FabSwingers.com forum: What does happiness mean to you?

By *hagTonight OP Man
3 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

It could mean many things and not just one thing, from a sense of peace and contentment to feeling moments of joy.

Did you know that there are 7 key points to happiness? They are:

1. Choose to exercise.

2. Choose to take care of your body.

3. Choose to be polite.

4. Choose to be surrounded by people you like and love.

5. Choose to enjoy the world.

6. Choose to be grateful.

7. Choose to be happy.

For me, it means feeling free and feeling able to do the things I love to do the most, like painting, working out and going out for walks in the nature to name some of the things.

It would be interesting to see what it means to you, is it the same as me?

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By *hilly1515Man
3 weeks ago

5 I can have the rest along the way ...

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By *glyBirdWoman
3 weeks ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

Not hating myself

Not crying from overwhelming sadness

And a good lasagne and garlic bread

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By *hilly1515Man
3 weeks ago

" 5 I can have the rest along the way ... "

and about what makes you / us

all us

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
3 weeks ago

Midlands

To crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and to hear the lamentations of their women.

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Husband

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By *omeotherguyMan
3 weeks ago

Sheffield/London/Derbyshire

"Not hating myself

Not crying from overwhelming sadness

And a good lasagne and garlic bread"

Garfield?

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By *omeotherguyMan
3 weeks ago

Sheffield/London/Derbyshire

"It could mean many things and not just one thing, from a sense of peace and contentment to feeling moments of joy.

Did you know that there are 7 key points to happiness? They are:

1. Choose to exercise.

2. Choose to take care of your body.

3. Choose to be polite.

4. Choose to be surrounded by people you like and love.

5. Choose to enjoy the world.

6. Choose to be grateful.

7. Choose to be happy.

For me, it means feeling free and feeling able to do the things I love to do the most, like painting, working out and going out for walks in the nature to name some of the things.

It would be interesting to see what it means to you, is it the same as me?

The point here is we have the ability to choose, and in my view, this is lost on many people. Responsibility fore one's self has given way to.others being responsible for how you feel.

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By *2000ManMan
3 weeks ago

Worthing

Being nasty and horrible. I cannot be tamed.

8.5/10 for that one, wish me luck gents!

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By *uttercupWoman
3 weeks ago

Borders

I've learned to protect my peace. It feels good

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By *earditallWoman
3 weeks ago

Lancaster

"Not hating myself

Not crying from overwhelming sadness

And a good lasagne and garlic bread"

Agree with this can't beat a good lasagne and garlic bread.

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By *WB85Man
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Having a smile on my face and meaning it.

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By *omeotherguyMan
3 weeks ago

Sheffield/London/Derbyshire

"Not hating myself

Not crying from overwhelming sadness

And a good lasagne and garlic bread

Agree with this can't beat a good lasagne and garlic bread.

Yeah but you eat yours frozen.

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By *hilly1515Man
3 weeks ago

believe me ..I have gotten some things wrong in life when i was younger, also gotten things rite.

I mean the things that I hold close, not the niff naff and trivia.

making the rite bits happen is the hard part ...

that's not some deep blarb... its just my experience, of myself.

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By *SharedAdventureCouple
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

It is the greeting from our dogs when we get home.

It is getting lost in kisses.

It is freedom of choice.

It is sunshine on my face.

It is that moment when the chocolate melts in my mouth.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
3 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

" 5 I can have the rest along the way ... "
That is good it is to have the rest along the way too

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By *uckauldMan
3 weeks ago

Fife

"It could mean many things and not just one thing, from a sense of peace and contentment to feeling moments of joy.

Did you know that there are 7 key points to happiness? They are:

1. Choose to exercise.

2. Choose to take care of your body.

3. Choose to be polite.

4. Choose to be surrounded by people you like and love.

5. Choose to enjoy the world.

6. Choose to be grateful.

7. Choose to be happy.

For me, it means feeling free and feeling able to do the things I love to do the most, like painting, working out and going out for walks in the nature to name some of the things.

It would be interesting to see what it means to you, is it the same as me?

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You have just inspired me 👊

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By *uckauldMan
3 weeks ago

Fife

"It could mean many things and not just one thing, from a sense of peace and contentment to feeling moments of joy.

