FabSwingers.com forum: Meets

By *az89400 OP Man
8 weeks ago

salford

So people how long does it take you during a meet to get a feeling for the other person or a vibe on how things are going?

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

3 seconds

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By *eroLondonMan
8 weeks ago

Mayfair

I'm a slow burn, much to the occasional detriment, but it's usually weeks or a month, more often many months.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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8 weeks ago

East Sussex

I can usually tell within seconds if there's any sexual attraction. It takes me somewhat longer to know if I like them on a personal level

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By *ady IncognitoWoman
8 weeks ago

Hidden Rebel Base

Demisexual here, so another slow burn type. At least one social, maybe two. Ideally I enjoy being friends with my playmates.

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By *ack DawXXXMan
8 weeks ago

Weybridge

"I can usually tell within seconds if there's any sexual attraction. It takes me somewhat longer to know if I like them on a personal level"

I'm like that. It's when I work out that I'm not mad keen on them on as a person that I politely slip away.

Within swinging circles, I prefer not to know! Lol

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By *orcsmatMan
8 weeks ago

Kidderminster

As soon as their cock is hard.

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By *atinaChica54Woman
8 weeks ago

Marlborough

I kinda instantly know tbh. If I'm not finding them attractive IRL I tell them so on my first drink, so as to not waste each others' time & then we can go our separate ways.

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By *eductiveSecretsWoman
8 weeks ago

Birmingham

His penis being hard and hanging out the back of me usually gives it away.

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By *infullyObedientWoman
8 weeks ago

Woodley

First will be social, and can usually tell pretty quickly if i want to take it further. Then if theres a kiss it will confirm it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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8 weeks ago

Central

It usually takes me weeks or months to meet and under 10 seconds to know if it will work.

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By *oots1234Man
8 weeks ago

abergavenny

Instantly you know xxxx

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By *oots1234Man
8 weeks ago

abergavenny

Sounds interesting xxxxx

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By *oelMan
8 weeks ago

Midlands, London, Brussels

"So people how long does it take you during a meet to get a feeling for the other person or a vibe on how things are going? "

Seconds, in fact less than seconds. You just have a feeling that yeah this works... And then it does..

If you don't have that feeling it wont work, don't even try

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By *itrimmedMan
8 weeks ago

london

Instantly. She looked at me with a knowing smile. I was balls deep as soon as we'd finished the drinks

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By *ittlebirdWoman
8 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Sometimes weeks. Sometimes months. Not really any quicker than that as I’m here to meet and make friends. Not just have random shags

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Crawley Down

I prefer to get to know them before meeting them, that way it is less awkward when you meet them.

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By *itrimmedMan
8 weeks ago

london

"Sometimes weeks. Sometimes months. Not really any quicker than that as I’m here to meet and make friends. Not just have random shags "

How can it take weeks or months during a meet?

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By *each needs some creamWoman
8 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

Depends on how long it takes them to get undressed.

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By *ast2WestMan
8 weeks ago

Midlands

Tbh I create an atmosphere of good and fun vibes straight away whether they reciprocate or not lol, they pretty much always do so it’s from the moment we meet

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By *az89400 OP Man
8 weeks ago

salford

"Sometimes weeks. Sometimes months. Not really any quicker than that as I’m here to meet and make friends. Not just have random shags "

I do consider you a Friend x

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By *partharmonyCouple
8 weeks ago

Tonbridge

We met a couple socially two weeks ago and I'd say we knew after about half an hour we were a good match.

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By *azmar62Couple
8 weeks ago

Hinckley

We tend to know within minutes of opening the door. If they don’t turn their nose up when they come in. We’re in. lol

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
8 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

We can normally tell within the first 5 mins of chatting x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
8 weeks ago

Leeds

Probably when she has my cock in her mouth and I think to myself “ yeah she’s o’rate, this is going well “

The mr

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By *ittlebirdWoman
8 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"Sometimes weeks. Sometimes months. Not really any quicker than that as I’m here to meet and make friends. Not just have random shags

How can it take weeks or months during a meet?"

Well clearly I didn’t read the OP properly. I’m old innit

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By *tormQueenWoman
8 weeks ago

Manchester

If i meeting someone without a social...which has hapoened a couple of times

Then im pretty certain already🤷‍♀️

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By *tormQueenWoman
8 weeks ago

Manchester

"Sometimes weeks. Sometimes months. Not really any quicker than that as I’m here to meet and make friends. Not just have random shags

How can it take weeks or months during a meet?

Well clearly I didn’t read the OP properly. I’m old innit "

Arent we all dear 😇😇

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By *inkyLips2.0Woman
8 weeks ago

Debauchery

I won’t even have a social unless I’ve connected with them by messaging first, if I do have a social with them and I have sexual chemistry we will arrange a meet on another occasion.

I’m in no rush, I want to know sexually we are on the same wavelength

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By *abulincsCouple
8 weeks ago

pe129 area

Once met know if I’m attracted to them if so happy to play first meet

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By *parkle1974Woman
8 weeks ago

Leeds

I know straight away....but I've usually been talking to them for quite a while before meeting.

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By *each needs some creamWoman
8 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

Let's see the guy that arrived today he was in the bedroom naked within 5 minutes of arriving, I would say at that point I know it's going well.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

I think in a couple of minutes

Even research done where non verbal communication is the experiment, it’s found like couples attract v quickly

Speed dating is another example

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