FabSwingers.com forum: A deep and meaningful question for the ladies...

By *cLovin2 OP Man
2 weeks ago

London

Spanking... Yay or Nay. Discuss. 🤔

Just to be clear, this is receiving and giving. Let's be equal opportunities about this 😉

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By *morousCouple8Couple
2 weeks ago

Cumbria

YAYYYYYY for receiving. I could be open to give. But I haven’t yet. Leave red cheeks - thanks very much 😘

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By *ineapplePixieCouple
2 weeks ago

S.Wales

Yes, absolutely love it with both giving and receiving! 😈 ✨️

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By *earditallWoman
2 weeks ago

Lancaster

Yes to both but enjoy receiving more.

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By *vaRoseWoman
2 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Yes to both but enjoy the giving more.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Round the bend

Not really done much giving, but I do like receiving

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

Receiving, off a guy that knows what he's doing, yeah. Don't tap it like you're scared you're gonna break it.

Giving? God no, I like my men to take charge.

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
2 weeks ago

Lancashire

Receiving YES! Selfishly, I have zero interest in giving.

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By *londie 999Woman
2 weeks ago

staffs

"Receiving, off a guy that knows what he's doing, yeah. Don't tap it like you're scared you're gonna break it.

Giving? God no, I like my men to take charge. "

This!!

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By *hilly1515Man
2 weeks ago

Being serious now does this have a moderately related connection to the mask thing,

Don't worry I am not auditioning to be Mr Grey.

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
2 weeks ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

It's a no for me totally turn off

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By *etwife8230Couple
2 weeks ago

Newport

Receiving yes .

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By *onin25Man
2 weeks ago

Durham

I always worry I'd hurt a woman, if I spanked her as hard as I could so I hold back.

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By *orphia2003Woman
2 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Giving yes definitely.

Receiving. No thanks.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
2 weeks ago

East Lincs

I love to give and C loves to receive.

C has found she’s dominant with another lady and has spanked a couple, which is hot 🥵

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By *earditallWoman
2 weeks ago

Lancaster

"I always worry I'd hurt a woman, if I spanked her as hard as I could so I hold back. "

They will let you know whats enough if they aren't you can go harder

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By *r_Mrs.DSCouple
2 weeks ago

Voldsøy

Receiving? Absolutely! I don't mind giving if they want it

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Round the bend

"I always worry I'd hurt a woman, if I spanked her as hard as I could so I hold back. "

Don't hold back 😈

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By *hams123Man
2 weeks ago

London

"I always worry I'd hurt a woman, if I spanked her as hard as I could so I hold back. "

Same here. I don't know my own strength. Sometimes it feels like the world is made of cardboard. I have to be careful not to break something.

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By *ineapplePixieCouple
2 weeks ago

S.Wales

"I always worry I'd hurt a woman, if I spanked her as hard as I could so I hold back. "

Start off light and work your way up, the recipient will let you know when maximum spanking has been reached 😉✨️

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By *ou only live onceMan
2 weeks ago

London

"I always worry I'd hurt a woman, if I spanked her as hard as I could so I hold back.

Same here. I don't know my own strength. Sometimes it feels like the world is made of cardboard. I have to be careful not to break something."

I think you'll be ok, Superman! 🦸🏽

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By *hefoxesofpenCouple
2 weeks ago

chester

Yes please. I own several spanking skirts and dresses, paddles, floggers etc and enjoy giving and receiving

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By *ou only live onceMan
2 weeks ago

London

"I always worry I'd hurt a woman, if I spanked her as hard as I could so I hold back.

Same here. I don't know my own strength. Sometimes it feels like the world is made of cardboard. I have to be careful not to break something.

I think you'll be ok, Superman! 🦸🏽"

Sorry that sounded ruder than it meant to - only joshing, Shams.

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By *izandpaulCouple
2 weeks ago

merseyside

No.

Never done it for me.

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By *viatrixWoman
2 weeks ago

Gatwick

Receiving- YES! but only on my request.

Giving- I prefer biting

but yeah, a nice spank on a cute arse is most satisfying

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By *legantEnigmaWoman
2 weeks ago

South of the Watford Gap

Nay, to both ways.