Did you know that there are 7 key points to happiness? They are:

1. Choose to exercise.

2. Choose to take care of your body.

3. Choose to be polite.

4. Choose to be surrounded by people you like and love.

5. Choose to enjoy the world.

6. Choose to be grateful.

7. Choose to be happy.

For me, it means feeling free and feeling able to do the things I love to do the most, like painting, working out and going out for walks in the nature to name some of the things.

It would be interesting to see what it means to you, is it the same as me?

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You have just inspired me 👊

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By *uddlefuckleMan
3 weeks ago

Boston

Happiness is a cigar called Hamlet. The mild cigar.

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By *kphooey43Man
3 weeks ago

Barnet

"Happiness is a cigar called Hamlet. The mild cigar."

exactly

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By *og and MuseCouple
3 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Being free from worry, totally content with what you have, spending time with people that you love And who accept you just as you are

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By *erry 58Man
3 weeks ago

doncaster

A smile makes me happy

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By *ellhungvweMan
3 weeks ago

Cheltenham

It’s lot of things. The feeling after a good workout, the satisfaction of a job well done or new thing learnt, seeing people you care for achieve their goals and move forward with their life. Being out in the world and seeing all its natural wonders. Just life really.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
3 weeks ago

East Sussex

"It could mean many things and not just one thing, from a sense of peace and contentment to feeling moments of joy.

Did you know that there are 7 key points to happiness? They are:

1. Choose to exercise.

2. Choose to take care of your body.

3. Choose to be polite.

4. Choose to be surrounded by people you like and love.

5. Choose to enjoy the world.

6. Choose to be grateful.

7. Choose to be happy.

For me, it means feeling free and feeling able to do the things I love to do the most, like painting, working out and going out for walks in the nature to name some of the things.

It would be interesting to see what it means to you, is it the same as me?

That's all well and good Shag but there are times in people's lives when choosing those things isn't possible.

To a large extent happiness is a choice but not always.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
3 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"I've learned to protect my peace. It feels good "
Hi _uttercup, that is good how you have learned to protect your peace and that it feels good too

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By *artorialMan
3 weeks ago

weymouth

Work - bizarrely, I enjoy what I do. Home life less so it's stressful

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By *hisIsMe58Man
3 weeks ago

Winchester

Being free from depression, self doubts, overthinking, comparing one's self to others and fear of failure.

Being in the presence of my children.

Being happy in my job, where I am valued for my ability.

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By *FallenAngel-Woman
3 weeks ago

Kings Langley

What makes me happy is letting go of the past and enjoying every day

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Being left alone to do as I please, I’m really not interested in other people’s nonsense.

The mr

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Motherwell

Loving oneself and enjoying the freedom of being a free spirit and bringing joy, excitement, fun and ecstasy to others lives as well as my own. Mx 👿

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Round the bend

Treating myself the same way as I do to the people I love. A bit of self care. Guilt free time to enjoy doing whatever I fancy. The biggest smiles and comfort come from seeing our kids smile. Seeing them loving life and doing well for themselves.

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By *atinaChica54Woman
3 weeks ago

Marlborough

"It could mean many things and not just one thing, from a sense of peace and contentment to feeling moments of joy.

Did you know that there are 7 key points to happiness? They are:

1. Choose to exercise.

2. Choose to take care of your body.

3. Choose to be polite.

4. Choose to be surrounded by people you like and love.

5. Choose to enjoy the world.

6. Choose to be grateful.

7. Choose to be happy.

For me, it means feeling free and feeling able to do the things I love to do the most, like painting, working out and going out for walks in the nature to name some of the things.

It would be interesting to see what it means to you, is it the same as me?

All of the above 7 points are how I try to live my life these days & I now feel so at peace, after spending a lot of years with negative & detrimental people & situations, miserable feelings & emotions. I've made mistakes & bad choices over the years, but have learnt from them & they have all been part of my life's rich tapestry & have made me the person I am today.

I am grateful for all that is dear to me & no longer sweat the small stuff.🤓

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By *layfullsamMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

When you go to measure my life’s success

Don't count my money count my happiness

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By *hagTonight OP Man
3 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"It could mean many things and not just one thing, from a sense of peace and contentment to feeling moments of joy.

Did you know that there are 7 key points to happiness? They are:

1. Choose to exercise.

2. Choose to take care of your body.

3. Choose to be polite.

4. Choose to be surrounded by people you like and love.

5. Choose to enjoy the world.

6. Choose to be grateful.

7. Choose to be happy.

For me, it means feeling free and feeling able to do the things I love to do the most, like painting, working out and going out for walks in the nature to name some of the things.

