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By *alandNita OP   Couple
1 week ago

Scunthorpe

I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British.

Who else is in the same boat?

Cal

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By *ellhungvweMan
1 week ago

Cheltenham

Not me. I have met ladies from many different places.

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By *aitonelMan
1 week ago

Liverpool

Can't say I am.

My romantic and sexual interactions have been fairly diverse.

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By *ayBeeTV/TS
1 week ago

Winchester


"I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British.

Who else is in the same boat?

Cal"

You don't like your food seasoned?

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By *aramel.desiresMan
1 week ago

Surrey

I love meeting people from with different cultures and from different parts of the world. It's what makes things beautiful and interesting.

In my opinion you are missing out!

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By *rightonsteveMan
1 week ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’ve had sex with 2 black ladies but they were English with Nigerian heritage other than that, no.

Not through choice, there just aren’t many non caucasian swingers down here. Hardly any Indian or Pakistani, hardly any Chinese, Japanese etc.

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By *alandNita OP   Couple
1 week ago

Scunthorpe


"I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British.

Who else is in the same boat?

Cal

You don't like your food seasoned?"

It's not been through choice, it's just never happened.

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By *og and MuseCouple
1 week ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I love south Asian and oriental women especially the really hot ones from Taiwan, Korea & Japan like Muse. Those blunt cuts , stockings & short pleated skirts , and almost always guaranteed a nice thick bush Muse however, prefers white women

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By *alandNita OP   Couple
1 week ago

Scunthorpe


"I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British.

Who else is in the same boat?

Cal"

It's not that I wouldn't like to, skin colour and personallity play no part in whether I find someone attractive or not.

As a couple, we have had threesomes with several blokes of colour, but never any ladies or couples.

Cal

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By *ontyboi76Man
1 week ago

Pontypridd

Why are you caring. Every woman is uniquely themselves. The fact you question makes you bit caught up in colour and whatever British is (personally never use that term).

What next counting blondes vs brunette vs red heads. Enjoy you have these experiences. Maybe have had love alo g the way. All makes life feel great.

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By *ornucopiaMan
1 week ago

Bexley

Since I went black I've not looked back!

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By *appy-go- luckyMan
1 week ago

pothole city

Ive had sexual interactions with black women and white women. Skin colour means little to me. It’s all about attraction and sexual chemistry.

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By *alandNita OP   Couple
1 week ago

Scunthorpe


"Why are you caring. Every woman is uniquely themselves. The fact you question makes you bit caught up in colour and whatever British is (personally never use that term).

What next counting blondes vs brunette vs red heads. Enjoy you have these experiences. Maybe have had love alo g the way. All makes life feel great. "

I'm not "caring" about it, just making an observation.

For me "British" would mean people who live in the UK and don't think of a different country as their "Home Country".

Cal

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By *earditallWoman
1 week ago

Lancaster

Variety is the spice of life

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By *eliWoman
1 week ago

.

No.

I wank - hit my diversity quota for the year.

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By *hams123Man
1 week ago

London

Not me. I've dated women from all over the world. I knew I was different from my friends because they all had a type (race/ethnicity). I'm attracted to character and curves. Each to their own.

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By *alandNita OP   Couple
1 week ago

Scunthorpe


"Variety is the spice of life "

I totally agree

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By *alandNita OP   Couple
1 week ago

Scunthorpe


"I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British.

Who else is in the same boat?

Cal

It's not that I wouldn't like to, skin colour and personallity play no part in whether I find someone attractive or not.

As a couple, we have had threesomes with several blokes of colour, but never any ladies or couples.

Cal"

We have, or more accurately, I have and you were present. You just had the pleasure of watching

Nita

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By *rownhotnessMan
1 week ago

North west/Midlands/London

I’ve only slept with white women

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By *wcoMan
1 week ago

West Midlands

It seems odd to me that somebody would feel the need to start a thread like this. Almost seems designed to provoke a debate.

