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"We have pillow princesses. Do we also have pillow princes? 👀" Yes they exist | |||
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"Women would you find this scenario hot ? A bunch of hot guys lying down on their backs, they cannot move or touch you, eyes closed. They are just there to be used and you just clamber around sitting on faces and cocks that you like the look of, but of this bit of that, as you dock on a face they start work with their tongues but that's all they're allowed to do. They can't move or touch you , if you sit on a cock, you do all the work and as you undock from a face, their tongue goes back in. Is it hot or would you lose your balance or find it hard work on the legs? Or just weird ? " This is one of my fantasies, but I want the men blindfolded until after I left the room. | |||
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"Undock - a word underrated for its sensualness " 
It sounds dull. If genders were swapped I can understand men might like it but as is, no. Very much male gaze. | |||
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"We have pillow princesses. Do we also have pillow princes? 👀 Yes they exist " I've never experienced that before. No work at all? Just lay there? I'd struggle not to move. | |||
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"I like eye contact and I like hands on me so I don’t think this would be for me. I might start asking people if they want to dock components though. That’s some sexy shit 🥵" Just make sure it's the right way up | |||
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"I like eye contact and I like hands on me so I don’t think this would be for me. I might start asking people if they want to dock components though. That’s some sexy shit 🥵 Just make sure it's the right way up" Do you have to announce "docking sequence initiated" and "docking sequence completed"? | |||
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"I’d find it boring. I like a man to want me and be a bit grabby. Otherwise I may as well ride a dildo." Exactly this. I like being fucked quite rough and passionately, that scenario sounds boring as hell tbh. This is why service subs bore me as well. I want to be grabbed/pinned/squeezed etc. I don't want to have sex with an inanimate object, I'll just have a wank. | |||
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"I like eye contact and I like hands on me so I don’t think this would be for me. I might start asking people if they want to dock components though. That’s some sexy shit 🥵 Just make sure it's the right way up Do you have to announce "docking sequence initiated" and "docking sequence completed"?" "commencing thrusters" | |||
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"I like eye contact and I like hands on me so I don’t think this would be for me. I might start asking people if they want to dock components though. That’s some sexy shit 🥵 Just make sure it's the right way up" USB port sex 🤔 Attempt 1 - Cowgirl ❌ Attempt 2 - Reverse cowgirl ❌ Attempt 3 - Cowgirl 🎉🥳 | |||
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"I like eye contact and I like hands on me so I don’t think this would be for me. I might start asking people if they want to dock components though. That’s some sexy shit 🥵 Just make sure it's the right way up USB port sex 🤔 Attempt 1 - Cowgirl ❌ Attempt 2 - Reverse cowgirl ❌ Attempt 3 - Cowgirl 🎉🥳" Every time | |||
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"I like eye contact and I like hands on me so I don’t think this would be for me. I might start asking people if they want to dock components though. That’s some sexy shit 🥵 Just make sure it's the right way up USB port sex 🤔 Attempt 1 - Cowgirl ❌ Attempt 2 - Reverse cowgirl ❌ Attempt 3 - Cowgirl 🎉🥳 Every time " Don’t wanna brag but I once managed to dock on the first attempt | |||
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"I like eye contact and I like hands on me so I don’t think this would be for me. I might start asking people if they want to dock components though. That’s some sexy shit 🥵 Just make sure it's the right way up Do you have to announce "docking sequence initiated" and "docking sequence completed"?" I much prefer Bluetooth connected | |||
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"I’d find it boring. I like a man to want me and be a bit grabby. Otherwise I may as well ride a dildo." yeah I thought so, women are so different I bet most men would like a room full of women just frozen in doggy position with their mouths open, waiting to have cocks. I could definitely spend an hour in that kind of room, on a Saturday afternoon maybe | |||
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"While I fully and thoroughly enjoy using someone, including while they’re tied down…. The idea of zero work for them and all for me is a massive turn off " It's always the man that has to do all the work out, isn't it? It's not fair. | |||
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"Question for Raven and thick thighs and anyone else who finds it too much work. What if you were sat in like a giant size fairground grabber claw? A padded version, obviously, with the old vagina hanging out below and a big remote control in your hand to do the left right up and down. Would that be hot? Maybe with some crisps and snacks as well in there." I'd be sick 🤣 | |||
