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By *egDayEnthusiast OP   Man
26 weeks ago

NorthWest

To stop you moaning about how many messages you get, how everyone ignores your profile, how they send you unsolicited pics, how they're under 6ft tall.

Use your filters, you're welcome

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By *iss KinkWoman
26 weeks ago

Up North

Great advice but there isn’t a filter for everything!

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By *cherryblossom-Woman
26 weeks ago

South glos


"To stop you moaning about how many messages you get, how everyone ignores your profile, how they send you unsolicited pics, how they're under 6ft tall.

Use your filters, you're welcome "

I wish there was a 6ft tall filter 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
26 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Then watch the complaints roll in on the forums about how men can't even message the women they want 💜

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By *egDayEnthusiast OP   Man
26 weeks ago

NorthWest


"Great advice but there isn’t a filter for everything! "

There is. You can stop everyone from messaging you and then message the people you are interested in yourself

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By *wnedandtamedWoman
26 weeks ago

Manchester

Fart wherever you like, they don't care.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

More gaping holes in public photos please.👍

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26 weeks ago

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By *agic.MMan
26 weeks ago

Kent/London


"Great advice but there isn’t a filter for everything! "

I think that's the "block all men from messaging and search for what type of man you want yourself " filter

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

But how will we know we are adored if we don't get hundreds of messages??

Who will validate our tits on a Tuesday????

😱

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By *earditallWoman
26 weeks ago

Lancaster


"More gaping holes in public photos please.👍"

I don't know why this made me laugh as its not even funny and I definitely don't want to see more

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By *host63Man
26 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

I just sit back and laugh at womens list of demands.

Like 5% of men are six foot tall.

A cock over 8" will never get fully hard. A block with a big income ect ect would not be on a site like this Nor would a supermodel nymphomaniac.

How about we all lower expectations and just be pleasant?

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"More gaping holes in public photos please.👍

I don't know why this made me laugh as its not even funny and I definitely don't want to see more "

'Not funny but made me laugh' may well be the nicest and most accurate thing anyone's ever said to me.😊🤣

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By *ellowshipOfTheSwingCouple
26 weeks ago

Manchester

Life changing stuff! Have other men got more advice I already knew? Pleeeeeaaase 🙏

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
26 weeks ago

Niche


"To stop you moaning about how many messages you get, how everyone ignores your profile, how they send you unsolicited pics, how they're under 6ft tall.

Use your filters, you're welcome

I wish there was a 6ft tall filter 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼"

^^^ a height preference would be lovely

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By *ellowshipOfTheSwingCouple
26 weeks ago

Manchester


"Life changing stuff! Have other men got more advice I already knew? Pleeeeeaaase 🙏"

One day I’ll remember to switch to my solo account 😆

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"I just sit back and laugh at womens list of demands.

Like 5% of men are six foot tall.

A cock over 8" will never get fully hard. A block with a big income ect ect would not be on a site like this Nor would a supermodel nymphomaniac.

How about we all lower expectations and just be pleasant? "

I guess I have that 5% of guys 😏

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By *cherryblossom-Woman
26 weeks ago

South glos


"I just sit back and laugh at womens list of demands.

Like 5% of men are six foot tall.

A cock over 8" will never get fully hard. A block with a big income ect ect would not be on a site like this Nor would a supermodel nymphomaniac.

How about we all lower expectations and just be pleasant? "

Sorry that women have standards, why should we lower them? Do you lower yours for women that you wouldn’t normally go for?

If I’m going to end up being treated like shit by a man, he may as well be over 6ft tall 😎

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Coventry


"Then watch the complaints roll in on the forums about how men can't even message the women they want 💜"

Haha careful now

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By *agic.MMan
26 weeks ago

Kent/London


"Do you lower yours for women that you wouldn’t normally go for? "

90% of men on fab absolutely do...

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"Do you lower yours for women that you wouldn’t normally go for?

90% of men on fab absolutely do..."

Hot guys lowering their standards, this is why I love fab.

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By *eroLondonMan
26 weeks ago

Mayfair


"I just sit back and laugh at womens list of demands.

Like 5% of men are six foot tall.

A cock over 8" will never get fully hard. A block with a big income ect ect would not be on a site like this Nor would a supermodel nymphomaniac.

How about we all lower expectations and just be pleasant? "

I've been hunting high and low recently for an example of "buffoonery". I think I just found it.

To think that women have preferences. Perish the thought!

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By *egDayEnthusiast OP   Man
26 weeks ago

NorthWest

I see a lot of women moaning instead of taking advice

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
26 weeks ago

Niche

I use more filters than an aquarium.

I think the blokes need advice on not moaning 😂😂😂

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By *oeBeansMan
26 weeks ago

Derby


"I use more filters than an aquarium.

I think the blokes need advice on not moaning 😂😂😂"

Yeah, because you never see threads from women and couples moaning about the number of messages they get and bemoaning single men for it.

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By *cherryblossom-Woman
26 weeks ago

South glos


"Do you lower yours for women that you wouldn’t normally go for?

90% of men on fab absolutely do..."

Which is probably why they can’t wrap their head around the fact that women don’t do the same and moan about it

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"I use more filters than an aquarium.

I think the blokes need advice on not moaning 😂😂😂

Yeah, because you never see threads from women and couples moaning about the number of messages they get and bemoaning single men for it."

I do enjoy your mischievous side Joe

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
26 weeks ago

Niche


"I use more filters than an aquarium.

I think the blokes need advice on not moaning 😂😂😂

Yeah, because you never see threads from women and couples moaning about the number of messages they get and bemoaning single men for it."

I never moan about it. I use my filters like a clever lil chicken.

And I don't blame an entire gender because I didn't get a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

There women..... you can never please them.....

They have small tits - they get a boob job.

They have big tits - they get a reduction.

They have small lips - they get duck lips.

They have shit eye brows - they get them tattoo'd on.

There fat - they wanna be slim.

There slim - they want a big ass.

They have blonde hair - they dye it brunette.

They are brunette - they dye it blonde..... need i go on 🤷‍♂️🤦🤣

So on a sex site..... youve got no chance of pleasing them!

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By *ackformore100Man
26 weeks ago

Tin town


"Great advice but there isn’t a filter for everything!

