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"If someone is on here, behind their other half's back. Is it ok? " Not really for us to judge is it? There are many circumstances that bring us all here. Some openly others not. | |||
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"If someone is on here, behind their other half's back. Is it ok? " Nope it's not, they are cheating. The potential hurt they can cause is wrong on so many levels. | |||
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"One thing I'd say op, always be honest about it and give others the choice to meet you or not, based on you being married. " ⬆️💯 | |||
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"Some think it's ok some don't. I think there are rare circumstances where it is but mostly I don't think it is. I'm often surprised at how people will overlook or forget someone being married if they're popular though " Or they find them hot enough. | |||
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"Some think it's ok some don't. I think there are rare circumstances where it is but mostly I don't think it is. I'm often surprised at how people will overlook or forget someone being married if they're popular though Or they find them hot enough. " Yep! I recall a very popular person in the forum who has now left who was never criticised although it was on their profile. | |||
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"Some think it's ok some don't. I think there are rare circumstances where it is but mostly I don't think it is. I'm often surprised at how people will overlook or forget someone being married if they're popular though " You can get away with anything on here if your "popular" | |||
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"Some think it's ok some don't. I think there are rare circumstances where it is but mostly I don't think it is. I'm often surprised at how people will overlook or forget someone being married if they're popular though You can get away with anything on here if your "popular"" Never a truer word spoken! E | |||
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"Some think it's ok some don't. I think there are rare circumstances where it is but mostly I don't think it is. I'm often surprised at how people will overlook or forget someone being married if they're popular though " I’ll interact on the forums with those people. I have turned down any that have asked to meet via DM and explained that it’s a hard line for me. I wouldn’t be dragging my disapproval into every post though - that would be weird. But if they were to do an “is it okay” post like this I’d say no to them. In answer to the OP, being married is okay if their partner is aware and approves, cheating isn’t. There are very rare medical circumstances where I could understand - coma, dementia etc. | |||
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"One thing I'd say op, always be honest about it and give others the choice to meet you or not, based on you being married. ⬆️💯" • Is the OP married? | |||
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"Some think it's ok some don't. I think there are rare circumstances where it is but mostly I don't think it is. I'm often surprised at how people will overlook or forget someone being married if they're popular though I’ll interact on the forums with those people. I have turned down any that have asked to meet via DM and explained that it’s a hard line for me. I wouldn’t be dragging my disapproval into every post though - that would be weird. But if they were to do an “is it okay” post like this I’d say no to them. In answer to the OP, being married is okay if their partner is aware and approves, cheating isn’t. There are very rare medical circumstances where I could understand - coma, dementia etc. " I'm thinking along the lines of people who choose who they disapprove if depending on attractiveness and perceived popularity. It'd human nature and something I notice outside of the net too. Probably guilty of it myself  | |||
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"One thing I'd say op, always be honest about it and give others the choice to meet you or not, based on you being married. ⬆️💯 • Is the OP married?" Maybe he can come back to the thread and say, but there's usually a reason this is asked so often and many don't explicitly state they are on profiles. | |||
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"If someone is on here, behind their other half's back. Is it ok? " That's between you and your conscience | |||
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"If they're willing to tell lies to someone they love.....what lies will they tell someone that they don't in this type of situation. It's a no from us. " People often find it easier to be truthful to strangers. | |||
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"It's very easy to say if you going to cheat . You should just leave marriage have new start etc. I have a good friend is wife he loves deeply as early dementia very early dementia . He never leave her he care for her does evey thing for her even days she does not know him or gets angry with him. Where should he go for relaxing fun I ould support him back him up whatever he did. As far as I know he just takes it out on golf ball once a week when someone helps him have half day free What I am saying is sometime people cheat for very different reasons . 90% time probably no good reason " It's not always cut and dried is it but I'd say 99.9% have no good reason | |||
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"It's very easy to say if you going to cheat . You should just leave marriage have new start etc. I have a good friend is wife he loves deeply as early dementia very early dementia . He never leave her he care for her does evey thing for her even days she does not know him or gets angry with him. Where should he go for relaxing fun I ould support him back him up whatever he did. As far as I know he just takes it out on golf ball once a week when someone helps him have half day free What I am saying is sometime people cheat for very different reasons . 90% time probably no good reason " Something like that is totally understandable....it's the ones who do it just because they aren't getting any at home. | |||
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"It's very easy to say if you going to cheat . You should just leave marriage have new start etc. I have a good friend is wife he loves deeply as early dementia very early dementia . He never leave her he care for her does evey thing for her even days she does not know him or gets angry with him. Where should he go for relaxing fun I ould support him back him up whatever he did. As far as I know he just takes it out on golf ball once a week when someone helps him have half day free What I am saying is sometime people cheat for very different reasons . 90% time probably no good reason Something like that is totally understandable....it's the ones who do it just because they aren't getting any at home." Or they are but they just like 'the thrill of the chase'. | |||
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"It's very easy to say if you going to cheat . You should just leave marriage have new start etc. I have a good friend is wife he loves deeply as early dementia very early dementia . He never leave her he care for her does evey thing for her even days she does not know him or gets angry with him. Where should he go for relaxing fun I ould support him back him up whatever he did. As far as I know he just takes it out on golf ball once a week when someone helps him have half day free What I am saying is sometime people cheat for very different reasons . 90% time probably no good reason Something like that is totally understandable....it's the ones who do it just because they aren't getting any at home. Or they are but they just like 'the thrill of the chase'. " Exactly.... | |||
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"Thats for them to choose I choose not to meet them 🤷♀️" That's my attitude really. I genuinely don't care very much what people do but if rather not be involved | |||
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"One thing I'd say op, always be honest about it and give others the choice to meet you or not, based on you being married. ⬆️💯 • Is the OP married? · Maybe he can come back to the thread and say, but there's usually a reason this is asked so often and many don't explicitly state they are on profiles." • I interpreted it differently: he's probably fed up with messaging women and then discovering most of them are married, hence his query. I mean we could be presumptuous and interpret his "can accommodate" as an indication of him not being married. But, yeah, he may surprise us all... | |||
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"If someone is on here, behind their other half's back. Is it ok? " Do you have a guilty conscience then? Lets face it-we all know its you and yes,you are cheating ,despicable. Same goes for all you other cheats-you know who you are. | |||
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"If someone is on here, behind their other half's back. Is it ok? " Depends on lots of factors. I don't judge people for the actions or decisions, not my place too. You do you. | |||
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