Maybe it's just me.

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By *alandNita OP   Couple
1 week ago

Scunthorpe


"It seems odd to me that somebody would feel the need to start a thread like this. Almost seems designed to provoke a debate.

Maybe it's just me. "

Not a debate, just a conversation... which is surely a big part of what the forums are all about?

Cal

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By *evilinyouMan
1 week ago

Bristol


"I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British.

Who else is in the same boat?

Cal"

Fair enough

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By *ifelover999Man
1 week ago

Eastbourne

I love indian women such a turn on

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By *ornyguy666Man
1 week ago

Nottingham

When it comes to sex i guess is a out attraction i dont think it's racist i been turned down meets because I am not white I am ok about it

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago


"It seems odd to me that somebody would feel the need to start a thread like this. Almost seems designed to provoke a debate.

Maybe it's just me. "

The Forum is literally for people to debate and discuss things !

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By *viatrixWoman
1 week ago

Gatwick

I am neither white nor British.

I used to make a note of it in my profile bio because 2 men who I met at separate occasions at socials were shocked when they saw me (after seeing many photos 🤷‍♀️) and they were clearly uncomfortable and were desperate to leave.

Only 2 in 8 years though. That is not too bad though.

To me, race, ethnicity or nationality bears no weight in my interactions. I am lucky to know people from all over the world. My children are a combination of two amazing cultures, races and nationalities.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
1 week ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think too many people get hung up over race and ethnicity. If you like the person, what difference does it make?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
1 week ago

East Lincs

I too have never sex with a non British person.

Not through choice - the opportunity has never ever arisen.

It’s one of my fantasises to have sex with a foreign lady and her talk in her native language throughout…😈

K

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By *viatrixWoman
1 week ago

Gatwick


"I too have never sex with a non British person.

Not through choice - the opportunity has never ever arisen.

It’s one of my fantasises to have sex with a foreign lady and her talk in her native language throughout…😈

K"

Aqui estoy, par de guapos.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
1 week ago

couple, us we him her.

A holes a hole

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

People should fuck whoever they want (consensually) but my experience with Fab is that there's as much fetishising of people's 'colour' as there is prejudice, and neither is attractive.

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By *eliWoman
1 week ago

.


"People should fuck whoever they want (consensually) but my experience with Fab is that there's as much fetishising of people's 'colour' as there is prejudice, and neither is attractive."

👏

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By *otMediterraneanWoman
1 week ago

MK

I’m more then happy to have sex with any race of woman

Me and my husband have had sex with many different nationalities and ethnic backgrounds

Men only ever been white

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By *avidNPMan
1 week ago

manchester

Tell us your racist without saying it 🤣

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
1 week ago

Liverpool


"I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British.

Who else is in the same boat?

Cal"

I’ve not either but it’s because I’m only generally attracted to men who have light coloured eyes and black or mixed race men with light eyes are very rare. But Steel from Gladiators… yes please 😍

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By *ontyboi76Man
1 week ago

Pontypridd


"Why are you caring. Every woman is uniquely themselves. The fact you question makes you bit caught up in colour and whatever British is (personally never use that term).

What next counting blondes vs brunette vs red heads. Enjoy you have these experiences. Maybe have had love alo g the way. All makes life feel great.

I'm not "caring" about it, just making an observation.

For me "British" would mean people who live in the UK and don't think of a different country as their "Home Country".

Cal"

Not everyone uses the term British, it's not something the celtic nations often use or would admit to aas we have our own countries. But glad you said live and not born, rabbit hole avoided.

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By *alandNita OP   Couple
1 week ago

Scunthorpe


"Tell us your racist without saying it 🤣"

It's quite the opposite, I find the whole concept of disliking anybody based on anything other than their behaviour or personality really bizarre.

Cal

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By *eyond PurityCouple
1 week ago

East Lincs


"I too have never sex with a non British person.

Not through choice - the opportunity has never ever arisen.