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"We have pillow princesses. Do we also have pillow princes? 👀" It's called naptime when you have a horny girlfriend | |||
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"Women would you find this scenario hot ? A bunch of hot guys lying down on their backs, they cannot move or touch you, eyes closed. They are just there to be used and you just clamber around sitting on faces and cocks that you like the look of, but of this bit of that, as you dock on a face they start work with their tongues but that's all they're allowed to do. They can't move or touch you , if you sit on a cock, you do all the work and as you undock from a face, their tongue goes back in. Is it hot or would you lose your balance or find it hard work on the legs? Or just weird ? This is one of my fantasies, but I want the men blindfolded until after I left the room." How many men in the room? I was thinking about 20 when it popped in my head, like a large lounge with all the furniture removed and lots of quilt and pillows. | |||
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"Undock - a word underrated for its sensualness " I think the dehumanisation and process feel is part of the fantasy | |||
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"Question for Raven and thick thighs and anyone else who finds it too much work. What if you were sat in like a giant size fairground grabber claw? A padded version, obviously, with the old vagina hanging out below and a big remote control in your hand to do the left right up and down. Would that be hot? Maybe with some crisps and snacks as well in there." What about when the claw lifts them up but they slowly slip out of grasp and end up lying prone on top of the naked men? | |||
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"I like eye contact and I like hands on me so I don’t think this would be for me. I might start asking people if they want to dock components though. That’s some sexy shit 🥵"
I love eye contact too and all the intimate stuff, using all the senses etc but sometimes the complete opposite can also be hot. Like how people get off on sensory deprivation but taken in a different direction. | |||
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"Question for Raven and thick thighs and anyone else who finds it too much work. What if you were sat in like a giant size fairground grabber claw? A padded version, obviously, with the old vagina hanging out below and a big remote control in your hand to do the left right up and down. Would that be hot? Maybe with some crisps and snacks as well in there. What about when the claw lifts them up but they slowly slip out of grasp and end up lying prone on top of the naked men? " This could easily happen with some of this lot getting all juicy. | |||
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"Question for Raven and thick thighs and anyone else who finds it too much work. What if you were sat in like a giant size fairground grabber claw? A padded version, obviously, with the old vagina hanging out below and a big remote control in your hand to do the left right up and down. Would that be hot? Maybe with some crisps and snacks as well in there. What about when the claw lifts them up but they slowly slip out of grasp and end up lying prone on top of the naked men? " Put another pound coin in and try again
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"It's weird " Yeah, it's so weird! | |||
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"Question for Raven and thick thighs and anyone else who finds it too much work. What if you were sat in like a giant size fairground grabber claw? A padded version, obviously, with the old vagina hanging out below and a big remote control in your hand to do the left right up and down. Would that be hot? Maybe with some crisps and snacks as well in there." What are the snack options? Reading this thread I'm thinking popcorn is in order. I suspect I have laughed so much I'm at risk of losing some wee.... | |||
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"Question for Raven and thick thighs and anyone else who finds it too much work. What if you were sat in like a giant size fairground grabber claw? A padded version, obviously, with the old vagina hanging out below and a big remote control in your hand to do the left right up and down. Would that be hot? Maybe with some crisps and snacks as well in there. What are the snack options? Reading this thread I'm thinking popcorn is in order. I suspect I have laughed so much I'm at risk of losing some wee...." Little paper bowls with different things in they could actually be sat on the chests of the men so you get on it you can get your snack on too. Pringles ? Jelly babies ? Scampi flavoured knickknacks.? | |||
