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By (user no longer on site) OP   
16 weeks ago

Kissing yes or no ?

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By *sWyldWoman
16 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Absolutely yes. Always .

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By *om_38Man
16 weeks ago

stoke

Defiantly yes

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By *tamanMan
16 weeks ago

around the corner

Obviously yes, is a must and most of the times,IMO is better than sex! 😊

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
16 weeks ago

Next Door

YES

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By *aggy dollsCouple
16 weeks ago

bradford

Essential.

Mr H

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By *infullyObedientWoman
16 weeks ago

Woodley

Oh definitely, has to be kissing!

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By *007ManMan
16 weeks ago

Worthing

Yes if we both have feelings for each other. If I don't know the lady, she has to move in first for one.

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By *earditallWoman
16 weeks ago

Lancaster

Absolutely yes

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By *cherryblossom-Woman
16 weeks ago

South glos

Only if they’ve got their own teeth

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By *orksguy1965Man
16 weeks ago

Howden

I love a good passionate snog

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By *tamanMan
16 weeks ago

around the corner


"Only if they’ve got their own teeth "

And not those shiny "turkish beaver" appearances!

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By *cherryblossom-Woman
16 weeks ago

South glos


"Only if they’ve got their own teeth

And not those shiny "turkish beaver" appearances! "

Yes, I don’t want to wear my sunglasses and get up close and personal with their tic tacs for a snog

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By *tamanMan
16 weeks ago

around the corner


"Only if they’ve got their own teeth

And not those shiny "turkish beaver" appearances!

Yes, I don’t want to wear my sunglasses and get up close and personal with their tic tacs for a snog "

Lol 🤣🤣🤣

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By *issmorganWoman
16 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Yes, for sure.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
16 weeks ago

Birmingham

Yes. No kissing, no meeting.

XX

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By *aughtyPumpkinWoman
16 weeks ago

Haxey/Epworth/Belton area

There’s no way in hell I’m ever meeting somebody who doesn’t kiss

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
16 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Is this a trick question?

No snoggy, no doggy!

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By *730tMan
16 weeks ago

bretton

Love kissing

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By *utoftheBluexWoman
16 weeks ago

Bot Farm

Oh yeah 💋

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By *eekySweetheartWoman
16 weeks ago

Hampshire

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By *ilkey69Man
16 weeks ago

Barnsley

Always yes

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By *artorialMan
16 weeks ago

weymouth

Absolutely

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
16 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"Absolutely "

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Million percent YES! My absolute favourite thing to do. Love a passionate kiss 💋 would never meet if kissing was off the table

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By *p4fun60Couple
16 weeks ago

Hampshire

It surprises us the amount of women who will happily kiss me & let my hubbie slip his cock into them, but not his tongue into her mouth - the excuse is always the same

"It's too personal"

ffs get over yourselves, like having his cock in your mouth or his tongue up your arse isn't too personal, really! - the amount of potential playdates that have been scuppered at the social stage when this revelation comes out, maybe worth putting that small detail in your bio & saving everyone a lot of time

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Kissing is essential. All part of the arousal and pleasure.

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By *avexxMan
16 weeks ago

cheshire

yes its a must

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By *ice guy finishes lastMan
16 weeks ago

scunthorpe

Definitely or it's just not worth having sex ,got to be some passion

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
16 weeks ago

Swansea


"It surprises us the amount of women who will happily kiss me & let my hubbie slip his cock into them, but not his tongue into her mouth - the excuse is always the same

"It's too personal"

ffs get over yourselves, like having his cock in your mouth or his tongue up your arse isn't too personal, really! - the amount of potential playdates that have been scuppered at the social stage when this revelation comes out, maybe worth putting that small detail in your bio & saving everyone a lot of time "

We are not that type of couple - we both love kissing - but I think you're missing the point which is about the separation of intimacy and sex. You can do all kinds of sexual acts without any intimate connection but (for many people) not kissing.

You can have sex without intimacy and intimacy without sex - you can even have non sexual intimacy. Personally, intimacy comes much higher up my list and I don't really enjoy sex without it - hence my wife and I both kiss while swinging but we understand why others may not. It isn't a situation that will work for us other than perhaps in a club but we understand why some feel this.