It’s one of my fantasises to have sex with a foreign lady and her talk in her native language throughout…😈

K

Aqui estoy, par de guapos. "

Ponte tus tacones rojos 🥵

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
1 week ago

Crumpet Castle


"Tell us your racist without saying it 🤣"

Subconsciously perhaps ... i'm basing that on language alone..

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By *avidNPMan
1 week ago

manchester


"Tell us your racist without saying it 🤣

It's quite the opposite, I find the whole concept of disliking anybody based on anything other than their behaviour or personality really bizarre.

Cal"

I’m the same if your a twat your a twat no matter what coat you have on.

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By *avidNPMan
1 week ago

manchester


"Tell us your racist without saying it 🤣

Subconsciously perhaps ... i'm basing that on language alone.."

They say not racist so have to take them at their word.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
1 week ago

Crumpet Castle


"Tell us your racist without saying it 🤣

Subconsciously perhaps ... i'm basing that on language alone..

They say not racist so have to take them at their word. "

And I do - my curiosity was aroused via the thread title is all.

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By *alandNita OP   Couple
1 week ago

Scunthorpe


"Why are you caring. Every woman is uniquely themselves. The fact you question makes you bit caught up in colour and whatever British is (personally never use that term).

What next counting blondes vs brunette vs red heads. Enjoy you have these experiences. Maybe have had love alo g the way. All makes life feel great.

I'm not "caring" about it, just making an observation.

For me "British" would mean people who live in the UK and don't think of a different country as their "Home Country".

Cal

Not everyone uses the term British, it's not something the celtic nations often use or would admit to aas we have our own countries. But glad you said live and not born, rabbit hole avoided. "

I get that, and I don't mean to offend anyone from Scotland, Northern Ireland, or Wales, but I see their countries as part of our extended family, very much their own entity but still our favourite cousins... where (understandably) many of them will view England as their historic oppressors.

Cal

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
1 week ago

Crumpet Castle


"Why are you caring. Every woman is uniquely themselves. The fact you question makes you bit caught up in colour and whatever British is (personally never use that term).

What next counting blondes vs brunette vs red heads. Enjoy you have these experiences. Maybe have had love alo g the way. All makes life feel great.

I'm not "caring" about it, just making an observation.

For me "British" would mean people who live in the UK and don't think of a different country as their "Home Country".

Cal Not everyone uses the term British, it's not something the celtic nations often use or would admit to aas we have our own countries. But glad you said live and not born, rabbit hole avoided. "

Interesting take. Wales and Scotland are part of Britain and the inhabitants are British no matter how strongly they identify with their own section of Britain.

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By *alandNita OP   Couple
1 week ago

Scunthorpe


"Tell us your racist without saying it 🤣

It's quite the opposite, I find the whole concept of disliking anybody based on anything other than their behaviour or personality really bizarre.

Cal

I’m the same if your a twat your a twat no matter what coat you have on. "

Exactly...

The thread title was chosen to spark a discussion. Obviously the phrase "I'm not racist but" is followed by saying something which suggests that they very much are.

Cal

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 week ago

East Sussex

For clarity I'm not a man 😝

I was lucky in that I went to college in a culturally diverse city so had opportunities to mix with many races and made a disastrous marriage to a south Indian guy. I can tell you that it's not the colour of someone's skin that's important when it comes to sex and relationships, it's whether they're an arse or not

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By *2000ManMan
1 week ago

Worthing

I've proved a few times I am not racist.

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By *undayTarkaMan
1 week ago

South west


"I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British.

Who else is in the same boat?

Cal"

When I went to Bang Kwang my life changed

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By *aitonelMan
1 week ago

Liverpool

🤐 I'm going to be good and avoid saying more than this.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
1 week ago

Crumpet Castle


"I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British.

Who else is in the same boat?

Cal When I went to Bang Kwang my life changed "

Who is Kwang ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
1 week ago

Crumpet Castle


"🤐 I'm going to be good and avoid saying more than this.

