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"I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British. Who else is in the same boat? Cal" You don't like your food seasoned? | |||
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"I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British. Who else is in the same boat? Cal You don't like your food seasoned?" It's not been through choice, it's just never happened. | |||
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"I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British. Who else is in the same boat? Cal" It's not that I wouldn't like to, skin colour and personallity play no part in whether I find someone attractive or not. As a couple, we have had threesomes with several blokes of colour, but never any ladies or couples. Cal | |||
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"Why are you caring. Every woman is uniquely themselves. The fact you question makes you bit caught up in colour and whatever British is (personally never use that term). What next counting blondes vs brunette vs red heads. Enjoy you have these experiences. Maybe have had love alo g the way. All makes life feel great. " I'm not "caring" about it, just making an observation. For me "British" would mean people who live in the UK and don't think of a different country as their "Home Country". Cal | |||
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"I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British. Who else is in the same boat? Cal It's not that I wouldn't like to, skin colour and personallity play no part in whether I find someone attractive or not. As a couple, we have had threesomes with several blokes of colour, but never any ladies or couples. Cal" We have, or more accurately, I have and you were present. You just had the pleasure of watching | |||
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"It seems odd to me that somebody would feel the need to start a thread like this. Almost seems designed to provoke a debate. Maybe it's just me. " Not a debate, just a conversation... which is surely a big part of what the forums are all about? Cal | |||
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"I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British. Who else is in the same boat? Cal" Fair enough | |||
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"I too have never sex with a non British person. Not through choice - the opportunity has never ever arisen. It’s one of my fantasises to have sex with a foreign lady and her talk in her native language throughout…😈 K" Aqui estoy, par de guapos. | |||
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"People should fuck whoever they want (consensually) but my experience with Fab is that there's as much fetishising of people's 'colour' as there is prejudice, and neither is attractive." 👏 | |||
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"I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British. Who else is in the same boat? Cal" I’ve not either but it’s because I’m only generally attracted to men who have light coloured eyes and black or mixed race men with light eyes are very rare. But Steel from Gladiators… yes please 😍 | |||
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"Why are you caring. Every woman is uniquely themselves. The fact you question makes you bit caught up in colour and whatever British is (personally never use that term). What next counting blondes vs brunette vs red heads. Enjoy you have these experiences. Maybe have had love alo g the way. All makes life feel great. I'm not "caring" about it, just making an observation. For me "British" would mean people who live in the UK and don't think of a different country as their "Home Country". Cal" Not everyone uses the term British, it's not something the celtic nations often use or would admit to aas we have our own countries. But glad you said live and not born, rabbit hole avoided. | |||
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"Tell us your racist without saying it 🤣" It's quite the opposite, I find the whole concept of disliking anybody based on anything other than their behaviour or personality really bizarre. Cal | |||
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"I too have never sex with a non British person. Not through choice - the opportunity has never ever arisen. It’s one of my fantasises to have sex with a foreign lady and her talk in her native language throughout…😈 K Aqui estoy, par de guapos. Ponte tus tacones rojos 🥵 | |||
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"Tell us your racist without saying it 🤣" Subconsciously perhaps ... i'm basing that on language alone.. | |||
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"Tell us your racist without saying it 🤣 It's quite the opposite, I find the whole concept of disliking anybody based on anything other than their behaviour or personality really bizarre. Cal" I’m the same if your a twat your a twat no matter what coat you have on. | |||
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"Tell us your racist without saying it 🤣 Subconsciously perhaps ... i'm basing that on language alone.." They say not racist so have to take them at their word. | |||
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"Tell us your racist without saying it 🤣 Subconsciously perhaps ... i'm basing that on language alone.. They say not racist so have to take them at their word. " And I do - my curiosity was aroused via the thread title is all. | |||
