FabSwingers.com forum: Straight guys with straight guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
15 weeks ago

I dont consider my self gay or bi etc, as I dont mind men attractive at all. I am interested however in their cocks. Any other straight guys like this?

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By *ealitybitesMan
15 weeks ago

Belfast

I wouldn't be straight if I was interested in another man's cock.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Well cock is the second best invention ever after boobs

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By *oubleDesireCouple
15 weeks ago

Somewhere

You are gay or bi. Deal with it.

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By *ellyAndYammiTV/TS
15 weeks ago

eastbourne

Think trying to reduce sexuality to straight, gay or bi doesn’t really always work.

Like gay men don’t find me attractive at all and I have a willy. But it’s not like every straight guy is ok with that either. And if a guy would sleep with me but then wouldn’t sleep with a man they aren’t exactly bisexual.

Think it’s ok to have fluid attraction to different aspects of people. I don’t really find any men aesthetically attractive compared to how feel for women, yet still enjoy sex with them from a mechanical perspective occasionally.

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By *acavityMan
15 weeks ago

Redditch

"You are gay or bi. Deal with it."

OP may be confusing sex and love.

Not wanting a relationship with someone of the same sex , but still enjoying playing with someone else’s cock.

There’s a lot of people in that area, which is why medical professionals don’t use those labels but alternate broader terms like “men loving men”

But as far as fab labels, OP should change to bi-curious or bi and accept that there is nothing wrong with enjoying someone else’s cock occasionally. He can put his limits in the profile.

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By *og and MuseCouple
15 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think sometimes we are metaphorically trying to cook a frozen ready meal on an open fire.

We've become a huge way in the last 50 years of sexual discovery & liberation yet we continue with the same three boxes to define everybody; gay straight or bi.

I think it's mostly man of a certain age that hold this attitude, younger people and women seem less insecure about defining themselves in one of three boxes

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By *histle79Man
15 weeks ago

Guildford

Classic fab straight.

I’m the same, I’m not attracted to guys and not interested in meeting a guy one on one but am up for some bi play in an MMF scenario.

Only tried it once (we wanked each other off as his Mrs watched) but left me curious enough to want to try it again.

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By *ANiCURETV/TS
15 weeks ago

Winchester

So are you choosing to be straight?

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By *ound1Man
15 weeks ago

Blackpool

Is confusing so don't label it lol

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By *acavityMan
15 weeks ago

Redditch

"I think sometimes we are metaphorically trying to cook a frozen ready meal on an open fire.

We've become a huge way in the last 50 years of sexual discovery & liberation yet we continue with the same three boxes to define everybody; gay straight or bi.

I think it's mostly man of a certain age that hold this attitude, younger people and women seem less insecure about defining themselves in one of three boxes"

There’s the Kinsey scale (which many people have issues with) which at least acknowledges that there are more variations than the big three

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
15 weeks ago

Manchester

This discussion really only seems to take place on planet Fab. In the real world nobody struggles to describe a guy who plays with another blokes cock.

Nobody would use the word straight.

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By *eroLondonMan
15 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I wouldn't be straight if I was interested in another man's cock."

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Precisely.

To answer the OP's question: nø, I'm not into this... because I'm straight.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Hets/Beds/Leeds

Again with mental gymnastics and ideas that orientation has proliferated into a hundred small slices.

If you feel ashamed to call yourself bi, just don’t act on it. Problem solved.

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By *olfiMan
15 weeks ago

Leeds

This is where I sit, I don't find men romantically attractive as such. Like I could never see myself being in a relationship with a guy.

But I do like cocks, just haven't been with one yet.

I classify myself as bi-curious for the time being. If I discover that I really like it, then it might change to just bisexual but for now it's curious

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By *dnmartinMan
15 weeks ago

Hounslow

OP, not quiet sure what your point is?

Been blunt, does it matter how you define yourself. If you want to say you are straight and fondle and fuck as many as you want (know that is not what to fuck, but you stretched the straight definition, where do you stop?), then you are straight.

It is up to you and only you how you define yourself. You don't need anyone else's permission.

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By *acavityMan
15 weeks ago

Redditch

"OP, not quiet sure what your point is?