"

It won't last

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By *an ClioCouple
1 week ago

Boston

I can't think of anything more British than going forth to fuck people of other nationalities and ethnicities. We built an empire on such a principle! God save the queen!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
1 week ago

Crumpet Castle


"I've proved a few times I am not racist. "

How did you prove it ? and who to ?

Very interesting

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
1 week ago

Crumpet Castle


"I can't think of anything more British than going forth to fuck people of other nationalities and ethnicities. We built an empire on such a principle! God save the queen!"

King ?

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By *cLovin2Man
1 week ago

London

Lovers, my friends are like a sweet shop. You are free to keep licking and tasting the sweets of one particular colour or type, if that's what you prefer.

But what are you missing when you don't taste every sweet in the shop?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
1 week ago

Crumpet Castle


"Lovers, my friends are like a sweet shop. You are free to keep licking and tasting the sweets of one particular colour or type, if that's what you prefer.

But what are you missing when you don't taste every sweet in the shop? "

I'll be the stooge for this one.

Which vaginas taste the sweetest ?

Would you do a blindfold test ?

Which race has the most fuckable arseholes ?

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By *wcjw70Man
1 week ago

Great Barr

I’ve had sex with black women

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By *alandNita OP   Couple
1 week ago

Scunthorpe


"Lovers, my friends are like a sweet shop. You are free to keep licking and tasting the sweets of one particular colour or type, if that's what you prefer.

But what are you missing when you don't taste every sweet in the shop? "

You only get the opportunities that present themselves though.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

Exactly the same boat, have always wanted to change that though 😈

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago


"Lovers, my friends are like a sweet shop. You are free to keep licking and tasting the sweets of one particular colour or type, if that's what you prefer.

But what are you missing when you don't taste every sweet in the shop? "

I believe Woolworths went bust because of customers licking all the sweets.

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By *inkystateofmindMan
1 week ago

Edinburgh

Definitely not the case for me. Met people from different places and I am not British though

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By *recticWoman
1 week ago

taunton

So you’re from Scunthorpe. 9 out of 10 people there are white British which is slightly more diverse than Taunton. Its lack of opportunities in your area more than your preference. If you lived elsewhere I expect your experiences would be different. I’d prefer to be in a more culturally diverse area because the lack of amenities in Somerset is shocking.

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
1 week ago

North Welsh Borders


"Why are you caring. Every woman is uniquely themselves. The fact you question makes you bit caught up in colour and whatever British is (personally never use that term).

What next counting blondes vs brunette vs red heads. Enjoy you have these experiences. Maybe have had love alo g the way. All makes life feel great.

I'm not "caring" about it, just making an observation.

For me "British" would mean people who live in the UK and don't think of a different country as their "Home Country".

Cal

Not everyone uses the term British, it's not something the celtic nations often use or would admit to aas we have our own countries. But glad you said live and not born, rabbit hole avoided.

I get that, and I don't mean to offend anyone from Scotland, Northern Ireland, or Wales, but I see their countries as part of our extended family, very much their own entity but still our favourite cousins... where (understandably) many of them will view England as their historic oppressors.

Cal"

Even though the Celts were here first?

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By *alandNita OP   Couple
1 week ago

Scunthorpe


"Why are you caring. Every woman is uniquely themselves. The fact you question makes you bit caught up in colour and whatever British is (personally never use that term).

What next counting blondes vs brunette vs red heads. Enjoy you have these experiences. Maybe have had love alo g the way. All makes life feel great.

I'm not "caring" about it, just making an observation.

For me "British" would mean people who live in the UK and don't think of a different country as their "Home Country".

Cal

Not everyone uses the term British, it's not something the celtic nations often use or would admit to aas we have our own countries. But glad you said live and not born, rabbit hole avoided.