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"Why are you caring. Every woman is uniquely themselves. The fact you question makes you bit caught up in colour and whatever British is (personally never use that term). What next counting blondes vs brunette vs red heads. Enjoy you have these experiences. Maybe have had love alo g the way. All makes life feel great. I'm not "caring" about it, just making an observation. For me "British" would mean people who live in the UK and don't think of a different country as their "Home Country". Cal Not everyone uses the term British, it's not something the celtic nations often use or would admit to aas we have our own countries. But glad you said live and not born, rabbit hole avoided. " I get that, and I don't mean to offend anyone from Scotland, Northern Ireland, or Wales, but I see their countries as part of our extended family, very much their own entity but still our favourite cousins... where (understandably) many of them will view England as their historic oppressors. Cal | |||
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"Why are you caring. Every woman is uniquely themselves. The fact you question makes you bit caught up in colour and whatever British is (personally never use that term). What next counting blondes vs brunette vs red heads. Enjoy you have these experiences. Maybe have had love alo g the way. All makes life feel great. I'm not "caring" about it, just making an observation. For me "British" would mean people who live in the UK and don't think of a different country as their "Home Country". Cal Not everyone uses the term British, it's not something the celtic nations often use or would admit to aas we have our own countries. But glad you said live and not born, rabbit hole avoided. " Interesting take. Wales and Scotland are part of Britain and the inhabitants are British no matter how strongly they identify with their own section of Britain. | |||
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"Tell us your racist without saying it 🤣 It's quite the opposite, I find the whole concept of disliking anybody based on anything other than their behaviour or personality really bizarre. Cal I’m the same if your a twat your a twat no matter what coat you have on. " Exactly... The thread title was chosen to spark a discussion. Obviously the phrase "I'm not racist but" is followed by saying something which suggests that they very much are. Cal | |||
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"I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British. Who else is in the same boat? Cal" When I went to Bang Kwang my life changed | |||
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"I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British. Who else is in the same boat? Cal When I went to Bang Kwang my life changed " Who is Kwang ? | |||
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"🤐 I'm going to be good and avoid saying more than this. " It won't last | |||
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"I've proved a few times I am not racist. How did you prove it ? and who to ? Very interesting | |||
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"I can't think of anything more British than going forth to fuck people of other nationalities and ethnicities. We built an empire on such a principle! God save the queen!" King ? | |||
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"Lovers, my friends are like a sweet shop. You are free to keep licking and tasting the sweets of one particular colour or type, if that's what you prefer. But what are you missing when you don't taste every sweet in the shop? " I'll be the stooge for this one. Which vaginas taste the sweetest ? Would you do a blindfold test ? Which race has the most fuckable arseholes ? | |||
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"Lovers, my friends are like a sweet shop. You are free to keep licking and tasting the sweets of one particular colour or type, if that's what you prefer. But what are you missing when you don't taste every sweet in the shop? " You only get the opportunities that present themselves though. Cal | |||
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"Lovers, my friends are like a sweet shop. You are free to keep licking and tasting the sweets of one particular colour or type, if that's what you prefer. But what are you missing when you don't taste every sweet in the shop? " I believe Woolworths went bust because of customers licking all the sweets. | |||
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"Why are you caring. Every woman is uniquely themselves. The fact you question makes you bit caught up in colour and whatever British is (personally never use that term). What next counting blondes vs brunette vs red heads. Enjoy you have these experiences. Maybe have had love alo g the way. All makes life feel great. I'm not "caring" about it, just making an observation. For me "British" would mean people who live in the UK and don't think of a different country as their "Home Country". Cal Not everyone uses the term British, it's not something the celtic nations often use or would admit to aas we have our own countries. But glad you said live and not born, rabbit hole avoided. I get that, and I don't mean to offend anyone from Scotland, Northern Ireland, or Wales, but I see their countries as part of our extended family, very much their own entity but still our favourite cousins... where (understandably) many of them will view England as their historic oppressors. Cal" Even though the Celts were here first? | |||
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"Why are you caring. Every woman is uniquely themselves. The fact you question makes you bit caught up in colour and whatever British is (personally never use that term). What next counting blondes vs brunette vs red heads. Enjoy you have these experiences. Maybe have had love alo g the way. All makes life feel great. I'm not "caring" about it, just making an observation. For me "British" would mean people who live in the UK and don't think of a different country as their "Home Country". Cal Not everyone uses the term British, it's not something the celtic nations often use or would admit to aas we have our own countries. But glad you said live and not born, rabbit hole avoided. I get that, and I don't mean to offend anyone from Scotland, Northern Ireland, or Wales, but I see their countries as part of our extended family, very much their own entity but still our favourite cousins... where (understandably) many of them will view England as their historic oppressors. Cal ------ Even though the Celts were here first? I'm not ageist | |||