It would be interesting to see what it means to you, is it the same as me?

You have just inspired me 👊"
That is good I have just inspired you too

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By *hagTonight OP Man
3 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"It could mean many things and not just one thing, from a sense of peace and contentment to feeling moments of joy.

Did you know that there are 7 key points to happiness? They are:

1. Choose to exercise.

2. Choose to take care of your body.

3. Choose to be polite.

4. Choose to be surrounded by people you like and love.

5. Choose to enjoy the world.

6. Choose to be grateful.

7. Choose to be happy.

For me, it means feeling free and feeling able to do the things I love to do the most, like painting, working out and going out for walks in the nature to name some of the things.

It would be interesting to see what it means to you, is it the same as me?

The point here is we have the ability to choose, and in my view, this is lost on many people. Responsibility fore one's self has given way to.others being responsible for how you feel."
Yes, we have the ability to choose too

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By *hagTonight OP Man
3 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"It could mean many things and not just one thing, from a sense of peace and contentment to feeling moments of joy.

Did you know that there are 7 key points to happiness? They are:

1. Choose to exercise.

2. Choose to take care of your body.

3. Choose to be polite.

4. Choose to be surrounded by people you like and love.

5. Choose to enjoy the world.

6. Choose to be grateful.

7. Choose to be happy.

For me, it means feeling free and feeling able to do the things I love to do the most, like painting, working out and going out for walks in the nature to name some of the things.

It would be interesting to see what it means to you, is it the same as me?

I am grateful for all that is dear to me & no longer sweat the small stuff.🤓"
That is good how you try to live with all of the 7 points too

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By *hagTonight OP Man
3 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"Treating myself the same way as I do to the people I love. A bit of self care. Guilt free time to enjoy doing whatever I fancy. The biggest smiles and comfort come from seeing our kids smile. Seeing them loving life and doing well for themselves. "
That is good how it is treating yourself the same way as you do to the people you love too

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By *estructionDollyWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester

Who wrote these points?

I can't see "sit in front of a good film eating pizza with a hottie who's just fucked your brains out" anywhere 🤔

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By *hagTonight OP Man
3 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"What makes me happy is letting go of the past and enjoying every day"
Hi fallen, that is good how it is with letting go of the past and enjoying every day too

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By *ub_BDSM_GirlWoman
3 weeks ago

Wirral

Happiness is a fickle thing to chase, what you want to seek is Joy, which allows the happy to come and go but remain joyful.

Trying to find happiness will never lead to positive outcomes because the base level of humans is not happy. Life provides us so many emotions every day, trying to find 'the happy' will ruin the mental health that everybody seems to struggle with.

Be content that you have food on the table, a roof over your head, the confidence to be on this site to meet other likeminded people and not hidden away.

Whatever happens that is happy or sad, joy should always remain.

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By *b1980Man
3 weeks ago

Burnley

Be happy with what you have

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
3 weeks ago

Willenhall

Happiness is like pissing yourself.

Everyone can see it on the outside but only you get that warm, fuzzy feeling.

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By *ate2theparty808Man
3 weeks ago

Erdington

Happiness to me is being true to myself and living a honest and authentic life.

There are a lot of people who love to tell me that how I choose to live is somehow wrong, but they aren’t the ones I have to look in the eye in the mirror, they don’t reap the rewards or suffer the consequences of my choices, I do.

It’s not like I choose the easy path, I mean I’m a 54 year old man on fab for gods sake, but I can look myself in the eye and know that with every decision I make I keep my integrity.

I’m really proud of how I have grown as a person, I escaped a mindset that was instilled in me in childhood and solidified in young adulthood, I care about people, but not their opinions of me, after all how can I be wrong doing what makes me happy.

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By *couseBaldyMan
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

I always thought happiness was progressing in my career and earning as much money as I could.

After my dad died last year I realised time is precious, so I left my job, took a year off work and spent as much time as I could with my daughter.

I have decided to change careers and now I’m earning £60k+ less a year and have been working for myself around looking after my daughter and I am 1000% happier.

Happiness to me is being Dad who always shows up, watching her grow and working when I want. ❤️❤️

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By *lfa RomeoMan
3 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

Happiness for me, is being yourself, kindness, honesty, and being able to make my famous lasagne for a loved one ❤️

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By *eductiveSecretsWoman
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

Being content with who you are and what you have.

