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"When you know you aren't their type but they say they want you. Are you just an easy option? A fill in until something better comes along? A temu version of the one they really want? " I wouldn’t say I wanted someone if they weren’t my “type” But on the other hand, if im an easy option or a fill in, as long as they are honest about it and say that’s what it is, I’m fine with that, it’s not like I’m planning a wedding or anything. | |||
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"When you know you aren't their type but they say they want you. Are you just an easy option? A fill in until something better comes along? A temu version of the one they really want? " Not my type is all I hear on here | |||
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"It's all just fickle what suits at the time shit" Isn't it just. A fuck is still a fuck right? Even when it's not with who you really want. | |||
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"I don’t like the phrase ‘not my type’ What does that even mean. You either are attracted to someone or you are not. It’s as plain as that. " Sometimes people have a clear type. It's on their profile. It's in who they've met. It's in what they write. And you aren't it. | |||
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"I don’t like the phrase ‘not my type’ What does that even mean. You either are attracted to someone or you are not. It’s as plain as that. " Not a dig in any way but would you prefer someone to say I'm not attracted to you? Personally I find not my type (as in not what I'm looking for) a softer way of saying I don't fancy you. | |||
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"Being told you’re the exception is not a compliment " It can be! Something like “I usually only fall for dickheads but you’re the exception”. | |||
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"If people say ‘you’re not my type’ it’s just a way of saying ‘FOS’ " FOS fuck off sunshine? | |||
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"If people say ‘you’re not my type’ it’s just a way of saying ‘FOS’ FOS fuck off sunshine?" Fuck off Steve* | |||
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"If people say ‘you’re not my type’ it’s just a way of saying ‘FOS’ FOS fuck off sunshine?" Oh I've had that one (not so subtlety) said to me a few times this morning. | |||
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"I don’t like the phrase ‘not my type’ What does that even mean. You either are attracted to someone or you are not. It’s as plain as that. " I very much have a type. It's what I'm attracted to most. And I know what I'm definitely not attracted to. | |||
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"If people say ‘you’re not my type’ it’s just a way of saying ‘FOS’ FOS fuck off sunshine? Oh I've had that one (not so subtlety) said to me a few times this morning. " How much more unsubtly can it get? | |||
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"If people say ‘you’re not my type’ it’s just a way of saying ‘FOS’ FOS fuck off sunshine? Oh I've had that one (not so subtlety) said to me a few times this morning. How much more unsubtly can it get?" The FO was attempted to be placed under lots of other words followed by sunshine. But it was there. | |||
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"If people say ‘you’re not my type’ it’s just a way of saying ‘FOS’ FOS fuck off sunshine? Oh I've had that one (not so subtlety) said to me a few times this morning. How much more unsubtly can it get? The FO was attempted to be placed under lots of other words followed by sunshine. But it was there. " Ouch! | |||
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" make me cry when I am left naked and shivering used and abused , , disgarded like a wet chamois leather for there pleasure sobbing, empty and shivering on the bed. " You told me you liked that! | |||
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"If people say ‘you’re not my type’ it’s just a way of saying ‘FOS’ FOS fuck off sunshine?" fuck off steve  | |||
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" make me cry when I am left naked and shivering used and abused , , disgarded like a wet chamois leather for there pleasure sobbing, empty and shivering on the bed. You told me you liked that!" This is why aftercare is important. Chilly, music time? Walking on sunshine. | |||
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"I don’t like the phrase ‘not my type’ What does that even mean. You either are attracted to someone or you are not. It’s as plain as that. Sometimes people have a clear type. It's on their profile. It's in who they've met. It's in what they write. And you aren't it. " Yeah….so basically ‘they are not attracted to you’ I just don’t understand people that say that blondes are their ‘type’ for example. Does this mean they find no brunettes attractive? I prefer it when someone just tells me they don’t find me attractive rather than ‘not my type’ Maybe semantics but just my personal preference. | |||
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" make me cry when I am left naked and shivering used and abused , , disgarded like a wet chamois leather for there pleasure sobbing, empty and shivering on the bed. You told me you liked that!"
