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"When they call you beautiful? " Historically no, but quite a few people have told me I have beautiful eyes and I now believe them…they can’t all be wrong…right? | |||
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"When they call you beautiful? " Maybe you should. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Often others see things we don't see in ourselves. If in doubt, or it feels dodgy, ask. Personally, I only use the b-word when I see or feel some thing in someone, and am happy to explaine why. | |||
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"On here? No. They would tell a pack of biscuits they are beautiful to get their hob knobbed." 🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"On here? No. They would tell a pack of biscuits they are beautiful to get their hob knobbed." Other biscuits are available 😂 As for the original question, no not on this! | |||
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"I never take someone serious if they compliment my looks,I get embarrassed when anyone compliments me, I dont know why,I just do" Yeah, exactly this! I’ve no idea how to take a compliment, I immediately find a way to discredit it in my head. Just makes me feel awkward | |||
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"When they call you beautiful? " I have no reason to lie and I say what I mean | |||
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"No and anyone who believe being told that on here needs to give their head a wobble." This 👌 | |||
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"When it happens I'll report back here" Morning Beautiful, you look beautiful today 😘 | |||
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"When it happens I'll report back here Morning Beautiful, you look beautiful today 😘" Ok, I believe it | |||
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"Depends who is saying it, but mostly not. " So do you believe me when I say youve a beautiful belly? 🤣🤣... I really need to stop this haha | |||
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"No. They said I was beautiful when I was just a black blank profile pic. They sit on a throne of lies. Mrs " We've had that too 🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"No and anyone who believe being told that on here needs to give their head a wobble." Maybe some people are actually giving a true compliment to someone? Not everyone on here is full of 🐂 I’ve given compliments because they are sincere. | |||
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"If I have pulled on my big boy pants and mustered the courage to message someone, that in itself would suggest that I think you’re beautiful, now if you choose not to believe me, then that’s on you, I guess only I know for sure that I’m being genuine. As for the OP, even without seeing your full face, from what I’ve seen on your profile, and I say this without hope of ever meeting you for reasons other than physical attraction , you are a stunning looking woman. Do with that what you will, but how can an opinion be wrong on something so subjective?" Looking at all the comments from women on this thread, seems they have a pre-conceived idea that everyone here is disingenuous. Even if your compliment is truthful it will be taken as not so it seems 🤷🏻♂️ | |||
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"No and anyone who believe being told that on here needs to give their head a wobble. Maybe some people are actually giving a true compliment to someone? Not everyone on here is full of 🐂 I’ve given compliments because they are sincere. " I agree. I’ve also given sincere compliments, never insincere. | |||
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"Of those that say they only ever give sincere compliments, why do you find it necessary to tell people?" I guess if I’ve appreciated their beauty I want them to know that. Just like I’d tell them a meal was delicious if I’d been cooked for. Compliments aren’t mandatory of course but I’d rather say it instead of just think it. Mrs. | |||
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"If I have pulled on my big boy pants and mustered the courage to message someone, that in itself would suggest that I think you’re beautiful, now if you choose not to believe me, then that’s on you, I guess only I know for sure that I’m being genuine. As for the OP, even without seeing your full face, from what I’ve seen on your profile, and I say this without hope of ever meeting you for reasons other than physical attraction , you are a stunning looking woman. Do with that what you will, but how can an opinion be wrong on something so subjective? Looking at all the comments from women on this thread, seems they have a pre-conceived idea that everyone here is disingenuous. Even if your compliment is truthful it will be taken as not so it seems 🤷🏻♂️" What a shame that we live in such a world where we have to believe truth to be lies in order to protect our fragile hearts. | |||
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"Depends who says it and how " Exactly this x | |||
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"If I have pulled on my big boy pants and mustered the courage to message someone, that in itself would suggest that I think you’re beautiful, now if you choose not to believe me, then that’s on you, I guess only I know for sure that I’m being genuine. As for the OP, even without seeing your full face, from what I’ve seen on your profile, and I say this without hope of ever meeting you for reasons other than physical attraction , you are a stunning looking woman. Do with that what you will, but how can an opinion be wrong on something so subjective? Looking at all the comments from women on this thread, seems they have a pre-conceived idea that everyone here is disingenuous. Even if your compliment is truthful it will be taken as not so it seems 🤷🏻♂️ What a shame that we live in such a world where we have to believe truth to be lies in order to protect our fragile hearts. I don’t know how that emoji got there but I didnt mean to put it there, it changed the whole vibe of the text | |||
