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"How unfair and hard is life for women " 😱😱😱dissagree | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree" On the basis that you have lived as a woman? | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree" I'll be back later to read the verbal lynching. | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree On the basis that you have lived as a woman?" On the basis when i was married my wife never had to work i done weekends etc to.bring out kids up.and take them on hols she looked after home | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree I'll be back later to read the verbal lynching. " 🤪 | |||
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"The whole “ you can be whatever you want to be” they tell you in school. No you can’t you can be whatever the government/police allow you to be. The mr " Pretty sure the government/police don't determine your career choices? Unless you're talking about wanting to be a dr*g dealer. See the police may have something to say there. | |||
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"The whole “ you can be whatever you want to be” they tell you in school. No you can’t you can be whatever the government/police allow you to be. The mr Pretty sure the government/police don't determine your career choices? Unless you're talking about wanting to be a dr*g dealer. See the police may have something to say there." Its always easier to blame other people for your failings though. But saying that i wanted to be a soldier but wasnt allowed by the government. | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree On the basis that you have lived as a woman? On the basis when i was married my wife never had to work i done weekends etc to.bring out kids up.and take them on hols she looked after home And yet she chose to give up this Edenic lifestyle. Can't imagine why." Who | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree On the basis that you have lived as a woman? On the basis when i was married my wife never had to work i done weekends etc to.bring out kids up.and take them on hols she looked after home " Your wife isn't representative of all women's life experiences | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree On the basis that you have lived as a woman? On the basis when i was married my wife never had to work i done weekends etc to.bring out kids up.and take them on hols she looked after home " So because you had an agreement with your wife (an agreement which necessarily means financial reliance on one's partner, reducing potential for independence) and she played her part in keeping your family afloat (unpaid work still being work), billions of women can't experience unfairness? Christ 😂 | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree On the basis that you have lived as a woman? On the basis when i was married my wife never had to work i done weekends etc to.bring out kids up.and take them on hols she looked after home Your wife isn't representative of all women's life experiences" Never said it was its different peoples.situations | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree On the basis that you have lived as a woman? On the basis when i was married my wife never had to work i done weekends etc to.bring out kids up.and take them on hols she looked after home So because you had an agreement with your wife (an agreement which necessarily means financial reliance on one's partner, reducing potential for independence) and she played her part in keeping your family afloat (unpaid work still being work), billions of women can't experience unfairness? Christ 😂" Hardly she had control of all the money | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree On the basis that you have lived as a woman? On the basis when i was married my wife never had to work i done weekends etc to.bring out kids up.and take them on hols she looked after home So because you had an agreement with your wife (an agreement which necessarily means financial reliance on one's partner, reducing potential for independence) and she played her part in keeping your family afloat (unpaid work still being work), billions of women can't experience unfairness? Christ 😂 Hardly she had control of all the money Which presumably ended when you split up, which means she could have had trouble establishing financial independence. But let's say you're right. That one person in Sussex had an agreement with their partner which involved you earning money, her spending the money, and her doing the domestic labour, and she was an outlier and suffered no financial consequences after your relationship ended. What you're saying is that life isn't unfair for billions of women, because your wife had a good deal? Please tell me you're not saying that, because that is beyond absurd. | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree On the basis that you have lived as a woman? On the basis when i was married my wife never had to work i done weekends etc to.bring out kids up.and take them on hols she looked after home Your wife isn't representative of all women's life experiences Never said it was its different peoples.situations" That's not what you said though | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree On the basis that you have lived as a woman? On the basis when i was married my wife never had to work i done weekends etc to.bring out kids up.and take them on hols she looked after home So because you had an agreement with your wife (an agreement which necessarily means financial reliance on one's partner, reducing potential for independence) and she played her part in keeping your family afloat (unpaid work still being work), billions of women can't experience unfairness? Christ 😂 Hardly she had control of all the money No not saying that at all yes its harder for some women im just giving my point And she passed away | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree On the basis that you have lived as a woman? On the basis when i was married my wife never had to work i done weekends etc to.bring out kids up.and take them on hols she looked after home So because you had an agreement with your wife (an agreement which necessarily means financial reliance on one's partner, reducing potential for independence) and she played her part in keeping your family afloat (unpaid work still being work), billions of women can't experience unfairness? Christ 😂 Hardly she had control of all the money I'm sorry for your loss. However, just because one woman has a good arrangement, it says nothing about any other woman, or what women face in general. Let me offer an equivalent of what you're saying. White middle aged balding men never have financial problems, because Elon Musk exists | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree On the basis that you have lived as a woman? On the basis when i was married my wife never had to work i done weekends etc to.bring out kids up.and take them on hols she looked after home Your wife isn't representative of all women's life experiences Never said it was its different peoples.situations That's not what you said though " Its what i meant | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree On the basis that you have lived as a woman? On the basis when i was married my wife never had to work i done weekends etc to.bring out kids up.and take them on hols she looked after home