FabSwingers.com forum: Women into younger guys

By *DM9 OP Man
1 week ago

london

Ive been on fab for nearly 2 years now & Ive seen a dropping trend of women/ couples who are into younger guys. Is this down to bad experiences or just preference changes? Id love to know

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By *offiacoolWoman
1 week ago

Alsager

Oooh, first post. Welcome to the forums

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By *ungjay500Man
1 week ago

Cardiff

Unfortunately there’s not many interested on here anymore.

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By *DM9 OP Man
1 week ago

london

Thank you😅 Slowly but surely discovering what Fab has to offer, embarrassingly 2 years into it haha!

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By *abulincsCouple
1 week ago

pe129 area

I’m

Partial to younger guys if they are respectful and of liking to me but seem thin on the ground x

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By *DM9 OP Man
1 week ago

london

"Unfortunately there’s not many interested on here anymore. "

Thats what I have been seeing over the past months, it peaks my curiosity about it. Part of my mind says a bad experience or even some who maybe dont have that experience and treat the meet selfishly by not understanding the dynamics well enough

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By *ungjay500Man
1 week ago

Cardiff

"Unfortunately there’s not many interested on here anymore.

Quite possibly mate, I just think it’s fear of younger lads not being able to give what they’re after or the stereotype of us being immature. Some guys obviously are and I understand why it puts women off but there are many of us who are the opposite just looking/hoping for a chance!

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By *DM9 OP Man
1 week ago

london

"I’m

Partial to younger guys if they are respectful and of liking to me but seem thin on the ground x"

I have to agree with your statement. I believe a lot of younger guys especially on here seem to come with an ungodly amount of self entitlement feeling that they’re not subject to even getting to know the person or couple to see if there is a smidge of chemistry. I would personally say they aren't here for the swinging aspect that the site was initially intended to provide but rather the “Sex” 🙄

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By *naswingdressWoman
1 week ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm into maturity and stability. While some younger guys display that, they're very much the exception. (That's not to say older guys always display it either, but it's more likely. I've been wary of guys in their 20s since about 2007)

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By *naswingdressWoman
1 week ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm into maturity and stability. While some younger guys display that, they're very much the exception. (That's not to say older guys always display it either, but it's more likely. I've been wary of guys in their 20s since about 2007)"

Yes, guys, I know you're all the exception. All of you are all the exception. Sure, Jan.

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By *DM9 OP Man
1 week ago

london

Interesting take, maturity is a big factor in these things i must say whereas stability I am unsure what would fall under that category. How would one define their stability other than career and education?

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By *naswingdressWoman
1 week ago

Manchester (she/her)

Subset of maturity. Behaving in predictable and constructive ways.

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By *urvytattedprincessWoman
1 week ago

Pentney

My type is younger guys. Usually mid 20s. But i am very picky. I have a type and i tend to stick to it!

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By *oungDumbSillyFunMan
1 week ago

leeds

"My type is younger guys. Usually mid 20s. But i am very picky. I have a type and i tend to stick to it!

can I just say, you look like my type I go for!😍 I love and prefer ladies not my age xx

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By *otstuff77Woman
1 week ago

Newtown

I like younger men. 32 is the youngest I've been with. I have a 20 yr old daughter so think I'd be pushing it if I went any younger 😅

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

People seem obsessed with age differences in others. Just ignore the age and enjoy the person.

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By *urvytattedprincessWoman
1 week ago

Pentney

"My type is younger guys. Usually mid 20s. But i am very picky. I have a type and i tend to stick to it!

can I just say, you look like my type I go for!😍 I love and prefer ladies not my age xx"

Why thank you!

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By *oungDumbSillyFunMan
1 week ago

leeds

"My type is younger guys. Usually mid 20s. But i am very picky. I have a type and i tend to stick to it!

can I just say, you look like my type I go for!😍 I love and prefer ladies not my age xx

Why thank you! "

Your most welcome gorgeous lady x

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
1 week ago

Chester

I prefer younger than me but not younger than my oldest child

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By *emptme1993Man
1 week ago

manchester

I seem to find it’s still a thing which I’m always happy with

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By *earditallWoman
1 week ago

Lancaster

"Ive been on fab for nearly 2 years now & Ive seen a dropping trend of women/ couples who are into younger guys. Is this down to bad experiences or just preference changes? Id love to know"

The women get older their age preference changes.