I get that, and I don't mean to offend anyone from Scotland, Northern Ireland, or Wales, but I see their countries as part of our extended family, very much their own entity but still our favourite cousins... where (understandably) many of them will view England as their historic oppressors.

Cal

------

Even though the Celts were here first? "

I'm not ageist

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By *cLovin2Man
1 week ago

London


"Lovers, my friends are like a sweet shop. You are free to keep licking and tasting the sweets of one particular colour or type, if that's what you prefer.

But what are you missing when you don't taste every sweet in the shop?

I'll be the stooge for this one.

Which vaginas taste the sweetest ?

Would you do a blindfold test ?

Which race has the most fuckable arseholes ?"

Granny, I'm still experimenting, tasting all those wonderful flavours, and enjoying the different bumholes. When I get to a conclusion, you'll be the first to know 😉

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By *cLovin2Man
1 week ago

London


"Lovers, my friends are like a sweet shop. You are free to keep licking and tasting the sweets of one particular colour or type, if that's what you prefer.

But what are you missing when you don't taste every sweet in the shop?

I believe Woolworths went bust because of customers licking all the sweets."

Yeah, but if we're not allowed to do that why call it pic n mix? 🤔🤷🏽‍♂️

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By *ornucopiaMan
1 week ago

Bexley


"I’ve only slept with white women "

Try something different and you might enjoy staying awake all night on a date!

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By *ornucopiaMan
1 week ago

Bexley


"People should fuck whoever they want (consensually) but my experience with Fab is that there's as much fetishising of people's 'colour' as there is prejudice, and neither is attractive.

👏"

Fetishising is, of course, something that only other people do!

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By *exxyyDy11Man
1 week ago

North West

I've been with ladies who aren't White. My ex wasn't White. Well not true she was half actually.

But honestly, skin colour, melanin doesn't bother me in the slightest.

I do cringe at some accounts that broadcast stuff like "BBC only" or "BWC only". But honestly, they're adults and they can do what they like. As long as they're not breaking the law.

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By *hickthighs26Woman
1 week ago

your hotlist


"It seems odd to me that somebody would feel the need to start a thread like this. Almost seems designed to provoke a debate.

Maybe it's just me.

The Forum is literally for people to debate and discuss things !"

👍

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By *elanie De La CoeurTV/TS
1 week ago

Dublin

I've actually never had any sexual interaction with anyone who WAS British!

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By *lemFandango88Woman
1 week ago

Thirsk

A cock is a cock regardless of it's origin. I'm more interested in someone's mind. ( Demisexual )

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
1 week ago

Niche

I don't share the notion that you have to fill your diversity bingo card or you're an '-ist' of some kind.

Attraction should be unforced by external pressure.

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By *reolush98Man
1 week ago

Manchester

Well here's a question. Obviously fab is a very diverse place with different variations of skin colour. And I don't think it's racist to ask. But is fab predominantly white?

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By *hams123Man
1 week ago

London

Proximity, communication and opportunity are key to this. If you go to a social or to an area that is more diverse, you are more likely to interact with people from multiple ethnicities/races/cultures. Then you can decide if you are attracted to the people you meet there or not and vice versa. I'm a Londoner, so I'm used to seeing people from all over the world. There are so many beautiful people.

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By *hams123Man
1 week ago

London


"I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British.

Who else is in the same boat?

Cal

I’ve not either but it’s because I’m only generally attracted to men who have light coloured eyes and black or mixed race men with light eyes are very rare. But Steel from Gladiators… yes please 😍"

If it's eye colour you're generally attracted to there are some Asian men who have light green/blue eyes. I'm not one of them, I'm just saying they are out there, somewhere. 😉

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
1 week ago

Reading


"I love meeting people from with different cultures and from different parts of the world. It's what makes things beautiful and interesting.

In my opinion you are missing out!"

Totally agree.

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By *alandNita OP   Couple
1 week ago

Scunthorpe


"Well here's a question. Obviously fab is a very diverse place with different variations of skin colour. And I don't think it's racist to ask. But is fab predominantly white?"

