FabSwingers.com forum: Delete message

By *ystique3 OP Woman
4 weeks ago

M1, Junction 10

How quickly do you delete a message if you're not interested.

I always wait until they're offline 🤦🏾‍♀️

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I've never deleted before they have. Not my style, now or ever

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By *hortieWoman
4 weeks ago

Northampton

As soon as I see it, cillit bang style.

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By *cherryblossom-Woman
4 weeks ago

South glos

"How quickly do you delete a message if you're not interested.

I always wait until they're offline 🤦🏾‍♀️"

It depends how organised/ savage I am feeling at that time

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By *naswingdressWoman
4 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Immediately

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By *elix SightedMan
4 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Immediately. If I’m not interested in someone I don’t know, neither am I interested in their ego feeling bruised.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
4 weeks ago

Round the bend

I hate this. I feel really harsh instantly deleting, but feel bad for leaving it there too. I deleted a message instantly the other day and I received a shitty message!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
4 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't delete. I just leave them.

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By *naswingdressWoman
4 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I hate this. I feel really harsh instantly deleting, but feel bad for leaving it there too. I deleted a message instantly the other day and I received a shitty message! "

I view that as a useful filter tbh. If someone's going to be rude at that stage, I definitely made the right decision.

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By *legantEnigmaWoman
4 weeks ago

South of the Watford Gap

It depends on my mood. Sometimes I leave them unread for a few days and then delete. Other times I'll delete immediately just from reading the 'preview'. Often those immediate deletes are followed by a succession of similarly deleted messages without being read and then by blocking the insistent profile.

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
4 weeks ago

Staffordshire

As soon as I've read it. If they message again like it never happened, I block but if they message again with a shitty follow-up I think to myself "lucky escape" and then block.

Our profile says what we want, it's made really clear. Some people are lazy and don't read it, others try their luck. God might love a trier, but I don't. 🤣

F x

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
4 weeks ago

Chester

It depends on my mood and the calibre of their message

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
4 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

I let the randomness of this dire chat platform decide when it wants to remove messages! Never delete myself.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'll reply, but also then block.

Ie, receive a useless message.

reply with why it's useless, no profile blurb and no pics and I'm looking for more than a pulse in someone and then I say blocking you is nothing personal, but it just prevents further wasted time for both of us.

This way at least they learn something and I don't get the inevitable hero to zero insult that follows saying no

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By *WB85Man
4 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Depends how long their bio is.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
4 weeks ago

Round the bend

"I hate this. I feel really harsh instantly deleting, but feel bad for leaving it there too. I deleted a message instantly the other day and I received a shitty message!

I view that as a useful filter tbh. If someone's going to be rude at that stage, I definitely made the right decision."

This is very true. Let the garbage take itself out.

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By *ohnhomeMan
4 weeks ago

Carlisle

I wait a day or two and see if they’ve been online and off-line then I delete them and move on. It’s life.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
4 weeks ago

Reading

Right away. I'm not that bothered if that hurts anyone's feelings.

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By *eri24Woman
4 weeks ago

Bridgend

I'll read the profile first

If there's nothing compatible there, instant delete, usually without reading it

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By *issmorganWoman
4 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Right away usually.

I can often tell I'm not interested without looking at the message.

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By *eroLondonMan
4 weeks ago

Mayfair

I put mine into Archive, unread. I then come back to them a few weeks later, offer them a heartfelt reply and then summarily delete the message.

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By *eroLondonMan
4 weeks ago

Mayfair

"As soon as I see it, cillit bang style."

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I'm sure you have a stylish clit worth a bang.

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Motherwell

It depends on the message, if it is banal or just someone wanting a tug I delete and block pretty quickly, otherwise I will wait until I am deleting all my messages in a total clear out.

Mx 👿

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
4 weeks ago

Tamworth

"As soon as I see it, cillit bang style."

Precisely this. Decisiveness is a good trait.

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By *aomilatteCouple
4 weeks ago

Midlands

Don't delete, we don't get many

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By *atinaChica54Woman
4 weeks ago

Marlborough

Instantly if it's a shit message. Job done!🙌🏼

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By *peedyGMan
4 weeks ago

Telford

Instantly.

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By *hefoxesofpenCouple
4 weeks ago

chester

As soon as i’m aware if it.

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By *ature-Gent-73Man
4 weeks ago

NN1

If it is someone who hasn’t been bothered to read my profile and has decided to drop a message anyway, it gets deleted straight away.

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By *icentiousXMan
4 weeks ago

London

I reply with a message to say no thanks, then delete. There's no need to be rude to anyone, stranger or otherwise.

Fabswingers is a cruel cruel place

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By *oongel2760Couple
4 weeks ago

Preston

Will reply with a polite decline then remove unless I think they're a bit rude/not personal/copy and paste.

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By *partharmonyCouple
4 weeks ago

Tonbridge

Usually as soon as I see it.

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By *aughtydealcoupleCouple
4 weeks ago

Walmer, Deal

"As soon as I see it, cillit bang style."

Lol love it same here

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Straight away most of the time unless I forget but I will shortly after

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By *tlanshiaWoman
4 weeks ago

Chatham

If they're out of my age range, I delete them without opening.

If they attach a dick pic I delete straight away.

If I'm just not interested I send a polite no thank you.

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By *agiic_handsMan
4 weeks ago

London

"How quickly do you delete a message if you're not interested.

I always wait until they're offline 🤦🏾‍♀️"
how sweet You’re

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
4 weeks ago

belfast

Immediately

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