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
16 weeks ago

South Wales

Always a yes!! Xx 😘

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By *oupleSeducedCouple
16 weeks ago

Canterbury/Greenwich

Definitely yes

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By * D 777Man
16 weeks ago

bathgate

Yes

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By *ecretxLoverWoman
16 weeks ago

Glasgow

Definitely yes x

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By *1876Man
16 weeks ago

Dudley

Yes, absolutely

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By *2thomMan
16 weeks ago

Massive turn on. Totally into it!

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By *gincourt_againMan
16 weeks ago

in the shadows of a mountain

Only one reason why there wouldn’t be kissing but that’s for a different thread 🥷🏼

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
16 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Vitally important but can get too much if not enough else is happening lol

F x

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By *manteeCouple
16 weeks ago

Manchester

Definitely yes

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By *az2019Man
16 weeks ago

Yorkshire & Manchester

Absolute yes

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
16 weeks ago

Tamworth


"It surprises us the amount of women who will happily kiss me & let my hubbie slip his cock into them, but not his tongue into her mouth - the excuse is always the same

"It's too personal"

ffs get over yourselves, like having his cock in your mouth or his tongue up your arse isn't too personal, really! - the amount of potential playdates that have been scuppered at the social stage when this revelation comes out, maybe worth putting that small detail in your bio & saving everyone a lot of time "

Bit judgemental.

Kissing is important for me but I’ve no issue with those who choose not to, they’re just not for me.

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By *ib.Man
16 weeks ago

Hampshire

Good kissing is some of the best foreplay.

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Yes, if I don’t want to kiss ….

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

16 weeks ago

East Sussex

Nope.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
16 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

Absolutely!!

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By *onin25Man
16 weeks ago

Durham

Yes please

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By *hil153Man
16 weeks ago

Bournemouth

Definate yes

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

A 1000% yes find them so arousing

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Yes

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By *acedInLuxuryWoman
16 weeks ago

Scotland

1000% yes, kissing is the best kind of foreplay if done right

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By *ABflirtyWoman
16 weeks ago

Norfolk

Yes yes and yes ......... loads of snoging and kissing.

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By *et and WillingCouple
16 weeks ago

Nuneaton

If no kissing we wouldnt meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Yeah when you get lost in a kiss leads to a million roads

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By *onyHoveMan
16 weeks ago

North East

Accentuates the joy of everything. A yes from me

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By *idsAndyMan
16 weeks ago

Worcestershire

100% yes! I love kissing

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By *uperSalopian7Man
16 weeks ago

Parts Unknown

I love smooching 💋

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Kissing is a must

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By *egoMan
16 weeks ago

Preston

Oh its a must, turns me on, no kissing is like missing the on switch and i just wont perform.

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By *carlettsWoman
16 weeks ago

Harpenden

Absolutely, gets the passion started. No kissing meets for me were a no as I adore kisses

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By *elboy1978Man
16 weeks ago

Jarrow

Yes kissing is part of the experience

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By *he milf next doorWoman
16 weeks ago

bluebell woods

No

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By *herry77Woman
16 weeks ago

North West

Definitely, it’s my favourite! I’d rather having kissing and no sex than sex and no kissing

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
16 weeks ago

Round the bend

Absolutely. And lots of it.

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By *andsCouple
16 weeks ago

Edin

Absolutely yes

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By *bwlover372Man
16 weeks ago

high wycombe

Kissing is some of the best foreplay

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By *asty tatsyMan
16 weeks ago

london

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Absolutely, most things start from the intimacy and connection that comes with the kiss

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
16 weeks ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

Oh a definite yes, its a very big part of foreplay for me x

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
16 weeks ago

Niche

Kisses are the ticket to more.

If I don't want your kiss at all, or don't enjoy it, then it's a no to anything else.

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By *gincourt_againMan
16 weeks ago

in the shadows of a mountain

Cheiloproclitic

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Yes!

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By *exyangietgirlTV/TS
16 weeks ago

edinburgh

Yes, definitely. XX

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
16 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

Yes

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By *harlestigerMan
16 weeks ago

derby

Definitely a must

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By *emptme1993Man
16 weeks ago

manchester

Absolutely yes

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By *aughty CornishmanMan
16 weeks ago

Newquay

Absolutely, its so important I think.