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By *appy-go- luckyMan
3 weeks ago

pothole city

Being able to work with my beautiful friend on a mon-fri.

She truly is an amazing, funny, kind hearted woman, that makes the time fly at work.

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By *apua New GuineaMan
3 weeks ago

nearby

For me, it's to love and feel loved.

My teenage son asked if I was ok yesterday as I seemed 'off it' and it meant so much.

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By *-and-GCouple
3 weeks ago

norfolk

The crux of it in my opinion is “having enough” that could be of anything and is different for everyone, that’s what makes it awesome, everyone has the ability to be happy they just need to be content with enough.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
3 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

I'm biologically pre disposed to be cheery ..... is that the same as happiness ?

As for Shag's list ...... who wrote that ?

This can't be true for those that don't want those things.

I'd like a lot of money. Tons of it ..... dripping from the walls and every orifice.

I'm already happy ...... gimme the money

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By *ontyboi76Man
3 weeks ago

Pontypridd

Happiness for me is not thinking to hard and just doing more. It's instinctive more than reactive.

All the boring stuff is on auto pilot where it belongs.

And obviously lots of sex

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By *hagTonight OP Man
2 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"Who wrote these points?

I can't see "sit in front of a good film eating pizza with a hottie who's just fucked your brains out" anywhere 🤔 "
Hi _estructiondolly. I am not sure who wrote these points, that is good too

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

For me some of it's freedom.

Being able to choose what I do, when.

Also being healthy, so I'm able to do those things.

I also try to appreciate the little things, like the sunrises I've seen this weekend. Having a lie in today, after working 2 long days.

Having my pets and a good book to read and the luxury of a bit of time off to relax and recuperate.

Plus coffee ☕

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By *rincipessaWoman
2 weeks ago

your wildest dreams,

For me shag it’s about feeling light and carefree, enjoying the things I do, the place I’m in and the people I’m with.

I strongly believe that we’re all responsible for our own happiness and can’t get my head around the mindset of blaming others.

If you’re not happy with something then move on to find something that does make you happy.

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By *obilebottomMan
2 weeks ago

All over

Great question OP and if I thought that there would be the slightest chance of acknowledging this post, would be giving it a much deeper thought but your responces usually follow a pattern I personally would not consider inclusive and I apologise if that sounds harsh but is obvious for anyone to see. Anyway, I recently had a conversation with a close friend about this very subject so I thought I will share my opinion for others. I had started to feel that perhaps I was not happy at all but after quite a bit of deep reflection realised that I just needed to change a few things and have gone ahead to do that though that journey is not complete yet. Hapiness to me generally means being content, have a deep sense of purpose in life and able to experience positive emotions whilst still managing life's challenges. It does not mean feeling joyful 24/7 and of course it's all quite subjective and varies from person to person. What often stops us from being happy is constantly chasing utopia.

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 weeks ago

your hotlist

"Great question OP and if I thought that there would be the slightest chance of acknowledging this post, would be giving it a much deeper thought but your responces usually follow a pattern I personally would not consider inclusive and I apologise if that sounds harsh but is obvious for anyone to see. Anyway, I recently had a conversation with a close friend about this very subject so I thought I will share my opinion for others. I had started to feel that perhaps I was not happy at all but after quite a bit of deep reflection realised that I just needed to change a few things and have gone ahead to do that though that journey is not complete yet. Hapiness to me generally means being content, have a deep sense of purpose in life and able to experience positive emotions whilst still managing life's challenges. It does not mean feeling joyful 24/7 and of course it's all quite subjective and varies from person to person. What often stops us from being happy is constantly chasing utopia.

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By *utsackerMan
2 weeks ago

north east

Great post my friend x

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By *hagTonight OP Man
2 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

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That is good it means being content too

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By *ornucopiaMan
2 weeks ago

Bexley

I think I need to find out what is so good about lasagne.

Versus smoked salmon, for instance...

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By *hagTonight OP Man
3 days ago

From the land of haribos.

"For me shag it’s about feeling light and carefree, enjoying the things I do, the place I’m in and the people I’m with.

I strongly believe that we’re all responsible for our own happiness and can’t get my head around the mindset of blaming others.

If you’re not happy with something then move on to find something that does make you happy."
Hi _rincipessa, that is good it is about feeling light and carefree and enjoying the things you go too

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