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"People not reading profiles or reading it and thinking they'll be the exception. " Exactly this x | |||
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"Noticed it is only women replying. Men on fab is annoying! Think they are all gods gift.... " Responses like this one | |||
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"People not reading profiles or reading it and thinking they'll be the exception. " Soooooo this. | |||
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"People not reading profiles or reading it and thinking they'll be the exception. " Paralell to this. As a single guy, you find a single female or couple with a well written profile, you know, plenty for you to work with to write a decent message which shows you've considered their needs. You also match their requirements or type, ect. You write it out, maybe spending 5 - 15 mins depending on details. Maybe more. They see it, no reply. Or instant delete within the minute. Obviously nobody owes anyone anything, but, when you're getting a decently put message, a 'there's just no spark, sorry' if perfectly reasonable and acceptable. Another moan, women who say put effort into the message, but the profile is nothing tangible really. How on earth can I put effort in, if you are putting the minimum out. | |||
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"For us its people who keep messaging after we have seid no thank you, asking us to meet time after time again is not going to suddenly change our midr "The old “no” means I must try harder  | |||
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"Not being able to edit a post if there's a mistake. Grrr." Yep. Just made an error myself | |||
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"People not reading profiles or reading it and thinking they'll be the exception. " This, very much so! Particularly when their profile has nothing exceptional in it. | |||
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"Those profiles that insist on face pics but do not have any themselves!" This | |||
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"We've blocked messages from people with no pics, yet they always get around the filter which grinds our gears!! " Can put the effort into beating the filters but not into a decent message 🤷 | |||
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"Not being able to edit a post if there's a mistake. Grrr. Having spotted the typo in my post, definitely this "This and then the grammar police appearing lol | |||
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"When they sends me the public pictures from their profile!... why??" I’m sure it’s often a ploy to tempt you into opening their message | |||
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"People ignoring my filters & still message me " Set your filters properly and they won't be able to message you | |||
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"People not reading profiles or reading it and thinking they'll be the exception. " Or they tick one of the boxes therefore all other requirements don’t matter | |||
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"Ppl asking for others to message with a face pic… and not having any pics to view of themselves " I called those people entitled group Just block them Someone responding to your well thought out opening message with just one word or emoji | |||
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"Men thinking that they know what every woman wants ," Is it sausages? | |||
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"Flakes" Prefer a Ripple, a Twirl maybe? | |||
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"Flakes Prefer a Ripple, a Twirl maybe?" 😜 | |||
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"After being polite and replying to message saying , "thanks for the message we are not interested" , they keep sending messages......block!!" I can’t fault, ether they don’t understand or not getting the message of No | |||
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"Lying about their age .... " For you darling I'm 25! 😉 | |||
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"Not knowing if your message has been read or not, as it can be read and then unread, still showing yellow in the sent section. So you are left wondering! No reply is a reply, so if it's been read and no reply, then you know. " Simple solution is to delete your message as soon as you send it and then you don't have to worry whether it has been read or not because you can no longer see it. Cuts out a lot of stress. | |||
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"Not knowing if your message has been read or not, as it can be read and then unread, still showing yellow in the sent section. So you are left wondering! No reply is a reply, so if it's been read and no reply, then you know. Simple solution is to delete your message as soon as you send it and then you don't have to worry whether it has been read or not because you can no longer see it. Cuts out a lot of stress." Yeah man I tell people this all the time send and delete so not to lure in checking it | |||
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"Where do I start?!" At the beginning | |||
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"People not constantly hassling me for a meet. I don't have time to meet everyone. Or to respond to hundreds of messages. But you could all at least try. You might just get a response. "If only fab was like this | |||
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"People not reading profiles or reading it and thinking they'll be the exception. " Definitely this | |||
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"How long do you have, are you sitting comfortably x" Let me get my lamp and notepad ready for you. Free your mind of this burden | |||
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"Fake profiles..." What fake profiles? "...thinking were all pricks who just want their end away without even giving us a chance" It's a two-way street: men of substance weigh up their options when it comes to giving women a chance. They won't fuck anything, apparently. "messages read but instantly deleted which is just rude" It's not rude. They've given you their answer by deleting your message. "people begging for site supporters….ps content creators" I've never experienced this. Clearly I'm doing something wrong. | |||
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"How long do you have, are you sitting comfortably x Let me get my lamp and notepad ready for you. Free your mind of this burden "Soooo once upon a time there was a girl called Carla. She joined a website called Fabswingers. Her eyes were opened so wide she felt overwelmed at times by the amount of messages she received. Some were from lovely folks, some not so much. She has learnt so much over the years some of which has brought her to tears. Met some great people who she generally adores and some who are just bores. Hope you have an A4 pad with 500 pages  | |||
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"The constant berating of men. Like we're a sub species. " Awww welcome to the trans experience you can sit next to us on sub human bench we don’t judge down here | |||
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"The constant berating of men. Like we're a sub species. Awww welcome to the trans experience you can sit next to us on sub human bench we don’t judge down here " | |||
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"People not reading profiles or reading it and thinking they'll be the exception. " this  the amount of cheaters and married men that don't read our profile FFS. | |||
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"People not reading profiles or reading it and thinking they'll be the exception. this the amount of cheaters and married men that don't read our profile FFS."🤨, you started chatting with me... obviously without reading my profile bio. Then you blocked me when I told you I was married. | |||
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"People not reading profiles or reading it and thinking they'll be the exception. this the amount of cheaters and married men that don't read our profile FFS.
