FabSwingers.com forum: Searching for a fb/fwb

By *adyBugs OP Woman
2 weeks ago

not local even if it says I am

When searching for a new partner, how do you find yours?

Adverts on your profile?

Do you arrange a fab meeting advert and see what happens?

Do you go to arranged group socials?

How do you find someone to get into your pants as much as you want to get into theirs?

Curious, bugs 😘

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By *cherryblossom-Woman
2 weeks ago

South glos

I pay the Etsy witch to do a love spell for me

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 weeks ago

your hotlist

I go on the i fancy you threads because i know it guarantees me the sex 🤭

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By *ate2theparty808Man
2 weeks ago

Erdington

"When searching for a new partner, how do you find yours?

Adverts on your profile?

Do you arrange a fab meeting advert and see what happens?

Do you go to arranged group socials?

How do you find someone to get into your pants as much as you want to get into theirs?

Curious, bugs 😘"

I’m new to this, so I’m taking your questions as suggestions

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By *atinaChica54Woman
2 weeks ago

Marlborough

I just arrange 1 to 1 socials....usually local pub, few drinks, chat, see if actually attracted to each other in person & good vibes. If all good, invite them back to mine for the "practical" stage of "the interview process".🤓

They may look good on paper, but I need to witness & experience their knowledge & skills to assess their suitability for the role I'm looking to fill😉

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

If it's a guy, then one that's happy to be seen in bars and walking to and from them in a busy city centre. Too many guys just see Tgirls as someone to fuck and would rather not be seen in public with us.

Other Tgirls, they've got to be happy to leave their bloody bedroom for a start. A lot only glam up at home and have no wish to go out and do anything and I love hitting bars, so they're non-starters.

They've also got to wear make up and a wig, as not everyone does. Be a similar age to me, as I neither want to worry about someone expiring of old age, nor someone whose points of reference I don't get. Be good enough at this to more or less pass in public, too. I draw a lot of attention due to the perfectly reasonable sized boobs, but facially seem to pass a surprising amount of the time.

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By *idnightcowboy69Man
2 weeks ago

cirencester

"I go on the i fancy you threads because i know it guarantees me the sex 🤭"

Does it work 🤔

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By *adyBugs OP Woman
2 weeks ago

not local even if it says I am

"I just arrange 1 to 1 socials....usually local pub, few drinks, chat, see if actually attracted to each other in person & good vibes. If all good, invite them back to mine for the "practical" stage of "the interview process".🤓

They may look good on paper, but I need to witness & experience their knowledge & skills to assess their suitability for the role I'm looking to fill😉"

Love this 😁 a practical stage 😈

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 weeks ago

your hotlist

"I go on the i fancy you threads because i know it guarantees me the sex 🤭

Does it work 🤔"

Of course

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By *eliWoman
2 weeks ago

Bugs, too lazy to try and insert some of my poor humour in to this, it's a Bank Holiday Monday.

Not put as much pressure on it. Talk to people. I've never actively looked for any kind of dynamic but I have built friendships. Sometimes we end up fucking. A lot.

For me socials work because I like meeting/talking to new people without the cattle market feel. And the forums can be good a way to get in touch/connect without it being all sexy sex times.

(I don't really feel physical attraction without a friendship - someone can be attractive but I'm not attracted to them - undoubtedly that's shaped how I reply)

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By *WB85Man
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Local searches, browsing the forum and if i get a response arranging a social.

Its not a quick process, but when it works its a great feeling.

Good luck with your search.

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By *adyBugs OP Woman
2 weeks ago

not local even if it says I am

"If it's a guy, then one that's happy to be seen in bars and walking to and from them in a busy city centre. Too many guys just see Tgirls as someone to fuck and would rather not be seen in public with us.

That first line is a great tip for anyone I think. If they won’t meet you in public then why should they get to meet you in private?

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By *ergus1622Man
2 weeks ago

Dundee

I think fb or fwb is the way forward as one offs just arnt as much fun unless its a club setting or something similar.

