FabSwingers.com forum: Compliments

By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

Am I the only one that send people messages stay how good they look, or on a good profile etc?

I never expect anything in return, maybe a thanks but that’s it. It’s just nice to be friendly.

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By *viatrixWoman
19 weeks ago

Back in Surrey, Dahlings!

Not really.

I get plenty of messages like that. 🎀

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By *ertsman46Man
19 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

I’ve sent messages like that no reply think it would be nice to say thank you I don’t expect anything else from it it’s just appreciate a good profile

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By *abulincsCouple
19 weeks ago

near a bridge

We get a few similar and always reply as such

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By *tillNewbiesCouple
19 weeks ago

Manchester

It’s always nice to be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Compliments are never sent just to be friendly on here. They're a way in. A bullshit one at that.

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By *tandardIssueNerdMan
19 weeks ago

Telford

I used to send a lot of messages like that.

But after seeing a thread on here about how some of the couples & single women don't like that, as they believed everyone who did that had ulterior motives, I've cut back. There were other reasons as well but I can't remember them now.

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By *eauNaturelMan
19 weeks ago

Malmesbury

"Not really.

I get plenty of messages like that. 🎀 "

Me too 😃

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By *ineteen89Man
19 weeks ago

Swindon

I could understand if some people are getting hundreds of messages a day, it just becomes unworkable when it comes to replying to every compliment

I think a fab on pictures is fine enough

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By *ou only live onceMan
19 weeks ago

London

No, not really. A fabbed pic or two will tell them I liked what I saw (if they check).

Isn't that a lot of wasted time, OP - just firing off what is effectively junk mail that you don't want people to respond to?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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19 weeks ago

East Sussex

We get occasional compliments. Quite a few are from people who are too far away to meet so we assume they're genuine. It does depend on the compliment of course, saying we look good 'for our age' doesn't land as intended

and saying things like we have the best pictures on the site or look half our age are just not credible. We have had one or two where the person says something like 'just wanted to say you look great. No response expected' followed by a brief thanks for any reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

I thought it was fairly common practice may stop

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
19 weeks ago

East Sussex

"No, not really. A fabbed pic or two will tell them I liked what I saw (if they check).

Isn't that a lot of wasted time, OP - just firing off what is effectively junk mail that you don't want people to respond to?"

I don't think genuinely meant compliments with no hidden agenda are a waste of time

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By *hinstrapMan
19 weeks ago

sheffield

Nothing wrong with taking the time to appreciate a god looking member. Might be a waste of time to some but each to there own. I have on a few occasions complimented and wished people well. Nothing wrong with it I don't think

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By *et and WillingCouple
19 weeks ago

Nuneaton

Mrs W&W gets lots of compliments too many to keep replying too , also like give compliments to profiles we like but would never expect a reply its not why we give the compliment x

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By *hisIsMe58Man
19 weeks ago

Winchester

I have been known to send a compliment and I don't expect a reply in return.

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By *ellinever70Woman
19 weeks ago

Ayrshire

For the people sending compliments and saying they don't expect anything in return....what's your motivation?

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By *hinstrapMan
19 weeks ago

sheffield

"For the people sending compliments and saying they don't expect anything in return....what's your motivation?"

Just bring nice and showing the love is enough reward in itself. It's free to be nice n polite

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

No I never message anyone first

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By *vaRoseWoman
19 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Genuine compliments, without any hidden agenda or ulterior motive are always appreciated here. Sadly many are sent with the hidden motives

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
19 weeks ago

East Sussex

I think given the nature of the site its fair to assume that most compliments are given with a view to at least engaging in conversation. It doesn't mean they aren't genuine.

It would be naive imo to think that the majority of people are just being nice and expect nothing in return.

There are exceptions as I said in my previous post.

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By *uliette500Woman
19 weeks ago

Hull

"I’ve sent messages like that no reply think it would be nice to say thank you I don’t expect anything else from it it’s just appreciate a good profile "

Nobody owes you a reply.

Messaging someone will allow them to message you again if you have your filters up at a later date.

I want my filters to work when I use them so I dont reply.

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By *eliWoman
19 weeks ago

I've messaged women before because I've seen lingerie I recognise, think they look fantastic in it and want to say that they look great. Or there was one woman from a couple and she had the most glorious hair/figure combination in a VR headset photo.