Your wife isn't representative of all women's life experiences Never said it was its different peoples.situations That's not what you said though Its what i meant" The fact that multiple people interpreted what you said in the same way, indicates you communicated poorly. | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree On the basis that you have lived as a woman? On the basis when i was married my wife never had to work i done weekends etc to.bring out kids up.and take them on hols she looked after home So because you had an agreement with your wife (an agreement which necessarily means financial reliance on one's partner, reducing potential for independence) and she played her part in keeping your family afloat (unpaid work still being work), billions of women can't experience unfairness? Christ 😂 Hardly she had control of all the money Oh he went bald long ago and bought new hair | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree On the basis that you have lived as a woman? On the basis when i was married my wife never had to work i done weekends etc to.bring out kids up.and take them on hols she looked after home So because you had an agreement with your wife (an agreement which necessarily means financial reliance on one's partner, reducing potential for independence) and she played her part in keeping your family afloat (unpaid work still being work), billions of women can't experience unfairness? Christ 😂 Hardly she had control of all the money Kinda taking out the contex but i only disagreed on my pers situation | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree On the basis that you have lived as a woman? On the basis when i was married my wife never had to work i done weekends etc to.bring out kids up.and take them on hols she looked after home So because you had an agreement with your wife (an agreement which necessarily means financial reliance on one's partner, reducing potential for independence) and she played her part in keeping your family afloat (unpaid work still being work), billions of women can't experience unfairness? Christ 😂 Hardly she had control of all the money I know 😂 | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree On the basis that you have lived as a woman? On the basis when i was married my wife never had to work i done weekends etc to.bring out kids up.and take them on hols she looked after home So because you had an agreement with your wife (an agreement which necessarily means financial reliance on one's partner, reducing potential for independence) and she played her part in keeping your family afloat (unpaid work still being work), billions of women can't experience unfairness? Christ 😂 Hardly she had control of all the money Yeah I was a fanboi but finding that out put me right off | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree On the basis that you have lived as a woman? On the basis when i was married my wife never had to work i done weekends etc to.bring out kids up.and take them on hols she looked after home So because you had an agreement with your wife (an agreement which necessarily means financial reliance on one's partner, reducing potential for independence) and she played her part in keeping your family afloat (unpaid work still being work), billions of women can't experience unfairness? Christ 😂 Hardly she had control of all the money The person said women have an unfair time. You disagreed. When asked why, you said, because of your wife. General category has hard time, disagree, one specific person in that category. Balding middle aged white men have a hard time. General category. Disagree - disagree Elon Musk - one specific person in that category. Like for like comparison. | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree On the basis that you have lived as a woman? On the basis when i was married my wife never had to work i done weekends etc to.bring out kids up.and take them on hols she looked after home So because you had an agreement with your wife (an agreement which necessarily means financial reliance on one's partner, reducing potential for independence) and she played her part in keeping your family afloat (unpaid work still being work), billions of women can't experience unfairness? Christ 😂 Hardly she had control of all the money Thowing a billionaire isnt nothing like what i was talking about its being stretched | |||
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"I learned independence from a young age and soon realised that the only person you can ever rely on is yourself" This Plus the immature things I did in past relationships that caused the relationship to break down or made me stay longer than I should've | |||
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"Of all the people that claim they will always be there for their friends/family, no matter the time and place .. you could probably count on one hand the ones that genuinely mean it." I think most probably genuinely mean it at the time of saying it but feelings and dynamics change with time. | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women " #notallwomen | |||
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"I was hoping for a bit of self reflection and a positive spin, things went down hill pretty quickly I think it was a great topic x | |||
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"Of all the people that claim they will always be there for their friends/family, no matter the time and place .. you could probably count on one hand the ones that genuinely mean it. I think most probably genuinely mean it at the time of saying it but feelings and dynamics change with time. " I don't mean 40 year friendship declarations that change. But overall, people don't realise what they are promising. In the short term, people still don't follow throw on this. | |||
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"Sorry bad idea as a topic I guess …. " No, it wasn't. Unless you're actively minding your thread you can't control where it goes... which rather neatly brings me on to something I had to learn. Let them. I can't control what others say/how they act. I can talk about when I'm unhappy, disagree with people, have boundaries remove them from my life - they're still going to behave as they want. It really helped my overthinking tendencies, gave space for me to focus on happier times. P.S The value of life is something I'm keenly aware of due to sad times, like you, Op. It's made me appreciate things a lot more. Make an effort to remember things that matter to people. Make those who make me happy, happier.