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By *eekyscotMan
2 weeks ago

Rhyl

"When searching for a new partner, how do you find yours?

Adverts on your profile?

Do you arrange a fab meeting advert and see what happens?

Do you go to arranged group socials?

How do you find someone to get into your pants as much as you want to get into theirs?

Curious, bugs 😘"

This is something i lack in experience and would love to know the right way around it all as I'm not looking for something short term

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By *ochaManMan
2 weeks ago

The depths of your mind

"When searching for a new partner, how do you find yours?

Adverts on your profile?

Do you arrange a fab meeting advert and see what happens?

Do you go to arranged group socials?

How do you find someone to get into your pants as much as you want to get into theirs?

Curious, bugs 😘"

Organised socials, mostly. I love people and getting to know them so that works well for me.

Messing around on the forums has yielded good results. I find that I align well with witty, funny people - plenty of them on the forums.

Searching for users and sending out messages has a very low success rate for guys like me who are more gifted personality-wise than physically.

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By *ellowshipOfTheSwingCouple
2 weeks ago

Manchester

For us we’ve had the best results from meeting people in person at socials, clubs or events.

Sure they might have been initially excited by our geeky language or our poor camera skills but nothing quite captures people like our awkward silliness and in person lack of social skills.

Hope this helps

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By *ace400Man
2 weeks ago

my back yard

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By *ace400Man
2 weeks ago

my back yard

"When searching for a new partner, how do you find yours?

Adverts on your profile?

Do you arrange a fab meeting advert and see what happens?

Do you go to arranged group socials?

How do you find someone to get into your pants as much as you want to get into theirs?

Curious, bugs 😘"

I would like a fwb/fb but wouldn’t know where to start

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By *ellowshipOfTheSwingCouple
2 weeks ago

Manchester

"When searching for a new partner, how do you find yours?

Adverts on your profile?

Do you arrange a fab meeting advert and see what happens?

Do you go to arranged group socials?

How do you find someone to get into your pants as much as you want to get into theirs?

Curious, bugs 😘

I would like a fwb/fb but wouldn’t know where to start "

I think that people like the idea but aren’t always willing to put the effort into the F of the acronym.

The most important part is the friendship, not the benefits.

Maybe folks should try building friendships first and sex second

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By *earditallWoman
2 weeks ago

Lancaster

Has just come from talking lots meeting and having a mutual connection to lots of meets and from there really.

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By *hilly1515Man
2 weeks ago

"When searching for a new partner, how do you find yours?

Adverts on your profile?

Do you arrange a fab meeting advert and see what happens?

Do you go to arranged group socials?

How do you find someone to get into your pants as much as you want to get into theirs?

Curious, bugs 😘

I would like a fwb/fb but wouldn’t know where to start

I think that people like the idea but aren’t always willing to put the effort into the F of the acronym.

The most important part is the friendship, not the benefits.

Maybe folks should try building friendships first and sex second"

spot on think it sums it up well

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By *adyBugs OP Woman
2 weeks ago

not local even if it says I am

"When searching for a new partner, how do you find yours?

Adverts on your profile?

Do you arrange a fab meeting advert and see what happens?

Do you go to arranged group socials?

How do you find someone to get into your pants as much as you want to get into theirs?

Curious, bugs 😘

I would like a fwb/fb but wouldn’t know where to start

I think that people like the idea but aren’t always willing to put the effort into the F of the acronym.

The most important part is the friendship, not the benefits.

Maybe folks should try building friendships first and sex second"

🤔 my track record doesn’t seem to take things from friends though. Am broken 😂

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By *CExeCouple
2 weeks ago

Lincoln/Exeter

A swipe based 'dating' app has always worked well for me. Look for folks after short term and go from there.

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By *ace400Man
2 weeks ago

my back yard

"When searching for a new partner, how do you find yours?

Adverts on your profile?

Do you arrange a fab meeting advert and see what happens?

Do you go to arranged group socials?

How do you find someone to get into your pants as much as you want to get into theirs?

