FabSwingers.com forum: Turn off

By *unkissedYorkie OP Man
2 weeks ago

BRADFORD/LEEDS

What's an instant turn off if you see it on their profile?

Like you've been really into then and then you've seen something and every bit of desire just leaves.

Be it a photo, video or something wrote in the profile.

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By *htcMan
2 weeks ago

Hundreds of verifications or profile as long as a book.

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By *carlettsWoman
2 weeks ago

Harpenden

Bareback a zillion partners

Saying non smoker but clearly chuffing on something

Bad teeth

Messy houses/backgrounds

Disrespect

Oh so many things, I think I'm broke

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

Will fill in later

Just ask

I don't bite unless you want me to

All the disclaimers/ fake warnings...

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 weeks ago

your hotlist

Gaping asshole pic. Or any hole for that matter, but particularly an asshole.

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By *WB85Man
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Verifications, you know, the graphic step by step of a sexual encounter ones.

They make me want to vomit.

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

"Verifications, you know, the graphic step by step of a sexual encounter ones.

They make me want to vomit. "

It's more the gushing isn't this person great ones, and then they decided to actually show that.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

Action shots, genital close ups, gaping arseholes, cum shots, graphic verifications, messy or unclean backgrounds, grim underwear.

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By *addy bareMan
2 weeks ago

southend

Too many verifications,just keep it to yourself ffs it's not a competition.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Round the bend

"Action shots, genital close ups, gaping arseholes, cum shots, graphic verifications, messy or unclean backgrounds, grim underwear. "

This

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By *he.Jungle.VIPMan
2 weeks ago

London

Messy room and a crazy amount of veri's

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By *parkle1974Woman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

Action shots on single profiles.... I always wonder why these are allowed due to consent!

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By *exxyyDy11Man
2 weeks ago

North West

Bareback, close up ultra HD 4k version of their private bits, list of dos and demands. Constantly slagging off the site but still remaining on here.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
2 weeks ago

cardiff

Anyone cheating

More than one verification

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

A ranty profile with lots of NO and UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES. I read these in the voice of Rev Ian Paisley and to those of you under 40, I wouldn't recommend looking him up

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By *and12Couple
2 weeks ago

flint

[Removed by poster at 05/04/26 14:30:50]

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By *earditallWoman
2 weeks ago

Lancaster

Gaping bum holes or stretched out Mollys

Lots of close up action shots.

Big spunky loads like 4 week old cottage cheese 🤮

Bush tucker trials.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
2 weeks ago

North West

"Gaping bum holes or stretched out Mollys

Lots of close up action shots.

Big spunky loads like 4 week old cottage cheese 🤮

Bush tucker trials."

No bush tucker trials eh. Not a fan of I'm a Celeb then?

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By *and12Couple
2 weeks ago

flint

We get put of by some usernames

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By *carlettsWoman
2 weeks ago

Harpenden

"Gaping bum holes or stretched out Mollys

Lots of close up action shots.

Big spunky loads like 4 week old cottage cheese 🤮

Bush tucker trials.

No bush tucker trials eh. Not a fan of I'm a Celeb then? "

Would you want to eat a giant snails testicles? Hmm they'd be small still I guess

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By *exxyyDy11Man
2 weeks ago

North West

"Gaping bum holes or stretched out Mollys

Lots of close up action shots.

Big spunky loads like 4 week old cottage cheese 🤮

Bush tucker trials.

No bush tucker trials eh. Not a fan of I'm a Celeb then?

Would you want to eat a giant snails testicles? Hmm they'd be small still I guess"

Or a few portions of a crocodile penis and beach worms

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By *dstefiMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull

Guys who think all crossdressers are sissies and use words like tranny or any kind of female pejorative. In fact anybody who expresses anything resembling a need to humiliate or degrade.

I can be a right slut in the moment but always a masculine slut, never a girl, and you only get to see the slut if you excite me in person.

