FabSwingers.com forum: Gentleman: the signification of "x".

By *eroLondon OP Man
8 weeks ago

Mayfair

My dear Lysanders, Orsinos, Chaps, Chums and Menfolk of the fora...

Do you ever place an "x" after your messages to women? I very very rarely do, and when I do it's queried with suspicion before it's graciously accepted with glee.

If you don't why don't you? If you do, have you always done it.

Is this mostly a womanly thing, brought down from generations all the way from Eve? They all do it. Well, most not all.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Only when messaging my mother, and she is hardly ever here.

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By *eximus MaximusMan
8 weeks ago

Up North

Not at all. That gives those split arses the idea that I’m into them, in a penis kind regards of way

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By *tockingsstephTV/TS
8 weeks ago

northampton

I normally put a x( kiss) after messages to men I’m talking to x

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By *eximus MaximusMan
8 weeks ago

Up North

"Only when messaging my mother, and she is hardly ever here."

She is

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By *eroLondon OP Man
8 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Only when messaging my mother, and she is hardly ever here."

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Do kindly pass on my regards from her most affectionate nephew. X is optional.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Herts/Leeds

I had a look at my inbox bd it’s probably 50/50 between those that add x or even xx and those that don’t.

I add x or xx with friends and family rarely with complete strangers

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By *oeBeansMan
8 weeks ago

Derby

I only do it if they do it first

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By *actile TensionMan
8 weeks ago

Sussex

I don't usually but will often send one back after receiving one.

Once had an "X-off" Topping eachother making it all the way to XXXXX.

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By *eroLondon OP Man
8 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I only do it if they do it first"

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It's a bit girly'ish, innit, Joe?

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Herts/Leeds

"I only do it if they do it first

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It's a bit girly'ish, innit, Joe?

FIFY

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
8 weeks ago

London

"I only do it if they do it first"

Same. It's just a peck on the cheek anyway.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Herts/Leeds

"I only do it if they do it first

Same. It's just a peck on the cheek anyway."

Air kiss. Xx is peck on the cheek.

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By *ypersoonMan
8 weeks ago

WHITCHURCH, Shropshire

I do in my 1st message to those I contact though I feel it's more out of politeness though it lessens if I ends up in a conversation at least

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By *hicknCut01Man
8 weeks ago

Wakefield

No x on fab. No feels allowed.

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
8 weeks ago

London

"I only do it if they do it first

Same. It's just a peck on the cheek anyway.

Air kiss. Xx is peck on the cheek. "

These rules are exhausting x

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By *tead88Man
8 weeks ago

leighton buzzard

I send it to everyone, especially my closest friends

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By *oeBeansMan
8 weeks ago

Derby

"I only do it if they do it first

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It's a bit girly'ish, innit, Joe?

Yeah, if it up to me, we'd bump fists instead 👊

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By *eximus MaximusMan
8 weeks ago

Up North

X at the end of my messages means I fuck your second hole

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By *iseekingbiCouple
8 weeks ago

N ireland and West Midlands

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By *otwife Happy LifeMan
8 weeks ago

plymouth

"Not at all. That gives those split arses the idea that I’m into them, in a penis kind regards of way

😂❤️

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By *ene FairfaxMan
8 weeks ago

Dover

I reply back as per the message received. Only x if you get one first, if you dont get one then dont worry

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By *aven RedWoman
8 weeks ago

Liverpool x

I do it after all my messages, statements, questions. Kind of a subconscious thing to do. Have done it a few times when its not very appropriate to, when arranging a job interview. It was lucky he saw the funny side of it x

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By *eroLondon OP Man
8 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I normally put a x( kiss) after messages to men I’m talking to x"

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Are these well received? 💌

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By *aven RedWoman
8 weeks ago

Liverpool x

Sorry. Just read you were asking for mens opinions x

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By *hortieWoman
8 weeks ago

On a Recce

🤢

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By *eroLondon OP Man
8 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I only do it if they do it first

Same. It's just a peck on the cheek anyway."

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I would think so too but some women have different ideas and expectations.

...💍

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By *ensuallover1000Man
8 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

When I employ them, it designates that I would very much like to eat your pussy.

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xxxx 😜

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
8 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

From a wonans point of view (well mine) i dont tend to notice if some one puts a kiss or notvi sometimes do and sometimes not. Its just like a full stop

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
8 weeks ago

London

"I only do it if they do it first

Same. It's just a peck on the cheek anyway.

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I would think so too but some women have different ideas and expectations.

...💍"

Ideas and expectations not communicated verbally are just fantasies. Unlikely to occur unless spoken about.

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By *eroLondon OP Man
8 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I do it after all my messages, statements, questions. Kind of a subconscious thing to do. Have done it a few times when its not very appropriate to, when arranging a job interview. It was lucky he saw the funny side of it x"

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Talking of inappropriateness have you noticed how the "❤️" and the "👍🏻" are juxtaposed together on Microsoft Teams chat? The amount of times I've accidentally 'love-hearted' some of my colleagues...!