Curious, bugs 😘

I would like a fwb/fb but wouldn’t know where to start

I think that people like the idea but aren’t always willing to put the effort into the F of the acronym.

The most important part is the friendship, not the benefits.

Maybe folks should try building friendships first and sex second"
it would be great to meet and make friends

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By *adyBugs OP Woman
2 weeks ago

not local even if it says I am

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By *oomerangboyMan
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Every person I’ve met from here has been via an initial message from me, met for a social and gone from there,

Few have been long term fwb, although I’ve not met anyone for a while, it seems increasingly harder to get a conversation let alone a meet ! But we live in hope 😂 x

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
2 weeks ago

Coventry

Ironically we were both just looking to simply get laid on here. Inseparable from the end of the very first meet. Sometimes you just get more than you bargained for on Fab without even trying.

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By *he MinionMan
2 weeks ago

"When searching for a new partner, how do you find yours?

Adverts on your profile?

Do you arrange a fab meeting advert and see what happens?

Do you go to arranged group socials?

How do you find someone to get into your pants as much as you want to get into theirs?

Curious, bugs 😘

Organised socials, mostly. I love people and getting to know them so that works well for me.

Messing around on the forums has yielded good results. I find that I align well with witty, funny people - plenty of them on the forums.

Searching for users and sending out messages has a very low success rate for guys like me who are more gifted personality-wise than physically."

I agree with this.

I've not had a regular FWB this year so have been attending more socials and various clubs in an attempt to widen my social circle.

Most of my FWB relationships have begun from an initial meet at a social.

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By *ellowshipOfTheSwingCouple
2 weeks ago

Manchester

"When searching for a new partner, how do you find yours?

Adverts on your profile?

Do you arrange a fab meeting advert and see what happens?

Do you go to arranged group socials?

How do you find someone to get into your pants as much as you want to get into theirs?

Curious, bugs 😘

I would like a fwb/fb but wouldn’t know where to start

I think that people like the idea but aren’t always willing to put the effort into the F of the acronym.

The most important part is the friendship, not the benefits.

Maybe folks should try building friendships first and sex second

🤔 my track record doesn’t seem to take things from friends though. Am broken 😂 "

We’re friends. Just saying

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By *nglish_gent888Man
2 weeks ago

north yorkshire areas

Good thread .I'm yet to meet any1 . Is a hard process to find a genuine connection here it seems.good conversation and connection is key , attraction is a bonus sure. Alot if people have different views.some Wana sleep with as many people as they can . Some would rather have 1 fwb .I'm that kinda guy rather find 1 genuine fun exciting connection.happy Easter everyone

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
2 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"When searching for a new partner, how do you find yours?

Adverts on your profile?

Do you arrange a fab meeting advert and see what happens?

Do you go to arranged group socials?

How do you find someone to get into your pants as much as you want to get into theirs?

Curious, bugs 😘

I would like a fwb/fb but wouldn’t know where to start

I think that people like the idea but aren’t always willing to put the effort into the F of the acronym.

The most important part is the friendship, not the benefits.

Maybe folks should try building friendships first and sex second"

I think the term fwb is very vague and can be interpreted in different ways. A fb is more straightforward and I have found some via messaging on here, then a social before the sexy sex.

Mrs TMN x

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By *adyBugs OP Woman
2 weeks ago

not local even if it says I am

"When searching for a new partner, how do you find yours?

Adverts on your profile?

Do you arrange a fab meeting advert and see what happens?

Do you go to arranged group socials?

How do you find someone to get into your pants as much as you want to get into theirs?

Curious, bugs 😘

I would like a fwb/fb but wouldn’t know where to start

I think that people like the idea but aren’t always willing to put the effort into the F of the acronym.

The most important part is the friendship, not the benefits.

Maybe folks should try building friendships first and sex second

I think the term fwb is very vague and can be interpreted in different ways. A fb is more straightforward and I have found some via messaging on here, then a social before the sexy sex.