❤️ | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree I'll be back later to read the verbal lynching. " There is no point in arguing with somebody who thinks being in charge of the home and childrens are not a real job. I work a minimum of 60 hours per week, besides home duties earning half men salary in the same position | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree" The patriarchal society we live in generally still gives more advantages to men and passes burdens onto women. Not in all cases and there are lots of men who have it tough to, but that's not as widespread and not down to societal norms. | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree The patriarchal society we live in generally still gives more advantages to men and passes burdens onto women. Not in all cases and there are lots of men who have it tough to, but that's not as widespread and not down to societal norms. " You are wonderful | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree The patriarchal society we live in generally still gives more advantages to men and passes burdens onto women. Not in all cases and there are lots of men who have it tough to, but that's not as widespread and not down to societal norms. You are wonderful " Just telling it how I see it. I've got it tough in many ways, but had I been in the same circumstances as a woman it would almost certainly be tougher. | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree The patriarchal society we live in generally still gives more advantages to men and passes burdens onto women. Not in all cases and there are lots of men who have it tough to, but that's not as widespread and not down to societal norms. You are wonderful Just telling it how I see it. I've got it tough in many ways, but had I been in the same circumstances as a woman it would almost certainly be tougher." This is exactly it. No one is saying white, straight, middle class men have everything easy. Life can come at you hard whoever you are. But the same tough situations are magnified if you are paid less, suffer discrimination, don't have savings, have the burden of childcare. | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree The patriarchal society we live in generally still gives more advantages to men and passes burdens onto women. Not in all cases and there are lots of men who have it tough to, but that's not as widespread and not down to societal norms. You are wonderful Just telling it how I see it. I've got it tough in many ways, but had I been in the same circumstances as a woman it would almost certainly be tougher. This is exactly it. No one is saying white, straight, middle class men have everything easy. Life can come at you hard whoever you are. But the same tough situations are magnified if you are paid less, suffer discrimination, don't have savings, have the burden of childcare." Actually, In some aspect women have it twice as hard as men. At certain beaches when the towel blows away they're required to cover both breasts and the punany region. For men, it's just the penis | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree The patriarchal society we live in generally still gives more advantages to men and passes burdens onto women. Not in all cases and there are lots of men who have it tough to, but that's not as widespread and not down to societal norms. You are wonderful Just telling it how I see it. I've got it tough in many ways, but had I been in the same circumstances as a woman it would almost certainly be tougher. This is exactly it. No one is saying white, straight, middle class men have everything easy. Life can come at you hard whoever you are. But the same tough situations are magnified if you are paid less, suffer discrimination, don't have savings, have the burden of childcare. Actually, In some aspect women have it twice as hard as men. At certain beaches when the towel blows away they're required to cover both breasts and The Punany region. For men, it's just the penis" Besides the fact that it is easier for them to piss in public areas | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree The patriarchal society we live in generally still gives more advantages to men and passes burdens onto women. Not in all cases and there are lots of men who have it tough to, but that's not as widespread and not down to societal norms. You are wonderful Just telling it how I see it. I've got it tough in many ways, but had I been in the same circumstances as a woman it would almost certainly be tougher. This is exactly it. No one is saying white, straight, middle class men have everything easy. Life can come at you hard whoever you are. But the same tough situations are magnified if you are paid less, suffer discrimination, don't have savings, have the burden of childcare." | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree The patriarchal society we live in generally still gives more advantages to men and passes burdens onto women. Not in all cases and there are lots of men who have it tough to, but that's not as widespread and not down to societal norms. You are wonderful Just telling it how I see it. I've got it tough in many ways, but had I been in the same circumstances as a woman it would almost certainly be tougher. This is exactly it. No one is saying white, straight, middle class men have everything easy. Life can come at you hard whoever you are. But the same tough situations are magnified if you are paid less, suffer discrimination, don't have savings, have the burden of childcare. Actually, In some aspect women have it twice as hard as men. At certain beaches when the towel blows away they're required to cover both breasts and The Punany region. For men, it's just the penis Besides the fact that it is easier for them to piss in public areas 🌷 | |||
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"I learned that sleeping with my ex is a terrible idea. He's not changed in the 4 years we've been apart His underwear, or his jeans (in lieu of underwear)? | |||
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"When wearing white pants, vigilance is the price of flatulence." Sound advice, in fact the lesson might be don’t wear white pants! | |||
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"Two, one positive, and one perhaps negative depending on your point of view. One positive thing I’ve learnt is when things are bad, when everything seems to be against you, it’s not always the case and if you keep battling, keeping pushing against the tide then better times are ahead. The other one which I think is positive and negative in equal parts, friendship is overrated. " I rate our friendship 🫶🏼 | |||
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"I learned that sleeping with my ex is a terrible idea. He's not changed in the 4 years we've been apart Unfortunately leopards dont change their spots . | |||
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"How unfair and hard is life for women 😱😱😱dissagree On the basis that you have lived as a woman? On the basis when i was married my wife never had to work i done weekends etc to.bring out kids up.and take them on hols she looked after home So because you had an agreement with your wife (an agreement which necessarily means financial reliance on one's partner, reducing potential for independence) and she played her part in keeping your family afloat (unpaid work still being work), billions of women can't experience unfairness? Christ 😂 Hardly she had control of all the money Elon Musk going bald is what it you off him? Not him being a far right agitator? | |||
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"That people will always rush to be the worst off and hard done by. Always looking for that tiny little gap to push through as the victim. " There is often one of those people in every workplace. Broke your ankle? They broke a leg. Spilt a coffee? They spilt two. | |||
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"That karting IS NOT the same as driving a car, the brake is NOT under your right foot, and face planting the steering wheel really bloody hurts! N " 😂😂😂 I'm sorry for laughing Reminds me of a time I thought I'd give braking with my left foot a go. 🤕 | |||
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