a walking red flag.

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By *hickthighs26Woman
3 hours ago

your hotlist

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By *vaRoseWoman
3 hours ago

Ankh-Morpork

My suggestion is to try therapy

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By *edR1dingHoodWoman
3 hours ago

Cumbria

Toxic AF 🚩🚩🚩🚩

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By *naswingdressWoman
3 hours ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think we can all learn and grow, and some have more of that to do than others

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
3 hours ago

Bristol

Cos that’s what really happened, honest

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By *ustModeOn OP Man
3 hours ago

London

"You sound like a walking red flag."

Thank you, so from what you said now it sums up that the past matters.

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By *ustModeOn OP Man
3 hours ago

London

"I think we can all learn and grow, and some have more of that to do than others"

You are a breath of fresh air. I like your positivity

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By *ustModeOn OP Man
3 hours ago

London

"My suggestion is to try therapy "

It is an option

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By *igBeardyDanMan
3 hours ago

Bilston

You sir are a 🔔🔚

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By *a LunaWoman
3 hours ago

Wales

Your criminal past will follow you for sure.

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By *actile TensionMan
3 hours ago

Sussex

Don't bury your past, address and resolve your prior issues, move forward and do better.

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By *evilinyouMan
3 hours ago

Bristol

"Your criminal past will follow you for sure.

Not with a name change, new i d and lots of cosmetic surgery, that how i got away with stealing all that money 🤑🤑🤑🤑

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By *ourpornfixMan
3 hours ago

East Cheshire

Just another abusive, controlling man who sees women as property. That's my opinion, anyway.

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By *vaRoseWoman
3 hours ago

Ankh-Morpork

One would presume this is the sort of thing that would be disclosed on Clare’s law requests

Tracking down and assaulting an ex’s new partner definitely makes it a big risk to new potential partners

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
3 hours ago

Round the bend

I think you need to do some major work on yourself before you even think about putting another woman in that kind of toxic situation again.

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By *a LunaWoman
3 hours ago

Wales

"Your criminal past will follow you for sure.

Not with a name change, new i d and lots of cosmetic surgery, that how i got away with stealing all that money 🤑🤑🤑🤑"

Well it was, till you blabbed all over a sex forum! Did I mention I was MI6? Gotcha!

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By *heElvingtonTwoCouple
3 hours ago

elvington

"I broke up with my girlfriend. The story goes like this. I met her, I made her love me in desperation to the point that she was addicted to me, and then I broke up with her out of pure satisfaction. After some time she started a relationship, I couldn't stand it and I beat up that guy so bad, police was involved and everything ,I free anyway(I was loked for some mounts). Anyways,I met her and we fucked all night long like crazy fuck, she said this shit made her see how much I love her and she wants to get married with me, but I just don't want a relationship with her. So I told her that's not possible. I've reached the point where I don't care anymore about her. The moral of the story is "We all have a past, right?" can this past affect me if I want to have a relationship? Please just serious though"

You need to do a lot of work and personal growth. Starting, I think with understanding what you were doing wrong and why. In some ways asking the internet is a good start but we cannot feed you the answer you need to come organically to the realisation otherwise you’re just copying what you’ve been told you should do

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
3 hours ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

I think you should spend time on your own and not even think about a relationship right now.

People can change.

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By *iver78Man
3 hours ago

barton upon humber

?? The moral is if its true your a tool and if it's made up your a childish tool !!

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By *ydaz70Man
3 hours ago

Rotherham /newquay

Wtf

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By *iver78Man
3 hours ago

barton upon humber

"One would presume this is the sort of thing that would be disclosed on Clare’s law requests

Tracking down and assaulting an ex’s new partner definitely makes it a big risk to new potential partners "

This is a fair a very valid point

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By *evilinyouMan
3 hours ago

Bristol

"Your criminal past will follow you for sure.

Not with a name change, new i d and lots of cosmetic surgery, that how i got away with stealing all that money 🤑🤑🤑🤑

Well it was, till you blabbed all over a sex forum! Did I mention I was MI6? Gotcha!

You'll never take me alive 🚴🚴🚵🚵🏂⛷️⛷️🏊🏊🚣🚗🚗🏍️🛵🚜🚜🚜🚅🚄🚄🚂🛥️🛳️🛳️🚡🚡🛩️🛩️🎡🎡🎢🛹🛹 ( best getaway ever)

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By *ichaelsmyMan
3 hours ago

douglas

seems that you should delete your account as now no one will want to be near to you at all

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By *ustModeOn OP Man
3 hours ago

London

"I think you should spend time on your own and not even think about a relationship right now.

People can change.

It seems are positive people here aswell, bless you

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By *ustModeOn OP Man
3 hours ago

London

"I think you should spend time on your own and not even think about a relationship right now.

People can change.

You deserve what is good in live for this mentality

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By *007ManMan
3 hours ago

Worthing

Mend your ways op before the next woman comes along.