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By *earditallWoman
2 weeks ago

Lancaster

"Gaping bum holes or stretched out Mollys

Lots of close up action shots.

Big spunky loads like 4 week old cottage cheese 🤮

Bush tucker trials.

No bush tucker trials eh. Not a fan of I'm a Celeb then? "

Its the widgety grubs

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By *irm40Man
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Big beards

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By *hisIsMe58Man
2 weeks ago

Winchester

Messy backgrounds, it just makes me feel they won't be hygienic even though there is no cause and effect.

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By *ara25xWoman
2 weeks ago

Angus

Messy backgrounds

Can I get you pregnant

The daddy thing

To much pubes

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By *ate2theparty808Man
2 weeks ago

Erdington

QoS pants/merch and anything to do with BBC

Profiles that demand face pics but don’t have any pictures on their profile whatsoever.

“Hubby doesn’t know I’m on here” yeah because I dream of being assaulted by a jealous husband while naked and erect if he comes home early.

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

In terms of photos...

Anything near toilets

Frilly curtains, wallpaper

Photos of kids (even blurred) in background

Socks on but naked

Anything with a penis near a remote or can

A bush or even loads of pubes

Bare sex on a single profile

Action shot where you pretty much only see the female

Status shots: look at me, I'm on holiday somewhere but we can't really see the guy on the photo, just that he is human

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By *aitonelMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

Finding out they have a personality!

No thanks

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 weeks ago

your hotlist

"Finding out they have a personality!

No thanks"

Eurgh imagine

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

"Finding out they have a personality!

No thanks"

Because it makes you sad that you don't have one?

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By *urry BlokeMan
2 weeks ago

Terms like cumslut, Daddy, Dom, Alpha, Sissy

People who have watched too much 50 shades

Men who refer to themselves as 'lad' when they're in their 40's

Pics wise, soft cocks with wrinkly foreskins, straggly spiders leg pubes, especially on a ballbag

Profiles that appear after 10pm on a Friday & Saturday night

This is not an exhaustive list

I haven't even started on men in 3/4 trousers

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By *opman121Man
2 weeks ago

stoke on Trent

Smoking for me ?

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By *homas400Man
2 weeks ago

Carmarthen / Llandeilo

"Bareback a zillion partners

Saying non smoker but clearly chuffing on something

Bad teeth

Messy houses/backgrounds

Disrespect

Oh so many things, I think I'm broke"

Don't forget dirty fingernails 🤮👎

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

In terms of words, do not use:

Titties

Boobies

Vibe / vibing

Damp

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

When I see a verification on her profile from the Fab village idiot, despite her profile saying that she's picky. 🙂

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By *panking masterMan
2 weeks ago

Washington

"What's an instant turn off if you see it on their profile?

Like you've been really into then and then you've seen something and every bit of desire just leaves.

Be it a photo, video or something wrote in the profile. "
a female with pictures of her pulling her pussy wide open and looking like a rabbit road kill with white cum dripping out of her

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By *elix SightedMan
2 weeks ago

Cloud 8

“Fabswingers is now publicly traded entity.” No it isn’t, you fucking moron.

Dirty fingernails pulling back what could be a minge but looks more like a punched lasagne.

Any pictures with gynaecological detail.

Blurry pictures.

83 pictures of the same horrid tit.

Dogging pictures.

Poor spelling / grammar / punctuation (I accept some, I know not everyone is as perfect as me).

Dirty houses.

Anything that leads me to believe they’re a chav.

420 friendly. Pathetic internet way of saying “I enjoy smoking w**d.” Fine, but I don’t want it round me.

Size queen / BBC only etc

Ranting about how men are all cunts. Some of us are a delight. Ahem, some of them.

Any profile name with slag / slut / cum / whore etc

Hairy arses.

I could go on.

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By *partharmonyCouple
2 weeks ago

Tonbridge

Squirting.

This is not to shame or criticise anybody who does it or enjoys it. It's just not for us.

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

"Squirting.

