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Can you cuddle naked without having sex?

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
5 days ago

From the land of haribos.

I dont necessarily think that everything have to about sex and that it certainly is possible to cuddle naked without having sex.

Cuddling naked is also a form of intimate non sexual physical connection that can foster closeness, not just that, it is about setting boundaries that it is strictly cuddling, no sex.

Did you know that there are some rules to think about it, like how naked cuddling is strictly stating you only want to cuddle with no sex and setting boundaries and clear communication.

It would be interesting to see if you could cuddle naked without sex, do you think it is difficult to resist having sex?

I havent done it yet, but I think that it would be hard to resist to have sex whilst cuddling naked, but non the less fun to do, as one of the rules stated for it, clear communication is the key to set boundaries for just cuddling, you can save the sex for later too

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By *ANiCURETV/TS
5 days ago

Winchester

I had orgasm just by cuddling and kissing a few times b4 and Idk why but that made me feel weak 😁

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By *orphia2003Woman
5 days ago

Tonypandy.

Yes, easily.

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By *ot_Rod43Man
5 days ago

newcastle upon tyne

I like a naked cuddle. Like if you wake up with someone and just chill in bed cuddling I like that closeness with someone and the peace.

Spooning usually it’s the women who are the instigators moving there bum. So spooning turns to forking it can’t be helped.

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By *oneyBee200Woman
5 days ago

Kent

No, can’t do it. Cuddle leads to gently stroking skin, even just up and down my arm which for some reason sets me off as it feels so erotic.

Given up trying now

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By *ellinever70Woman
5 days ago

Ayrshire

I wouldn't cuddle naked with someone unless we were already sexually intimate

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By *etwife8230Couple
5 days ago

Newport


"I like a naked cuddle. Like if you wake up with someone and just chill in bed cuddling I like that closeness with someone and the peace.

Spooning usually it’s the women who are the instigators moving there bum. So spooning turns to forking it can’t be helped. "

The bum snuggle is always a winner

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By *ot_Rod43Man
5 days ago

newcastle upon tyne


"I like a naked cuddle. Like if you wake up with someone and just chill in bed cuddling I like that closeness with someone and the peace.

Spooning usually it’s the women who are the instigators moving there bum. So spooning turns to forking it can’t be helped.

The bum snuggle is always a winner"

Haha bum snuggler. Yeah everytime

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By *asepaul71Man
5 days ago

Buxton

I'd love a cuddle, doesn't have to be naked.

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By *utoftheBluexWoman
5 days ago

Bot Farm

Yes!

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By *hinstrapMan
5 days ago

sheffield

Yup. Love a good cuddle

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By *hitehorsefunCouple
5 days ago

Wantage

I've been in bed with two girls and had no sexual activity (male half of couple). Also done the exact opposite a few times too. Haha

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By *WB85Man
5 days ago

Staffordshire

Every single night.....that amazing moment together as the day comes to a close and we fall asleep.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
5 days ago

The Deep Dark Woods

With a stranger? No.

With someone I was already sexually intimate and comfortable with, yes if we couldn't have sex for some reason.

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By *ifelover999Man
5 days ago

Eastbourne

Love a cuddle and kiss

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By *maginitivemindMan
5 days ago

notts

Yes but at least one of you will want to make love 😀

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By *homas400Man
5 days ago

Carmarthen / Llandeilo

I get aroused too easily.

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By *osh blokeMan
5 days ago

hereford

After sex.....cuddling naked is the best. Just laying there, exhausted but then totally relaxing hiding each other....its all part of it.

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By *sm265Woman
5 days ago

Perthshire

Of course. It's a lovely intimate experience that doesn't have to be sexual in any way.

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By *onin25Man
5 days ago

Durham

Yes, although there's a chance it could unintentionally lead to sex

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By *hinstrapMan
5 days ago

sheffield

...but if it slips in. It slips in

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod

5 days ago

Central

I've no problem doing this

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By *erfHerder74Man
5 days ago

Inverclyde

I can, cuddling kisses, skin to skin

Hours in bed, can nap together too.

I’ve done it with a man who came without sex was lovely

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By *iver78Man
5 days ago

barton upon humber

Easily one of most favorite things to do , naked cuddles just make feel good

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By *rispy KremeMan
5 days ago

wolves

Definitely, I love the cuddles and just being our self watching a movie or something, stroking her her and making her feel comfortable and coasy as she shuuggle up, there is something about it that days me into it

Sexinis great and all but after care cuddles or cuddles in general his different specialty with someone you have a connection with

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By *coobyABCMan
5 days ago

Aberdeen

I have a fwb who I've known for years. We occasionally will meet up and have a wee snuggle. Its intimate but not sexual

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By *rs.MinxWoman
5 days ago

somewhere nearby

Yes!

Mrminx and I love naked cuddles yes sometimes…often it leads to more but there’s something both erotic and intimate about the complete closeness, it feels amazing.