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By *reysweatzzMan
16 weeks ago

Nearby

1000% yes

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By *issaranochickWoman
16 weeks ago

your car

Yes 💋 😘

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By *p4fun60Couple
16 weeks ago

Hampshire


"It surprises us the amount of women who will happily kiss me & let my hubbie slip his cock into them, but not his tongue into her mouth - the excuse is always the same

"It's too personal"

ffs get over yourselves, like having his cock in your mouth or his tongue up your arse isn't too personal, really! - the amount of potential playdates that have been scuppered at the social stage when this revelation comes out, maybe worth putting that small detail in your bio & saving everyone a lot of time

Bit judgemental.

Kissing is important for me but I’ve no issue with those who choose not to, they’re just not for me. "

Absolutely not judgemental, & you've only got to read the amount of replies on this thread that say the same- no kissing no play- our point purely is be up front about what you want or don't want on your profile, that way it saves a lot of wasted time for everyone, & as much as we'd agree that some may find kissing too intimate, we'd argue that you cant be more intimate than allowing someone to have oral sex, & yes whilst we'd agree you can have sex without intimacy,to us, whilst not being emotional involved with someone, would still require a degree of intimacy to have a good playdate,too many rules or caveats simply lead to sex & normally in our opinion only mediocre sex at that, & who wants just mediocre, but I take on board your opinion as a single girl & thankyou for sharing it

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By *ace400Man
16 weeks ago

my back yard

Definitely kissing I feel it’s part of the fun and also cuddling

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By *jslookingforfunMan
16 weeks ago

liverpool

Absolutely yes, a connection is important

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
16 weeks ago

Tamworth


"It surprises us the amount of women who will happily kiss me & let my hubbie slip his cock into them, but not his tongue into her mouth - the excuse is always the same

"It's too personal"

ffs get over yourselves, like having his cock in your mouth or his tongue up your arse isn't too personal, really! - the amount of potential playdates that have been scuppered at the social stage when this revelation comes out, maybe worth putting that small detail in your bio & saving everyone a lot of time

Bit judgemental.

Kissing is important for me but I’ve no issue with those who choose not to, they’re just not for me.

Absolutely not judgemental, & you've only got to read the amount of replies on this thread that say the same- no kissing no play- our point purely is be up front about what you want or don't want on your profile, that way it saves a lot of wasted time for everyone, & as much as we'd agree that some may find kissing too intimate, we'd argue that you cant be more intimate than allowing someone to have oral sex, & yes whilst we'd agree you can have sex without intimacy,to us, whilst not being emotional involved with someone, would still require a degree of intimacy to have a good playdate,too many rules or caveats simply lead to sex & normally in our opinion only mediocre sex at that, & who wants just mediocre, but I take on board your opinion as a single girl & thankyou for sharing it "

It was the ‘get over yourself’ - like I say, I enjoy kissing but I think it’s unfair to say people who’ve set a certain boundary should get over themselves.

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By *uteguyhereMan
16 weeks ago

leeds

Yes!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

16 weeks ago

East Sussex


"It surprises us the amount of women who will happily kiss me & let my hubbie slip his cock into them, but not his tongue into her mouth - the excuse is always the same

"It's too personal"

ffs get over yourselves, like having his cock in your mouth or his tongue up your arse isn't too personal, really! - the amount of potential playdates that have been scuppered at the social stage when this revelation comes out, maybe worth putting that small detail in your bio & saving everyone a lot of time

Bit judgemental.

Kissing is important for me but I’ve no issue with those who choose not to, they’re just not for me.

Absolutely not judgemental, & you've only got to read the amount of replies on this thread that say the same- no kissing no play- our point purely is be up front about what you want or don't want on your profile, that way it saves a lot of wasted time for everyone, & as much as we'd agree that some may find kissing too intimate, we'd argue that you cant be more intimate than allowing someone to have oral sex, & yes whilst we'd agree you can have sex without intimacy,to us, whilst not being emotional involved with someone, would still require a degree of intimacy to have a good playdate,too many rules or caveats simply lead to sex & normally in our opinion only mediocre sex at that, & who wants just mediocre, but I take on board your opinion as a single girl & thankyou for sharing it "

When we're meeting we don't kiss our casual partners passionately on the mouth. We make it clear on our profile so nobody needs to contact us if kissing is a must.