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"Lovers, my friends are like a sweet shop. You are free to keep licking and tasting the sweets of one particular colour or type, if that's what you prefer. But what are you missing when you don't taste every sweet in the shop? I'll be the stooge for this one. Which vaginas taste the sweetest ? Would you do a blindfold test ? Which race has the most fuckable arseholes ?" Granny, I'm still experimenting, tasting all those wonderful flavours, and enjoying the different bumholes. When I get to a conclusion, you'll be the first to know 😉 | |||
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"Lovers, my friends are like a sweet shop. You are free to keep licking and tasting the sweets of one particular colour or type, if that's what you prefer. But what are you missing when you don't taste every sweet in the shop? I believe Woolworths went bust because of customers licking all the sweets." Yeah, but if we're not allowed to do that why call it pic n mix? 🤔🤷🏽♂️ | |||
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"I’ve only slept with white women Try something different and you might enjoy staying awake all night on a date! | |||
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"People should fuck whoever they want (consensually) but my experience with Fab is that there's as much fetishising of people's 'colour' as there is prejudice, and neither is attractive. 👏" Fetishising is, of course, something that only other people do! | |||
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"It seems odd to me that somebody would feel the need to start a thread like this. Almost seems designed to provoke a debate. Maybe it's just me. The Forum is literally for people to debate and discuss things !" 👍 | |||
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"I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British. Who else is in the same boat? Cal I’ve not either but it’s because I’m only generally attracted to men who have light coloured eyes and black or mixed race men with light eyes are very rare. But Steel from Gladiators… yes please 😍" If it's eye colour you're generally attracted to there are some Asian men who have light green/blue eyes. I'm not one of them, I'm just saying they are out there, somewhere. 😉 | |||
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"I love meeting people from with different cultures and from different parts of the world. It's what makes things beautiful and interesting. In my opinion you are missing out!" Totally agree. | |||
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"Well here's a question. Obviously fab is a very diverse place with different variations of skin colour. And I don't think it's racist to ask. But is fab predominantly white?" Yes FAB is predominantly white, especially the women. Just to see, do a search. I just tried running a search for ladies within 20 miles... there were 287 in total, then I added the filter for "Black" and there is 1. Try it yourself. Cal | |||
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"Well here's a question. Obviously fab is a very diverse place with different variations of skin colour. And I don't think it's racist to ask. But is fab predominantly white? Yes FAB is predominantly white, especially the women. Just to see, do a search. I just tried running a search for ladies within 20 miles... there were 287 in total, then I added the filter for "Black" and there is 1. Try it yourself. Cal" Why do you think this is the case? | |||
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"I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British. Who else is in the same boat? Cal" 28 nationalities (including 3 home nations) | |||
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"I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British. Who else is in the same boat? Cal" That doesn’t make you racist. This topic is discussed quite frequently from different angles and points of view on both sites. But the bottom line is everyone is free to not have sex with whoever they choose not to on any basis. Excluding an ethnic group might be a racist decision or it might be a personal preference. Is putting “black men only” or “no black men” on your profile racist. You could simply not put the preference on your profile and just ignore messages and nobody would be any the wiser. I once dated a black girl who only dated white men because she didn’t like the way black men treated women. Her words not mine. Is she racist? Because if she is, then a white woman who only dates black men because she likes the way they treat women is therefore also racist. If a white woman doesn’t like the way a black cocks look so refuses to have sex with black men, is that racist as it’s based on skin colour? In my opinion if it’s not reasonable for a law to be passed to force people to act in a certain way then it’s a preference and not racist. The idea of making a law to force people to agree have sex with others based on their ethnic origin or skin colour is just ludicrous And let’s not forget, being racist isn’t a crime. | |||