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"Question for Raven and thick thighs and anyone else who finds it too much work. What if you were sat in like a giant size fairground grabber claw? A padded version, obviously, with the old vagina hanging out below and a big remote control in your hand to do the left right up and down. Would that be hot? Maybe with some crisps and snacks as well in there. What are the snack options? Reading this thread I'm thinking popcorn is in order. I suspect I have laughed so much I'm at risk of losing some wee.... Little paper bowls with different things in they could actually be sat on the chests of the men so you get on it you can get your snack on too. Pringles ? Jelly babies ? Scampi flavoured knickknacks.? " Scampi knickknacks? I'm in. Probably best to avoid dips as the back and forth between chip and dip options would call for more joystick control than any of us can handle... Who would be in charge of controls hands are busy with snacks? | |||
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"Question for Raven and thick thighs and anyone else who finds it too much work. What if you were sat in like a giant size fairground grabber claw? A padded version, obviously, with the old vagina hanging out below and a big remote control in your hand to do the left right up and down. Would that be hot? Maybe with some crisps and snacks as well in there. What are the snack options? Reading this thread I'm thinking popcorn is in order. I suspect I have laughed so much I'm at risk of losing some wee.... Little paper bowls with different things in they could actually be sat on the chests of the men so you get on it you can get your snack on too. Pringles ? Jelly babies ? Scampi flavoured knickknacks.? Scampi knickknacks? I'm in. Probably best to avoid dips as the back and forth between chip and dip options would call for more joystick control than any of us can handle... Who would be in charge of controls hands are busy with snacks? " Jean Order Got a bit of a hard on reading that, not the bit about dips, the thought of being the controller  | |||
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"I’d find it boring. I like a man to want me and be a bit grabby. Otherwise I may as well ride a dildo." My thoughts precisely | |||
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"I'll far too lazy to do all that docking and undocking." 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Same here! | |||
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"Undock - a word underrated for its sensualness " Cackle. | |||
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"Women would you find this scenario hot ? A bunch of hot guys lying down on their backs, they cannot move or touch you, eyes closed. They are just there to be used and you just clamber around sitting on faces and cocks that you like the look of, but of this bit of that, as you dock on a face they start work with their tongues but that's all they're allowed to do. They can't move or touch you , if you sit on a cock, you do all the work and as you undock from a face, their tongue goes back in. Is it hot or would you lose your balance or find it hard work on the legs? Or just weird ? " It's a nice fantasy but in my reality, I know that only works if I've had sex with them before so I know what they like and what makes their eyes roll back into their heads, their muscles contract, whimper like a good boy and shake it like a Polaroid paper. Lol! Having sex with a group of strangers is a little awkward for autistic me, no matter how hot they are, they are still human beings to me. I have had an orgy with a few strangers before, but I chatted with them all beforehand, and one of my previous partners and his wife were there too, so it wasn't completely strangers. I'm okay with the work because I linear leg press 147kg/324lbs. My legs are used to squatting despite an old knee injury. So effectively, the men are the pillow princes. Lol! I suppose if I got to speak to the men before and all the other ladies and I had a good laugh about it, it would be good. I'm learning to tie men up so....it is kind of sexy to me when they can't move or touch me. However, I'm weird. Most women prefer to be the bottom in my experience. I'm a switch...I always have been. Probably why my legs are strong. I read about lots of different Kama Sutra positions when I was 13 and I was like wait....I get to be on top!? All the romance novels and mills and boons had the woman being ravaged with the man on top. Thanks Cosmopolitan for my sexual liberation! lol!  | |||
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"We have pillow princesses. Do we also have pillow princes? 👀" Yes...Yes we do. Only for women who like to be the DOMME or TOP. The bisexual men also like it. | |||
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It sounds dull. If genders were swapped I can understand men might like it but as is, no. Very much male gaze."I mean for me as a tomboy masculine female switch....I do like to see the pretty boys all lined up in a row. Lol! I do rope and shibari and seeing a man tied up is definitely a drool scenario for me before I've even touched him. Watching them sweat. hearing them breathe deeply or hold their breath or let out the tiniest whimper.... or in the case of my friend with benefits- hearing them beg to be called a little slut adn when I do they come really hard and lose control. all hail FEMDOM!! Maybe I just have a male gaze despite having a vagina. Lol! Helpless men and Sirens and Medusa and Valkries. | |||
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"We have pillow princesses. Do we also have pillow princes? 👀 Yes they exist I've never experienced that before. No work at all? Just lay there? I'd struggle not to move." That's why you get tied down ( with consent of course) FEMDOM. | |||