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By *sWyldWoman
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

A playful one at the right moment by the right person can feel good

Constant spanking..no thanks

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By *cLovin2 OP Man
2 weeks ago

London

"Receiving, off a guy that knows what he's doing, yeah. Don't tap it like you're scared you're gonna break it.

Giving? God no, I like my men to take charge. "

That's surprising, I had you down as more of a giver...

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By *cLovin2 OP Man
2 weeks ago

London

"Yes, absolutely love it with both giving and receiving! 😈 ✨️"

I don't normally receive, but I'd make it an exception in your case Mrs 😉

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By *ellinever70Woman
2 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Nope

I'm not a naughty child

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By *cLovin2 OP Man
2 weeks ago

London

"Yes please. I own several spanking skirts and dresses, paddles, floggers etc and enjoy giving and receiving "

There are special spanking skirts and dresses? 🤨 Why have I not heard about this? 🧐

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By *cLovin2 OP Man
2 weeks ago

London

"Nay, to both ways."

There's always one... 😁

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By *a LunaWoman
2 weeks ago

Wales

Nay to both. In fact if you spank me hard and it hurts I’ll get arsey.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Not that keen

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester

I'm quite partial to the occasional slap 😈

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By *tormQueenWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

Not for me, i dont get spanked 😡

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By *EriversidecplCouple
2 weeks ago

Sunderland

Yes to both, same for hubby

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By *ruella DeThrillWoman
2 weeks ago

Essex

Ehh

I’m too much either way 🤣

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By *ineapplePixieCouple
2 weeks ago

S.Wales

"Yes, absolutely love it with both giving and receiving! 😈 ✨️

I don't normally receive, but I'd make it an exception in your case Mrs 😉"

Hand, paddle or riding crop 😉✨️

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By *othantscoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Northampton

Yes, giving and receiving

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
2 weeks ago

Didsbury

It’s actually a genetic choice. Some people get an endorphin hit from pain which can give them a giddy high. Other people just feel the pain. It’s the same high long distance runners get when they hit the wall.

I’m in the latter group and get no pleasure from being spanked.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

Very much yay to receiving.

My more dominant side doesn't really get a lot from giving it out, I have different kinks in that regard. But I'd be open to exploring it more from a slight "service top" dynamic if it felt right with a partner.

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By *aster N NaughtyCouple
2 weeks ago

deal

Definitely into receiving

Mrs

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By *ou345Woman
2 weeks ago

Derby

Receiving yes please!

Giving... I haven't tried but if a partner was keen I'd give it a go.

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By *ightsOutCouple
2 weeks ago

It’s a long way

Yes to receiving 😍

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By *cLovin2 OP Man
2 weeks ago

London

"Yes, absolutely love it with both giving and receiving! 😈 ✨️

I don't normally receive, but I'd make it an exception in your case Mrs 😉

Hand, paddle or riding crop 😉✨️"

Ladies choice, 😳🤦🏽‍♂️

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By *cLovin2 OP Man
2 weeks ago

London

Judging by the response so far, it seems the fab ladies mostly love to receive it with a handful of exceptions (weirdos) 😂

So onto the next deep question for the ladies;

Restraints. Yay or nay? Discuss.

By Restraints I include handcuffs, rope restraints, shibari or your personal choice of restraint.

Yay or nay? Please indicate if this is something you have done or want to do.

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By *ineapplePixieCouple
2 weeks ago

S.Wales

"Yes, absolutely love it with both giving and receiving! 😈 ✨️

I don't normally receive, but I'd make it an exception in your case Mrs 😉

Hand, paddle or riding crop 😉✨️

Ladies choice, 😳🤦🏽‍♂️"

All three it is then 😉

Also yes to restraints 😈✨️

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By *cLovin2 OP Man
2 weeks ago

London

"Yes, absolutely love it with both giving and receiving! 😈 ✨️

I don't normally receive, but I'd make it an exception in your case Mrs 😉

Hand, paddle or riding crop 😉✨️

Ladies choice, 😳🤦🏽‍♂️

All three it is then 😉

Also yes to restraints 😈✨️"

Yikes 😳, I knew I liked you 🤣

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By *eliWoman
2 weeks ago

Yay, yay and thrice yay.

Shan't be discussing as discuss makes my vagina dry up and retreat but it's a lot of yay.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

I don’t mind the occasional slap but wouldn’t want to be put over someone’s knee. Also would not want to spank a man at all… not my thing.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

In regards to restraints, that’s a nay to both giving and receiving, with the exception of being pinned down by my wrists or being held against a wall, maybes an occasional hand around my neck if I trust the man I'm with.

