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By *aphunter OP   Man
4 weeks ago

horsham

I’ve thought about posting and decided I should talk about this, I’m sure there are many of us who have been lost our friends. So excuse me for not being chirpy for the last few weeks. Baphunter hasn’t been on point. Far from it x it’s ok for men to cry, I’ve done my fair share. I don’t have a question to end this chat. It all to raw x love your fab lives x

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By *an1978Woman
4 weeks ago

Wales

Sorry to hear you've lost your friends.

I'm not able to chat but just wanted to agree it is definitely good to talk about it.

Either chatting with friends, here, or professional.

There are also grief cafes where you can just go have a cuppa and have a chat with people.

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By *axonmanMan
4 weeks ago

bradford


"Sorry to hear you've lost your friends.

I'm not able to chat but just wanted to agree it is definitely good to talk about it.

Either chatting with friends, here, or professional.

There are also grief cafes where you can just go have a cuppa and have a chat with people."

It’s so nice that there are still such empathetic people like you. What you wrote is incredibly kind.

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By *onnachakeaneMan
4 weeks ago

Dundrum

Nice one for sharing and sorry for your loss. I understand you as I experienced it too. Death of

Someone close to you particularly of young is a complex and profound thing to make any sense of.

Grief is non linear and unique to everyone. Someone described as a large balloon in a box and constantly banging of the sides and edges and dominates the space… in time the balloon reduces but it will always remain just not with skull bursting intensity.

Don’t put yourself under pressure to pay homage or do things that’s natural. Right now go for long walks and hikes with mutual friends and talk.

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By *uonline69Man
4 weeks ago

Saddleworth, UK

I found out an old colleague took their life a couple of weeks ago. I feel your pain.

Hugs. DMs open if you need to chat.

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By *londebiguyMan
4 weeks ago

Southport

It's all ok.

Grieving is a very normal thing.

We have to get through these things in the best way that we can.

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By *hickthighs26Woman
4 weeks ago

your hotlist

Big hugs you. Im an inbox away if ya wanna vent or even talk about Dave and his pegs 😘

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By *hams123Man
4 weeks ago

London

To feel is to be human. You had a connection with this other human being. That connection is now gone. Hold onto the memories and grieve as you see fit. You are not alone. Death is part of life. Remember your friend. Remember the love you shared. 🫶🏾❤️

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
4 weeks ago

North Welsh Borders

❤️

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By *vonne5exMan
4 weeks ago

Doncaster

I've lost 3 in the last 3 weeks, Wednesday funeral in North Yorkshire, Friday Funeral in Thorne, Doncaster and next Friday which came out of the blue at Barnby Dunn, Doncaster.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
4 weeks ago

Round the bend

❤️

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By *b40Man
4 weeks ago

lisburn

Baphunter

Don’t ever feel like your alone , takes a strong person to express how u feel even with your post , I may not know u but here to chat if needed ,

#itsoktotalk

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By *rightonsteveMan
4 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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By *rightonsteveMan
4 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It must be devasting.

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By *peedyGMan
4 weeks ago

Telford

Really sorry for your loss pal, it really is ok to cry as much as you need ... let it out as you are doing.

Always here to chat/vent to privately if you need it 🫶

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By *reat me rightWoman
4 weeks ago

Rotherham

I used to do civil war re enactment and through that met an absolutely amazing lady who picked me up from many a station and gave me a bunk in her caravan and fed me all weekend. She really was like a second mum and I adored her beyond measure. She died just before my daughter turned 3 (she's 14 this year). I still miss jer to this day. There's something to be said for the good ones x.

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By *emptme1993Man
4 weeks ago

manchester

Thoughts are with you and everyone else affected by it. Hope you’re doing okay, and you’re right it’s okay for men to be emotional

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By *WB85Man
4 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Sorry to hear this OP. Life throws some real difficult stages at times, but we have to push through and come out the other side.

I made mistake years ago of not talking about my shit.....and it only makes things worse. Its good to talk.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
4 weeks ago

Reading

When my dad died I ended up crying on a fab friend. He was great about it.

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By *onin25Man
4 weeks ago

Durham

Big hugs OP. The grief after losing someone close is really hard, and can be a bit of a journey, but it gets easier, there might be a few bumps in the road but it will get easier

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By *omRachCouple
3 weeks ago

Wirral

About 18 months ago we lost a very good friend from this site who died very suddenly & unexpectedly.

He had been a fuckbuddy for Rach for about 2 years at his time of passing and due to the nature of our relationship we both found it very hard to mourn him whilst keeping ours and his lifestyle discreet.

He wasn't just our hotwife playmate he an her actually became really good friends too and she lost 2 persons when he died.

A lovely warm & wonderful man, R.I.P. Steve

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By *apua New GuineaMan
3 weeks ago

nearby

Appreciate you shar8ng this op. How are you doing today?

Grief is personal and that's ok, do what you feel like doing whether that's crying/ laughing/ exersise- whatever, just give yourself permission.

It exists because love exists and ultimately, love is a beautiful thing.

It never goes but in time, life can grow around it.

I lost 4 friends over 5 years, it made me evaluate relationships (become more insular) but I am coming out of hibernation again, slowly but surely.

Take care.

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By *aphunter OP   Man
2 weeks ago

horsham

Thank you everyone xx I had two close friends pass in 48 hours. Just starting to feel a bit lighter. Thanks for all the replies, really kind. I heard some words recently and made sense, that grief is the price we pay for love. I’ll be back, just takes time to adjust x

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