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"I like eye contact and I like hands on me so I don’t think this would be for me. I might start asking people if they want to dock components though. That’s some sexy shit 🥵 Just make sure it's the right way up Do you have to announce "docking sequence initiated" and "docking sequence completed"? "commencing thrusters" " Y'all are unhinged. Lol! | |||
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"On the flip side (just thinking aloud). If the women were put into a cradle type swing and gently lowered in front of ready and willing men, for them to pump us and whatnot, I could get on board with that. They could push me like I was on a swing and then when I came back towards them my (very well lubricated!) vag could just slide right up their knob. Balls deep and then some!" Ooh a nice swaying swing sounds nice | |||
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"I like eye contact and I like hands on me so I don’t think this would be for me. I might start asking people if they want to dock components though. That’s some sexy shit 🥵 Just make sure it's the right way up Do you have to announce "docking sequence initiated" and "docking sequence completed"? I much prefer Bluetooth connected " What will you name your Bluetooth device? Eva's Rose? | |||
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"Women would you find this scenario hot ? A bunch of hot guys lying down on their backs, they cannot move or touch you, eyes closed. They are just there to be used and you just clamber around sitting on faces and cocks that you like the look of, but of this bit of that, as you dock on a face they start work with their tongues but that's all they're allowed to do. They can't move or touch you , if you sit on a cock, you do all the work and as you undock from a face, their tongue goes back in. Is it hot or would you lose your balance or find it hard work on the legs? Or just weird ? This is one of my fantasies, but I want the men blindfolded until after I left the room. How many men in the room? I was thinking about 20 when it popped in my head, like a large lounge with all the furniture removed and lots of quilt and pillows." About 10 would be sufficient for me. I would also like them dressed to begin with and me to undress them when the time comes  | |||
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"Women would you find this scenario hot ? A bunch of hot guys lying down on their backs, they cannot move or touch you, eyes closed. They are just there to be used and you just clamber around sitting on faces and cocks that you like the look of, but of this bit of that, as you dock on a face they start work with their tongues but that's all they're allowed to do. They can't move or touch you , if you sit on a cock, you do all the work and as you undock from a face, their tongue goes back in. Is it hot or would you lose your balance or find it hard work on the legs? Or just weird ? This is one of my fantasies, but I want the men blindfolded until after I left the room. How many men in the room? I was thinking about 20 when it popped in my head, like a large lounge with all the furniture removed and lots of quilt and pillows. About 10 would be sufficient for me. I would also like them dressed to begin with and me to undress them when the time comes "Suited and booted? Tradie uniform? Tracksuit wanker? Roadman? T shirt and jeans? | |||
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"I’d find it boring. I like a man to want me and be a bit grabby. Otherwise I may as well ride a dildo. Exactly this. I like being fucked quite rough and passionately, that scenario sounds boring as hell tbh. This is why service subs bore me as well. I want to be grabbed/pinned/squeezed etc. I don't want to have sex with an inanimate object, I'll just have a wank. " I'm a switch. I have known and unknown riggers so being grabbed/pinned/squeezed etc. is probably a bad idea. CNC would probably be a terrible idea for me. I don't have the neuro-psycho-somatic wiring for that. No one wants to have to call an ambulance in the middle of a sex session. Was at a workshop with a kink shrink and she said oh you are dangerous and I said exactly! She's not the only one. I wore a spiked collar to a swinger club and one of the men went to touch my neck without consent....he didn't see the collar in the semi-dark. After he was stabbed, he recoiled and said you are dangerous. I said exactly. We all had a laugh about it. But most people I play with seriously know. When other people are being dominated quite roughly, that can be triggering for me also but I remove myself. I don't think I could dominate a man roughly simply because I can't have it done to myself easily either. Even if he can't physically touch me back, I still listen to his breathing. Watch him sweat and his colour change. feel his muscles contract and the sounds he makes. That makes him less inanimate for me. | |||
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"You need to put that imagination of yours to work... May i suggest "The girl in the claw machine" as a working title? " That's good. I like it, but of course I can't make up stories, have to do it first before the story comes. | |||