There is. You can stop everyone from messaging you and then message the people you are interested in yourself "

I must have had that filter switched on for the last 5 years.

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By *wnedandtamedWoman
26 weeks ago

Manchester

What is it with men always solutionising

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By *ackformore100Man
26 weeks ago

Tin town


"But how will we know we are adored if we don't get hundreds of messages??

Who will validate our tits on a Tuesday????

😱"

Does such a world exist? Where all the toilet seats are down as well.

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By *egDayEnthusiast OP   Man
26 weeks ago

NorthWest

Geezus way for a light hearted thread to turn toxic

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By *wnedandtamedWoman
26 weeks ago

Manchester


"Geezus way for a light hearted thread to turn toxic

"

You knew what you were doing

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By *oeBeansMan
26 weeks ago

Derby


"I use more filters than an aquarium.

I think the blokes need advice on not moaning 😂😂😂

Yeah, because you never see threads from women and couples moaning about the number of messages they get and bemoaning single men for it.

I never moan about it. I use my filters like a clever lil chicken.

And I don't blame an entire gender because I didn't get a reply."

Oh that's great that you do! I don't get loads of replies but they do usually send the first wink or message which is great! Unfortunately, some women and couple don't like to take that initiative and don't realise that the messages stop and they can chat to people they like if they just decided to take that first step instead.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
26 weeks ago

Chester


"To stop you moaning about how many messages you get, how everyone ignores your profile, how they send you unsolicited pics, how they're under 6ft tall.

Use your filters, you're welcome

I wish there was a 6ft tall filter 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼"

That would be a good filter

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
26 weeks ago

Chester


"To stop you moaning about how many messages you get, how everyone ignores your profile, how they send you unsolicited pics, how they're under 6ft tall.

Use your filters, you're welcome "

Only filter that seems to work for me is changing the age to 99 - 99

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
26 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I just sit back and laugh at womens list of demands.

Like 5% of men are six foot tall.

A cock over 8" will never get fully hard. A block with a big income ect ect would not be on a site like this Nor would a supermodel nymphomaniac.

How about we all lower expectations and just be pleasant? "

Ah, the true advice to women.

Abandon your standards. Tolerate mediocrity. Take a dick that doesn't excite you just to be nice 💜

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By *eyond PurityCouple
26 weeks ago

North East Lincolnshire

So either filter so no men can message or use the really loose filters, which don’t stop most messages that women don’t want 🙄

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By *wnedandtamedWoman
26 weeks ago

Manchester


"So either filter so no men can message or use the really loose filters, which don’t stop most messages that women don’t want 🙄"

What filters would you want to add?

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
26 weeks ago

North Welsh Borders


"Geezus way for a light hearted thread to turn toxic

"

That's what happens when you give sensible solutions to real life problems....

Women don't want sensible solutions, we like to moan about these things, moan a bit more before moaning about other stuff before we forget what it was we were moaning about....By that time we've moved onto moaning about something else....

Get halp, bring snacks....

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By *agic.MMan
26 weeks ago

Kent/London


"So either filter so no men can message or use the really loose filters, which don’t stop most messages that women don’t want 🙄

What filters would you want to add?"

The "have my cake and eat it" filter 😋🎂

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
26 weeks ago

North Welsh Borders


"So either filter so no men can message or use the really loose filters, which don’t stop most messages that women don’t want 🙄

What filters would you want to add?

The "have my cake and eat it" filter 😋🎂"

Is the cake included? #AskinforaFriend 👀

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
26 weeks ago

Leeds

If only there was a filter for random creepy online flashers.....

Mrs

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By *hilloutMan
26 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"To stop you moaning about how many messages you get, how everyone ignores your profile, how they send you unsolicited pics, how they're under 6ft tall.

Use your filters, you're welcome

I wish there was a 6ft tall filter 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼"

If there was, it would induce a lot more people lying about their height to bypass it.

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By *cherryblossom-Woman
26 weeks ago

South glos


"To stop you moaning about how many messages you get, how everyone ignores your profile, how they send you unsolicited pics, how they're under 6ft tall.

Use your filters, you're welcome

I wish there was a 6ft tall filter 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

If there was, it would induce a lot more people lying about their height to bypass it. "

That is true, and we can’t put an entire man next a can of Coke for a picture to prove his length 😂

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"If only there was a filter for random creepy online flashers.....

Mrs "

Christ its hard enough to get a meet as it is 😭

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By *ife NinjaMan
26 weeks ago

Dunfermline/Leeds

Go for mature. We're worth it. We bring cake and cream, and even a bottle of wine 🤭😘🤓🥷

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
26 weeks ago

North Welsh Borders


"If only there was a filter for random creepy online flashers.....

Mrs "

Yes, and those who send creepy messages using your real name but don't disclose themselves

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By *hilloutMan
26 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"If only there was a filter for random creepy online flashers.....

Mrs

Yes, and those who send creepy messages using your real name but don't disclose themselves "

Now that is creepy...😲😬😬

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
26 weeks ago

North Welsh Borders


"If only there was a filter for random creepy online flashers.....

Mrs

Yes, and those who send creepy messages using your real name but don't disclose themselves

Now that is creepy...😲😬😬"

Also told me he found me on social media...Honestly, some people are just vile. Settings locked down everywhere. Shouldn't have to

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By *nerealman100Man
26 weeks ago

portishead

That blumin age filter gets me all the time, you wonder why you haven't had any decent men message you when you advertise a meeting well it's cos you have your age filter on, even if you are just one year over that age filter you have had it, maybe when you want a meeting you should switch that one off you may well be surprised by not picking a toy boy for a change

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By *earditallWoman
26 weeks ago

Lancaster


"If only there was a filter for random creepy online flashers.....

Mrs

Yes, and those who send creepy messages using your real name but don't disclose themselves

Now that is creepy...😲😬😬

Also told me he found me on social media...Honestly, some people are just vile. Settings locked down everywhere. Shouldn't have to"

That's proper stalker style,I have a local guy who messages me that hes seen me shopping or driving that's a bit creepy ive not spoken to him since he first said it .

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By *iss DevilWoman
26 weeks ago

Bedford

I wish there was a distance filter, as well as height.

