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"I don't get upset. For a split second I wonder what I said to upset them, then I move on." I think I’m the same. | |||
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"Sometimes we block people who have viewed our profile and we know we are not going to want to interact with them so we block them incase they try. Not anything they have done wrong just personal preference. " That’s a good point. Although I’m 🥷 mode so that won’t be the reason 🤣 | |||
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"I find it amusing. There’s quite a few in the forums. People I’ve never said a single word to who I just think I’ll have a nosy at their profile only to find I’ve been blocked. I would be curious to know there reason, but that’s all. " 👍🏻 | |||
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"Given that this happens on a daily basis, I just make sure I've removed all the photos I've sent them, and then block them back. That way you never see their profile again. I get blocked all the time for no reason other than having sent someone a nice message. You need a VERY thick skin to be a single man on here. " Don't you mean "other than not being someone they are interested in"? It stops you coming up in searches/updates n stuff so... | |||
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"Given that this happens on a daily basis, I just make sure I've removed all the photos I've sent them, and then block them back. That way you never see their profile again. I get blocked all the time for no reason other than having sent someone a nice message. You need a VERY thick skin to be a single man on here. Don't you mean "other than not being someone they are interested in"? It stops you coming up in searches/updates n stuff so... " What you're describing is a consequence of all the rude men on here. I'm an adult and can accept rejection. I'm also not an arsehole you sends rude or aggressive messages. I'm aware people block other people because it's easier for them. That doesn't stop it being quite rude when you've taken the time to send a well meaning message. I also appreciate you can't reply to everyone. I've been doing this for 20 years. I know the drill inside out. | |||
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"I feel a great void or chasm of despair, bewilderment at why I've been blocked. I feel like the protagonist in White Nights by Fyodor Dostoevsky, jilted, scorned and wandering the meandering avenues of Fabville. The feeling is ephemeral, thankfully." So dramatic 🤣 | |||
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"I find it amusing. There’s quite a few in the forums. People I’ve never said a single word to who I just think I’ll have a nosy at their profile only to find I’ve been blocked. I would be curious to know there reason, but that’s all. " Same I wonder what I've said to annoy them. | |||
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"….you randomly click on a profile that you haven’t interacted with (knowingly) and you find that you are blocked? Do you not give it a second thought and move on? Do you feel a little upset and wonder why? Do you laugh and celebrate that you’ve made a mark somehow? Everyone has even a tiny bit of ego deep down…I wonder how many people would admit they would like to know the reason…." Happens. Honestly, when it first happened I was immediately gutted,angry,confused and thought what the hell have I said or done.. Now, though it irks me somewhat I shrug it off and move on | |||
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"I don't get upset. For a split second I wonder what I said to upset them, then I move on." I used to wonder that, but then I realised they probably had a nosey at my profile and blocked me because of being married/cheating. Which is fair enough really. I can move on, flattered they ever chose to pay any attention in the first place. | |||
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"Sometimes we block people who have viewed our profile and we know we are not going to want to interact with them so we block them incase they try. Not anything they have done wrong just personal preference. " This  | |||
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"I cry inconsolably. Then I have a wank 👍🏻" Isn’t the crying after the wanking? 🤣 | |||
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"I cry inconsolably. Then I have a wank 👍🏻 Isn’t the crying after the wanking? 🤣" 😂😂 It’s a cruel cycle of self abuse and self loathing…and then a bit more self abuse 😭😭😜 | |||
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"Given that this happens on a daily basis, I just make sure I've removed all the photos I've sent them, and then block them back. That way you never see their profile again. I get blocked all the time for no reason other than having sent someone a nice message. You need a VERY thick skin to be a single man on here. Don't you mean "other than not being someone they are interested in"? It stops you coming up in searches/updates n stuff so... What you're describing is a consequence of all the rude men on here. I'm an adult and can accept rejection. I'm also not an arsehole you sends rude or aggressive messages. I'm aware people block other people because it's easier for them. That doesn't stop it being quite rude when you've taken the time to send a well meaning message. I also appreciate you can't reply to everyone. I've been doing this for 20 years. I know the drill inside out. " Are you assuming people should know the difference between the rude and the not, without interaction? Plus it was only one suggestion... I don't do that because if I'm not interested I don't respond... Was just an answer to your question | |||
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"Men don’t often block women so I’d feel like it was quite the achievement to get to that stage 😎" Blocked. | |||
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"Men don’t often block women so I’d feel like it was quite the achievement to get to that stage 😎" I got blocked for having a bush the other day 😂 | |||
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"The only correct answer is create a new profile, get talking to them, arrange a meet and ghost them 👻 " Wild? Is that you 🥪 | |||
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"Sometimes ive checked their profile and know we wouldnt align at all so i block so i dont keep looking accidently " This is me 100%. Im a sucker for a profile pic and have the memory of a fish. I've apologised so many times for keeps clicking a profile. | |||
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"Men don’t often block women so I’d feel like it was quite the achievement to get to that stage 😎 Blocked. "You shouldn’t have told me. One day in the future I’d have clicked on your profile, saw I was blocked and wondered what the final straw for you was 🤣 | |||
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"Men don’t often block women so I’d feel like it was quite the achievement to get to that stage 😎 I got blocked for having a bush the other day 😂 " I'm going in the opposite direction, and adding you to my hotlist for that same reason | |||
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"Given that this happens on a daily basis, I just make sure I've removed all the photos I've sent them, and then block them back. That way you never see their profile again. I get blocked all the time for no reason other than having sent someone a nice message. You need a VERY thick skin to be a single man on here. Don't you mean "other than not being someone they are interested in"? It stops you coming up in searches/updates n stuff so... What you're describing is a consequence of all the rude men on here. I'm an adult and can accept rejection. I'm also not an arsehole you sends rude or aggressive messages. I'm aware people block other people because it's easier for them. That doesn't stop it being quite rude when you've taken the time to send a well meaning message. I also appreciate you can't reply to everyone. I've been doing this for 20 years. I know the drill inside out. Are you assuming people should know the difference between the rude and the not, without interaction? Plus it was only one suggestion... I don't do that because if I'm not interested I don't respond... Was just an answer to your question "No, I assume nothing, however, if a profile has numerous stipulations on it, and I take the time to read and respond appropriately, then the people making demands should give me that same courtesy in an ideal world. You can quite clearly tell the difference based entirely on my profile, and what I write in a message. If people can't be bothered to reply, then this also ends up adding to the reasons why men can't be arsed to jump through all the hoops required. This morning I was blocked for having stubble, and told I was a timewaster. | |||
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"Men don’t often block women so I’d feel like it was quite the achievement to get to that stage 😎 Blocked.