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By *eroLondon OP Man
8 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Sorry. Just read you were asking for mens opinions x

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I always value your opinions. ❤️

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By *aven RedWoman
8 weeks ago

Liverpool x

"Sorry. Just read you were asking for mens opinions x

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I always value your opinions. ❤️"

Thank you. I havent noticed on Microsoft teams as I don't use it. If I did, I'd probably do the same.

With the 'x' at the end of a message, I never expect people to send them back just because I do it. Although I did send 2 rows of 'x's' by mistake using auto fill. My kids get the 2 rows. I really need to proofread before I hit send x

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By *hilly1515Man
8 weeks ago

I probably do do it ...

As above its probably reciprocal.

Although I do have a habit of doing it without thought if it's parting on a good nite .x.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
8 weeks ago

Newcastle

I generally would prefer to put an ‘x’ or an ‘xx’ at the end of messages, as I think it’s a nice way to sign off but over the years, I’ve become a bit wary of it giving the wrong impression.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
8 weeks ago

North West

Maybe people who put x after each message want you to find their treasure. X marks the spot.

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By *oiluvfunMan
8 weeks ago

Penrith

"I only do it if they do it first"

Same here. I take it as a sign I’ve been ‘accepted’, a connection has been made…..?

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By *oubleswing2019Man
8 weeks ago

Colchester

Never on a first message.

If a reply has one in return, I'll mirror out of politeness.

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By *odgerMooreMan
8 weeks ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

I put a XY at the end because that’s the chromosomes im splashing on her tits before dinner!!

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By *ddie1966Man
8 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Straight off on the first message..... No.

It seems kinda wrong.

But if we've been chatting, I always sign off with an x. Or a capital X if we're really clicking. If we've arranged a frivolous use of energy meet, then they get a triple x.

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By *vaRoseWoman
8 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

I sprinkle them liberally, which has led to some rather funny moments. I once ended a web chat with my doctor with xxx, and I’ve also done it messaging the handyman or other workmen

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By *rightonsteveMan
8 weeks ago

Hove, mainly…

Only if they do first.

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By *r_MrsLCouple
8 weeks ago

Leeds

"My dear Lysanders, Orsinos, Chaps, Chums and Menfolk of the fora...

Do you ever place an "x" after your messages to women? I very very rarely do, and when I do it's queried with suspicion before it's graciously accepted with glee.

If you don't why don't you? If you do, have you always done it.

Is this mostly a womanly thing, brought down from generations all the way from Eve? They all do it. Well, most not all."

Nope. Certainly not with strangers. Would only ever consider if it was a friend.

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By *he MinionMan
8 weeks ago

Surrey

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By *he MinionMan
8 weeks ago

Surrey

Sometimes i do sometimes i dont. Depends who i am messaging. For example, most of the people i communicate with on here, i have some sort of connection/relationship with so putting a x at the end of the message is no biggie.

The taxman however, does not recieve an x of anysort during our conversations.

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By *evilinyouMan
8 weeks ago

Bristol

I usually put an x.

I've never really thought about it. Are you saying it comes across as weird?

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By *im n her XXXCouple
8 weeks ago

Long Eaton

"I only do it if they do it first

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It's a bit girly'ish, innit, Joe?

Yeah, if it up to me, we'd bump fists instead 👊"
I’d bump more than your fist x

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By *avenwrexham75TV/TS
8 weeks ago

Wrexham

I put kisses after my messages xx

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By *onin25Man
8 weeks ago

Durham

It depends on who I'm messaging and the sentiment that I want to convey, but I do sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

I only do it when I've had rum

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By *007ManMan
8 weeks ago

Worthing

Only unless they do first. Don't read too much into a womans x they usually do it as a friendly gesture and not a romantic one. Of course this is only for women who are not ones partner!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
8 weeks ago

Leeds

No, never. The Mrs might get one or two if I remember.

The mr

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By *eroLondon OP Man
8 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I only do it when I've had rum"

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So on the hour, every hour then?

✖️

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By *ools and the brainCouple
8 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

"My dear Lysanders, Orsinos, Chaps, Chums and Menfolk of the fora...

Do you ever place an "x" after your messages to women? I very very rarely do, and when I do it's queried with suspicion before it's graciously accepted with glee.

If you don't why don't you? If you do, have you always done it.

Is this mostly a womanly thing, brought down from generations all the way from Eve? They all do it. Well, most not all."

I usually sign off

Yours sincerely

Followed by my full name

Kind regards

And full name.

Even if it's a text to the wife or kids.

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By *evilinyouMan
8 weeks ago

Bristol

"My dear Lysanders, Orsinos, Chaps, Chums and Menfolk of the fora...

Do you ever place an "x" after your messages to women? I very very rarely do, and when I do it's queried with suspicion before it's graciously accepted with glee.

If you don't why don't you? If you do, have you always done it.

Is this mostly a womanly thing, brought down from generations all the way from Eve? They all do it. Well, most not all.

I usually sign off

Yours sincerely

Followed by my full name

Kind regards

And full name.

Even if it's a text to the wife or kids.

Haha I like this formalities are everything

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By *issy LanaTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Slough

xxx

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Motherwell

I use Mx as much for it's historical significance and because it's a nice way to sign off my messages and it leads the message chain to other places lol. Mx 👿

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