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By *legantEnigmaWoman
2 weeks ago

South of the Watford Gap

Ok, so I'm one of the supposed weirdos.

Restraints? Yes, I quite like being restrained on occasion - by the right person who knows my triggers and where and when to push my buttons, as it were. Not going to submit to just anyone!

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By *lirtyFilthWoman
2 weeks ago

Barnstaple

Erotic spanking yes to receiving

Not so keen on giving.

Have been full on slapped into next week with one guy. No warm up. Not pleasant.

Restraints are a definite yes with a trusted partner

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By *d4funtimesMan
2 weeks ago

Cambridge

"Erotic spanking yes to receiving

Not so keen on giving.

Have been full on slapped into next week with one guy. No warm up. Not pleasant.

Restraints are a definite yes with a trusted partner "

FlirtyFilth, irresistible sexy bum to spank 😋

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By *ellinever70Woman
2 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"Judging by the response so far, it seems the fab ladies mostly love to receive it with a handful of exceptions (weirdos) 😂

Let's not generalise based on a niche sample...it wouldn't do to let men think it's the done thing

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By *carlettsWoman
2 weeks ago

Harpenden

Do love a good spanking (pleasure/pain)

Prefer recieving but happy to give too as I'm that kinda gal

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By *ollysgonelookingWoman
2 weeks ago

Caernarfon

Yes to receiving a good spanking, but not as a constant. Done at the right time is mind blowing.

Restraints.. sometimes

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By *earditallWoman
2 weeks ago

Lancaster

"Judging by the response so far, it seems the fab ladies mostly love to receive it with a handful of exceptions (weirdos) 😂

So onto the next deep question for the ladies;

Restraints. Yay or nay? Discuss.

By Restraints I include handcuffs, rope restraints, shibari or your personal choice of restraint.

Yay or nay? Please indicate if this is something you have done or want to do."

Yay but only with someone I trust I don't mind doing it to someone either if they ask but I prefer it being done to me.

Ive tried pretty much all types of restraint and some shibari in the past.

Quite like a spreader bar.

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By *oneyBee200Woman
2 weeks ago

Kent

Looks like I’m in the minority of no thanks. Spank your own atse if you want to spank something 🖤

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By *otMediterraneanWoman
2 weeks ago

Yes !

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By *kphooey43Man
2 weeks ago

Barnet

"Spanking... Yay or Nay?"

Depends on the part of the nation you are in.

Corporal punishment prohibited in Scotland (2020) and Wales (2022), but 'reasonable chastisement' can be used in England and Northern Ireland!

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By *viatrixWoman
2 weeks ago

Gatwick

We have tried restraints and in all honesty, I only enjoy them for a short while.

I want to be able to touch, caress and feel my partner. Being restrained frustrates me and kind of detaches me from the experience instead of focusing more on sensations etc.

Same with blindfolds. Depriving me from being able to see my gorgeous partner takes away much of the experience for me.

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By *atinaChica54Woman
2 weeks ago

Marlborough

"A playful one at the right moment by the right person can feel good

Constant spanking..no thanks "

This⬆️for me also & at my request. Plus I regulate the level of spanking, not too hard for me.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

Central

More receiving but I like to spank too

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By *hams123Man
2 weeks ago

London

"I always worry I'd hurt a woman, if I spanked her as hard as I could so I hold back.

Same here. I don't know my own strength. Sometimes it feels like the world is made of cardboard. I have to be careful not to break something.

I think you'll be ok, Superman! 🦸🏽

Sorry that sounded ruder than it meant to - only joshing, Shams."

It didn't sound rude at all. I'm glad someone understood the reference 👍🏾☺️

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By *cLovin2 OP Man
2 weeks ago

London

"Judging by the response so far, it seems the fab ladies mostly love to receive it with a handful of exceptions (weirdos) 😂

Let's not generalise based on a niche sample...it wouldn't do to let men think it's the done thing "

Of course, I obviously meant it in jest. It would be foolish for anyone to assume a person liked something based on this.

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By *urvytattedprincessWoman
2 weeks ago

Pentney

Yes for both....particularly from someone who understands how to do it properly

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