These threads always have many more people saying that kissing is a must and it adds to the intimacy etc but I'm left wondering why people need to seek that degree of intimacy outside of their relationship and with people that they only have a superficial relationship with. Of course that's my opinion only and I absolutely accept that everyone must play in a way that suits them

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
16 weeks ago

Glasgow / London / Manchester

Kissing is everything to me. The stuff of life itself.

There’s nothing better than that first kiss of the night. The one that comes after hours of flirting and talking and wondering whether the chemistry goes both ways. The kiss that’s a little nervous to start with, but just keeps going and building and … well, it leaves you breathless, looking into each other’s eyes, and knowing that there’s going to be more.

I like kissing.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
16 weeks ago

Manchester

With you, OP? No thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

I find kissing someone just as intimate as sex, so I'm only kissing those I'm having the sex with.

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
16 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire


"These threads always have many more people saying that kissing is a must and it adds to the intimacy etc but I'm left wondering why people need to seek that degree of intimacy outside of their relationship and with people that they only have a superficial relationship with. Of course that's my opinion only and I absolutely accept that everyone must play in a way that suits them "

It's not a matter of needing to seek intimacy, it's a matter of wanting to, and enjoying it. If you enjoy intimacy, then why wouldn't you want to be intimate with as many people as possible?

And lots of people just don't enjoy emotionless sex - it's why most of us are here rather than just paying for it.

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By *naswingdressWoman
16 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's my preference, but I'm not going to criticise others for feeling differently.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
16 weeks ago

up a bit, right a bit...that's the spot

With someone I find attractive? Hell yes!

There's not much chance of The Sex happening unless there's plenty of kissing during foreplay.

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By *hat.coupleCouple
16 weeks ago

Kent


"It surprises us the amount of women who will happily kiss me & let my hubbie slip his cock into them, but not his tongue into her mouth - the excuse is always the same

"It's too personal"

ffs get over yourselves, like having his cock in your mouth or his tongue up your arse isn't too personal, really! - the amount of potential playdates that have been scuppered at the social stage when this revelation comes out, maybe worth putting that small detail in your bio & saving everyone a lot of time

Bit judgemental.

Kissing is important for me but I’ve no issue with those who choose not to, they’re just not for me.

Absolutely not judgemental, & you've only got to read the amount of replies on this thread that say the same- no kissing no play- our point purely is be up front about what you want or don't want on your profile, that way it saves a lot of wasted time for everyone, & as much as we'd agree that some may find kissing too intimate, we'd argue that you cant be more intimate than allowing someone to have oral sex, & yes whilst we'd agree you can have sex without intimacy,to us, whilst not being emotional involved with someone, would still require a degree of intimacy to have a good playdate,too many rules or caveats simply lead to sex & normally in our opinion only mediocre sex at that, & who wants just mediocre, but I take on board your opinion as a single girl & thankyou for sharing it

It was the ‘get over yourself’ - like I say, I enjoy kissing but I think it’s unfair to say people who’ve set a certain boundary should get over themselves. "

Agreed, we honestly dont care if the person we meet wants to kiss or not, the real fun is in what else you get up besides kissing in our opinion. Besides just having preferences and setting boundaries some people may not want to kiss due to them finding it overstimulating. I can get that way myself to be fair, happy to kiss but its just not that important to me.

Incidentally, we have a meet planned with a lovely lady who has said shes not into kissing men. It doesnt bother us at all, she has her boundaries and we will respect them. We'd be stupid to turn down a meet with a lovely lady just because she didn't want to kiss one of us.

Bring on the fun! Lol

Mrs x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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16 weeks ago

East Sussex


"These threads always have many more people saying that kissing is a must and it adds to the intimacy etc but I'm left wondering why people need to seek that degree of intimacy outside of their relationship and with people that they only have a superficial relationship with. Of course that's my opinion only and I absolutely accept that everyone must play in a way that suits them

It's not a matter of needing to seek intimacy, it's a matter of wanting to, and enjoying it. If you enjoy intimacy, then why wouldn't you want to be intimate with as many people as possible?