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By *hilloutMan
26 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I wish there was a distance filter, as well as height. "

That would completely screw me over 🤣🤣

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By *iss DevilWoman
26 weeks ago

Bedford


"I wish there was a distance filter, as well as height.

That would completely screw me over 🤣🤣"

Sorry! I think you'd pass on the height filter though

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By *ll 4 HerCouple
26 weeks ago

Bolton


"Great advice but there isn’t a filter for everything!

There is. You can stop everyone from messaging you and then message the people you are interested in yourself "

So your solution to avoid wading through the 100's of profiles who message them is to do their own search and go through the possible 1000's in their area?

An interesting take on solving the issue but not sure it will catch on.

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By *hilloutMan
26 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I wish there was a distance filter, as well as height.

That would completely screw me over 🤣🤣

Sorry! I think you'd pass on the height filter though "

Never had an issue with that one. My distance implies ✈️ everywhere 😂

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
26 weeks ago

Leeds


"If only there was a filter for random creepy online flashers.....

Mrs

Yes, and those who send creepy messages using your real name but don't disclose themselves "

I've had this before it's super creepy!!

Mrs

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By *earditallWoman
26 weeks ago

Lancaster


"If only there was a filter for random creepy online flashers.....

Mrs

Yes, and those who send creepy messages using your real name but don't disclose themselves

I've had this before it's super creepy!!

Mrs "

People in real life don't know or remember it so im good with that

It would drive me nuts if they did

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By *ife NinjaMan
26 weeks ago

Dunfermline/Leeds


"If only there was a filter for random creepy online flashers.....

Mrs

Yes, and those who send creepy messages using your real name but don't disclose themselves

I've had this before it's super creepy!!

Mrs

People in real life don't know or remember it so im good with that

It would drive me nuts if they did "

I'd find it somewhat disturbing 😕🤓🥷

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By *te parkMan
26 weeks ago

selby

Well this thread got some juices flowing, never seen so many women comment on a thread!! Cant beat a bit of controversy 😁

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By *ackformore100Man
26 weeks ago

Tin town


"Great advice but there isn’t a filter for everything!

There is. You can stop everyone from messaging you and then message the people you are interested in yourself

So your solution to avoid wading through the 100's of profiles who message them is to do their own search and go through the possible 1000's in their area?

An interesting take on solving the issue but not sure it will catch on. "

Yes I suppose much better to complain about 100s of messages you don't want from strangers than for you to carefully choose a few that you would like to interact with.

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
26 weeks ago

North Welsh Borders


"If only there was a filter for random creepy online flashers.....

Mrs

Yes, and those who send creepy messages using your real name but don't disclose themselves

Now that is creepy...😲😬😬

Also told me he found me on social media...Honestly, some people are just vile. Settings locked down everywhere. Shouldn't have to

That's proper stalker style,I have a local guy who messages me that hes seen me shopping or driving that's a bit creepy ive not spoken to him since he first said it ."

Ugh, that's awful, makes your skin crawl doesn't it x

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"If only there was a filter for random creepy online flashers.....

Mrs

Yes, and those who send creepy messages using your real name but don't disclose themselves

Now that is creepy...😲😬😬

Also told me he found me on social media...Honestly, some people are just vile. Settings locked down everywhere. Shouldn't have to

That's proper stalker style,I have a local guy who messages me that hes seen me shopping or driving that's a bit creepy ive not spoken to him since he first said it .

Ugh, that's awful, makes your skin crawl doesn't it x"

He wants reporting to the police

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By *acey_RedWoman
26 weeks ago

Liverpool


"I just sit back and laugh at womens list of demands.

Like 5% of men are six foot tall.

A cock over 8" will never get fully hard. A block with a big income ect ect would not be on a site like this Nor would a supermodel nymphomaniac.

How about we all lower expectations and just be pleasant? "

I don't believe this. Every man in my family is over 6ft. Being over 6ft isn't a thing for me and I've slept with men shorter than me but I don't believe your claims.

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By *earditallWoman
26 weeks ago

Lancaster


"If only there was a filter for random creepy online flashers.....

Mrs

Yes, and those who send creepy messages using your real name but don't disclose themselves

Now that is creepy...😲😬😬

Also told me he found me on social media...Honestly, some people are just vile. Settings locked down everywhere. Shouldn't have to

That's proper stalker style,I have a local guy who messages me that hes seen me shopping or driving that's a bit creepy ive not spoken to him since he first said it .

Ugh, that's awful, makes your skin crawl doesn't it x

He wants reporting to the police "

It has put me off speaking to people that are within a mile of me and such.

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By *hilloutMan
26 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Great advice but there isn’t a filter for everything!

There is. You can stop everyone from messaging you and then message the people you are interested in yourself

So your solution to avoid wading through the 100's of profiles who message them is to do their own search and go through the possible 1000's in their area?

An interesting take on solving the issue but not sure it will catch on. "

I don't know re couples, but from my experience, a large percentage of women won't message first, either through fear of rejection or not taking rejection well. Easier for them to sift through the 100's of messages they receive in the hopes of coming across a few that hold potential that they can reply back to at some stage.

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By *naswingdressWoman
26 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I just sit back and laugh at womens list of demands.

Like 5% of men are six foot tall.

A cock over 8" will never get fully hard. A block with a big income ect ect would not be on a site like this Nor would a supermodel nymphomaniac.

How about we all lower expectations and just be pleasant? "

So what I hear you saying is that you mock what some women want, disparage some men, and want everyone to be nice to each other (in a way that seems to coincide with you getting what you want).

If you want more pleasantness in the world, then you're welcome to be more pleasant.

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By *acey_RedWoman
26 weeks ago

Liverpool


"Great advice but there isn’t a filter for everything!

There is. You can stop everyone from messaging you and then message the people you are interested in yourself

So your solution to avoid wading through the 100's of profiles who message them is to do their own search and go through the possible 1000's in their area?

An interesting take on solving the issue but not sure it will catch on.

I don't know re couples, but from my experience, a large percentage of women won't message first, either through fear of rejection or not taking rejection well. Easier for them to sift through the 100's of messages they receive in the hopes of coming across a few that hold potential that they can reply back to at some stage. "

The secret to messaging men first without fear of rejection is sending something daft 🤪

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By *hilloutMan
26 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Great advice but there isn’t a filter for everything!

