FabSwingers.com forum: What gives you the ‘ick’

By *weet.touch OP Man
3 weeks ago

north west

Name some odd things that put you off a potential mate.

I’ll go first

An odd ick for me is being a ‘know it all’ always having an answer or response to any question whether right or wrong

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By *aven RedWoman
3 weeks ago

who knows, but it's not raining x

Rudeness to people, wait staff for example x

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By *weet.touch OP Man
3 weeks ago

north west

Yeah this definitely, another of mine would be an excessive overloading personality, always having something to say and having no chill button

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
3 weeks ago

belfast

People using mumsnet nonsense

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By *weet.touch OP Man
3 weeks ago

north west

"People using mumsnet nonsense"

What’s that?

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By *weet.touch OP Man
3 weeks ago

north west

I think people are so subject to propaganda and wanting to pick a side that would also be an ick of mine.

People with extreme beliefs

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By *teerpike475Man
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

People who hate public transport. Instant ick.

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By *recticWoman
3 weeks ago

taunton

Too many emojis in a text message. Honestly I don’t know what is wrong with me. Give me a guy who pays me no attention whatsoever and I’m basically wondering whether I do want a relationship after all; talk too much, say good morning or god forbid you stick a brocolli emoji in to describe your dinner and call me Casper cause I’ll ghost that

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By *recticWoman
3 weeks ago

taunton

….. and people who don’t have an answer to everything. Like… what are you doing with all that uncertainty?

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
3 weeks ago

belfast

"People using mumsnet nonsense

What’s that?"

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Pushy people and arrogant big no for me

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Avoiding the answers to questions 🚩

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By *verageHoesCouple
3 weeks ago

Bessacarr

People who ride unicycles. It's just a bit show-offy

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
3 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

People who use the word 'Ick'.

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By *rLucky777Man
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Negative and rude people.

I’m gone.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Round the bend

Leaving a message unread for hours, even though they've been online regularly. Fuck that shit.

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By *homas400Man
3 weeks ago

Carmarthen / Llandeilo

"Too many emojis in a text message. Honestly I don’t know what is wrong with me. Give me a guy who pays me no attention whatsoever and I’m basically wondering whether I do want a relationship after all; talk too much, say good morning or god forbid you stick a brocolli emoji in to describe your dinner and call me Casper cause I’ll ghost that "

I'm guilty of using too many emojis ... I was reprimanded once 🫣

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By *exxyyDy11Man
3 weeks ago

North West

Rude to waiters and bar staff. I once went on a social with someone from her. And she was so demanding and rude to this poor lad. Waving him over. Waving him off. No please. No thank you.

I had to tell her to stop it. Then she rounded on me. I told her. I used to work behind bars and wait tables when I was 18. But she was having none of it and was wondering why I'm pissed off. So I just made my excuses and left.

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
3 weeks ago

North Welsh Borders

Self proclaimed Doms....

Guys who message saying they would love an older woman...

Those who send sexual scenarios as a first message

Rudeness

Being crass

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By *apua New GuineaMan
3 weeks ago

nearby

Entitlement

One way conversation

As others have said, rudeness.

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By *bby1110Woman
3 weeks ago

Gloucester

People who talk about themselves in the third person

People who think you should be grateful they’re talking you

Cryptic crap. Just say what you mean.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
3 weeks ago

North West

Someone called me a "gym daddy" the other day. That gave me the ick and killed the mood.

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
3 weeks ago

Cambs

"Self proclaimed Doms....

Guys who message saying they would love an older woman...

Those who send sexual scenarios as a first message

Rudeness

Being crass

All of these!

I'd also add messages that say "can I ask you a question " instantly turn me off too.

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By *elix SightedMan
3 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Ick is reserved for things like poor personal hygiene.

Irritation comes from one-sided conversation or arrogance.

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester

"Someone called me a "gym daddy" the other day. That gave me the ick and killed the mood. "

What even is that?

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester

Loud people

Poor hygiene

People who say "vibe" or worse, "vibing"

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
3 weeks ago

North Welsh Borders

"Loud people

Poor hygiene

People who say "vibe" or worse, "vibing""

I am guilty of this

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester

Surely not the middle one?

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

Men with small/limp hands, fussy eaters, mummy’s boys, men who are not comfortable speaking to staff or ordering in a bar/restaurant, black shoes with blue jeans, turkey teeth, garish designer labels, bad tattoos… I’d best stop there ha.