I give a compliment because it's meant and that's all there is to it (as in random people I don't know).

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By *inkyukxxxCouple
19 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

Who doesn’t love a nice respectful compliment

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By *etwife8230Couple
19 weeks ago

Newport

Compliments are nice to receive . I also send them with no hidden agenda sometimes it's just nice to be nice x

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By *tandardIssueNerdMan
19 weeks ago

Telford

"Who doesn’t love a nice respectful compliment "

Looking at this thread, quite a few people.

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
19 weeks ago

Niche

I have done a few times.

People I know I don't match preferences with but like the pics of or in reply to a status.

Credit where it's due and all that, no ulterior motives.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
19 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Nice tits luv, FAF?

I always give a compliment like that but, hardly ever get any messages back

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

"For the people sending compliments and saying they don't expect anything in return....what's your motivation?

Just bring nice and showing the love is enough reward in itself. It's free to be nice n polite "

I call bollocks on this.

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By *avexxMan
19 weeks ago

cheshire

sent odd compliment if i like the pictures, but never expect anything back

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By *inkyukxxxCouple
19 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

The thing is telling someone they wanna spunk over your wife or wanna fuck you hard ain’t a compliment lol

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By *cherryblossom-Woman
19 weeks ago

South glos

I’m very cynical of them, particularly if the person doesn’t know me well enough to be complimenting me

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By *ir and GoddessCouple
19 weeks ago

Frodsham

"Compliments are never sent just to be friendly on here. They're a way in. A bullshit one at that. "

Sadly this is so true. We get plenty of messages complimenting us and while occasionally it’s a genuine compliment, when we reply to say thanks, 95% take that as a chance to try and open a conversation or just send something totally inappropriate. Fortunately the block button sorts that out 😂

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By *007ManMan
19 weeks ago

Worthing

Women get told that in a lot of messages op. Be different op...maybe don't message and join in with forum/cam room chat. Get noticed.

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By *eardofVampiresWoman
19 weeks ago

Lancaster

I get loads usually...nice tits...good arse type though so don't really bother with them.

Don't really bother looking at fabs either.

Every now and then I get a decent one and respond as it's not been sexual and been about a comment or something.

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By *naswingdressWoman
19 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Most of the time here, a compliment here isn't just a compliment, it's a way in.

They're also wildly insincere - the moments I've taken my message filters down, I get told how outrageously sexy I am. Lads, it's a parsnip. Settle down.

I don't reply - if it really is just to be nice, congratulations, you've been nice. If it's for ulterior motives - well, often I get a follow up message throwing toys out of prams.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
19 weeks ago

Leeds

Compliments on here are like blokes crying they can’t get a reply, we’ve heard it all before.

The mr

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By *eroLondonMan
19 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Am I the only one that send people messages say how good they look, or on a good profile etc?"

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No, you are not the only one. You are amongst a hapless cohort of flatterers and 'complimenters' who desire nothing in return except a reply or a thank you.

It's a wasted effort and I don't subscribe to it.

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By *ou only live onceMan
19 weeks ago

London

"No, not really. A fabbed pic or two will tell them I liked what I saw (if they check).

Isn't that a lot of wasted time, OP - just firing off what is effectively junk mail that you don't want people to respond to?

I don't think genuinely meant compliments with no hidden agenda are a waste of time"

No, I know. It sounds harsher than it meant to now I read it back. A genuine compliment is obviously a nice thing.

I just meant the physical time the OP had to be spending searching profiles and compiling sending random messages which, on the face of it, most people seem not to like and in some cases don't even read. But I guess a better use of time than my just posting rubbish in the forum!

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By *ABflirtyWoman
19 weeks ago

Norfolk

"Am I the only one that send people messages stay how good they look, or on a good profile etc?

I never expect anything in return, maybe a thanks but that’s it. It’s just nice to be friendly. "
I can get a lot of letters like that and think it’s very sweet . They do that .

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By *ittlebirdWoman
19 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"Am I the only one that send people messages stay how good they look, or on a good profile etc?

I never expect anything in return, maybe a thanks but that’s it. It’s just nice to be friendly. "

No. You’re not the only one OP

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

I get messages like that but I'm awfully bad at accepting compliments

I generally ignore them as I'm not used to get them truth be told.

I get awkward as fook if someone compliments me 😏

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