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By *inkShyWoman
1 week ago

near Windsor

I don't actively seek out younger men but I seem to only build a connection with, and meet, younger men.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
7 days ago

Central

No. But there's enormous amount of choice for us

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
7 days ago

London (She/Her)

Is it possible, OP, that the reason for your seeing a difference is that you’ve aged? I’m not saying it is, but 2 years ago you would have been 25 and I can imagine that’s a very convenient number to use when limiting your search of young men

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By (user no longer on site)
7 days ago

Haven’t noticed any

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By *estiswestMan
7 days ago

glasgow

Still exists, my partner would agree

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By *avecooper69Man
7 days ago

Benfleet

I think I'm on the older side lol

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By *oxy-RedWoman
7 days ago

pink panther territory

I think as us women get older our ages preferences changes,for me it certainly did as my two eldest sons ate now both on there 40s

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By *runkOnLustMan
7 days ago

West Yorkshire

Not 'young' anymore but just here to have a nosy

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By *uke02Man
7 days ago

Waterford City

I find women older then me so attractive

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By *enikaWoman
7 days ago

london

I get a lot of younger guys message me and I have no problem meeting with them if there is a bit of a connection

And I have met a few

I do find though a large portion of them aren't interested in looking for a connection they just want to have a fumble and move on

I also find from talking to other women and the younger guys a lot of the women are looking at the ages because of the kids they have. They don't want to go with anyone around the same ages as their kids. I dont have any kids myself but I do get it

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By *atinaChica54Woman
7 days ago

Marlborough

"People seem obsessed with age differences in others. Just ignore the age and enjoy the person. "

I agree

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By *couseBaldyMan
7 days ago

Liverpool

I don't think this is true.

I just think the pool of men increases 10x every week meaning the women/couples can be more picky for what they want which is a bonus for them.

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By *annyryder101Man
7 days ago

Ashton

Good morning how is everyone tell me your kinks fetishes message me maybe we click 😈

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By *illabongboy1971Man
7 days ago

Penicuik

Nothing wrong with fun when there's an age gap

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By *eneralKenobiMan
7 days ago

North Angus

For me it’s a thing of the past

I’m no longer young 😩

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By (user no longer on site)
7 days ago

I spent so much time chasing older ladies that I’ve now got old myself - bonus though Milf’s are now just women my own age

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By *he Silver FuxMan
7 days ago

Utero

I have a thing about their past, hence why I love older women…

I hear complaints from my female friends that have been with younger men - can’t relate, full of energy with no direction, inexperienced, selfish… a bull in a china shop situation and coming away from these experiences with a general feeling of ‘fun but left dissatisfied’

There’s also the general disbelief that a young man would truly be enamoured with the realistic appearance of an older woman…

There are however women that like these ‘young, dumb and full of cum types’ (Stiffler’s Moms that like to take these eager young men and their energy, permanent erections and direct it, tell them what to do and how to do it) so don’t despair- there’s also club nights designed specifically to bring older women together with younger men - Cubs ‘n’ Cougars being an example.

Good luck to you young sir.

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By *r SensualMan
7 days ago

London

Why is being “young” perceived as selling point? Surely one has more to offer than just that? 🤔🤷🏾‍♂️

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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7 days ago

Central

1 difference is probably that the women are probably more open and flexible about who they'll meet, older, younger, same age, etc - with good choice from each group but the younger guy has a much more restricted need and those to choose from.

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By *reolush98Man
7 days ago

Manchester

Personally I don’t think there’s anything wrong with younger guys, but I do think some of the reputation comes from low effort or immaturity and that affects everyone else in that age group.

At the same time though, I think there’s a bit of a mismatch in expectations.

Some people are looking for a proper connection, others are more about keeping things casual and neither is wrong, but it can clash.

End of the day, everyone’s here for their own reasons. I just think age gets blamed more than it should and how you come across probably matters more.

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By *enimSkirtCouple
7 days ago

Cannock Chase

We have a challenge for me (Laura) to get with an 18 year old and an 80 year old (not specifically but definitely a younger and older guy), just for a bit of fun.

We have found that the guys 25 and under seem so entitled, just incredibly up themselves that we have basically stopped looking.

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By *ractorlad3800Man
7 days ago

derbyshire

I do like a older woman but I’ve found it’s getting harder not sure if it’s the bad ones ruining it for me

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By *irralmanCHMan
6 days ago

birkenhead

No way, cougars are still very much active in my experience on dating apps

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By *irralmanCHMan
6 days ago

birkenhead

No way, cougars are still very much active in my experience on dating apps

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By *tudentForFunMan
3 days ago

Lurgan

Hopefully not

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By *revaunanceCouple
3 days ago

Exeter

Always on the lookout for younger guys, but they have to be able to communicate on Fab and in person. 'Hi wuu2' is not an attractive opening message, and messages like this are the vast majority of what we see in our inbox from prospective meets.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
3 days ago

Central

I'm growing older very disgracefully

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By *avecooper69Man
3 days ago

Benfleet

I love an older woman.

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By *actile TensionMan
3 days ago

Sussex

They're definitely out there, I live with one!

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By * RaisinBranCouple
2 days ago

Preston

"Always on the lookout for younger guys, but they have to be able to communicate on Fab and in person. 'Hi wuu2' is not an attractive opening message, and messages like this are the vast majority of what we see in our inbox from prospective meets."

this

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By *aitonelMan
2 days ago

Liverpool

The solution is simply get older 👍🏼

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By *kinmistressWoman
2 days ago

somewhere about

I love a younger gent, though must say more often then not we get chatting and arrange to meet and they dont show, maybe the fantasy of an older demanding woman sounds great in their head but when it comes to reality7 out of 10 bottle it and ghost for whatever reason.

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