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"No and anyone who believe being told that on here needs to give their head a wobble. Maybe some people are actually giving a true compliment to someone? Not everyone on here is full of 🐂 I’ve given compliments because they are sincere. " I did not say "everyone" was full of bullshit. But when you have guys message about how "stunningly beautiful you are" when they haven’t even saw your face is bullshit! | |||
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"When they call you beautiful? " No. I presume it's a copy and paste message. | |||
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"Of those that say they only ever give sincere compliments, why do you find it necessary to tell people?" Because it makes them feel good. | |||
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"Of those that say they only ever give sincere compliments, why do you find it necessary to tell people? Because it makes them feel good. " Makes who feel good though especially if it's not believed | |||
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"Of those that say they only ever give sincere compliments, why do you find it necessary to tell people?" Simple, becuase im allowed to justify and defend myself from being bundled into another category of "guys are after a quick fuck", which is the exact opposite of what i want. So if i get the opportunity I want people to know the type of person I am. Those who have spoken to me, got to know me and gave me a chance, will know I dont just throw words out with no meaning or purpose, so when I say something is beautiful, its because its caught my attention, caused interest and ive enjoyed it. Just like some would say a sea view looks beautiful, because its caught attention interest and enjoyment | |||
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"When they call you beautiful? No. I presume it's a copy and paste message. " Exactly this. Or, if I'm feeling very sarcastic, I just tell them that they can deduct a lot from my public photos. | |||
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"No and anyone who believe being told that on here needs to give their head a wobble. Maybe some people are actually giving a true compliment to someone? Not everyone on here is full of 🐂 I’ve given compliments because they are sincere. I did not say "everyone" was full of bullshit. But when you have guys message about how "stunningly beautiful you are" when they haven’t even saw your face is bullshit!" No but you did say that anyone that who believes it should give their head a wobble implying that either the comments are insincere or you are stupid if you believe them. I agree if someone hasn’t seen your face then it’s rubbish…but also men may say they think you are beautiful looking referring no to your body, figure, pics you have on display for example. | |||
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"Of those that say they only ever give sincere compliments, why do you find it necessary to tell people? Simple, becuase im allowed to justify and defend myself from being bundled into another category of "guys are after a quick fuck", which is the exact opposite of what i want. So if i get the opportunity I want people to know the type of person I am. Those who have spoken to me, got to know me and gave me a chance, will know I dont just throw words out with no meaning or purpose, so when I say something is beautiful, its because its caught my attention, caused interest and ive enjoyed it. Just like some would say a sea view looks beautiful, because its caught attention interest and enjoyment " that was beautiful... FAF | |||
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"Of those that say they only ever give sincere compliments, why do you find it necessary to tell people? Because it makes them feel good. Makes who feel good though especially if it's not believed " The intention is to make the recipient feel good. Whether it does or not is their own issues. But if it’s genuinely meant, it’s not a selfish action. | |||
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"Na not on here. We're all beautiful until the wanks over." Couldn't even get the wank started to call you beautiful 🤣🤣 | |||
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"Na not on here. We're all beautiful until the wanks over. Couldn't even get the wank started to call you beautiful 🤣🤣" I appreciate your honesty | |||
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"When they call you beautiful? " You’re the most beautiful lady I’ve ever seen 🤓 | |||
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"A better answer than just no....if its a throw away comment i don't half the time its said on here they don't even know what I look like so definitely not. But if one of my friends or people in the real world say it I'm more inclined to believe them and it's usually I have beautiful hair,or eyes that I can believe. " You have a very beautiful chest area !! 🤓 | |||
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"Na not on here. We're all beautiful until the wanks over. Couldn't even get the wank started to call you beautiful 🤣🤣 I appreciate your honesty" Its a good job you love me... or tolerate me, not sure which it is 😂 | |||
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"When they call you beautiful? " No. But you should do. You can call yourself ugly bird but you’re far from it. | |||
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"No-one calls me beautiful, I'm always "cute" Yep, this is it for me as well. I'm not cute, I'm handsome damn it! 😡 | |||
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"No-one calls me beautiful, I'm always "cute" Adults just love being infantilized | |||
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"No-one calls me beautiful, I'm always "cute" You’re very beautiful, and my balls are half empty so that’s coming straight from the heart 🤓 | |||
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"No-one calls me beautiful, I'm always "cute" I personally think you’re both. | |||
