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By *adyLover56 OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Wisbech

I really can't stick people who chat with you for a while, then you don't hear from them again.

Really isn't rocket science to just say they are no longer interested, or is that too much for their pea brain to comprehend!!!

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By *he MinionMan
9 weeks ago

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It appears to be the way of the world now.

Dont become what you despise, and dont let it get to you.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Chichester

Just life and social online behaviour

I don’t think anything on it as it’s just random people online ultimately even ones I have met sometimes ignore me. I just view it as simply they had some sex action and moved along.

I just wouldn’t bother engaging again if it bothered me that much down the line if they reached out to me again

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By *adyLover56 OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Wisbech


"Just life and social online behaviour

I don’t think anything on it as it’s just random people online ultimately even ones I have met sometimes ignore me. I just view it as simply they had some sex action and moved along.

I just wouldn’t bother engaging again if it bothered me that much down the line if they reached out to me again "

Fair enough, but I've been brought up with basic common good manners, very few and far between these days.

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By *ellinever70Woman
9 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"I really can't stick people who chat with you for a while, then you don't hear from them again.

Really isn't rocket science to just say they are no longer interested, or is that too much for their pea brain to comprehend!!!"

Is it rude to suggest that people have a pea brain?

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By *he MinionMan
9 weeks ago

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Fair enough, but I've been brought up with basic common good manners, very few and far between these days."

But not everyone has.

A thing that grates on me is when people demand things "Hi can i get ... I want... " when ordering things at a counter.

What happened to "I would like... or May i please have... ?"

It is a decline in politness and general behaviour in society ultimately.

What can one do 🤷‍♂️

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By *ineteen89Man
9 weeks ago

Swindon

I get meets from people who message me, and after a meet I'll drop a message, like "that was fun would like to do again", kind of message. Dut I don't know what's right to do afterwards - do I check back in next week and say "hi"? I never initiate, so I assume the person who messaged would drop a later message, but I really don't know

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Hets/Beds/Leeds

So ..someone does something you don’t like, so you call them rude..and then you’re rude about them.

But no they’re the rude ones for stopping taking to you.

Got it.

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By *tormQueenWoman
9 weeks ago

Manchester

Ive just got Mirandas mum in my head over the title 🙈🙈

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By *ellhungvweMan
9 weeks ago

Cheltenham

If it happens regularly OP then I would suggest the issue is not with them. If it is an occasional thing then don’t stress over it.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
9 weeks ago

Leeds

Well the pea brain comment is kind of a reason people don't say I'm not longer interested - because some peoples entitlement seems to cause them to believe if they chat the chances of a meet are high, they say no thanks not for me & get a load of abuse from said self entitled as a response for doing so.

Mrs

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By *legantEnigmaWoman
9 weeks ago

South of the Watford Gap

But sometimes conversations just naturally run their course. Even in real life. I bet you don't expect people to say face to face that they don't want to chat with you any more.

And is it better to just let things end naturally than to receive a message rejecting you?

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Some will stop chatting if they feel there's no spark or you're not looking for the same etc. Unfortunately it's easier to block or go quiet, because of those who get abusive when told someome has changed their minds.

If I change my mind, I usually tell someone why, before I block. But, I understand why others don't feel able to.

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"I really can't stick people who chat with you for a while, then you don't hear from them again.

Really isn't rocket science to just say they are no longer interested, or is that too much for their pea brain to comprehend!!!"
. I missed the pea brain comment earlier, that sort of attitude may be why people stop chatting op.

If people say something they don't like, that can often mean they'll stop engaging.

If it's happening regularly, maybe look at how you're speaking to others.

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By *ackformore100Man
9 weeks ago

Tin town


"I really can't stick people who chat with you for a while, then you don't hear from them again.

Really isn't rocket science to just say they are no longer interested, or is that too much for their pea brain to comprehend!!!"

Well yes indeed. There will be folks blaming you for it, for calling it out, and also those who don't think it's rude at all. Funny old game saint. Post a trip advisor rating...a feedback form.

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By *inkyandthebrain2023Couple
9 weeks ago

Cheshire


"I really can't stick people who chat with you for a while, then you don't hear from them again.

Really isn't rocket science to just say they are no longer interested, or is that too much for their pea brain to comprehend!!!"

We have have lost count of the amount of chats that fizzle out. They start out well at midnight maybe after a drink and horny its flows well a day or 2 later. But after 3 or 4 weeks and not met its safe to say its going nowhere.

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