You shouldn’t have told me. One day in the future I’d have clicked on your profile, saw I was blocked and wondered what the final straw for you was 🤣"Hahaha. Brilliant. | |||
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"….you randomly click on a profile that you haven’t interacted with (knowingly) and you find that you are blocked? Do you not give it a second thought and move on? Do you feel a little upset and wonder why? Do you laugh and celebrate that you’ve made a mark somehow? Everyone has even a tiny bit of ego deep down…I wonder how many people would admit they would like to know the reason…." I just accept it and move on | |||
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"Men don’t often block women so I’d feel like it was quite the achievement to get to that stage 😎 I got blocked for having a bush the other day 😂 I'm going in the opposite direction, and adding you to my hotlist for that same reason " Oo thank you 😘🔥 | |||
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"Men don’t often block women so I’d feel like it was quite the achievement to get to that stage 😎 I got blocked for having a bush the other day 😂 I'm going in the opposite direction, and adding you to my hotlist for that same reason Oo thank you 😘🔥" You're most welcome 😈🥵 | |||
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"Men don’t often block women so I’d feel like it was quite the achievement to get to that stage 😎" Oh I’ve blocked plenty 😜 | |||
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"….you randomly click on a profile that you haven’t interacted with (knowingly) and you find that you are blocked? Do you not give it a second thought and move on? Do you feel a little upset and wonder why? Do you laugh and celebrate that you’ve made a mark somehow? Everyone has even a tiny bit of ego deep down…I wonder how many people would admit they would like to know the reason…." I block people left right and centre without ever talking to them so not bothered of that happened to me | |||
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"Men don’t often block women so I’d feel like it was quite the achievement to get to that stage 😎" Half of the 40+ profiles on my block list are women and I don't think I've blocked any of them just because they blocked me. It was always because of something they had said or done. To answer the original question I don't really care what reason people have for blocking me. It's never based on messages because I don't send messages so it must be down to them not liking my forum comments. | |||
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"Men don’t often block women so I’d feel like it was quite the achievement to get to that stage 😎" • I'm not so sure. Approximately 75% of the reprobates in my block list are women. | |||
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"What are all these wimmin doing that is bad enough for you men to be blocking them 😅 " Sharing my pics and personal info with others in chat groups. Contacting my verifications asking for my personal details. Introducing themselves by telling me I'm too old or too straight but they'll do me a favour if I agree to play bi. Telling me my profile is shit because men don't have options on fab and I should be grateful for any attention. Telling me to lose the beard or I'll never get to fuck them. Demanding my face pic and phone number within 30 minutes of their message or they will block me. Just a few of the reasons that come to mind but there are others and all from women with 30, 40, 100 veries saying how lovely they all are. | |||
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"I don't get upset. For a split second I wonder what I said to upset them, then I move on." Pretty much this. I give it a 2nd thought, but not a 3rd! | |||
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"….you randomly click on a profile that you haven’t interacted with (knowingly) and you find that you are blocked? Do you not give it a second thought and move on? Do you feel a little upset and wonder why? Do you laugh and celebrate that you’ve made a mark somehow? Everyone has even a tiny bit of ego deep down…I wonder how many people would admit they would like to know the reason…." I hurl abuse at them, counter block them, quit my membership, go unlos, search out their threads and get them closed down . Or... For a moment I wonder what made them choose to block me and then bravely carry on perving, whilst applying witch Hazel to my bruised ego. | |||
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"Anyone know a sure way to look at who’s blocked you?" I think, if you click on them, it could say they’ve either blocked you, they’ve been suspended etc., but if you try and message them, it’ll directly say you’ve been blocked. Pretty certain anyway. | |||
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"I find it amusing. There’s quite a few in the forums. People I’ve never said a single word to who I just think I’ll have a nosy at their profile only to find I’ve been blocked. I would be curious to know there reason, but that’s all. " Same curious yes bothered no definately not, blocked I think because of my opinion in the forums by some. I cried into my cornflakes for a week!!  | |||
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"Next time this happens. I might just have a right aggressive wank using sandpiper instead of moisturiser. The more aggressive the better." Some people might just block you for that very reason lol | |||
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"How do you know if someone has blocked you? Does it simply say blocked? Or something else 🤷♀️" It says something like you can't access the profile and that you might be blocked | |||
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