Mrs TMN x"

This is a great point Mrs TMN. Taaaaa x

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
2 weeks ago

Niche

I go fish.

They don't tend to jump on the hook all by themselves.

I put in the effort and find them.

Flirt. Wiggle my fingers and trill like I'm calling to a cute stray cat, praying it doesn't have fleas.

And just see what happens naturally.

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By *aters139Man
2 weeks ago

Sheffield

"When searching for a new partner, how do you find yours?

Adverts on your profile?

Do you arrange a fab meeting advert and see what happens?

Do you go to arranged group socials?

How do you find someone to get into your pants as much as you want to get into theirs?

Curious, bugs 😘"

I'll look for those who say in their profile that they are looking for fwb, and drop them a message.

Get no response... Keep looking... Rinse .... Repeat .. get bored... Talk crap in the forums... It's the gift that keeps on giving!

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By *ddie1966Man
2 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

I have a specially devised theory test that I send them.

If they reply, that's first Base.

If they reply by answering the questions... I'm in there.

If they get all the questions wrong, they're just my type....

They're very hard questions btw

They're written in Morse code, because we all know, all the nice girls like a sailor (or is it semen)

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Motherwell

I use the status on my profile, the meets and events and the usually private replies I receive from my forum posts. Mx 😈

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By *ick MastersMan
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Whatever I’m doing, it’s not working

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By *cLovin2Man
2 weeks ago

London

Socials, dating apps, plus messaging people on fab. Bugs, if you're coming to the cnl social, remind me I can introduce you to some guys if you feel shy. I'm usually the one in the brown leather jacket. 😉

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By *mandatomCouple
2 weeks ago

London

Amanda has been trying to get an online only fwb on here but it’s proved almost impossible. You would think for someone aged 25, slim and beautiful it would be easy, especially as she is looking for an older man. She has connected on telegram countless times but all have been time wasters

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By *oodmessMan
2 weeks ago

yumsville

You get a big stick and you start batting them away

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By *parkle1974Woman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

If someone catches my eye then I send them a message....nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Thankfully all have led to very good outcomes x

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By *haft10Man
2 weeks ago

Wandsworth

Kid-nap and chain

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
2 weeks ago

Lancashire

I think it can be a really difficult thing to find, especially when you go looking for it. Some people’s idea of a fwb is purely a booty call when horny. The friendship side takes time to build. When I’ve been successful in the past it’s just sort of developed naturally rather than that being the intention from the offset.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester

"When searching for a new partner, how do you find yours?

Adverts on your profile?

Do you arrange a fab meeting advert and see what happens?

Do you go to arranged group socials?

How do you find someone to get into your pants as much as you want to get into theirs?

Curious, bugs 😘"

I had it stated in my bio from day one

No ONS, no one offs, long term only

It's up to them if they want to 'apply' 😉

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By *rincess_Peach1992Woman
2 weeks ago

Newport

Sounds stupid but never thought of putting that in my bio - Im after the same thing!

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester

"Sounds stupid but never thought of putting that in my bio - Im after the same thing!"

It just saves a lot of typing and then asking questions

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By *orphia2003Woman
2 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Via people I meet at group socials usually, or friends of friends who I gel with.

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By *rightonsteveMan
2 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’d like a fwb or suchlike.

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By *hams123Man
2 weeks ago

London

Socials, status update and hopefully a few meets.

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By *adyBugs OP Woman
2 weeks ago

not local even if it says I am

Ooh you beautiful creatures are still adding tips to my post, thank you for your participation. There’s some great ideas in here ☺️

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By *elloWoman
2 weeks ago

alpha centauri

My last one I met at a swingers club, he was helping out that evening as door security but later in the evening he ended up inside the club spanking my behind, 12 years later and he's still in my contact list

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By *heTattooedDomMan
2 weeks ago

Winnersh

I’ve met one of my FWB off Reddit, the rest have been at clubs & socials.

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By *empestuous TemptressWoman
2 weeks ago

Neither here nor there

I thought I'd found one but think I've scared him off 🤣🤣

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