And lots of people just don't enjoy emotionless sex - it's why most of us are here rather than just paying for it. "

Ah the link between no kissing, lack of emotion and sex work.

It's an argument that will never be settled and one boundary that seems to be very difficult for people to accept

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By *estructionDollyWoman
16 weeks ago

Manchester

I absolutely need kissing as part of foreplay and sex, others don't. We wouldn't be compatible, so I wouldn't have sex with them. We don't need to argue about who is "right". Everyone is allowed to have their own boundries.

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Absolutely yes, love kissing

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By *naswingdressWoman
16 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I absolutely need kissing as part of foreplay and sex, others don't. We wouldn't be compatible, so I wouldn't have sex with them. We don't need to argue about who is "right". Everyone is allowed to have their own boundries. "

Absolutely agreed.

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By *inkPomPomWoman
16 weeks ago

Isle of Man

Absolutely

I have never and could not do it without

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

16 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I absolutely need kissing as part of foreplay and sex, others don't. We wouldn't be compatible, so I wouldn't have sex with them. We don't need to argue about who is "right". Everyone is allowed to have their own boundries. "

You'd think wouldn't you that wouldn't need to be said but here we are 🤷‍♀️

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By *eroLondonMan
16 weeks ago

Mayfair

Yes. Absolutely.

I cannot imagine myself entwined or ensconced within the company of a woman without the tactile overtures of kissing. Without kissing everything feels hollow and empty. How do you ignite the passion if there is no kissing?

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By *naswingdressWoman
16 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I absolutely need kissing as part of foreplay and sex, others don't. We wouldn't be compatible, so I wouldn't have sex with them. We don't need to argue about who is "right". Everyone is allowed to have their own boundries.

You'd think wouldn't you that wouldn't need to be said but here we are 🤷‍♀️"

It always surprises me the vehemence that comes out around this topic.

Ropes, sounding, etc? Some people like it, some people don't.

Kissing - here's the Gospel According to Fabio and thou shalt not deviate 🤦‍♀️

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By *eter4599Man
16 weeks ago

Liverpool

Absolutely😁

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By *ackandsallyCouple
16 weeks ago

Ireland

Yeah 100%, would feel strange not too for us

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By *reebo74Woman
16 weeks ago

solihull

Always! 🥵

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By *hat.coupleCouple
16 weeks ago

Kent


"Yes. Absolutely.

I cannot imagine myself entwined or ensconced within the company of a woman without the tactile overtures of kissing. Without kissing everything feels hollow and empty. How do you ignite the passion if there is no kissing?"

I find eye contact intensely intimate, far more than kissing. The act of sex itself is the ultimate act of intimacy for me. But thats just me x

Mrs x

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
16 weeks ago

Chester

I love kissing 💋

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Most definitely 💯

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By *aptainphoenixxxMan
16 weeks ago

Cheshire

Is there anyone who thinks no? I’d be interested to know why you wouldn’t want to kiss 🤷‍♂️

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By *icecouple561Couple
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16 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I absolutely need kissing as part of foreplay and sex, others don't. We wouldn't be compatible, so I wouldn't have sex with them. We don't need to argue about who is "right". Everyone is allowed to have their own boundries.

You'd think wouldn't you that wouldn't need to be said but here we are 🤷‍♀️

It always surprises me the vehemence that comes out around this topic.

Ropes, sounding, etc? Some people like it, some people don't.

Kissing - here's the Gospel According to Fabio and thou shalt not deviate 🤦‍♀️"

I heave a heavy sigh every time I see 'Pretty Woman' 'cold and emotionless' etc

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By *icecouple561Couple
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16 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Is there anyone who thinks no? I’d be interested to know why you wouldn’t want to kiss 🤷‍♂️"

There are some of us.

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By *av-RickMan
16 weeks ago

Nearby

I can't imagine having a meet without kissing if you are willing to get intimate with someone - all adds to the build up and tension.