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"You have a crazy arse wow stunning " cheers mate  | |||
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"On here I am always dubious when someone is coming on strong and I am nothing like their verifications or they say things like "you're not my usual type" or "I'd always wanted to try a girl like you" etc 🤢. I have no desire to be anyone's experiment or for someone who doesn't really fancy me to sleep with me to "try it out"." Ugh, yes! This. I'm a bigger girl and have had messages where the guy had said, I don't normally go for women your size but... Unreal. As a side note, I love the colour of your lingerie in your profile pic | |||
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"On here I am always dubious when someone is coming on strong and I am nothing like their verifications or they say things like "you're not my usual type" or "I'd always wanted to try a girl like you" etc 🤢. I have no desire to be anyone's experiment or for someone who doesn't really fancy me to sleep with me to "try it out". Ugh, yes! This. I'm a bigger girl and have had messages where the guy had said, I don't normally go for women your size but... Unreal. As a side note, I love the colour of your lingerie in your profile pic "Yeah exactly 
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"All of the time. When you get messages saying I'd love to try a Tgirl. That always makes me feel special. Same in a club when you've seen guys getting blown out by loads of women then sidle up to you. "Same when we get messages saying ' I've never had an older woman' 🤦 | |||
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"I don’t like the phrase ‘not my type’ What does that even mean. You either are attracted to someone or you are not. It’s as plain as that. I very much have a type. It's what I'm attracted to most. And I know what I'm definitely not attracted to. " Exactly this. I have a definite type too. It also makes me laugh when I get a message along the lines of ‘I think I fit what you’re looking for’, when in fact they are usually the complete opposite. They either see themselves in a very different light, haven’t read my bio or both 🙈 | |||
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"Never accept being second best, choice or someone to fill a gap until someone better comes along. " Oh we are all second best to something else. There is always a bigger fish. | |||
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"I would say people may have a 'Type' based on looks they like and past experiences etc but when you actually meet someone get to know them etc then there can still be a genuine attraction and chemistry with someone you may have passed in the street without a second look. " Happens to me all the time. No the getting past without a second look bit only kidding | |||
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"I would say people may have a 'Type' based on looks they like and past experiences etc but when you actually meet someone get to know them etc then there can still be a genuine attraction and chemistry with someone you may have passed in the street without a second look. " Absolutely this. I have met people who wouldn't be my normal type as such, but started chatting to them and the way they carry themselves, their confidence and positivity is attractive. Got to like yourself for others to like you too. | |||
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"When you know you aren't their type but they say they want you. Are you just an easy option? A fill in until something better comes along? A temu version of the one they really want? " I’m charitable and everyone should have the chance to meet this guy. | |||
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"When you know you aren't their type but they say they want you. Are you just an easy option? A fill in until something better comes along? A temu version of the one they really want? I’m charitable and everyone should have the chance to meet this guy." So you give them a pity date? Respect 👍🏼 | |||
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"When you know you aren't their type but they say they want you. Are you just an easy option? A fill in until something better comes along? A temu version of the one they really want? I’m charitable and everyone should have the chance to meet this guy. So you give them a pity date? Respect 👍🏼 " Exactly, a few crumbs from the table. I’m paying it forward. | |||
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"I wouldn't assume someone's type. If they approach me though I would assume they like what they see. If they persevere through my lengthy enrollment process, then I'm guessing i am their type "And if they end up having sex with me even though I'm not their type, well they have to live with that shame and embarrassment, not me! | |||
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" Steve stop cock blocking me ffs "damn! i fell for it | |||
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"Happened only once, years ago, in a club during an event I co-hosted. I wasn't her usual type, but she was clearly in the mood for something different. I was more than happy to oblige. It was legendary 😈" I don't think guys really care though so they? Sex is sex | |||
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"Happened only once, years ago, in a club during an event I co-hosted. I wasn't her usual type, but she was clearly in the mood for something different. I was more than happy to oblige. It was legendary 😈" All this was missing was an ‘A-HA’ or ‘back of the net’ at the end | |||
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"Happened only once, years ago, in a club during an event I co-hosted. I wasn't her usual type, but she was clearly in the mood for something different. I was more than happy to oblige. It was legendary 😈 I don't think guys really care though so they? Sex is sex" Do I care if I'm some else type? No Do I care if they are mine? Yes to a certain point. I won't go way off what I usually do but sometimes you get surprised what ends up attracting you, but it's definitely not an immovable object. | |||
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"Happened only once, years ago, in a club during an event I co-hosted. I wasn't her usual type, but she was clearly in the mood for something different. I was more than happy to oblige. It was legendary 😈 I don't think guys really care though so they? Sex is sex Do I care if I'm some else type? No Do I care if they are mine? Yes to a certain point. I won't go way off what I usually do but sometimes you get surprised what ends up attracting you, but it's definitely not an immovable object. " The first is what I meant. Guys don't care if they are the woman's type. Women probably do. Some women. | |||
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"I am bald/ shaved head and bearded, I know I'm not everyone's type, that's ok. There's plenty of women that aren't my type too! " swoons | |||
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" I don't think guys really care though so they? Sex is sex" No, absolutely not, sex is not sex. Do I care if I'm some else type? Fuck yes. I ain't no second place holder. Do I care if they are mine? I don't have a type, there are traits I like and go for and traits I will not tolerate for a second. There are many things on the list that are 100% deal breakers every time. Of course the more standards you apply to life and lovers the harder it is to find a match. | |||
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"When you know you aren't their type but they say they want you. Are you just an easy option? A fill in until something better comes along? A temu version of the one they really want? " On here I don't think people look for their ultimate type. I don't think they would have sex with just anyone either. I do believe you just have to be level with or slightly above the fuckable mark. That's all. If it's NOT on here , the same standard applies. If they are looking for long term then ... a higher standard applies and personality actually comes into play then | |||
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