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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Howdy lovelies

Would you say your tastes/ what you’re looking for have changed since you arrived at this crazy world of fab ??

Nosey me

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By *lemFandango88Woman
2 weeks ago

Thirsk

Absolutely, I started on fab looking for ways to tick off some things on my bucket list. ( Fuck it list ) Now I'm bored by the club scene and find NSA very hollow. I'd say I don't know what I'm looking for. I use fab mostly fir the forums and the vids

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By *omeotherguyMan
2 weeks ago

Sheffield/London/Derbyshire

"Howdy lovelies

Would you say your tastes/ what you’re looking for have changed since you arrived at this crazy world of fab ??

Nosey me

I only became active again about 4 weeks ago, but yeah my tastes have changed in that time, and since my first stint. I'm just about getting back into the swing of things and when I came back I was a bit tentative. I was trying to be the me from my old profile on Fab. I've realised I've mellowed a lot and what I want and how I want to get it has changed completely. Much more selective (Despite the huge forum flirting fun) and the type of person I am interested in is less focussed on the physical.

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By *eliWoman
2 weeks ago

Yes. When I first joined I was looking for strictly NSA sex to explore sex with men. Zero friendships.

It took me maybe a month or so to realise that did very, very little for me.

And then there was a whole heap of discovering what worked. Right now it's not actually looking for anything. If things happen, great, if not, I'm very happy with my life and the people in it. ❤️

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By *morousCouple8Couple
2 weeks ago

Cumbria

Yup. MFM became our favourite when we thought it would be MFFM. Thought we’d hate clubs but do them more than private meets and really enjoy them - though haven’t been to one for a while. Right now it’s pretty quiet.

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By *hunky GentMan
2 weeks ago

Stamford, Lincs

Apparently, I have a passion for blue underwear.

Who knew? 🤷‍♂️

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"Absolutely, I started on fab looking for ways to tick off some things on my bucket list. ( Fuck it list ) Now I'm bored by the club scene and find NSA very hollow. I'd say I don't know what I'm looking for. I use fab mostly fir the forums and the vids

How come the club scene now bores you??

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"Howdy lovelies

Would you say your tastes/ what you’re looking for have changed since you arrived at this crazy world of fab ??

Nosey me

We all change

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"Yes. When I first joined I was looking for strictly NSA sex to explore sex with men. Zero friendships.

It took me maybe a month or so to realise that did very, very little for me.

And then there was a whole heap of discovering what worked. Right now it's not actually looking for anything. If things happen, great, if not, I'm very happy with my life and the people in it. ❤️"

What a great outlook

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"Yup. MFM became our favourite when we thought it would be MFFM. Thought we’d hate clubs but do them more than private meets and really enjoy them - though haven’t been to one for a while. Right now it’s pretty quiet. "

The wonderful fab of discovery

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"Apparently, I have a passion for blue underwear.

Who knew? 🤷‍♂️"

Wearing or seeing?

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
2 weeks ago

Reading

When I first joined it was to address a specific thing I was going through. Now I'm looking for something different!

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By *kphooey43Man
2 weeks ago

Barnet

Yes. I originally came on the site invited by a friend who became a fwb. I leave frequently but come back drawn by the Forum. I like the banter, sarcasm, humour and camaraderie, but not really looked to meet this time back, but who knows...

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By *layful Sub BratWoman
2 weeks ago

S. E. London

Definitely. I am looking for someone who suits my darker needs now. Hopefully on a regular basis, as ONS cannot meet needs.

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By *hunky GentMan
2 weeks ago

Stamford, Lincs

"Definitely. I am looking for someone who suits my darker needs now. Hopefully on a regular basis, as ONS cannot meet needs.

I don't mind the lights being off. 😆 🤣 😂

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By *WB85Man
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Its changed dramatically.

We joined here only looking for couples and wouldn't entertain anything else.

4 way attraction is a nightmare, and couples in general feel complicated....or it has for us anyway.

Now we focus more so on the solo aspect. For a family like ours, it removes the childcare restraints.

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By *hunky GentMan
2 weeks ago

Stamford, Lincs

"Apparently, I have a passion for blue underwear.

Who knew? 🤷‍♂️

Wearing or seeing?

Mainly seeing, but I do have a few pairs of blue trolleys.

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"When I first joined it was to address a specific thing I was going through. Now I'm looking for something different! "

New = exciting ?

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"Yes. I originally came on the site invited by a friend who became a fwb. I leave frequently but come back drawn by the Forum. I like the banter, sarcasm, humour and camaraderie, but not really looked to meet this time back, but who knows..."

Never say never

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"Definitely. I am looking for someone who suits my darker needs now. Hopefully on a regular basis, as ONS cannot meet needs.

Darker….. sounds intriguing

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By *lemFandango88Woman
2 weeks ago

Thirsk

How come the club scene now bores you?? "

I hope this doesn't offend anyone but it's just very clicky. I'm Demisexual so I find it difficult to be attracted to someone in a club.

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By *hil most chillMan
2 weeks ago

London, South East & Europe

"Yes. When I first joined I was looking for strictly NSA sex to explore sex with men. Zero friendships.

It took me maybe a month or so to realise that did very, very little for me.

This pretty much sums up how I approach the site too, apart from the sex with men part

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By *eliWoman
2 weeks ago

"Yes. When I first joined I was looking for strictly NSA sex to explore sex with men. Zero friendships.

It took me maybe a month or so to realise that did very, very little for me.

And then there was a whole heap of discovering what worked. Right now it's not actually looking for anything. If things happen, great, if not, I'm very happy with my life and the people in it. ❤️

This pretty much sums up how I approach the site too, apart from the sex with men part"

Yeah, never have sex with men, they're the worst.