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"Tell us your racist without saying it 🤣" • I'm a Sikh. Born in the UK, ergo British. By pure happenstance, fate, providence and the pure twisted randomness of life I have never dated/met/slept with a Sikh woman, despite intermingling with them during my adolescent years and through adulthood, from family events, university or workplace. That includes other women of 'Indian origin' that were specifically part of my milieu during those years that I mentioned above - Hindu, Muslim, Buddhist. You'd think by the law of averages I would have met at least one. They were never interested. Equally so I didn't pursue them simply to add a feather to my cap. It was just one of those inexplicable things. All the women I've 'met', courted or socialised with have been causasian. I didn't purposely go looking for white women; my interactions just transpired that way. Again, it was just one of those inexplicable things. It had nothing to do with racism or some subconscious aversion to 'brown/black' women. It's just fact, an observation, my musings and nothing more. Do I ever think to myself "it's funny but I've never met an Asian/Indian woman in all my earthly travels, weird huh?". Yes. It's a thought that crops up in my mind perhaps once a year, triggered by something or by someone. It's not a negative feeling or a feeling born from resentment. It's just one of those things. | |||
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"I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British. Who else is in the same boat? Cal That doesn’t make you racist. This topic is discussed quite frequently from different angles and points of view on both sites. But the bottom line is everyone is free to not have sex with whoever they choose not to on any basis. Excluding an ethnic group might be a racist decision or it might be a personal preference. Is putting “black men only” or “no black men” on your profile racist. You could simply not put the preference on your profile and just ignore messages and nobody would be any the wiser. I once dated a black girl who only dated white men because she didn’t like the way black men treated women. Her words not mine. Is she racist? Because if she is, then a white woman who only dates black men because she likes the way they treat women is therefore also racist. If a white woman doesn’t like the way a black cocks look so refuses to have sex with black men, is that racist as it’s based on skin colour? In my opinion if it’s not reasonable for a law to be passed to force people to act in a certain way then it’s a preference and not racist. The idea of making a law to force people to agree have sex with others based on their ethnic origin or skin colour is just ludicrous And let’s not forget, being racist isn’t a crime. " | |||
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"Mongrels 🤣🤣🤣🤣" Energetic mongrels, according to H.A.L.Fisher | |||
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"I've never had ANY sort of sexual interaction with any woman who isn't white & British. Who else is in the same boat? Cal You don't like your food seasoned?" Lmao 😂😂 | |||
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"It seems odd to me that somebody would feel the need to start a thread like this. Almost seems designed to provoke a debate. Maybe it's just me. " Agreed And almost guaranteed to bring out the fetishizers and those who want to "try" a black or again woman | |||
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"It seems odd to me that somebody would feel the need to start a thread like this. Almost seems designed to provoke a debate. Maybe it's just me. Agreed And almost guaranteed to bring out the fetishizers and those who want to "try" a black or again woman" Can't beat again women. Much better than one offs! | |||
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"It seems odd to me that somebody would feel the need to start a thread like this. Almost seems designed to provoke a debate. Maybe it's just me. Agreed And almost guaranteed to bring out the fetishizers and those who want to "try" a black or again woman" *Asian women 🤦🏾♀️ | |||
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"I'm aware of my own hypocrisy. I find ladies from Asian subcontinent very attractive, but I don't want to go to bed with Asian men. I've had one too many unpleasant interactions in that regard. " 😂 Everyone wants to fuck Asian women, us Asian blokes that no one seems to want 😂 | |||
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"I'm aware of my own hypocrisy. I find ladies from Asian subcontinent very attractive, but I don't want to go to bed with Asian men. I've had one too many unpleasant interactions in that regard. 😂 Everyone wants to fuck Asian women, us Asian blokes that no one seems to want 😂" This seems to be a common theme. Not just on here. On dating apps too. There are some people who are attracted to Asian men. Sometimes it is a fetish thing. "I've always wanted to try" or "I've never had". Sometimes it's genuine. | |||
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"Neither of us have gone outside White/British,but we both find South Asian very attactive and T would like to meet one ! " Are you after an Asian woman or Asian male? Is there a reason why you have not been with anyone who isn't Caucasian Brit? Or has the opportunity just never come to you? 🤔 | |||
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"I'm aware of my own hypocrisy. I find ladies from Asian subcontinent very attractive, but I don't want to go to bed with Asian men. I've had one too many unpleasant interactions in that regard. 😂 Everyone wants to fuck Asian women, us Asian blokes that no one seems to want 😂" I have had a meet with an Asian guy, & there's been a couple in clubs. Unfortunately the latter interactions have put me off. | |||
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"I'm aware of my own hypocrisy. I find ladies from Asian subcontinent very attractive, but I don't want to go to bed with Asian men. I've had one too many unpleasant interactions in that regard. 😂 Everyone wants to fuck Asian women, us Asian blokes that no one seems to want 😂 I have had a meet with an Asian guy, & there's been a couple in clubs. Unfortunately the latter interactions have put me off." Have you had a bad meet with any other races? | |||
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