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"Something I don't understand is the differing attitudes towards cheating or in this case encouraging someone else to. Some posters who request advice on how to attract men or women even though they say they have a partner are given advice and even praised for asking in a sensible way, yet others are told not to do it. I truly don't understand have I missed something?" Some people are judgmental, some are not....some people forget what they have posted previously, some don't. | |||
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"Something I don't understand is the differing attitudes towards cheating or in this case encouraging someone else to. Some posters who request advice on how to attract men or women even though they say they have a partner are given advice and even praised for asking in a sensible way, yet others are told not to do it. I truly don't understand have I missed something?Some people are judgmental, some are not....some people forget what they have posted previously, some don't. " | |||
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"Something I don't understand is the differing attitudes towards cheating or in this case encouraging someone else to. Some posters who request advice on how to attract men or women even though they say they have a partner are given advice and even praised for asking in a sensible way, yet others are told not to do it. I truly don't understand have I missed something?" I believe that someone unhappy in their relationship is going to cheat, whether or not we help them out, whereas someone actively asking advice to try and get someone else to cheat is kind of on a different level to me. I try to stay out of it though. Mostly. | |||
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"Something I don't understand is the differing attitudes towards cheating or in this case encouraging someone else to. Some posters who request advice on how to attract men or women even though they say they have a partner are given advice and even praised for asking in a sensible way, yet others are told not to do it. I truly don't understand have I missed something?" Without seeing the threads you are talking about I suppose no one can comment. Maybe put the threads up so we can see | |||
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"Something I don't understand is the differing attitudes towards cheating or in this case encouraging someone else to. Some posters who request advice on how to attract men or women even though they say they have a partner are given advice and even praised for asking in a sensible way, yet others are told not to do it. I truly don't understand have I missed something?Some people are judgmental, some are not....some people forget what they have posted previously, some don't. " +1 | |||
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"i took reading it as shes on here attached was i wrong? " If she's on here then that's completely different, but I took it as he sees her IRL and she's given him no encouragement. | |||
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" Without seeing the threads you are talking about I suppose no one can comment. Maybe put the threads up so we can see " I thought it was bad form to mention other threads directly. It was just.a general observation made over the last 3 or 4 days. | |||
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" Without seeing the threads you are talking about I suppose no one can comment. Maybe put the threads up so we can see I thought it was bad form to mention other threads directly.." But you didn't think it bad form to mention it. I would still love to see what you are talking about though, so any chance of mailing us the threads please | |||
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"i took reading it as shes on here attached was i wrong? If she's on here then that's completely different, but I took it as he sees her IRL and she's given him no encouragement." So would you now say she is fair game if she is on here? | |||
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"i took reading it as shes on here attached was i wrong? If she's on here then that's completely different, but I took it as he sees her IRL and she's given him no encouragement. So would you now say she is fair game if she is on here?" I think being honest if shes on here and shes looking for fun and the partner is aware and is ok with it why not! | |||
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"i took reading it as shes on here attached was i wrong? If she's on here then that's completely different, but I took it as he sees her IRL and she's given him no encouragement. So would you now say she is fair game if she is on here? I think being honest if shes on here and shes looking for fun and the partner is aware and is ok with it why not! " Yep, nothing wrong with that for me either. What about if the OP is going to be asking behind the mans back as it sounds from the first post...would it be ok too? | |||
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"i took reading it as shes on here attached was i wrong? If she's on here then that's completely different, but I took it as he sees her IRL and she's given him no encouragement. So would you now say she is fair game if she is on here?" Not fair game, but being on a swinger site is more likely to be construed as looking for sex than having a friendly work relationship. | |||
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"Something I don't understand is the differing attitudes towards cheating or in this case encouraging someone else to. Some posters who request advice on how to attract men or women even though they say they have a partner are given advice and even praised for asking in a sensible way, yet others are told not to do it. I truly don't understand have I missed something?" I believe I know of one such thread you are describing and the C word wasn't mentioned once ........... A | |||
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"i took reading it as shes on here attached was i wrong? If she's on here then that's completely different, but I took it as he sees her IRL and she's given him no encouragement. So would you now say she is fair game if she is on here? Not fair game, but being on a swinger site is more likely to be construed as looking for sex than having a friendly work relationship." Even if she has a partner? As it sounds like the OP isn't looking to include the partner. Now obviously the woman he is talking about if she is on here could play alone...but I am asking more if she only plays as a couple. | |||
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"She's attached I see her most days and we have a chat and flirt.. " OP kind of indicates it's not Fab contact but a real life daily meet in some context. That being the case we are not talking swinger with or without permission. Dangerous ground, we are both terrible flirts in normal life, have often flirted with work colleagues, bar staff friends etc. but would be horrified if any wanted to go further than some friendly flirting, that would be the cut all contact moment. Don't know your intentions, if it's a night of lust then your conscience has to deal with the potential consequences that you could screw up a life time of the relationship she is in.. OR if she wants out you may just be the person holding the door. OR if you want a relationship, are you sure? Just think it through, there are more reasons for playing the what if game than a night of lust. | |||
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"i took reading it as shes on here attached was i wrong? If she's on here then that's completely different, but I took it as he sees her IRL and she's given him no encouragement. So would you now say she is fair game if she is on here? Not fair game, but being on a swinger site is more likely to be construed as looking for sex than having a friendly work relationship. Even if she has a partner? As it sounds like the OP isn't looking to include the partner. Now obviously the woman he is talking about if she is on here could play alone...but I am asking more if she only plays as a couple." That's why I thought it was more likely that he was talking about a woman off site. Sometimes I read between the lines (rightly or wrongly) and it didn't come across that he was talking about a woman on here. If its a couples profile, surely leaving a message would run the risk of being read by the husband first anyway. | |||
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"Just to put a male perspective. . I have done it in Vanilla world. I got on with her really well, until the day I gave her one of "those notes". She had a boyfriend and ever since that it was awkward to be even in the same room as eachother. This is going back 7 years though. If your already friends/get on...then be fucking careful. " i lost a good friend this way it ended messy and i swear now i will never do it again! | |||
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"Write it the way men do on here Hi babes Wot u up 2? Fancy a bit? And enclose a pic of your cock " That really made me laugh!! | |||
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"She's attached I see her most days and we have a chat and flirt.. But I've been thinking of leaving her a note with my number on it with a short message.. I need your help ladies.. How should I word it? I'm hoping she fancies me so if you fancied a guy and he was to leave his number and a message what would you like to read.. This is not a fantasy as I'm definitely leaving her my number, I just wanna make her wonder and be tempted I'll keep this post updated with how it progresses.. Good or bad.. I don't want to never know and have what ifs.. What have you done to me fab!!! " Nice... How about respecting the fact she is in a relationship? | |||
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