It is up to you and only you how you define yourself. You don't need anyone else's permission."

I agree that the OP can pick whatever label he likes.

But if a straight male messaged me about some mutual cock play, I’d probably pass, because it’s a red flag for me, if someone is lying about things in their profile.

Equally some people on fab might pass if he labels himself bi. (Which is why fab-straight exists)

So OP doesn’t need permission, but should be aware that choices have consequences

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By *itheway99Man
15 weeks ago

harrow

I’m bi as fuck you are too mate, it’s ok

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By *ittlelad69Man
15 weeks ago

clay cross

I’m pretty much the same. Could never be in a relationship with a guy but love perving at cocks

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By *ineteen89Man
15 weeks ago

Swindon

I changed my thing from straight when I first joined to bi- curious. I could have left it on straight and hid all verifications, but me personally? Who would I be doing that for? I like being open about things like that. You never know what you might find you like, and there does not need to be any “shame” in it at all. Be as open or as discreet as you like/need to be.

Of course, advice from random denizens of the internet may or may not be useful

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By *iss DevilWoman
15 weeks ago

Hiding

OP, you are not straight. A straight guy is not interested in other men's cocks.

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By *stoppMan
15 weeks ago

Durham

I get a fair amount of interest from straight guys looking at my profile

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By *histle79Man
15 weeks ago

Guildford

Does it actually matter what OP chooses to class himself as??

It’s not as black and white as some make out on here.

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By *itheway99Man
15 weeks ago

harrow

"I’m pretty much the same. Could never be in a relationship with a guy but love perving at cocks"

That’s still bi

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By *itheway99Man
15 weeks ago

harrow

"I get a fair amount of interest from straight guys looking at my profile "

Could be something to do with the great looking Danny in your profile pic

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By *ackagain214Man
15 weeks ago

livingston

I know what you mean. I consider myself bi playful rather than bisexual down to the fact I dont find men attractive, dont want to kiss or fuck them. But I have wanked and sucked cocks in threesomes. And enjoyed it. Strange situation but there we are

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By *ackagain214Man
15 weeks ago

livingston

"Classic fab straight.

I’m the same, I’m not attracted to guys and not interested in meeting a guy one on one but am up for some bi play in an MMF scenario.

Only tried it once (we wanked each other off as his Mrs watched) but left me curious enough to want to try it again. "

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By *issmorganWoman
15 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

If you're interested in having fun with men, pop it on your profile and maybe call yourself bi curious.

Otherwise it's a bit deceptive op and people won't know what you're truly into or looking for.

I don't think actual straight people are interested in the same sex at all, in that way. A man's cock is still part of a man, it's not clear if you're looking to try it or have and liked it etc.

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By *atiekisskissWoman
15 weeks ago

London

Far too many 'straight' guys looking for cock on here lol

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By *rontmanMan
15 weeks ago

Derby and often London

I always considered myself as straight, but in all fairness I enjoy cock too much, so can only really be bi! But then it’s only a label, and does it really matter?

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
15 weeks ago

Manchester

"Far too many 'straight' guys looking for cock on here lol"

The most difficult thing on fab is finding a straight guy. Not fab straight but actually straight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
15 weeks ago

I didnt realise how many people seamed to relate to this, If you put bi on ur profile you seam to have an influx of guys wanting a relationship, but that's definitely not what I want

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By *taffsguy2025Man
15 weeks ago

Lichfield

Have Bi curious on my profile, I don't fancy men but would love a wank buddy local

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Chichester

Just do you op

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By *xcited And CuriousCouple
15 weeks ago

Dublin

Mr here.

Surely if a man is interested in or turned on by cocks, then while he may be reluctant to use the labels gay, curious or bi, he can't use the label straight?

Can a vegan enjoy a beef burger? Can they legitimately claim to be vegan if they do enjoy a burger? Or are they then vegan-curious?

Can an electric vehicle advocate use a petrol engine car?

I prefer country roads but I sometimes use motorways.

I'm generally a fan of labels & definitions, but my opinion & perspective is determined by my own observation rather than other people's claims or self-label.