Yes FAB is predominantly white, especially the women. Just to see, do a search. I just tried running a search for ladies within 20 miles... there were 287 in total, then I added the filter for "Black" and there is 1.

Try it yourself.

Cal

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By *reolush98Man
1 week ago

Manchester


"Well here's a question. Obviously fab is a very diverse place with different variations of skin colour. And I don't think it's racist to ask. But is fab predominantly white?

Yes FAB is predominantly white, especially the women. Just to see, do a search. I just tried running a search for ladies within 20 miles... there were 287 in total, then I added the filter for "Black" and there is 1.

Try it yourself.

Cal"

Why do you think this is the case?

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By *urry BlokeMan
1 week ago

"I'm not racist but... I am now going to say something distinctly racist"

Not your post OP, but that's generally how that statement starts and finishes

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By *urry BlokeMan
1 week ago

In answer to your post OP, my sexual partners have been wide and varied

Male, female, caucasian, latin, arabic, asian, oriental, black, mixed race, younger, my age, older, sub 5ft through to 6ft 10, slim / slender through to larger build, hairy, hairless, dark haired, fair haired...

Variety, as they say, is the spice of life

Everyone has their own 'je ne sais quoi' at the right moment

(I recognise some of the above terms may not be as currently acceptable as they once were btw - but are used with no malice intent)

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By *irthandgirthMan
1 week ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British.

Who else is in the same boat?

Cal"

28 nationalities (including 3 home nations)

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago


"I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British.

Who else is in the same boat?

Cal"

That doesn’t make you racist.

This topic is discussed quite frequently from different angles and points of view on both sites. But the bottom line is everyone is free to not have sex with whoever they choose not to on any basis.

Excluding an ethnic group might be a racist decision or it might be a personal preference. Is putting “black men only” or “no black men” on your profile racist. You could simply not put the preference on your profile and just ignore messages and nobody would be any the wiser.

I once dated a black girl who only dated white men because she didn’t like the way black men treated women. Her words not mine. Is she racist? Because if she is, then a white woman who only dates black men because she likes the way they treat women is therefore also racist.

If a white woman doesn’t like the way a black cocks look so refuses to have sex with black men, is that racist as it’s based on skin colour?

In my opinion if it’s not reasonable for a law to be passed to force people to act in a certain way then it’s a preference and not racist. The idea of making a law to force people to agree have sex with others based on their ethnic origin or skin colour is just ludicrous

And let’s not forget, being racist isn’t a crime.

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By *eroLondonMan
1 week ago

Mayfair


"Tell us your racist without saying it 🤣"

I'm a Sikh. Born in the UK, ergo British. By pure happenstance, fate, providence and the pure twisted randomness of life I have never dated/met/slept with a Sikh woman, despite intermingling with them during my adolescent years and through adulthood, from family events, university or workplace. That includes other women of 'Indian origin' that were specifically part of my milieu during those years that I mentioned above - Hindu, Muslim, Buddhist.

You'd think by the law of averages I would have met at least one. They were never interested. Equally so I didn't pursue them simply to add a feather to my cap. It was just one of those inexplicable things.

All the women I've 'met', courted or socialised with have been causasian. I didn't purposely go looking for white women; my interactions just transpired that way. Again, it was just one of those inexplicable things. It had nothing to do with racism or some subconscious aversion to 'brown/black' women. It's just fact, an observation, my musings and nothing more.

Do I ever think to myself "it's funny but I've never met an Asian/Indian woman in all my earthly travels, weird huh?". Yes. It's a thought that crops up in my mind perhaps once a year, triggered by something or by someone. It's not a negative feeling or a feeling born from resentment.

It's just one of those things.

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By *alandNita OP   Couple
1 week ago

Scunthorpe


"I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British.

Who else is in the same boat?

Cal

That doesn’t make you racist.

