FabSwingers.com forum: Restraints?

By *tyoursecretservice OP Man
2 weeks ago

his Birthday suit x

Preferred choices and why!

Personally tried them all, as a Dom.

Always roll back to cling wrap as a favourite. Strong,durable, flexible.

Can be sprayed like latex. Used for mummification. Also comes in amazing colours for outfit matching and photography. Direct to bin when finished no body fluids to clean away afterwards.

Quite a master with it now. Pardon the pun.

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By *estiswestMan
2 weeks ago

glasgow

"Preferred choices and why!

Personally tried them all, as a Dom.

Always roll back to cling wrap as a favourite. Strong,durable, flexible.

Can be sprayed like latex. Used for mummification. Also comes in amazing colours for outfit matching and photography. Direct to bin when finished no body fluids to clean away afterwards.

Quite a master with it now. Pardon the pun."

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By *estiswestMan
2 weeks ago

glasgow

Interested in exploring this

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By *allySlinkyWoman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

I'm impressed you have tried them all.

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By *he National ThrustMan
2 weeks ago

Out standing in my field, Sussex

I'm quite a fan of 'Vetwrap' conforming bandage.

It's soft, breathable, non marking, but ever so tight when needed

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By *allySlinkyWoman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

How many different types of restraint are there ?

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

"I'm quite a fan of 'Vetwrap' conforming bandage.

I used that once on a little chiawawa.

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By *ittle_SecretsWoman
2 weeks ago

worthing

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By *he National ThrustMan
2 weeks ago

Out standing in my field, Sussex

"I'm quite a fan of 'Vetwrap' conforming bandage.

I used that once on a little chiawawa."

On an ickle paw, or all the way round to make a sort of chihuahua wellington?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

I used that once on a little chiawawa."

Is that your pet name for a penis ?

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I used that once on a little chiawawa.

Is that your pet name for a penis ?"

He did enjoy a stroke

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By *allySlinkyWoman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

"all the way round to make a sort of chihuahua wellington?"

Was it tough as old boots ?

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By *ampireLoveMan
2 weeks ago

Essex

Handcuffs and a taser? Tear gas and rubber bullets for crowds? 🤷🏽‍♂️

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
2 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

Op im interested in how many kinds of restraints there are

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By *he National ThrustMan
2 weeks ago

Out standing in my field, Sussex

"all the way round to make a sort of chihuahua wellington?

Was it tough as old boots ?"

They might be snarling possessed little maniacs, but I quite like the lil Mexicans.

Maybe it's the brattiness

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By *ardiff stag and vixenCouple
2 weeks ago

cardiff

Love being tied down

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
2 weeks ago

Midlands

We have the under mattress restraints. They're a thumbs up from me.

Katie.

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By *tyoursecretservice OP Man
2 weeks ago

his Birthday suit x

Ok, so it seems there's a lot of unimaginative people on here when it comes to restrains.

I get I said I've tried them all. Trust me. myself and ex-wife are both very very imaginative.

Ask me for a list it's plentiful.

Get out more and explore more if you can't get past rope chain wrap bandage cable tie silk wire nylons/stockings belts straps.

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By *vaRoseWoman
2 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

I think rope and leather are the most aesthetic.

There’s something beautiful about tying someone, that slow and sensual feeling of rope running over skin.

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By *lirtyFilthWoman
2 weeks ago

Barnstaple

"Handcuffs and a taser? Tear gas and rubber bullets for crowds? 🤷🏽‍♂️"

Ooo! I’ll take me some of that! 😈

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By *ub_BDSM_GirlWoman
2 weeks ago

Wirral

Ratchet straps are the go to, when not using chains or cement.

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By *og and MuseCouple
2 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I have the industrial cling wrap on a 1m roll it's much stronger. Also like bondage tape , ropes, belts and thick metal chains but my fave is using my own body to restrain. No really into any of the made for restraint kits, anklets etc prefer it to be improvised and unique each time

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By *og and MuseCouple
2 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Restraint is much than than what you use.

People enjoy different aspects of restraint - the physical feeling of a body or cold chains , rope or tape stopping them move, or a crushing presence of a person and being unable to stop what's going to happen even if they wanted to, the mental feeling of having no control, being trapped, vulnerable, cornered, over powered, captured, siezed (won't say the banned word!) but are all different scenarios to role play involving restraint. The trust involved creates chemistry. I'm not a huge fan of restraining strangers but the lack of trust & risk can also create a different chemistry.

Attention becomes focused on touch, which is heightened, especially if using a blindfold & noise cancelling headphones, and anticipation and timing

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

"Ratchet straps are the go to, when not using chains or cement."

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
2 weeks ago

North Welsh Borders

Which cling wrap is best? Have you tried all the brands? Aldi or Lidls?

And when you wrap up a person up in cling wrap do you have to wrestle with it to find the end like you do with a roll when you want to unravel?

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester

We have them under the mattress fastened to the bed frame 😈

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I've heard of a Daddy fetish, I guess wrapping someone in clingfilm is a Mummy fetish.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
2 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

What was the pun ?

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By *he MinionMan
2 weeks ago

Never used clingfilm. Just the usual under the bed with handcuffs set up.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

"Just the usual under the bed with handcuffs set up."

Isn't it very restrictive space under the bed and a bit dusty ? I prefer on the bed.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
2 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

I've been using a lot of restraint of late but I still keep hitting the biscuit barrel

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
2 weeks ago

Reading

Never tried it.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

"Never tried it."

Hitting the biscuit barrel ?

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By *ate2theparty808Man
2 weeks ago

Erdington

Rope, I like the way it looks and although there are a million other options, I just like the way rope looks.

I’m by no means an expert, I have never had a partner to try rope play with, but when you see the work of real experts in shibari, it’s breathtaking how they can think 10-15 knits ahead to create art from rope using the human body as a canvas, it’s not even sexual at this point I’m just in awe.

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By *ensualMan
2 weeks ago

Sutton

"Ok, so it seems there's a lot of unimaginative people on here when it comes to restrains.

I get I said I've tried them all. Trust me. myself and ex-wife are both very very imaginative.

Ask me for a list it's plentiful.

Get out more and explore more if you can't get past rope chain wrap bandage cable tie silk wire nylons/stockings belts straps. "

To say that not using different types is unimaginative, sounds a bit kink/fetish lifestyle to me.

It is like people asking what kinks/fetish have you tried. To my mind the addage of being a supporter applies. You don't choose your team, your team chooses you.

For me discovering rope as practised and popularised in Japan in the second half of the 21st century (I will inaccurately call kinbaku) was the missing piece . In my view kinbaku is different from pure restraint. Clearly if you want pure restraint there are quicker and simpler methods than rope. Kinbaku is about connection, it can be erotic,sexual or for suffering (semenawa). Kinbaku, similar to martial arts, has different schools (ryu). Ranging from Yukimuran, or semenawa associated with Naka Akira, to Kazami Ranki style and many more.The style you choose will come down to personal interest and the interest of the person being tied.

If you step out of kinbaku to rope bondage, there is Chinese 5 flower style or good old Western bondage used for decoration, meditation or restraint.

At the end of the day it is not the lack of imagination, but having discovered something that satisfies the inner soul means for some of us, there is no need to try anything else.

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