This is not to shame or criticise anybody who does it or enjoys it. It's just not for us. "

Ah yes! And anything with that in their username or drilling machine etc.

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

I love the men's posts on this thread. Could I hire one of you to man my inbox? Would be entertaining!

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By *morousCouple8Couple
2 weeks ago

Cumbria

“Fill in later” in the bio of a profile that’s been around the block

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By *ominantWhisperMan
2 weeks ago

Lancashire

‘Fill in later’ when the profiles been active for over a year

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By *hams123Man
2 weeks ago

London

No Asians. No Asian men.

I get everyone has a preference. It comes across as white and black is good, brown is bad. I'm not shaming anyone.

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By *aptivating24Man
2 weeks ago

castleford

I don’t think it’s one exact thing… it’s more when something just feels off

Trying too hard, negativity, or anything that doesn’t feel genuine tends to switch me off. I’d rather someone just be themselves and have a bit of fun with it

That’s always way more attractive to me…

Its what fabs all about if you don't like it someone somewhere will

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

"No Asians. No Asian men.

I get everyone has a preference. It comes across as white and black is good, brown is bad. I'm not shaming anyone."

Don’t excuse people. Disliking an entire race of people isn’t “preference”.

Preference is meant to be positive, about what you prefer.

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By *hams123Man
2 weeks ago

London

"No Asians. No Asian men.

I get everyone has a preference. It comes across as white and black is good, brown is bad. I'm not shaming anyone.

Don’t excuse people. Disliking an entire race of people isn’t “preference”.

Preference is meant to be positive, about what you prefer."

I agree with you. Some people get offended and I don't have the energy for that type of discussion. 👍🏾☺️

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By *ezandcCouple
2 weeks ago

Telford

Mummy daddy play, pregnancy photos, also put off by single ladies profiles who only play with their fuck buddy, in that case you are a couple…….

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By *utsackerMan
2 weeks ago

north east

Action shots where the cock is bigger than mine, so basically all action shots

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By *unkissedYorkie OP Man
2 weeks ago

BRADFORD/LEEDS

"No Asians. No Asian men.

I get everyone has a preference. It comes across as white and black is good, brown is bad. I'm not shaming anyone.

Don’t excuse people. Disliking an entire race of people isn’t “preference”.

Preference is meant to be positive, about what you prefer.

I agree with you. Some people get offended and I don't have the energy for that type of discussion. 👍🏾☺️"

As a brown guy myself (3/4 English 1/4 Indian) I kind of understand the preference. But at the same time it's a bit hypercritical.

For me... It seems like the stereotype comes from the reputation certain demographics of people have. I've seen profiles that state Caucasian only with is just cancelling everyone but white out.

Again it could just be what people are attracted to. But it could also be the reputation of what that demographic has in their eye view.

I have met many many non white people that are great people. But I have also met many that aren't who I'd ever want around my future kids. Same can be said for white people too.

It all falls into people's life experience with certain demographics of people.

When it comes to brown especially people think about oppressive demographics like the middle east and how they treat women over there. Plus we also have the issues of all the wars over there. And also we have a huge issue with the grooming gang issues that don't put brown people in the best light either.

It's frustrating for sure because I'm sure you're like me and wouldn't dream of living up to any of those stereotypes and would straighten people out that we say living up to them. But you can't change how people see people through lived experience

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By *kphooey43Man
2 weeks ago

Barnet

Fab if you want to fuck/lick...

Looking for gangbang.

BBC only - well that's not me so easy.

No marrieds - well that's simple too.

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By *nnandElleCouple
2 weeks ago

Brackley

Guys who refer to themselves as "alpha".

Women with pictures of them hooking the back of their G-string through their stiletto heel. So cliche!

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By *dstefiMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull

"Guys who refer to themselves as "alpha".

Women with pictures of them hooking the back of their G-string through their stiletto heel. So cliche! "

The first rule of alpha club is you can't call yourself one! Only others get to describe you that way spontaneously.

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