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By *orbidden eastMan
16 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

Yes always. If it’s possible, of course

You can tell a lot of things by a kiss 😎

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
16 weeks ago

Lancashire

It’s the most important element for me.

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By *oe n JayCouple
16 weeks ago

Surrey

Absolutely

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By *outhman15Man
16 weeks ago

southampton

Kissing is a massive turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago


"Only if they’ve got their own teeth "

Love that

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By *rG81Man
16 weeks ago

near Manchester and Halifax

Kissing is everything! The start the middle the end!

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
16 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Kissing is a massive part for us

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By *igBeardyDanMan
16 weeks ago

Bilston

Id say definitely but the last couple i had the pleasure of playing with had a no kissing rule

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By *n love with a notionCouple
16 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Essential or would not meet

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By *ucer777Man
16 weeks ago

n81

I used love watching my ex kissing the other guy when we had a few threesomes.really deep and passionate kissing they would get into.

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
16 weeks ago

Niche


"Is there anyone who thinks no? I’d be interested to know why you wouldn’t want to kiss 🤷‍♂️"

Those who engage in purely physical functional acts wouldn't necessarily want to have that boundary crossed.

Kissing, mouths, tongues, scents, tastes, right up literally in your face.... much more intimate than 'p in v'.

Both involve body parts inside you but one's harder to detach and dissociate from mentally.

One's harder to be unemotional about.

And it's not only couples. Singles have physical boundaries too.

I'd not have physical contact with just anyone. Figuring out if I'd be comfortable kissing someone is the perfect test of attraction.

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By *erkshire8299Man
16 weeks ago

slough

A snog on the sofa...yummy

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By *icecouple561Couple
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16 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Is there anyone who thinks no? I’d be interested to know why you wouldn’t want to kiss 🤷‍♂️

Those who engage in purely physical functional acts wouldn't necessarily want to have that boundary crossed.

Kissing, mouths, tongues, scents, tastes, right up literally in your face.... much more intimate than 'p in v'.

Both involve body parts inside you but one's harder to detach and dissociate from mentally.

One's harder to be unemotional about.

And it's not only couples. Singles have physical boundaries too.

I'd not have physical contact with just anyone. Figuring out if I'd be comfortable kissing someone is the perfect test of attraction. "

What differentiates kissing from other purely functional, physical acts?

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By *eroLondonMan
16 weeks ago

Mayfair


"It’s the most important element for me."

Is there any chance you could leave an indelible mark of your Dior™ 999 Rouge on my pristine-white collar?

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
16 weeks ago

Niche


"Is there anyone who thinks no? I’d be interested to know why you wouldn’t want to kiss 🤷‍♂️

Those who engage in purely physical functional acts wouldn't necessarily want to have that boundary crossed.

Kissing, mouths, tongues, scents, tastes, right up literally in your face.... much more intimate than 'p in v'.

Both involve body parts inside you but one's harder to detach and dissociate from mentally.

One's harder to be unemotional about.

And it's not only couples. Singles have physical boundaries too.

I'd not have physical contact with just anyone. Figuring out if I'd be comfortable kissing someone is the perfect test of attraction.

What differentiates kissing from other purely functional, physical acts?"

Well you can of course be a functional mechanical kisser I suppose. Wet slap of the tongue and suck the life out of them.

That's not the kissing I was thinking of.

I was thinking of the intimate, sensual kind where you make love to their entire face tiny sips and nips, dips and lips, you have mouth sex and communicate how much you adore getting naked with someone with your lips tongue teeth and breath.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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16 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Is there anyone who thinks no? I’d be interested to know why you wouldn’t want to kiss 🤷‍♂️

Those who engage in purely physical functional acts wouldn't necessarily want to have that boundary crossed.

Kissing, mouths, tongues, scents, tastes, right up literally in your face.... much more intimate than 'p in v'.

Both involve body parts inside you but one's harder to detach and dissociate from mentally.

One's harder to be unemotional about.

And it's not only couples. Singles have physical boundaries too.

I'd not have physical contact with just anyone. Figuring out if I'd be comfortable kissing someone is the perfect test of attraction.

What differentiates kissing from other purely functional, physical acts?

Well you can of course be a functional mechanical kisser I suppose. Wet slap of the tongue and suck the life out of them.