There is. You can stop everyone from messaging you and then message the people you are interested in yourself

So your solution to avoid wading through the 100's of profiles who message them is to do their own search and go through the possible 1000's in their area?

An interesting take on solving the issue but not sure it will catch on.

I don't know re couples, but from my experience, a large percentage of women won't message first, either through fear of rejection or not taking rejection well. Easier for them to sift through the 100's of messages they receive in the hopes of coming across a few that hold potential that they can reply back to at some stage.

The secret to messaging men first without fear of rejection is sending something daft 🤪"

That has happened (rarely) and I found it intriguing 😁😂

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By *acey_RedWoman
26 weeks ago

Liverpool


"Great advice but there isn’t a filter for everything!

There is. You can stop everyone from messaging you and then message the people you are interested in yourself

So your solution to avoid wading through the 100's of profiles who message them is to do their own search and go through the possible 1000's in their area?

An interesting take on solving the issue but not sure it will catch on.

I don't know re couples, but from my experience, a large percentage of women won't message first, either through fear of rejection or not taking rejection well. Easier for them to sift through the 100's of messages they receive in the hopes of coming across a few that hold potential that they can reply back to at some stage.

The secret to messaging men first without fear of rejection is sending something daft 🤪

That has happened (rarely) and I found it intriguing 😁😂"

60% of the time it works every time 😜

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By *hilloutMan
26 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Great advice but there isn’t a filter for everything!

There is. You can stop everyone from messaging you and then message the people you are interested in yourself

So your solution to avoid wading through the 100's of profiles who message them is to do their own search and go through the possible 1000's in their area?

An interesting take on solving the issue but not sure it will catch on.

I don't know re couples, but from my experience, a large percentage of women won't message first, either through fear of rejection or not taking rejection well. Easier for them to sift through the 100's of messages they receive in the hopes of coming across a few that hold potential that they can reply back to at some stage.

The secret to messaging men first without fear of rejection is sending something daft 🤪

That has happened (rarely) and I found it intriguing 😁😂

60% of the time it works every time 😜"

I admire your stat keeping proficiency. Sexy 😈

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"I just sit back and laugh at womens list of demands.

Like 5% of men are six foot tall.

A cock over 8" will never get fully hard. A block with a big income ect ect would not be on a site like this Nor would a supermodel nymphomaniac.

How about we all lower expectations and just be pleasant?

So what I hear you saying is that you mock what some women want, disparage some men, and want everyone to be nice to each other (in a way that seems to coincide with you getting what you want).

If you want more pleasantness in the world, then you're welcome to be more pleasant."

Nothing wrong with people stating what they want in my opinion if you don’t match the criteria then you just move on lol

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By *acey_RedWoman
26 weeks ago

Liverpool


"Great advice but there isn’t a filter for everything!

There is. You can stop everyone from messaging you and then message the people you are interested in yourself

So your solution to avoid wading through the 100's of profiles who message them is to do their own search and go through the possible 1000's in their area?

An interesting take on solving the issue but not sure it will catch on.

I don't know re couples, but from my experience, a large percentage of women won't message first, either through fear of rejection or not taking rejection well. Easier for them to sift through the 100's of messages they receive in the hopes of coming across a few that hold potential that they can reply back to at some stage.

The secret to messaging men first without fear of rejection is sending something daft 🤪

That has happened (rarely) and I found it intriguing 😁😂

60% of the time it works every time 😜

I admire your stat keeping proficiency. Sexy 😈"

It's an Anchorman quote

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By *gincourt_againMan
26 weeks ago

in the shadows of a mountain


"Great advice but there isn’t a filter for everything!

There is. You can stop everyone from messaging you and then message the people you are interested in yourself

So your solution to avoid wading through the 100's of profiles who message them is to do their own search and go through the possible 1000's in their area?

An interesting take on solving the issue but not sure it will catch on.

I don't know re couples, but from my experience, a large percentage of women won't message first, either through fear of rejection or not taking rejection well. Easier for them to sift through the 100's of messages they receive in the hopes of coming across a few that hold potential that they can reply back to at some stage.

The secret to messaging men first without fear of rejection is sending something daft 🤪

That has happened (rarely) and I found it intriguing 😁😂"

Smiling rather than letching is a much better tactic.

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By *hilloutMan
26 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Great advice but there isn’t a filter for everything!

There is. You can stop everyone from messaging you and then message the people you are interested in yourself

So your solution to avoid wading through the 100's of profiles who message them is to do their own search and go through the possible 1000's in their area?

An interesting take on solving the issue but not sure it will catch on.

I don't know re couples, but from my experience, a large percentage of women won't message first, either through fear of rejection or not taking rejection well. Easier for them to sift through the 100's of messages they receive in the hopes of coming across a few that hold potential that they can reply back to at some stage.

The secret to messaging men first without fear of rejection is sending something daft 🤪

That has happened (rarely) and I found it intriguing 😁😂

60% of the time it works every time 😜

I admire your stat keeping proficiency. Sexy 😈

It's an Anchorman quote "

I've actually never seen the film! Have I been living under a rock? 😅

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By *nnocentsecret66Woman
26 weeks ago

Birmingham

Find a partner.

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By *inkPomPomWoman
26 weeks ago

Isle of Man

Its giving sad dick energy bro


"To stop you moaning about how many messages you get, how everyone ignores your profile, how they send you unsolicited pics, how they're under 6ft tall.

Use your filters, you're welcome "

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By *acey_RedWoman
26 weeks ago

Liverpool


"Great advice but there isn’t a filter for everything!

There is. You can stop everyone from messaging you and then message the people you are interested in yourself

So your solution to avoid wading through the 100's of profiles who message them is to do their own search and go through the possible 1000's in their area?

An interesting take on solving the issue but not sure it will catch on.

I don't know re couples, but from my experience, a large percentage of women won't message first, either through fear of rejection or not taking rejection well. Easier for them to sift through the 100's of messages they receive in the hopes of coming across a few that hold potential that they can reply back to at some stage.