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By *eyeYCouple
5 days ago

Nr Leicester

Post coital, definitely and have thoroughly enjoyed it with some who've joined us as well 🥰

However when we do I can feel D 'stiffening' or me 'warming' and then it's game over (or on, depending on your point of view) 🤣🤷😘

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By *earditallWoman
5 days ago

Lancaster

Yes I have done there has usually been some sex before hand though

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By *iddle aged and chubbyMan
5 days ago

Shefford

I'd happily cuddle naked and not have sex - not saying I wouldn't get aroused, but no need to turn that into sex

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By *Effy-Woman
5 days ago

Scotland

Yes, Shag. I have self control.

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By *007ManMan
5 days ago

Worthing

Yes if the lady in question was my partner.

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
5 days ago

London

Yes. Done it before. No big deal.

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By *arand25Couple
5 days ago

Crowborough


"No, can’t do it. Cuddle leads to gently stroking skin, even just up and down my arm which for some reason sets me off as it feels so erotic.

Given up trying now "

This is so us!

We go to bed tired, I wrap myself around S to cuddle & a few minutes later we're at it lol. We can't help ourselves!

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By *unxxx9911Man
5 days ago

Redhill


"No, can’t do it. Cuddle leads to gently stroking skin, even just up and down my arm which for some reason sets me off as it feels so erotic.

Given up trying now

This is so us!

We go to bed tired, I wrap myself around S to cuddle & a few minutes later we're at it lol. We can't help ourselves! "

This would be me 👆

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By *antana79Woman
5 days ago

Edinburgh

I know a professional cuddler! Yes that’s a thing.

It’s mainly clothed and non sexual. She’s extremely busy x

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
5 days ago

From the land of haribos.


"Yes, easily."
Hi morphia, that is good you could easily do it too

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By *obtributeMan
5 days ago

Somerset

Easy to cuddle naked without sex. It's a very important part of the relationship for me. Difficult not to twitch a bit though of course.

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By *ohnhomeMan
5 days ago

Carlisle

Yes easily

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By *ee04Man
5 days ago

Essex

Yes, you cuddle in everyday life without having sex with folks you’d never want or think about having sex with.

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By *uriousHubby40Man
5 days ago

Dartford

I love a naked cuddle, and no it doesn't have to lead to sex. It's sometimes nice to have that intimate closeness with each other. I just would like it if my wife felt the same, she's happy for us to be naked in the room together, but doesn't like getting into bed naked just for a cuddle, so she's always in her pj's.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
5 days ago

Reading

Yes and have done. Cuddle party.

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By *omeotherguyMan
5 days ago

Sheffield/London/Derbyshire

I can do, but if I'm really into someone it is hard, I do want to fuck all the time if I'm in lust or love.

In one relationship, my partner had to get up extra early for work as I'd just need to fuck and make love in the morning.

And then the mornings when she was all ready to go and I just had to press all the right buttons 🤣

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By *lirtyFilthWoman
5 days ago

Troublesville

🙌 I offer to be a cuddle buddy. For research purposes of course 😇

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By *aitonelMan
5 days ago

Liverpool

Yes. Not with just anyone though. But yeah I'll cuddle naked despite zero sex being involved.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
5 days ago

Coventry

We love naked cuddles and we both give the best naked cuddles. Sometimes there's just something beautiful sharing that warmth, that skin on skin contact and melting into another person's bare flesh. So nurturing and natural. It's a beautiful thing in itself with or without sex.

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By *eglegMan
5 days ago

Telford

Yes, love a cuddle the feel of skin of skin is its own kind of intimacy.

And for the doubters can always put chastity belt on

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By *haguar84Man
5 days ago

north

Yep.

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By *uicyboobiesWoman
5 days ago

Newtownbutler

I could try

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By *othantscoupleCouple
5 days ago

Northampton

We do every night but hubby did say it is a struggle to just cuddle lol

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
5 days ago

hexham

Yes

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By *and12Couple
5 days ago

flint

We do often

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By *ulldog_71Man
5 days ago

Sedgefield

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By *ulldog_71Man
5 days ago

Sedgefield

I'll give it a try no promises though

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
5 days ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

Naked cuddles are only really for someone I care about and spooning with the fella is great but it does very often lead to more, we do often fall asleep naked spooning though

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By *emonlickerMan
5 days ago

consett

much better after sex

or its like having a bike with no wheels

not going anywhere

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By *ew2buryMan
5 days ago

Forums.

Definitely. Funny clothes should make a difference to boundaries!

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
5 days ago

From the land of haribos.


"Yes, Shag. I have self control. "
Hi effy, that is good and how you have self control too

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
5 days ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

I don't even cuddle after sex so I'm gonna go with no

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By *007ManMan
5 days ago

Worthing

Gents don't forget the

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By *eacock1221Couple
5 days ago

Bedfordshire

We cuddle naked every morning

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
5 days ago

Ryde

Yep - it's called being married.

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By *riel13Woman
5 days ago

Northampton

Yes... If I'm really tired

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
5 days ago

From the land of haribos.


"Yes if the lady in question was my partner."
That is .

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By *entleman JayMan
5 days ago

Leeds

Yes. No problem.