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
2 hours ago

London

Get some therapy. Work on yourself. Grow as a human. Self reflect. Stay away from women and relationships for now. The behaviour you've displayed in the past is worrying. However, I believe everyone has the potential to become a better standard of human. Don't treat people like shit. You've caused damage to two people already. Do you really want a trail of destruction? The bad boy stereotype is exhausted now. Do better.

Everyone has a past of some kind. It does matter. How much it matters depends on the person and their outlook on it. You may have to explain your behaviour and actions to someone in the future you want to have a serious relationship with. What will you tell them? (It's rhetorical so you don't need to answer)

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By *eroLondonMan
2 hours ago

Mayfair

I have nieces and it's reading threads like this that really makes me worry about them and think about the unsavoury characters that walk amongst us.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
2 hours ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

You can feel the lights going off

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By *ellhungvweMan
2 hours ago

Cheltenham

Serously???

The only good thing to come out of this is that you have let everyone know what you are really like.

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
2 hours ago

North Welsh Borders

Fab definitely isn't the place for you....I actually pity any woman who is unlucky enough to get involved with you and to see shit like this on a platform Fab is alarming

For christ sake! you want to fuck up, then great, but don't fuck others up in the process

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
2 hours ago

hexham

Oh crumbs !

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
2 hours ago

Leeds

On today’s episode of “what the fuck did I just read on the internet”.

Thank you for making me feel better about myself.

The mr

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By *ustAnotherMan
2 hours ago

Tamworth

Presume you enjoy the backlash you knew was going to be inevitable posting this right?

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
2 hours ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

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By *etwife8230Couple
2 hours ago

Newport

I think your past is still with you as you said you fucked again and didn't care . Whilst I think people can change ,you sir cannot . Get yourself some help and work on your controlling issues before damaging anyone else

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By *hat.coupleCouple
2 hours ago

Kent

Sounds like you are a typical narcissist or maybe even a sociopath. You need help dear man.

Mrs x

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By *Effy-Woman
2 hours ago

Scotland

You have a criminal record. Of course it will affect any future relationships.

Please don't get involved with any other women until you've worked on your mental health issues first.

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By *viatrixWoman
2 hours ago

Gatwick

I’ll take “Things that never happened” for $200, Alex..

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By *e-OptimistMan
2 hours ago

Stalybridge

Ever considered a lobotomy?

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By *laytime_13Woman
2 hours ago

Lincs

"I’ll take “Things that never happened” for $200, Alex.. "

I'd dearly like to hope this is the case. But somehow I don't.

This is why Claire's Law exists, even if this isn't true for the OP, it will be true for others. And it would be a weird thing to make up.

OP - yes, maybe you could change, but from your post, there's a lot of change to make before you go finding another relationship. Go do the therapy and do the work.

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By *herry77Woman
2 hours ago

North West

"My suggestion is to try therapy "

I second this 👆

Sounds like at the very least you have attachment wounds that need working on before you even think about going near another relationship. At worst I’d say the lack of empathy you express could be indicative of a personality disorder, in which case the relevant help you should seek out should be more specialist.

If none of it is true then you also need therapy.

Regardless of which it is, some deep work on yourself is in order; don’t drag anybody else into this until you’ve done that.

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By *he MinionMan
2 hours ago

Surrey

I third it.

Looking at the numerous threads you have started, you could deffinately do with sitting down and having an adult, grown up conversation with a trained proffesional.

I did wonder why i had blocked you and having more red flags than China would have been the original reason.

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By *ackJones82Man
2 hours ago

ST. AUSTELL

This realtionship sounds like the definition of toxic. My feeling is that it would only end badly for you both.

I strongly suggest that you seek mental health support in order to deal with moving on healthily.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
2 hours ago

Crumpet Castle

Yes. Of course it will.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
1 hour ago

Manchester

I think you meant to post this in stories and fantasies

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
1 hour ago

Bristol

"I think you meant to post this in stories and fantasies"

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By *rispy KremeMan
1 hour ago

wolves

What in the fuck did I just read? Rage bait much ?

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By *hisIsMe58Man
56 minutes ago

Winchester

If this isn't a tall tale, then you have definitely not done yourself any favours with this post op. Of course people can change and I'm sure we all have done things in the past that we are not proud of, though probably not to this extent.

I think you need to undertake a long period of introspection. Work on your anger issues, work on what you are looking for as you move forward. As many have stated, you are massive walking red flag from the details you have posted.

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By *ou only live onceMan
54 minutes ago

London

The moral of the story is actually 'don't be a douche'.

OP, have a chat to your parole officer - they'll be able to help you access the support you need.

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By *earditallWoman
53 minutes ago

Lancaster

Sound like a stand out guy

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
35 minutes ago

Round the bend

Your the sort of guy that dad's will do time for.

A bully, emotional bully by playing with someone's feelings and a physical one for beating someone up.

I would say a cowards also as I'm sure if he beat you up you would of scuttled off onto the night.

Its time to stop feeding your own ego, you will do this by reading every answer and only seeing that you are being attacked.

Until you realise the actions of your behavior you have no hope.

Deal with your anger, talk to professionals and go from there.

Mr 🐺

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