The secret to messaging men first without fear of rejection is sending something daft 🤪

That has happened (rarely) and I found it intriguing 😁😂

60% of the time it works every time 😜

I admire your stat keeping proficiency. Sexy 😈

It's an Anchorman quote

I've actually never seen the film! Have I been living under a rock? 😅"

Because it's you, I'll let you off 😜

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By *naswingdressWoman
26 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I just sit back and laugh at womens list of demands.

Like 5% of men are six foot tall.

A cock over 8" will never get fully hard. A block with a big income ect ect would not be on a site like this Nor would a supermodel nymphomaniac.

How about we all lower expectations and just be pleasant?

So what I hear you saying is that you mock what some women want, disparage some men, and want everyone to be nice to each other (in a way that seems to coincide with you getting what you want).

If you want more pleasantness in the world, then you're welcome to be more pleasant.

Nothing wrong with people stating what they want in my opinion if you don’t match the criteria then you just move on lol"

As long as we can respect each other's desires.

Telling people to bend their preferences for your own gain is pretty gross.

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By *hilloutMan
26 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Great advice but there isn’t a filter for everything!

There is. You can stop everyone from messaging you and then message the people you are interested in yourself

So your solution to avoid wading through the 100's of profiles who message them is to do their own search and go through the possible 1000's in their area?

An interesting take on solving the issue but not sure it will catch on.

I don't know re couples, but from my experience, a large percentage of women won't message first, either through fear of rejection or not taking rejection well. Easier for them to sift through the 100's of messages they receive in the hopes of coming across a few that hold potential that they can reply back to at some stage.

The secret to messaging men first without fear of rejection is sending something daft 🤪

That has happened (rarely) and I found it intriguing 😁😂

60% of the time it works every time 😜

I admire your stat keeping proficiency. Sexy 😈

It's an Anchorman quote

I've actually never seen the film! Have I been living under a rock? 😅

Because it's you, I'll let you off 😜"

Think I'll add it to the watch list for the new year 😁

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By *wnedandtamedWoman
26 weeks ago

Manchester


"I just sit back and laugh at womens list of demands.

Like 5% of men are six foot tall.

A cock over 8" will never get fully hard. A block with a big income ect ect would not be on a site like this Nor would a supermodel nymphomaniac.

How about we all lower expectations and just be pleasant?

I don't believe this. Every man in my family is over 6ft. Being over 6ft isn't a thing for me and I've slept with men shorter than me but I don't believe your claims."

30% of under 25s, but possibly people are shrinking as they're getting older.

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By *uriousLarrykinsWoman
26 weeks ago

Norwich

i have my filters on....and still get men outside my age filters messaging me 😂😂


"To stop you moaning about how many messages you get, how everyone ignores your profile, how they send you unsolicited pics, how they're under 6ft tall.

Use your filters, you're welcome "

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By *egDayEnthusiast OP   Man
26 weeks ago

NorthWest


"i have my filters on....and still get men outside my age filters messaging me 😂😂

To stop you moaning about how many messages you get, how everyone ignores your profile, how they send you unsolicited pics, how they're under 6ft tall.

Use your filters, you're welcome "

You're not setting them properly. I know there's a way to set age filters and it blocks people outside your age range from messaging you.

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By *egDayEnthusiast OP   Man
26 weeks ago

NorthWest

Also Merry Xmas you grumpy bunch of posters 🎅🦌🦌🎄❄️☃️

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By *gincourt_againMan
26 weeks ago

in the shadows of a mountain


"i have my filters on....and still get men outside my age filters messaging me 😂😂

To stop you moaning about how many messages you get, how everyone ignores your profile, how they send you unsolicited pics, how they're under 6ft tall.

Use your filters, you're welcome "

It’s absolutely not possible if you have them set.

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By *egDayEnthusiast OP   Man
26 weeks ago

NorthWest


"i have my filters on....and still get men outside my age filters messaging me 😂😂

To stop you moaning about how many messages you get, how everyone ignores your profile, how they send you unsolicited pics, how they're under 6ft tall.

Use your filters, you're welcome

It’s absolutely not possible if you have them set."

It's actually the very first filter asking if you want to block people from outside your age range from messaging you, I've just checked

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By *gincourt_againMan
26 weeks ago

in the shadows of a mountain


"i have my filters on....and still get men outside my age filters messaging me 😂😂

To stop you moaning about how many messages you get, how everyone ignores your profile, how they send you unsolicited pics, how they're under 6ft tall.

Use your filters, you're welcome "

I’m outside your filters but can message you. Which means they are not set up.

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By *gincourt_againMan
26 weeks ago

in the shadows of a mountain


"i have my filters on....and still get men outside my age filters messaging me 😂😂

To stop you moaning about how many messages you get, how everyone ignores your profile, how they send you unsolicited pics, how they're under 6ft tall.

Use your filters, you're welcome

It’s absolutely not possible if you have them set.

It's actually the very first filter asking if you want to block people from outside your age range from messaging you, I've just checked "

Yup.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
26 weeks ago

North East Lincolnshire


"So either filter so no men can message or use the really loose filters, which don’t stop most messages that women don’t want 🙄

What filters would you want to add?"

A no dick pics filter would be fantastic 😋

When I joined FAB I never thought I’d say I’ve seen more dick pics at every angle 😱

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
26 weeks ago

Reading


"i have my filters on....and still get men outside my age filters messaging me 😂😂

To stop you moaning about how many messages you get, how everyone ignores your profile, how they send you unsolicited pics, how they're under 6ft tall.

Use your filters, you're welcome

It’s absolutely not possible if you have them set.

It's actually the very first filter asking if you want to block people from outside your age range from messaging you, I've just checked "

Although if you have already messaged them and they have replied, then the filters don’t apply. That’s the reason I don’t reply to most messages as I don’t want them to have a way of getting around my filters as and when I change them.

That said, I do use my filters to suit my needs, and will send an opening message when I’m looking to meet new people. Nearly all of my meets have been through socials, clubs or someone that I have chatted with on the forums though.

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By *exy RexyMan
26 weeks ago

Up North

Them whiney women

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By *lder.Woman
26 weeks ago

Not Local

Then what else could we moan about? The hard lovin'?