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"I’d find it boring. I like a man to want me and be a bit grabby. Otherwise I may as well ride a dildo. Exactly this. I like being fucked quite rough and passionately, that scenario sounds boring as hell tbh. This is why service subs bore me as well. I want to be grabbed/pinned/squeezed etc. I don't want to have sex with an inanimate object, I'll just have a wank. I'm a switch. I have known and unknown riggers so being grabbed/pinned/squeezed etc. is probably a bad idea. CNC would probably be a terrible idea for me. I don't have the neuro-psycho-somatic wiring for that. No one wants to have to call an ambulance in the middle of a sex session. Was at a workshop with a kink shrink and she said oh you are dangerous and I said exactly! She's not the only one. I wore a spiked collar to a swinger club and one of the men went to touch my neck without consent....he didn't see the collar in the semi-dark. After he was stabbed, he recoiled and said you are dangerous. I said exactly. We all had a laugh about it. But most people I play with seriously know. When other people are being dominated quite roughly, that can be triggering for me also but I remove myself. I don't think I could dominate a man roughly simply because I can't have it done to myself easily either. Even if he can't physically touch me back, I still listen to his breathing. Watch him sweat and his colour change. feel his muscles contract and the sounds he makes. That makes him less inanimate for me." That's really interesting. I never thought about a quiet dominance in that way before. But it makes sense dominance is the act of being dominant over someone or something, not the means or style. Although my experience most women prefer the rougher kind of dominance which is more about feeling vulnerable a little bit scared even. | |||
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"I find it a big part of the pleasure to be engaged in eye contact. Whilst the scenario has potential, the concept of me making 99.9% of the vigorous effort leaves me a bit cold, especially if he's withdrawn, with closed eyes. Part of the pleasure comes from mass X velocity, with that driving force not being entirely self generated. His strength needs to come into play, even if I'm in control of a sub. You got to work for it" When it starts to get really good I can't keep my eyes open. I have sex mainly for pleasure so that pleasure overrides me keeping my eyes open. I think I've only been able to keep my eyes open for my ex-husband and a lover of 5 years. The rest of the time, I'm concentrating on the sensations within my body. I even rope switch and self-tie with my eyes closed. I suppose it's more meditative and mindful to me that way. I'm not a super visual person in that way. But it appears that those AMAB are more hardwired to the visual. I'm a masculine woman but I'm more hardwired into my other 7 senses, emotions, mentalisation and academic intellectualisation ( I read 500-page books on sex) | |||
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"I like eye contact and I like hands on me so I don’t think this would be for me. I might start asking people if they want to dock components though. That’s some sexy shit 🥵 Just make sure it's the right way up USB port sex 🤔 Attempt 1 - Cowgirl ❌ Attempt 2 - Reverse cowgirl ❌ Attempt 3 - Cowgirl 🎉🥳 Every time Don’t wanna brag but I once managed to dock on the first attempt" More cackling. | |||
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"Question for Raven and thick thighs and anyone else who finds it too much work. What if you were sat in like a giant size fairground grabber claw? A padded version, obviously, with the old vagina hanging out below and a big remote control in your hand to do the left right up and down. Would that be hot? Maybe with some crisps and snacks as well in there." You have a very unsexy way of describing sex. Lol! I have thick thighs. I move like a lioness towards the man prey. I slide my body like an Amazonian python. I grind my pussy and circle my hips into his thigh. Before even touching his cock or mouth. mechanical up and down and left and right. Omg! I swear we need to send some of you men to Kama Sutra school because porn has just ruined everything. It's part of the reason I learned to tie men up so they could learn to slow down the frenzied piranha-type sex. Lol! Maybe it's because I'm old and seduction is dead. | |||
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"While I fully and thoroughly enjoy using someone, including while they’re tied down…. The idea of zero work for them and all for me is a massive turn off It's always the man that has to do all the work out, isn't it? It's not fair." It's always the man who does all the work out if you fuck a submissive pillow princess all the time. I'm a Warrior Queen. I switch all the time. I sat on one of my poly partners once, like he was a fucking throne. And because he has that Warrior King energy, while I was facing him, sliding on his cock, he leaned forward and rubbed my clit. We both came so fucking hard it was amazing. Core memory stuck in my head now. I've watched him and his wife fuck and they are equally matched!! She's definitely a warrior queen too! You fuck who you fuck. I don't try to change people. If I meet a pillow prince or a strict top, I don't complain. But holy heck, Batman, when someone matches my same fucking (pun intended)energy: Thunderbolts. | |||