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By *ampireLoveMan
5 days ago

Essex

I can yes. But I don’t want to 😂😂

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By *coobyABCMan
5 days ago

Aberdeen


"🙌 I offer to be a cuddle buddy. For research purposes of course 😇"

Sign me up!

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By *emptme1993Man
5 days ago

manchester

I could, but I’d be hard and that would be awkward trying to stop it touching the girl I was cuddling 🤣 and if we were spooning, well…

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By *gent CoulsonMan
5 days ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I love a good nuddle (naked cuddle).

Just feeling the closeness and warmth, so calming.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
4 days ago

From the land of haribos.


"🙌 I offer to be a cuddle buddy. For research purposes of course 😇"
Hi flirty, to be a cuddle buddy is a good research purpose too

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By *uiffyMan
4 days ago

llandudno

Depends

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By *atinaChica54Woman
4 days ago

Marlborough


"I like a naked cuddle. Like if you wake up with someone and just chill in bed cuddling I like that closeness with someone and the peace.

Spooning usually it’s the women who are the instigators moving there bum. So spooning turns to forking it can’t be helped. "

This⬆️ for me also....with all the cutlery🥄🍴

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By *ickedwillyCouple
4 days ago

Bangor

Yes but makes sex better when it does happen.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
4 days ago

From the land of haribos.


"We love naked cuddles and we both give the best naked cuddles. Sometimes there's just something beautiful sharing that warmth, that skin on skin contact and melting into another person's bare flesh. So nurturing and natural. It's a beautiful thing in itself with or without sex."
Hi misfits, that is good you love naked cuddles and how you both give the best naked cuddles too

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
3 days ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
3 days ago

From the land of haribos.


"Yes but makes sex better when it does happen. "
Yes, you are right there, it will make sex better when it happens too

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By * D 777Man
3 days ago

bathgate

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By * D 777Man
3 days ago

bathgate

Yes but if something raises up sorry in advance

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By *rman82Man
3 days ago

Manchester

Impossible! Absolutely impossible

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By *ustAnotherMan
3 days ago

Tamworth

I have too wandering hands and get hard at the faintest touch so no not really 🤣

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By *ichaelsmyMan
3 days ago

douglas

yeah naked cuddles with a lady are the best, most intimate cuddles that there is

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By *F25Man
3 days ago

kent

do it after sex and problem solved lol. i do love a cuddle

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By *esigned_For_FunWoman
3 days ago

wherever I am. ;)

Of course .... But I do tend to wriggle a bit, if a little spoon.

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By *ax19862002Man
3 days ago

Ayrshire


"Of course .... But I do tend to wriggle a bit, if a little spoon. "

I could easily have a cuddle. But if the little spoon was too tremendous then it would be a good night xx

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By *ric_twingeMan
3 days ago

Portrush

Impossible for me to have a naked snuggle without a hard on… unless it’s post orgasm. Otherwise it’s blue ball city

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By *otsowickedCouple
3 days ago

Galway

I have had sex with lots that I definitely wouldn't cuddle.

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By *jekimMan
3 days ago

Wigan

Yes just tick it behind my leg an try forgetting about it haha

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By *adbod2015Man
3 days ago

Nantwich

Yeah I believe so, I've done this with ex's a lot. Especially in summer when it's hot, we'd usually both sleep naked so we'd be cuddled up watching a film or something before bed.

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By *avegaMan
2 days ago

Bucks

Spooning. Of course, this can be done without sex, but sex is nice too!

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By *nsatiable Needy BratWoman
2 days ago

Here and There

Yes but my bum will go on autopilot and give a wiggle so it can be hard to keep it to just cuddles but have managed it.

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By *avegaMan
2 days ago

Bucks

Yes when this happens sleep without sex is not possible!

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
2 days ago

Lancashire

I would quite like a naked cuddle right now actually. Too sleepy for any funny business 😊

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By *agicm696Man
2 days ago

High Wycombe

Love a naked cuddle

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By *avegaMan
2 days ago

Bucks

Naked cuddle whilst spooning and massaging my partners breasts is the best way to fall asleep

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By *elix SightedMan
2 days ago

Cloud 8


"I would quite like a naked cuddle right now actually. Too sleepy for any funny business 😊"

Don’t worry, I can do it without you even noticing. Tempting, I know.

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By *aughtyH123Man
2 days ago

Wickford

Honestly can’t beat a naked cuddle and a good kiss

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By *exycarlashane181Couple
2 days ago

Stratford upon Avon

We both love our naked cuddles it's more important to us than sex

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By *eenALongTime.....Man
2 days ago

......

Spooning always leads to forking!

Why not?!

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By *each needs some creamWoman
2 days ago

Ilfracombe

I have had lots of naked hugs with my FWB. It's my happy place in his arms.

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By *ere4playMan
2 days ago

Darwen

No.

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By *key1980Man
2 days ago

Okehampton

Iam willing too try!!

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By *outhwestwillyMan
2 days ago

hayle

I can. But not for long lol.

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