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By *eroLondonMan
26 weeks ago

Mayfair

She has alder best comments......................⬆️

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By *parkle1974Woman
26 weeks ago

Leeds

Why should we have too....?

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By *exy RexyMan
26 weeks ago

Up North


"Then what else could we moan about? The hard lovin'? "

^^ she moans

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By *gincourt_againMan
26 weeks ago

in the shadows of a mountain


"i have my filters on....and still get men outside my age filters messaging me 😂😂

To stop you moaning about how many messages you get, how everyone ignores your profile, how they send you unsolicited pics, how they're under 6ft tall.

Use your filters, you're welcome

It’s absolutely not possible if you have them set.

It's actually the very first filter asking if you want to block people from outside your age range from messaging you, I've just checked

Although if you have already messaged them and they have replied, then the filters don’t apply. That’s the reason I don’t reply to most messages as I don’t want them to have a way of getting around my filters as and when I change them.

That said, I do use my filters to suit my needs, and will send an opening message when I’m looking to meet new people. Nearly all of my meets have been through socials, clubs or someone that I have chatted with on the forums though. "

That’s not what we’re saying.

I’ve certainly never messaged Curious LarryKins so her filters should stop me.

They don’t.

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By *onin25Man
26 weeks ago

Durham


"I just sit back and laugh at womens list of demands.

Like 5% of men are six foot tall.

A cock over 8" will never get fully hard. A block with a big income ect ect would not be on a site like this Nor would a supermodel nymphomaniac.

How about we all lower expectations and just be pleasant?

I don't believe this. Every man in my family is over 6ft. Being over 6ft isn't a thing for me and I've slept with men shorter than me but I don't believe your claims.

30% of under 25s, but possibly people are shrinking as they're getting older."

30% sounds more reasonable, I'm 6ft (ladies take note) and I'm not towering over almost all men, I'm a little taller than average.

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By *irjamesMan
26 weeks ago

Warrington

This is such a valid and unfortunately a very true statement 😂😂😂

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
26 weeks ago

London

Very interesting thread. Some funny stuff, some weird stuff, some serious stuff.

I'm only 6ft+ when I get stopped and searched. It's apparently good for the govt stats. I've had 6ft 1, 6ft 2, 6ft 3 and 6ft. I'm 5'11.

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By *essTTWoman
26 weeks ago

Birmingham


"To stop you moaning about how many messages you get, how everyone ignores your profile, how they send you unsolicited pics, how they're under 6ft tall.

Use your filters, you're welcome "

Literally non of these things can be filtered

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By *essTTWoman
26 weeks ago

Birmingham


"I just sit back and laugh at womens list of demands.

Like 5% of men are six foot tall.

A cock over 8" will never get fully hard. A block with a big income ect ect would not be on a site like this Nor would a supermodel nymphomaniac.

How about we all lower expectations and just be pleasant? "

Dicks biggerbthe 8 inches have no issue getting fully hard. No idea who told you that

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By *likepineappleMan
26 weeks ago

Telford

You can have my tip.

Phwahhaha.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
26 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

Lot of moaning on the forums when women can use the filter. But some like the 100s if messages so they have something to moan about

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By *parkle1974Woman
26 weeks ago

Leeds

The biggest "moan" from women I've seen has been about unsolicited dick pics being sent.....but hold on, let's not address the moans...just filter up!!!

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By *earditallWoman
26 weeks ago

Lancaster


"i have my filters on....and still get men outside my age filters messaging me 😂😂

To stop you moaning about how many messages you get, how everyone ignores your profile, how they send you unsolicited pics, how they're under 6ft tall.

Use your filters, you're welcome "

I have the age filter and they can only message me if I message them first I think.

And I don't mind messaging a guy first if they intrigue me enough to

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By *earditallWoman
26 weeks ago

Lancaster


"Very interesting thread. Some funny stuff, some weird stuff, some serious stuff.

I'm only 6ft+ when I get stopped and searched. It's apparently good for the govt stats. I've had 6ft 1, 6ft 2, 6ft 3 and 6ft. I'm 5'11."

Oh he we go a height fibber..

Shams are you really a midget ?

We need a midget filter that would be good

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By *egDayEnthusiast OP   Man
26 weeks ago

NorthWest


"To stop you moaning about how many messages you get, how everyone ignores your profile, how they send you unsolicited pics, how they're under 6ft tall.

Use your filters, you're welcome

Literally non of these things can be filtered "

They literally can by blocking people from messaging you and doing the messaging yourself

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By *egDayEnthusiast OP   Man
26 weeks ago

NorthWest


"The biggest "moan" from women I've seen has been about unsolicited dick pics being sent.....but hold on, let's not address the moans...just filter up!!! "

When something isn't working you would think the sensible thing is to try something else that could work but that's effort

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By *parkle1974Woman
26 weeks ago

Leeds


"The biggest "moan" from women I've seen has been about unsolicited dick pics being sent.....but hold on, let's not address the moans...just filter up!!!

When something isn't working you would think the sensible thing is to try something else that could work but that's effort "

Or men could just not send them...but let's blame the women for not having filters on

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By *ackformore100Man
26 weeks ago

Tin town


"The biggest "moan" from women I've seen has been about unsolicited dick pics being sent.....but hold on, let's not address the moans...just filter up!!! "

You cant control what others do. Only what you do yourself.

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
26 weeks ago

London


"Very interesting thread. Some funny stuff, some weird stuff, some serious stuff.

I'm only 6ft+ when I get stopped and searched. It's apparently good for the govt stats. I've had 6ft 1, 6ft 2, 6ft 3 and 6ft. I'm 5'11.

Oh he we go a height fibber..

Shams are you really a midget ?

We need a midget filter that would be good "

If we ever meet in real life you'll see 😉

I'm definitely not fibbing. There are no door frames nearby 😜

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By *earditallWoman
26 weeks ago

Lancaster


"Very interesting thread. Some funny stuff, some weird stuff, some serious stuff.

I'm only 6ft+ when I get stopped and searched. It's apparently good for the govt stats. I've had 6ft 1, 6ft 2, 6ft 3 and 6ft. I'm 5'11.

Oh he we go a height fibber..

Shams are you really a midget ?