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"No-one calls me beautiful, I'm always "cute" You are cute though. I get told off calling Ben cute all the time. Must remember men prefer handsome…. | |||
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"No-one calls me beautiful, I'm always "cute" If anything that makes me believe you more 😜😂 | |||
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"I do at first... Then I realise they just want to get into my knickers " That's not true! And your bra as well... | |||
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"Yes. Although, I draw the line at stunning. " | |||
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"Yes. Although, I draw the line at stunning. I don't worry about this I do it all the time it's like tickling a trout to catch it by hand... puts me in a trance. Well thats my Street cred rite down the pan | |||
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"Do you believe them - When they call you beautiful? " No 🥺 | |||
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"Yes. Although, I draw the line at stunning. | |||
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"No, but i occasionally reply with I know, I feels it just to make myself laugh " Same 🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"If I have pulled on my big boy pants and mustered the courage to message someone, that in itself would suggest that I think you’re beautiful, now if you choose not to believe me, then that’s on you, I guess only I know for sure that I’m being genuine. As for the OP, even without seeing your full face, from what I’ve seen on your profile, and I say this without hope of ever meeting you for reasons other than physical attraction , you are a stunning looking woman. Do with that what you will, but how can an opinion be wrong on something so subjective?" | |||
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"Yes. Although, I draw the line at stunning. I can only imagine the stiffled sniggering | |||
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"Haha. On here? No " No lies told | |||
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"No and anyone who believe being told that on here needs to give their head a wobble. Maybe some people are actually giving a true compliment to someone? Not everyone on here is full of 🐂 I’ve given compliments because they are sincere. I did not say "everyone" was full of bullshit. But when you have guys message about how "stunningly beautiful you are" when they haven’t even saw your face is bullshit! No but you did say that anyone that who believes it should give their head a wobble implying that either the comments are insincere or you are stupid if you believe them. " As I said, if someone hasn't seen your face but still throws out the faux flattery then you are either stupid enough to believe it because it is definitely not sincere. | |||
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"When they call you beautiful? " no-one has! | |||
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"I do at first... Then I realise they just want to get into my knickers That's not true! And your bra as well..." Yeah, this is true, but normally the bra falls off easily without comforting words 🤣 | |||
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"When they call you beautiful? " Having grown with the ladies in my life all seem as beautiful today as when younger and some even more so. Bodies change but its not always bad. Faces can be such a beautiful sight and mum bods with a bit of extra weight are stunning. Op your pics are beautiful and anyone would have to take a 2nd look at you. In the end it all comes down to learning that what others think and say does not matter, be you be happy and enjoy every second of pleasure you can. | |||
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"Hmmm bit depressing reading this, if I say “ I think you’re sexy “ or “ that new pic is stunning “ I 100% mean it." Do you say those things even if you haven't saw a face pic?? | |||
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"I do at first... Then I realise they just want to get into my knickers That's not true! And your bra as well... Yeah, this is true, but normally the bra falls off easily without comforting words 🤣" I think this needs to be tested in person 👀 | |||
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"Hmmm bit depressing reading this, if I say “ I think you’re sexy “ or “ that new pic is stunning “ I 100% mean it. Do you say those things even if you haven't saw a face pic??" If I’ve not seen a face pic then my comment would be tailored accordingly. For example “ you have a very sexy body” a pic can be stunning even without face showing imo. | |||
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"Unless you've exchanged face pics. How can you tell someone is handsome or beautiful? " Apparently it’s whether you wanna get in their pants… | |||
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"Unless you've exchanged face pics. How can you tell someone is handsome or beautiful? Apparently it’s whether you wanna get in their pants…" But what if I dont want to get in your pants, but I want to say you have a beautiful bum? Do I now have to not say it? Im confused 😂😂 | |||
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"When they call you beautiful? " believe nothing you hear and 10% of what you read. I have never owned a donkey or lived in that country where it was alleged to have taken place | |||
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"Huh So we either all have low self esteem Are a tad cynical Been on here long enough to know it's a load of shit Or we just see our own reflection daily so know the truth " I’d say I’m all of the above | |||
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"I know what I look like, I’ve lived with my face for a long time but I’ll take the compliment graciously xx 😄😄" That doesn't mean to say you see yourself as others would 🙂 | |||
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