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"It's weird " To some people. In FEMDOM- perfectly normal to have some willing male subs just lying there prone. | |||
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"We have pillow princesses. Do we also have pillow princes? 👀 It's called naptime when you have a horny girlfriend " There will be no sleep sir with me. After I tease and edge the heck out of a man then I'm going to grind and pound him...until he begs. Cackle at naptime. | |||
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"Question for Raven and thick thighs and anyone else who finds it too much work. What if you were sat in like a giant size fairground grabber claw? A padded version, obviously, with the old vagina hanging out below and a big remote control in your hand to do the left right up and down. Would that be hot? Maybe with some crisps and snacks as well in there. I'd be sick 🤣" Probably the same. Unfortunately, my brain rejects a lot of man-made, mechanical, artificial things...like screens and giant rubber claws. Lol! | |||
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"Women would you find this scenario hot ? A bunch of hot guys lying down on their backs, they cannot move or touch you, eyes closed. They are just there to be used and you just clamber around sitting on faces and cocks that you like the look of, but of this bit of that, as you dock on a face they start work with their tongues but that's all they're allowed to do. They can't move or touch you , if you sit on a cock, you do all the work and as you undock from a face, their tongue goes back in. Is it hot or would you lose your balance or find it hard work on the legs? Or just weird ? This is one of my fantasies, but I want the men blindfolded until after I left the room. How many men in the room? I was thinking about 20 when it popped in my head, like a large lounge with all the furniture removed and lots of quilt and pillows." You are crazy. I would need 19 other women in there with me. I can't tackle all 20 on my own. I have ME/CFS. Lol! Even last night I had to double and triple DOMME one of my poly partners. Lol! one woman was kissing him and tweaking one nipple. I was play with the other nipple and his butt and the other lady was on his cock and balls. Lol! | |||
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"Undock - a word underrated for its sensualness I think the dehumanisation and process feel is part of the fantasy " I can't go full dehumanisation, unfortunately. My brain isn't wired to it. | |||
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"Question for Raven and thick thighs and anyone else who finds it too much work. What if you were sat in like a giant size fairground grabber claw? A padded version, obviously, with the old vagina hanging out below and a big remote control in your hand to do the left right up and down. Would that be hot? Maybe with some crisps and snacks as well in there. What about when the claw lifts them up but they slowly slip out of grasp and end up lying prone on top of the naked men? " You guys have very overactive imaginations. | |||
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"I like eye contact and I like hands on me so I don’t think this would be for me. I might start asking people if they want to dock components though. That’s some sexy shit 🥵
I love eye contact too and all the intimate stuff, using all the senses etc but sometimes the complete opposite can also be hot. Like how people get off on sensory deprivation but taken in a different direction."I dunno...a lot of sensory deprivation stuff is a trigger so that's full BDSM protocol territory for me...and physical and mental health first aid... All fun and games until we need to call an ambulance for a panic attack. | |||
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"Question for Raven and thick thighs and anyone else who finds it too much work. What if you were sat in like a giant size fairground grabber claw? A padded version, obviously, with the old vagina hanging out below and a big remote control in your hand to do the left right up and down. Would that be hot? Maybe with some crisps and snacks as well in there. What are the snack options? Reading this thread I'm thinking popcorn is in order. I suspect I have laughed so much I'm at risk of losing some wee.... Little paper bowls with different things in they could actually be sat on the chests of the men so you get on it you can get your snack on too. Pringles ? Jelly babies ? Scampi flavoured knickknacks.? " Just making me hungry now. | |||
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"Women would you find this scenario hot ? A bunch of hot guys lying down on their backs, they cannot move or touch you, eyes closed. They are just there to be used and you just clamber around sitting on faces and cocks that you like the look of, but of this bit of that, as you dock on a face they start work with their tongues but that's all they're allowed to do. They can't move or touch you , if you sit on a cock, you do all the work and as you undock from a face, their tongue goes back in. Is it hot or would you lose your balance or find it hard work on the legs? Or just weird ? This is one of my fantasies, but I want the men blindfolded until after I left the room. How many men in the room? I was thinking about 20 when it popped in my head, like a large lounge with all the furniture removed and lots of quilt and pillows. About 10 would be sufficient for me. I would also like them dressed to begin with and me to undress them when the time comes