We need a midget filter that would be good

If we ever meet in real life you'll see 😉

I'm definitely not fibbing. There are no door frames nearby 😜"

Well id want the obligatory door frame call before hand

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
26 weeks ago

London


"Very interesting thread. Some funny stuff, some weird stuff, some serious stuff.

I'm only 6ft+ when I get stopped and searched. It's apparently good for the govt stats. I've had 6ft 1, 6ft 2, 6ft 3 and 6ft. I'm 5'11.

Oh he we go a height fibber..

Shams are you really a midget ?

We need a midget filter that would be good

If we ever meet in real life you'll see 😉

I'm definitely not fibbing. There are no door frames nearby 😜

Well id want the obligatory door frame call before hand "

As you wish 👍🏾

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By *exy RexyMan
26 weeks ago

Up North

Group socials are good for working out who should be an extra in Willy Wonka

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By *agic.MMan
26 weeks ago

Kent/London


"The biggest "moan" from women I've seen has been about unsolicited dick pics being sent.....but hold on, let's not address the moans...just filter up!!!

When something isn't working you would think the sensible thing is to try something else that could work but that's effort

Or men could just not send them...but let's blame the women for not having filters on"

No one is blaming women for receiving unsolicited pics from men...people are offering the simplest solution to a problem. It's easier for you to manage your filters than it is for the rest of us to control ignorant men.

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By *earditallWoman
26 weeks ago

Lancaster


"Group socials are good for working out who should be an extra in Willy Wonka "

I shall.attend more of them

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
26 weeks ago

someplace

6ft2 or nothing

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By *egDayEnthusiast OP   Man
26 weeks ago

NorthWest


"6ft2 or nothing "

Just broke my heart 😭

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By *likepineappleMan
26 weeks ago

Telford


"6ft2 or nothing "

Devastating 💔

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By *exy RexyMan
26 weeks ago

Up North


"6ft2 or nothing "

I’d change your name to Alwaysthebridemaide

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By *inky PerkyCouple
26 weeks ago

Narnia

The main gripe here seems to be "men have to do all the chasing and women don't and that's not fair"😭

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By *eyond PurityCouple
26 weeks ago

North East Lincolnshire


"The biggest "moan" from women I've seen has been about unsolicited dick pics being sent.....but hold on, let's not address the moans...just filter up!!!

When something isn't working you would think the sensible thing is to try something else that could work but that's effort

Or men could just not send them...but let's blame the women for not having filters on

No one is blaming women for receiving unsolicited pics from men...people are offering the simplest solution to a problem. It's easier for you to manage your filters than it is for the rest of us to control ignorant men. "

It’s not a solution though. The simplest solution would be to not be on FAB, then the next best is to block everyone…but they aren’t solutions if you still want to receive messages from decent guys who don’t wave their dick about 🙄

We’ve got chatting to people we wouldn’t have found on here, we’ve met people in the same way, so blocking every guy isn’t an option for us, but apparently we should just shut up then, if we are stupid enough not to block everyone 🙄 weird logic!

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By *recticWoman
26 weeks ago

taunton

I rarely see women complain about this unprompted. It’s usually a response to “ a simple no doesn’t cost anything” or some other whinge about why a man hasn’t had a response to his well thought out message, that doesn’t contain a dick pic.

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By *exy RexyMan
26 weeks ago

Up North


"I rarely see women complain about this unprompted. It’s usually a response to “ a simple no doesn’t cost anything” or some other whinge about why a man hasn’t had a response to his well thought out message, that doesn’t contain a dick pic. "

^^ ^^

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By *oeBeansMan
26 weeks ago

Derby


"The main gripe here seems to be "men have to do all the chasing and women don't and that's not fair"😭"

Actually, my main gripe is seeing some women and couples moan in the forums about the number of shite messages they get whole ignoring the obvious solution as a matter of pride and or ego 🙃

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By *eroLondonMan
26 weeks ago

Mayfair


"The main gripe here seems to be "men have to do all the chasing and women don't and that's not fair"😭"

Some women erroneously think that a man taking the initiative is considered "chasing". These very women, despite giving the indication on their profiles that they are looking to engage, are often themselves reluctant and apathetic in sending the first message.

The energy that they lack when it comes to initiating contact is 'compensated' by their verve on the forums and their lack of anything positive to say about men overall.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"The main gripe here seems to be "men have to do all the chasing and women don't and that's not fair"😭"

Women don't no, but if they did it would solve all their problems would it not? No more unsolicited pics, no more 100's of messages. But women don't. And why don't they? Because they can't be arsed or don't think they should have to.

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By *parkle1974Woman
26 weeks ago

Leeds


"The biggest "moan" from women I've seen has been about unsolicited dick pics being sent.....but hold on, let's not address the moans...just filter up!!!

When something isn't working you would think the sensible thing is to try something else that could work but that's effort

Or men could just not send them...but let's blame the women for not having filters on

No one is blaming women for receiving unsolicited pics from men...people are offering the simplest solution to a problem. It's easier for you to manage your filters than it is for the rest of us to control ignorant men.

It’s not a solution though. The simplest solution would be to not be on FAB, then the next best is to block everyone…but they aren’t solutions if you still want to receive messages from decent guys who don’t wave their dick about 🙄

We’ve got chatting to people we wouldn’t have found on here, we’ve met people in the same way, so blocking every guy isn’t an option for us, but apparently we should just shut up then, if we are stupid enough not to block everyone 🙄 weird logic!

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By *essTTWoman
26 weeks ago

Birmingham


"The main gripe here seems to be "men have to do all the chasing and women don't and that's not fair"😭"

Tbf men don't have to do anything.

Lots if men don't 'chase' and still do ok

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By *essTTWoman
26 weeks ago

Birmingham

Also how many times have we seen men post in the forum

"I've just seen a 'M/MF' profile who have said they want a single male but they have single males blocked from messaging"

😂😂😂

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"6ft2 or nothing "

6"4' but 200 mile away..... win some and you loose some 🤷‍♂️🤣

Good to see everyone still here moaning like fuck though 🤦🙄🤣

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By *oeBeansMan
26 weeks ago

Derby


"The biggest "moan" from women I've seen has been about unsolicited dick pics being sent.....but hold on, let's not address the moans...just filter up!!!