This topic is discussed quite frequently from different angles and points of view on both sites. But the bottom line is everyone is free to not have sex with whoever they choose not to on any basis.

Excluding an ethnic group might be a racist decision or it might be a personal preference. Is putting “black men only” or “no black men” on your profile racist. You could simply not put the preference on your profile and just ignore messages and nobody would be any the wiser.

I once dated a black girl who only dated white men because she didn’t like the way black men treated women. Her words not mine. Is she racist? Because if she is, then a white woman who only dates black men because she likes the way they treat women is therefore also racist.

If a white woman doesn’t like the way a black cocks look so refuses to have sex with black men, is that racist as it’s based on skin colour?

In my opinion if it’s not reasonable for a law to be passed to force people to act in a certain way then it’s a preference and not racist. The idea of making a law to force people to agree have sex with others based on their ethnic origin or skin colour is just ludicrous

And let’s not forget, being racist isn’t a crime.

"

I know it doesn't make me racist, that was literally the title of the thread 🤣

I don't even have a preference for any specific type of lady, I have just never been lucky enough.

Cal

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By *oastal1968Man
1 week ago

London/Stafford

I've had the pleasure of most skin tones (female). Male too but still waiting to sample my first BBC. Any offers please inbox me 😜

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By *arylRMan
1 week ago

Not me, definitely not restricted to white and British

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
1 week ago

someplace

There’s nothing wrong with that tbh, it only becomes an issue when someone says they’re not attracted to an entire ethnic group like huh?

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

I've had sex with most skin tones but I did used to own a tanning salon.

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By *ubySohoCDTV/TS
3 days ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

'SOUTH AFRICA!'

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By *ex HolesMan
3 days ago

Up North

Any port in a storm

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By *ou only live onceMan
3 days ago

London

Neither have I, but I'm brown, so go figure.

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By *oxy-RedWoman
3 days ago

pink panther territory

Same here ,but only because I've never had the opportunity to meet black,Asians or any other race

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By *iddlesticksMan
3 days ago

My nan’s spare room.

At least those poor souls that have shagged Trump can claim they’ve shagged orange.

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By *ourpornfixMan
3 days ago

East Cheshire

People who appear to be white and British undoubtedly have ancestry from further afield. There's no such thing as "pure British", we're all mongrels.

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By *oxy-RedWoman
3 days ago

pink panther territory

Mongrels 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *parkle1974Woman
3 days ago

Leeds

Me either

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By *ourpornfixMan
3 days ago

East Cheshire


"Mongrels 🤣🤣🤣🤣"

Energetic mongrels, according to H.A.L.Fisher

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By *oastofReadingMan
3 days ago

Reading

I don't seek out anyone based on their race, country or continent of birth.

If I find them attractive and they have something about them that makes me interested and aroused, it doesn't matter where they are from.

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By *oobsandbeard69Couple
3 days ago

Birmingham


"I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British.

Who else is in the same boat?

Cal

You don't like your food seasoned?"

Lmao 😂😂

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By *oobsandbeard69Couple
3 days ago

Birmingham

Really interesting replies. As a mixed race woman, I’d like to think the people who sleep with me would do so because they find me attractive as a whole, not because they have some form of diversity quota to meet or they “want to try a Black girl” or they only find me attractive because of my melanin lol

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
3 days ago

Motherwell

Diversity is what you need if you want to be the best if you want to beat the rest oooh Diversity.... Isss what you neeeeeeed . If you wanna be a record breaker yeh ! Apols to the late Great Roy Castle. Mx 👿😁

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By *essTTWoman
3 days ago

Birmingham


"It seems odd to me that somebody would feel the need to start a thread like this. Almost seems designed to provoke a debate.

Maybe it's just me. "

Agreed

And almost guaranteed to bring out the fetishizers and those who want to "try" a black or again woman

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By *730tMan
3 days ago

werrington

Met with most ladies of different backgrounds, live them all x

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By *ornucopiaMan
3 days ago

Bexley


"It seems odd to me that somebody would feel the need to start a thread like this. Almost seems designed to provoke a debate.