Suited and booted? Tradie uniform? Tracksuit wanker? Roadman? T shirt and jeans?"I would leave their clothes entirely up to them but would definitely request no Y fronts. | |||
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"I’d find it boring. I like a man to want me and be a bit grabby. Otherwise I may as well ride a dildo. Exactly this. I like being fucked quite rough and passionately, that scenario sounds boring as hell tbh. This is why service subs bore me as well. I want to be grabbed/pinned/squeezed etc. I don't want to have sex with an inanimate object, I'll just have a wank. I'm a switch. I have known and unknown riggers so being grabbed/pinned/squeezed etc. is probably a bad idea. CNC would probably be a terrible idea for me. I don't have the neuro-psycho-somatic wiring for that. No one wants to have to call an ambulance in the middle of a sex session. Was at a workshop with a kink shrink and she said oh you are dangerous and I said exactly! She's not the only one. I wore a spiked collar to a swinger club and one of the men went to touch my neck without consent....he didn't see the collar in the semi-dark. After he was stabbed, he recoiled and said you are dangerous. I said exactly. We all had a laugh about it. But most people I play with seriously know. When other people are being dominated quite roughly, that can be triggering for me also but I remove myself. I don't think I could dominate a man roughly simply because I can't have it done to myself easily either. Even if he can't physically touch me back, I still listen to his breathing. Watch him sweat and his colour change. feel his muscles contract and the sounds he makes. That makes him less inanimate for me. That's really interesting. I never thought about a quiet dominance in that way before. But it makes sense dominance is the act of being dominant over someone or something, not the means or style. Although my experience most women prefer the rougher kind of dominance which is more about feeling vulnerable a little bit scared even." It's something they teach in a Shibari rope style called Aibunawa/Yukimura Haruki-style. It's a gentle domination but it still makes you feel vulnerable and scared. I actually triggered a man in this style. He couldn't handle the stillness and found it humiliating. One male sub explained to me that some people want the roughness and the pain to prove how tough they are and how much they can handle and to drown up other thoughts. I'm switch who doesn't need to prove anything and my thoughts and emotions do not need to avoided. So all that is left is for me to mindfully experience with all 8 senses deeply connected. It might sound a little woo-woo to most people but that's because they are used to a visual of frenzied or romantic movie sex which they tie meanings, thoughts and emotions to. Which is fine. Rope has taught me intimacy without sex and I can appreciate a row of naked men waiting to be pleasured without viewing it as boring. I don't need the extreme adrenaline in my sex. It's the difference between a quick aggressive shower and a slow sensual bath or a middle point. On Fet we have pleasure doms, sensual doms, caregiver doms and soft doms. Most swingers don't often come into kink, fetish and BDSM world so it's often just fantasy sex or to scratch an itch. So to them it just looks like boring sex and not a case of a domination experience. Being a dom or top is a lot of work let's face it. For some subs, they do a lot of work already in their vanilla life so they just want to lie there and switch off. Which is totally valid also. | |||
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"Women would you find this scenario hot ? A bunch of hot guys lying down on their backs, they cannot move or touch you, eyes closed. They are just there to be used and you just clamber around sitting on faces and cocks that you like the look of, but of this bit of that, as you dock on a face they start work with their tongues but that's all they're allowed to do. They can't move or touch you , if you sit on a cock, you do all the work and as you undock from a face, their tongue goes back in. Is it hot or would you lose your balance or find it hard work on the legs? Or just weird ? This is one of my fantasies, but I want the men blindfolded until after I left the room. How many men in the room? I was thinking about 20 when it popped in my head, like a large lounge with all the furniture removed and lots of quilt and pillows. About 10 would be sufficient for me. I would also like them dressed to begin with and me to undress them when the time comes
Suited and booted? Tradie uniform? Tracksuit wanker? Roadman? T shirt and jeans?
I would leave their clothes entirely up to them but would definitely request no Y fronts."Lol! I don't care. It's coming off eventually. I have rope shears. Lol! | |||
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