When something isn't working you would think the sensible thing is to try something else that could work but that's effort

Or men could just not send them...but let's blame the women for not having filters on

No one is blaming women for receiving unsolicited pics from men...people are offering the simplest solution to a problem. It's easier for you to manage your filters than it is for the rest of us to control ignorant men.

It’s not a solution though. The simplest solution would be to not be on FAB, then the next best is to block everyone…but they aren’t solutions if you still want to receive messages from decent guys who don’t wave their dick about 🙄

We’ve got chatting to people we wouldn’t have found on here, we’ve met people in the same way, so blocking every guy isn’t an option for us, but apparently we should just shut up then, if we are stupid enough not to block everyone 🙄 weird logic! "

If you don't moan about the number/quality of messages you receive on the forums, the advice doesn't apply to you 🙂

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By *antra MassageMan
26 weeks ago

Glastonbury

I seem to have discovered the way to success on Fab. I've no idea what it is. Haven't a clue, but it's working for me. As it also works for a very quiet minority of men here.

From the outside looking in, ladies and couples, what's the secret?

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By *parkle1974Woman
26 weeks ago

Leeds


"I seem to have discovered the way to success on Fab. I've no idea what it is. Haven't a clue, but it's working for me. As it also works for a very quiet minority of men here.

From the outside looking in, ladies and couples, what's the secret? "

Filters...apparently

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By *acey_RedWoman
26 weeks ago

Liverpool


"The main gripe here seems to be "men have to do all the chasing and women don't and that's not fair"😭

Actually, my main gripe is seeing some women and couples moan in the forums about the number of shite messages they get whole ignoring the obvious solution as a matter of pride and or ego 🙃"

I'm filtered up to the eyeballs but while it has made my fab experience more peaceful, I wouldn't really call it a solution to the problems women have on the site. It just replaces one set of problems with another. The real issue is the usability of this site for finding compatible people is pretty poor. While I have managed to do so in the past, my real solution has been to go elsewhere.

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By *acey_RedWoman
26 weeks ago

Liverpool


"To stop you moaning about how many messages you get, how everyone ignores your profile, how they send you unsolicited pics, how they're under 6ft tall.

Use your filters, you're welcome

Literally non of these things can be filtered

They literally can by blocking people from messaging you and doing the messaging yourself "

What about the unsolicited dick pics from men I've messaged first?

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"There women..... you can never please them.....

They have small tits - they get a boob job.

They have big tits - they get a reduction.

They have small lips - they get duck lips.

They have shit eye brows - they get them tattoo'd on.

There fat - they wanna be slim.

There slim - they want a big ass.

They have blonde hair - they dye it brunette.

They are brunette - they dye it blonde..... need i go on 🤷‍♂️🤦🤣

So on a sex site..... youve got no chance of pleasing them!

"

Oh dear....

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By *inky PerkyCouple
26 weeks ago

Narnia


"The main gripe here seems to be "men have to do all the chasing and women don't and that's not fair"😭

Actually, my main gripe is seeing some women and couples moan in the forums about the number of shite messages they get whole ignoring the obvious solution as a matter of pride and or ego 🙃"

If we'd blocked single guys we'd never have met a couple of our favourite ones 😃.

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By *inky PerkyCouple
26 weeks ago

Narnia


"I seem to have discovered the way to success on Fab. I've no idea what it is. Haven't a clue, but it's working for me. As it also works for a very quiet minority of men here.

From the outside looking in, ladies and couples, what's the secret? "

You have a well written profile and you offer something different that a lot of women want.

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By *exy RexyMan
26 weeks ago

Up North


"To stop you moaning about how many messages you get, how everyone ignores your profile, how they send you unsolicited pics, how they're under 6ft tall.

Use your filters, you're welcome

Literally non of these things can be filtered

They literally can by blocking people from messaging you and doing the messaging yourself

What about the unsolicited dick pics from men I've messaged first? "

In

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By *aramel.desiresMan
26 weeks ago

Reigate.

Tips for single women..

You should meet the sender of every 5 message you receive. That ways it's pot luck.

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By *annaPlayABCCouple
26 weeks ago

Bacup


"But how will we know we are adored if we don't get hundreds of messages??

Who will validate our tits on a Tuesday????

😱"

Couldn't validate some members titty pics cause they hide their profile !

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By *egDayEnthusiast OP   Man
26 weeks ago

NorthWest


"The main gripe here seems to be "men have to do all the chasing and women don't and that's not fair"😭

Actually, my main gripe is seeing some women and couples moan in the forums about the number of shite messages they get whole ignoring the obvious solution as a matter of pride and or ego 🙃"

Go on Joe! That's my president!

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By *egDayEnthusiast OP   Man
26 weeks ago

NorthWest


"To stop you moaning about how many messages you get, how everyone ignores your profile, how they send you unsolicited pics, how they're under 6ft tall.

Use your filters, you're welcome

Literally non of these things can be filtered

They literally can by blocking people from messaging you and doing the messaging yourself

What about the unsolicited dick pics from men I've messaged first? "

I don't remember sending any of those to you as for other men, I would say you've misjudged their character

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By *egDayEnthusiast OP   Man
26 weeks ago

NorthWest


"Also how many times have we seen men post in the forum

"I've just seen a 'M/MF' profile who have said they want a single male but they have single males blocked from messaging"

😂😂😂"

I don't think that particular affects the M/MF in question, just more so the forum folks who chose to read it and engage with it

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By *eekySweetheartWoman
26 weeks ago

Hampshire

Then you have the no public photo filter which is the most useless filter in the world...

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By *egDayEnthusiast OP   Man
26 weeks ago

NorthWest


"Then you have the no public photo filter which is the most useless filter in the world..."

I think that filter used to automatically attach the users public pictures when sending the message to the recipient. This was done to combat the, make the picture public to sent a message and then hide it again tactic.

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By *aughtyPumpkinWoman
26 weeks ago

between Donny/Scunny/Gainsborough


"Do you lower yours for women that you wouldn’t normally go for?

90% of men on fab absolutely do..."

Beat me to it. I’d rather go without than lower my expectations

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