Maybe it's just me.

Agreed

And almost guaranteed to bring out the fetishizers and those who want to "try" a black or again woman"

Can't beat again women.

Much better than one offs!

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By *essTTWoman
3 days ago

Birmingham


"It seems odd to me that somebody would feel the need to start a thread like this. Almost seems designed to provoke a debate.

Maybe it's just me.

Agreed

And almost guaranteed to bring out the fetishizers and those who want to "try" a black or again woman"

*Asian women

🤦🏾‍♀️

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By *olgateMan
3 days ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I have exotic tastes

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
3 days ago

Manchester

I'm not a Brit myself

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
3 days ago

rochdale

I'm aware of my own hypocrisy.

I find ladies from Asian subcontinent very attractive, but I don't want to go to bed with Asian men. I've had one too many unpleasant interactions in that regard.

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By *cLovin2Man
2 days ago

London


"I'm aware of my own hypocrisy.

I find ladies from Asian subcontinent very attractive, but I don't want to go to bed with Asian men. I've had one too many unpleasant interactions in that regard.

"

😂 Everyone wants to fuck Asian women, us Asian blokes that no one seems to want 😂

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By *hams123Man
2 days ago

London


"I'm aware of my own hypocrisy.

I find ladies from Asian subcontinent very attractive, but I don't want to go to bed with Asian men. I've had one too many unpleasant interactions in that regard.

😂 Everyone wants to fuck Asian women, us Asian blokes that no one seems to want 😂"

This seems to be a common theme. Not just on here. On dating apps too. There are some people who are attracted to Asian men. Sometimes it is a fetish thing. "I've always wanted to try" or "I've never had". Sometimes it's genuine.

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By *andTlondonCouple
2 days ago

sw london

Neither of us have gone outside White/British,but we both find South Asian very attactive and T would like to meet one !

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By *andleit1980Man
2 days ago

BRISTOL

I've been fortunate enough to have slept with black women,one ex was from Poland

It's whoever takes your fancy and if their you

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By *cLovin2Man
2 days ago

London


"Neither of us have gone outside White/British,but we both find South Asian very attactive and T would like to meet one ! "

Are you after an Asian woman or Asian male?

Is there a reason why you have not been with anyone who isn't Caucasian Brit? Or has the opportunity just never come to you? 🤔

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
2 days ago

rochdale


"I'm aware of my own hypocrisy.

I find ladies from Asian subcontinent very attractive, but I don't want to go to bed with Asian men. I've had one too many unpleasant interactions in that regard.

😂 Everyone wants to fuck Asian women, us Asian blokes that no one seems to want 😂"

I have had a meet with an Asian guy, & there's been a couple in clubs.

Unfortunately the latter interactions have put me off.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
2 days ago

Walsall


"I'm aware of my own hypocrisy.

I find ladies from Asian subcontinent very attractive, but I don't want to go to bed with Asian men. I've had one too many unpleasant interactions in that regard.

😂 Everyone wants to fuck Asian women, us Asian blokes that no one seems to want 😂

I have had a meet with an Asian guy, & there's been a couple in clubs.

Unfortunately the latter interactions have put me off."

Have you had a bad meet with any other races?

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By *aterpistolMan
2 days ago

London

My first girlfriend was black British.

I have dated/hooked up with Spanish, Russian, German, Greek, Brazilian, Ugandan, Canadian, Philippine, Thai, Malaysian, Indian, Irish and maybe others that I cannot remember.

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By *abioMan
2 days ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

This thread has made me laugh… I think I must have been the representative for the United Nations when I was at Uni!!

That’s just a nice way of saying I was a bit of a tart!! I recognise game!!

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By *lofeldMan
2 days ago

Redhill

I think it's nice to mix it up, had some very good times with different types.

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