If I was at a swing party and saw a guy giving another guy a blowjob or a handjob, calling either of them straight just wouldn't sit with me.

Agree with the idea of don't overthink the labels, just enjoy whatever you enjoy, but some folk need & appreciate labels.

Maybe the fab-straight thing is valid? Maybe straight/bi/curious/gay is actually a sliding scale? 0 is repulsed by cocks, 100 is addicted to and wants only cocks?

I do admire and appreciate a quality cock, but if I find myself turned on when I see it, it's exclusively from imagining P enjoying sucking or fucking it. Me doing anything with it or to it myself never comes on my radar nor turns me on.

Anyway, enjoy my straight cock pic lads...

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By *onin25Man
15 weeks ago

Durham

Maybe straight/bi/curious/gay is actually a sliding scale? 0 is repulsed by cocks, 100 is addicted to and wants only cocks?

I think it's something like this, everyone is different.

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By *unguy2429Man
15 weeks ago

worthing

You don’t need labelling if you want to explore.

Enjoy life have fun

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By *fterHoursTemptingTwosomeCouple
15 weeks ago

lincs

I personally think, let’s stop labelling ourselves with any of these.

How do we really know if we’re gay straight bi…. If you haven’t tried it, you don’t actually know. If you do try it does then that mean your bi/gay?

I don’t know, it’s just confusing so I think let’s get rid of labels. If you are interested cool, if you’re not, also cool!

Happy Tuesday, M xx

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By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I really don’t see what’s so confusing about it!

I would NEVER be in a relationship with a woman. Doesn’t mean I’m not bisexual! This kind of thing has always baffled me. If you suck a cock or fuck a bloke you’re not straight. It’s not rocket science.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"I personally think, let’s stop labelling ourselves with any of these.

How do we really know if we’re gay straight bi…. If you haven’t tried it, you don’t actually know. If you do try it does then that mean your bi/gay?

I don’t know, it’s just confusing so I think let’s get rid of labels. If you are interested cool, if you’re not, also cool!

Happy Tuesday, M xx "

This makes no sense either. You don’t have to try something to know you don’t want it.

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By *ngrylookingpenis123Woman
15 weeks ago

I'm vegetarian, I do eat meat I'm just not attracted to it

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By *ealitybitesMan
15 weeks ago

Belfast

"I personally think, let’s stop labelling ourselves with any of these.

How do we really know if we’re gay straight bi…. If you haven’t tried it, you don’t actually know. If you do try it does then that mean your bi/gay?

I don’t know, it’s just confusing so I think let’s get rid of labels. If you are interested cool, if you’re not, also cool!

Happy Tuesday, M xx

This makes no sense either. You don’t have to try something to know you don’t want it. "

Surely you know by now that the laws of the fab forums state clearly that if you don't try something you are afraid of your own sexuality or you are lying to yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I’m straight but have shagged a tgirl. I’ve yet to touch another cock but would like to give it a go x

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By *ookingFor.....Man
15 weeks ago

Horsham/Crawley

"I dont consider my self gay or bi etc, as I dont mind men attractive at all. I am interested however in their cocks. Any other straight guys like this?"

You’re bisexual, which is fine.

However if you prefer to identify as straight but want to cross swords with other straight guys, that’s also fine.

The problem is that most straight men consider that kind of caper a bit too gay for them.

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By *atiekisskissWoman
15 weeks ago

London

"Far too many 'straight' guys looking for cock on here lol

The most difficult thing on fab is finding a straight guy. Not fab straight but actually straight. "

So true!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
15 weeks ago

Reading

"Well cock is the second best invention ever after boobs

Totally agree

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By *ookingFor.....Man
15 weeks ago

Horsham/Crawley

"Far too many 'straight' guys looking for cock on here lol"

Which is fine by me, but often they’ve had a wank and logged off before anything happens…

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By *outhstaffscoupleCouple
15 weeks ago

cannock

Same really OP, id never meet a guy solo, and dont find guys attractive but oral in a mmf happens quite often for us

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By *bwlover1971Man
15 weeks ago

Lowestoft

If you have thoughts about cock, have touched a cock, sucked a cock or had any sexual contact with another man then you definitely aren’t straight!

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