That's not the kissing I was thinking of.

I was thinking of the intimate, sensual kind where you make love to their entire face tiny sips and nips, dips and lips, you have mouth sex and communicate how much you adore getting naked with someone with your lips tongue teeth and breath."

Are you assuming other sexual activities are functional and mechanical if not preceded by kissing?

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
16 weeks ago

Niche


"Is there anyone who thinks no? I’d be interested to know why you wouldn’t want to kiss 🤷‍♂️

Those who engage in purely physical functional acts wouldn't necessarily want to have that boundary crossed.

Kissing, mouths, tongues, scents, tastes, right up literally in your face.... much more intimate than 'p in v'.

Both involve body parts inside you but one's harder to detach and dissociate from mentally.

One's harder to be unemotional about.

And it's not only couples. Singles have physical boundaries too.

I'd not have physical contact with just anyone. Figuring out if I'd be comfortable kissing someone is the perfect test of attraction.

What differentiates kissing from other purely functional, physical acts?

Well you can of course be a functional mechanical kisser I suppose. Wet slap of the tongue and suck the life out of them.

That's not the kissing I was thinking of.

I was thinking of the intimate, sensual kind where you make love to their entire face tiny sips and nips, dips and lips, you have mouth sex and communicate how much you adore getting naked with someone with your lips tongue teeth and breath.

Are you assuming other sexual activities are functional and mechanical if not preceded by kissing? "

One should never assume anything.

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By *hibariDom2025Man
16 weeks ago

Hayle

We're all wired up different and kissing just isn't for everyone. But me, personally, l love to kiss and be kissed. Soft sensual kisses as light as a breath to the base primal ones full of lust and need once the hungers set free.

Kissing is often underestimated in the effects it can have.

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By *xoticLonghairMan
16 weeks ago

East Mids

100% I love a snogging

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By *rchie300Man
16 weeks ago

Hamworthy

Me too , very important

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By *lwayslooking22Man
16 weeks ago

newcastle

Yes it’s best part

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By *ilkey69Man
16 weeks ago

Barnsley


"It surprises us the amount of women who will happily kiss me & let my hubbie slip his cock into them, but not his tongue into her mouth - the excuse is always the same

"It's too personal"

ffs get over yourselves, like having his cock in your mouth or his tongue up your arse isn't too personal, really! - the amount of potential playdates that have been scuppered at the social stage when this revelation comes out, maybe worth putting that small detail in your bio & saving everyone a lot of time "

I totally agree this always confused me too

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By *rG81Man
16 weeks ago

near Manchester and Halifax

Kissing is the most important part of it all x

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By *ofuMan
16 weeks ago

london

Yes off course all those nerve endings on the tongue and lips and it’s so passionate and intimate

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Kissing?...... Abso-fucking-lutely!!

If there's no kissing, there's no meet.

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By *ominic 300Man
16 weeks ago

isle of Wight

Absolutely!

Love kissing my girl love her soft lips 💋

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By *ralExpert79Man
16 weeks ago

Newquay

100%. I adore kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Definitely a yes

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By *ingle12Man
16 weeks ago

Newcastle

Yes

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By *abulous guyMan
16 weeks ago

West Yorkshire

Has to be or else it's a deal breaker

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By *rs spicyCouple
16 weeks ago

Chesterfield near town cebtre

I love a good kiss, especially the unexpected snogs on a night out!

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By *unseeker100Man
16 weeks ago

batley

Rude if you don't

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By *u4rFunMan
16 weeks ago

wigan

Yes

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By *ineapplePixieCouple
16 weeks ago

S.Wales

We are both a yes to kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Definitely yes to kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Kissing is a must you get lost in a good kiss before you know it the clothes are on the floor and it’s lead to far greater things

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By *lutsadieTV/TS
16 weeks ago

Hinckley

Oh yes xxx

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By *attooedwelshguy7Man
16 weeks ago

Gwent

Kissing is a must for me. I can’t meet someone if kissing is off the table

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By *arly_tv31Man
16 weeks ago

Wrexham

Yes

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By *inky fun couple 2027Couple
16 weeks ago

Scarborough

Definitely yes

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