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By *yrshirefun25Man
3 weeks ago

Ayrshire

People who are so dry in their responses. One word replies. Constantly feeling like you're the one having to hold up the conversation.

Drives me mad.

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
3 weeks ago

Scotland

Arrogance, being too pushy, trying to convince me to ignore my boundaries by telling me “you’ll enjoy it with me”

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By *lrightthenMan
3 weeks ago

Bradford

Being called daddy or sir I find it weird

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By *nywhereyouwantMan
3 weeks ago

Weston-Super-Mare

Crocs….

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By *a LunaWoman
3 weeks ago

Wales

Slagging of an ex.

I mean by all means think it, just don’t share it with me.

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By *ex HolesMan
3 weeks ago

Up North

‘Guess who’s back’ posts. Makes me want to spew

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By *immers123Woman
3 weeks ago

South Molton

When men post a picture with their tongue out. I don't know why but it's an instant turn off or giving the middle finger

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

"When men post a picture with their tongue out. I don't know why but it's an instant turn off or giving the middle finger "

Oh god I forgot about that one, I hate pictures when they stick their tongue out 🥴

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By *hisIsMe58Man
3 weeks ago

Winchester

People that always seem to put lol or haha at the end of a sentence.

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By *eenALongTime.....Man
2 weeks ago

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Anal when you get the sweetcorn stuck in your foreskin

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By *CExeCouple
2 weeks ago

Lincoln/Exeter

Folks who introduce politics into every possible thread. Usually some crap about Farage and Brexit. Way to kill the mood.

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
2 weeks ago

Norwich

Culture warriors

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By *ex HolesMan
2 weeks ago

Up North

"Anal when you get the sweetcorn stuck in your foreskin

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
2 weeks ago

Home

The term "Daddy" it sends a cold shiver down my spine

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By *nblueMan
2 weeks ago

manchester

'Wifey'

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By *kphooey43Man
2 weeks ago

Barnet

"'Wifey'"

You've met her then!

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By *og and MuseCouple
2 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Men with small/limp hands, fussy eaters, mummy’s boys, men who are not comfortable speaking to staff or ordering in a bar/restaurant, black shoes with blue jeans, turkey teeth, garish designer labels, bad tattoos… I’d best stop there ha."

handshakes that feel a damp limp lettuce

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By *eenALongTime.....Man
2 weeks ago

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handshakes that feel a damp limp lettuce "

Yes- this!!

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
2 weeks ago

North Welsh Borders

"Surely not the middle one?"

Oh no, not the middle one. I do use the word vibe

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By *carlettsWoman
2 weeks ago

Harpenden

"People who use the word 'Ick'. "

This 👍

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By *am450Man
2 weeks ago

Sidcup/Bexley

"Leaving a message unread for hours, even though they've been online regularly. Fuck that shit. "

You must have been unfortunate to message the only two people on this site that do that...

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By *raceystickWoman
2 weeks ago

lincs

Prickly trimmed chests xx

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By *itheway99Man
2 weeks ago

harrow

The word the “ick” can’t stand it usually used by people that want to put themselves on a pedestal, judging things others sometimes can’t help , where the bloody hell did this word come from??

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

"Surely not the middle one?

Oh no, not the middle one. I do use the word vibe

No one is perfect. It's not the worst thing x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
2 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

"People who use the word 'Ick'.

This 👍"

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By *elloIntrigueMan
2 weeks ago

North West UK

I think I give myself the ick.. haha

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
2 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Being called babe

Not liking Tea

Not liking cake

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By *Silver-Man
2 weeks ago

Mold

"Leaving a message unread for hours, even though they've been online regularly. Fuck that shit. "

Couples and women are the worst for this

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By *ate2theparty808Man
2 weeks ago

Erdington

"People that always seem to put lol or haha at the end of a sentence."

Guilty as charged (resisting the urge right now)

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By *earditallWoman
2 weeks ago

Lancaster

Loads of bareback action shots with different people.

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By *WB85Man
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

People who always seem to search for something negative in a nice situation.

When it becomes clear someone is telling you what you want to hear.

Graphic verifications.....I hate where people seem to leave a step by step overview of a sexual experience. Really puts me off.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
2 weeks ago

Didcot

Stubble, get an effing shave.

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By *teerpike475Man
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

Vaping. I dunno, it just looks daft. I'd rather you just smoked (though of course, I'd rather you did neither)

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