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By *rincess_Peach1992Woman
2 weeks ago

Newport

Not exactly, the last time I did anything like this was 10 years ago, my tastes havent changed but the way I go about things has.

I have a lot more boundaries now, very selective, wont put up with bullshit 😊

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By *urhamStagMan
2 weeks ago

Durham

Started as a Hotwife / stag couple.

Now a bisexual cock loving caged stag

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By *hams123Man
2 weeks ago

London

Still here for the banter and occasional socials. If I manage to find a FWB that would be great but I won't bank on it. I've been to a few sex parties and get togethers. They were interesting. Some were a lot of fun. I did feel anxious in some settings and couldn't relax. I felt over stimulated by the noises and smells.

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

I think I've become a tad cynical over the years.

The things I want have become a tad kinkier.

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By *erry 58Man
2 weeks ago

doncaster

I only come in here for the burger van these days

Only way I can get my hands on a decent bap

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By *ustyT85Man
2 weeks ago

Swarthmoor

Yes I’m looking for people who match my kinkier/darker side

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP Man
1 week ago

Oxfordshire

How come the club scene now bores you??

I hope this doesn't offend anyone but it's just very clicky. I'm Demisexual so I find it difficult to be attracted to someone in a club. "

Well hopefully attraction is found

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP Man
1 week ago

Oxfordshire

"Not exactly, the last time I did anything like this was 10 years ago, my tastes havent changed but the way I go about things has.

I have a lot more boundaries now, very selective, wont put up with bullshit 😊"

Do it for you…. Not to suit others

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP Man
1 week ago

Oxfordshire

"Started as a Hotwife / stag couple.

Now a bisexual cock loving caged stag "

Big change

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By *rightonsteveMan
1 week ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I didn’t know what to expect except I thought it was mainly couples, dunno why. Fab has worked well for me.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
1 week ago

Hets/Beds/Leeds

I’ve forgotten what I joined for, and sometimes wonder why I’m here. Bit like taking the wrong bus but ending up somewhere that’s nicer than you knew.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
1 week ago

Next Door

Yes, mine has. I think thats because my needs in life has changed and what I want.

When I joined I wanted to explore everything and I probably have explored nearly everything and had so many good experiences and often repeated them. Nsa was my main thing

Now, im wanting a more intimate relationship but still open to regular nsa fun with the right people before that happens.

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP Man
1 week ago

Oxfordshire

"I’ve forgotten what I joined for, and sometimes wonder why I’m here. Bit like taking the wrong bus but ending up somewhere that’s nicer than you knew. "

So it’s better than expected?

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By *arierWoman
1 week ago

birmingham

Definitely! I came on here purely to explore my interest in women. That turned in to couple swapping with my husband, which led to solo meets and now I find myself in the position of unicorn for my friends 😂🦄

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
1 week ago

Hets/Beds/Leeds

"I’ve forgotten what I joined for, and sometimes wonder why I’m here. Bit like taking the wrong bus but ending up somewhere that’s nicer than you knew.

So it’s better than expected?"

I wouldn’t go that far.

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By *otwife_couple_hullCouple
1 week ago

Hull

Yes, recently. We changed city and have grown to change our relationship dynamic to the point where we needed a new profile to remove old baggage. Sadly we also lost 100s of veris but hey!

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By *atinaChica54Woman
1 week ago

Marlborough

Yes....I think I've evolved & having experienced things that I never anticipated trying when I first joined, but thoroughly enjoyed, I know more of what I want & definitely what I don't want.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
1 week ago

Leeds

Yes absolutely, I used to like men, then I joined fab & turned lesbian.

Mrs

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
1 week ago

Glasgow / London / Manchester

I joined to find threesomes. Stayed for the one-to-ones I hadn’t been looking for, but really treasured.

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By *an ClioCouple
1 week ago

Boston

After more than two decades swinging with multiple partners and making the transition to loving cock just as much as pussy I think I have changed a lot, but the biggest difference is not taking it at all seriously. Most of it was meh, over hyped nonsense. Some of it has been amazing, eye opening and transformative. It is the half dozen I remember well and fondly that trump the numbers who were just filler episodes. That and a good cup of tea with a fun chat is preferable to flogging a dead donkey.

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP Man
1 week ago

Oxfordshire

"Yes....I think I've evolved & having experienced things that I never anticipated trying when I first joined, but thoroughly enjoyed, I know more of what I want & definitely what I don't want."

Got to love the art of discovery

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By *astpoetTV/TS
1 week ago

London and Southampton

I joined many moons ago as a single man, fab made me realise I had ab interest in bdsm, that led to discovering pegging, the being open to my sexuality more, then to cross dressing and… well here we are now

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

No, still look for exactly the same and boundaries have not shifted either.

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
1 week ago

Motherwell

Yes I have been meeting more men than I did 16 years ago. Mx 😈🔥

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By *a LunaWoman
1 week ago

Wales

Yes, in that I am no longer actively looking to meet.

Casual sex is pretty unrewarding for me so I stopped.

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By *unseeker v2Man
1 week ago

Cardiff

"Yes, in that I am no longer actively looking to meet.

Casual sex is pretty unrewarding for me so I stopped.

Your profile pic shows you look stunning so that much hasn't changed

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP Man
1 week ago

Oxfordshire

"Yes I have been meeting more men than I did 16 years ago. Mx 😈🔥"

16 years on fab??

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP Man
1 week ago

Oxfordshire

"Yes, in that I am no longer actively looking to meet.

Casual sex is pretty unrewarding for me so I stopped.

It changes so we adapt right

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