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have to ask.......its the art of conversation dead?

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By *iss_serenity OP   Woman
over a year ago

nottingham

am i the only one that gets sick of the usual "what are u into" "whats ur fav position" blah blah crap?

ohh i feel so alone!! lol

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

nope your not alone, it's nice to just mince over the general things going on in life, theres more to life than sex sex and sex, ok it's a nice part of life but action is far better than words lol

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

just had a great overnight meet we talked and had a laff for about 6 hours of it lolguess you just need to find some common ground - if you can get them past the " fancy a shag" line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"am i the only one that gets sick of the usual "what are u into" "whats ur fav position" blah blah crap?

ohh i feel so alone!! lol"

You are not alone on that score as the ability to string a sentence together seems to allude most posters on here, but whilst on the subject I do quite like a bit of doggy action, how do you like to take it D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly a lot of swingers mail/msn conversations seem to go that way but perhaps I have been lucky I spend a lot of time chatting to some lovely swingers on MSN one of whom cant play at the mo due to pregnancy and others who we dont play with but are good friends. we talk about food, weather, holidays and everything but swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think its dead but sometimes its hard to know which way to approach certain people.

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By *iss_serenity OP   Woman
over a year ago

nottingham

i think its cause i've just spend a whole 5 mins talking to someone before they started going on about sex and when we're gonna meet. i miss actually having conversations with people. i just seem to be one of them people that actually has to have something in common and get on with on a certain level before i can bed hop with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You must be finding the wrong ones, lol. Like Jed (or sasha?), there are quite a few friends I now have on msn who I doubt I'll meet, and we talk about anything and everything.

Also, one of my favourite meets and I enjoy the chill time in between as much as the sex (but damn the sex is good too!)

All that said, you say you want to have something in common...but what do all the people on this site have in common? So is it really any suprise that you end up talking about it alot? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say that when I was a 'swingle' on here I made some fabulous friends, had some amazing conversations either on MSN or on the phone. But you have to get past the initial sex talk that comes with the territory on here...............

I think you soon get an idea of a guys level of conversational skills and if you work at it and let them know you want to get a bit deeper on that front you will be amazed what you can find on here.

xxx Raz xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say that when I was a 'swingle' on here I made some fabulous friends, had some amazing conversations either on MSN or on the phone. But you have to get past the initial sex talk that comes with the territory on here...............

I think you soon get an idea of a guys level of conversational skills and if you work at it and let them know you want to get a bit deeper on that front you will be amazed what you can find on here.

xxx Raz xxx"

Mmmm coversational skills what are them then xxx

Is that like "get ya kit off" and stuff like that xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmmm coversational skills what are them then xxx

Is that like "get ya kit off" and stuff like that xx "

and stuff and things, and maybe some more stuff?

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"am i the only one that gets sick of the usual "what are u into" "whats ur fav position" blah blah crap?

ohh i feel so alone!! lol"

Becca......... you miserable old bat.

Come to our Charity Night and whenever you feel like talking, I'll get a lucious man to fill ya gob!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe the art of conversation is still alive and well, just need to pick the right person to talk to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spoke to a lady for about a month and when I asked if she wanted to meet she was quite shocked and said 'I thought you just liked chatting' !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I spoke to a lady for about a month and when I asked if she wanted to meet she was quite shocked and said 'I thought you just liked chatting' !!!! "

Blimey u dont hang about do ya lol.

Pussygalore xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I spoke to a lady for about a month and when I asked if she wanted to meet she was quite shocked and said 'I thought you just liked chatting' !!!!

Blimey u dont hang about do ya lol.

Pussygalore xx"

I see you are up and about Madam!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I spoke to a lady for about a month and when I asked if she wanted to meet she was quite shocked and said 'I thought you just liked chatting' !!!!

Blimey u dont hang about do ya lol.

Pussygalore xx

I see you are up and about Madam!!!"

Indeed i am Mr Cognito

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I spoke to a lady for about a month and when I asked if she wanted to meet she was quite shocked and said 'I thought you just liked chatting' !!!!

Blimey u dont hang about do ya lol.

Pussygalore xx

I see you are up and about Madam!!!

Indeed i am Mr Cognito "

lol, good to see too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I spoke to a lady for about a month and when I asked if she wanted to meet she was quite shocked and said 'I thought you just liked chatting' !!!!

Blimey u dont hang about do ya lol.

Pussygalore xx

I see you are up and about Madam!!!

Indeed i am Mr Cognito

lol, good to see too "

And u sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to poke a stick in the hornets nest...so to speak....

If you want to chat about the weather and what you had for tea...Should you be on FaceBook??

Or Twatter or what evvver!!

This is a Swinging Site!

Right....Best get some Hesco Bastion and Wriggly Tin up to deflect the incoming....

Just giving the nest a poke honest xxxxxx

R&J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to poke a stick in the hornets nest...so to speak....

If you want to chat about the weather and what you had for tea...Should you be on FaceBook??

Or Twatter or what evvver!!

This is a Swinging Site!

Right....Best get some Hesco Bastion and Wriggly Tin up to deflect the incoming....

Just giving the nest a poke honest xxxxxx

R&J "

If it's a nest you want to poke shouldn't you join a bird watching site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to poke a stick in the hornets nest...so to speak....

If you want to chat about the weather and what you had for tea...Should you be on FaceBook??

Or Twatter or what evvver!!

This is a Swinging Site!

Right....Best get some Hesco Bastion and Wriggly Tin up to deflect the incoming....

Just giving the nest a poke honest xxxxxx

R&J

If it's a nest you want to poke shouldn't you join a bird watching site?"

Lol boom tish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to poke a stick in the hornets nest...so to speak....

If you want to chat about the weather and what you had for tea...Should you be on FaceBook??

Or Twatter or what evvver!!

This is a Swinging Site!

Right....Best get some Hesco Bastion and Wriggly Tin up to deflect the incoming....

Just giving the nest a poke honest xxxxxx

R&J

If it's a nest you want to poke shouldn't you join a bird watching site?

Lol boom tish "

Durrrrr Hornets Nest!! So it would be an Insect Site.....Boom Boom its the way I tell em xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If u dont like it then shut the door behind u oh and we're not all shallow minded to just wanna talk about sex sex sex on a swingers site cos thats YAWN boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"am i the only one that gets sick of the usual "what are u into" "whats ur fav position" blah blah crap?

ohh i feel so alone!! lol"

Shush .... telly's on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If u dont like it then shut the door behind u oh and we're not all shallow minded to just wanna talk about sex sex sex on a swingers site cos thats YAWN boring "

eeeeeew handbags......

As we said....just a bit of Devils Advocate....x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If u dont like it then shut the door behind u oh and we're not all shallow minded to just wanna talk about sex sex sex on a swingers site cos thats YAWN boring

eeeeeew handbags......

As we said....just a bit of Devils Advocate....x"

Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This actually happened to me at Chams, and I would react the same way again.

I was in one of the observation rooms watching some action, a gent standing next to me asked if I wanted to have some fun, without any small talk or introduction etc...

I said no.

Later that evening, I went to the jacuzzi and it was quite quiet by that time.

Got chatted to a gent who joined the handful of peeps in the jacuzzi.

I moved to a jet as recommended by one of the ladies, which happened to be next to this gent.

Chatted to him some more, and he then asked me very nicely if I would mind him touching me, and I said go ahead, as I was getting frisky because of the jet by then.

Let's say we both had a good time in the jacuzzi!

And we are planning out next trip to Chams!

So small talk does work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmmm coversational skills what are them then xxx

Is that like "get ya kit off" and stuff like that xx "

In your case Honey it wouldn't take much else xxx

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