🤨, you started chatting with me... obviously without reading my profile bio. Then you blocked me when I told you I was married. "🫣 | |||
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"Noticed it is only women replying. Men on fab is annoying! Think they are all gods gift.... " this is on your profile Nothing worse than the word assuming.... pet hate big time. I think your the one assuming all men are the same we aren't. | |||
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"Not being able to edit messages, as others have said. Being able to perve in ninja mode but not being able to hide the fact you’re online. Sometimes I want to just have a mooch in peace and not get the “why haven’t you answered me” messages When threads get hijacked and you lose what was quite an interesting/entertaining/inclusive read and people’s voices get lost/ignored When people skip people in the who’s above you threads. Either play the game or don’t 🤷♀️ Public v private personas that are poles apart. Blows my mind a little The denial that there are cliques. Of course there are, it’s what happens in a group situation. You gravitate toward certain people. There’s nothing wrong with that unless your behaviour excludes other people in a public forum. Then it becomes obnoxious and plain rude. Here endeth the lesson 🤣 " Those threads annoy me so much or when someone replies at the same time as you. Also men who only reply to the women or couples in those thread. | |||
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"When people try to change my mind for me, I've said no before, outside my age range etc They are CONVINCED they are the one that will bypass all my self imposed considerations and restrictions. Sigh...... " “You are missing out babe “ is the usual | |||
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"The sheer number of fake female profiles "😭🤣😜🥵😈💦😘 "Well, here's another nice mess you've gotten me into"
Until Dec. 2016 believed to be 💯% straight (strictly one way traffic only) until chance meeting with a gorgeous sexy as fuck goddess of a woman who turned out to be anything but a woman with her turning out to have a 9" and meaty cock.
Well, let's just say one thing led to another and now fallen sooooo far down the rabbit hole there's no way out with me now chugging on clean big dicks like a practiced whore...!
Thus, we never say never...! | |||
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"Cake. The lack of decent cake being offered 🤓🥷" Would you like a slice of my pie? | |||
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"There’s no loo roll in the bogs here ☹️ (I was thus forced to use my sock) " Is this because the loo rolls were all used up in the Fleshlight thread?? | |||
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"There’s no loo roll in the bogs here ☹️ (I was thus forced to use my sock) Is this because the loo rolls were all used up in the Fleshlight thread??" Guilty 🤣 | |||
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"There’s no loo roll in the bogs here ☹️ (I was thus forced to use my sock) Is this because the loo rolls were all used up in the Fleshlight thread??" 😂😂 Ah ha! Now THAT would explain matters 😵💫😵💫😜 | |||
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"There’s no loo roll in the bogs here ☹️ (I was thus forced to use my sock) Is this because the loo rolls were all used up in the Fleshlight thread?? Guilty 🤣" I wasn't going to name names but kudos to fessing up | |||
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"People who constantly go offline while chatting " I hate this too. I lose interest quickly. | |||
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"Serial UNLOSers" I initially read this as serial Unolosers | |||
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"People who constantly go offline while chatting " • I much prefer those people if I'm honest. In my experience they go offline to draft a message elsewhere before they log back in to post a reply, exchanging a few more whilst online, before logging off again to draft their next missive. | |||
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"Noticed it is only women replying. Men on fab is annoying! Think they are all gods gift.... Responses like this one" I am entitled to my own opinion? Also I have been through the motions myself..... | |||
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"Too many men being dicks making it harder for the respectable ones on here. Stop sending dick pics thinking that’s going to help your cause as it’s probably not that pretty and do you really think women will be wowed. " Yeah, I'm kind of him on this one. | |||
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"Men thinking that they know what every woman wants , Is it sausages? " Don't be silly we all know the correct answer is Bacon. | |||
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"Men thinking that they know what every woman wants , Is it sausages? Don't be silly we all know the correct answer is Bacon." Smoked or unsmoked? | |||
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"Men thinking that they know what every woman wants , Is it sausages? Don't be silly we all know the correct answer is Bacon. Smoked or unsmoked?" Smoked of course. | |||
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• The age in the profile write up is years different to the age declared
• Face pic from online male model sites
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"Being ignored when message, even after reading their profile and following it, maybe just a no thanks is all needed" | |||
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"People not reading profiles or reading it and thinking they'll be the exception. " Yup, I’ve got a guy who’s five messages (without response) in and still hasn’t worked out why I’m not replying, even though my profile text is pretty short and clear. 🤷♀️ Normally I would have blocked by now, but I’m slightly curious to see how far it goes. | |||
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"People not reading profiles or reading it and thinking they'll be the exception. Yup, I’ve got a guy who’s five messages (without response) in and still hasn’t worked out why I’m not replying, even though my profile text is pretty short and clear. 🤷♀️ Normally I would have blocked by now, but I’m slightly curious to see how far it goes. " Six now Guess he thinks that the warning the site gives you in big red letters is just for other people. | |||
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"Cunts who say they wanna show off their wives but actually just le your own pics and fuck off. Boring bastards" There was a guy messaged me out of the blue earlier asking if I wanted to see his wife's tits... So I asked him if his wife knows that he is showing these photos on here. He says (I'm paraphrasing) : yeah, she loves it. So I say: OK. Send me a photo of her hand holding a fork and a spoon. The fork must be on top of the spoon. Then you can send the boob pictures. Radio silence ensues.... So I check the profile... Words like "discreet" and "cannot accommodate" jump out. There has to be some sort of report button for that, right? | |||
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"Straight men with Straight on there profile and some are and some aren't. Takes a few messages and wasting time finding out are they bi or not." Totally this. If looking at me gets you hard... you ain't straight. | |||
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"Profile that say can't travel can't accommodate " Fucking too right 😂😂 sound, I'll drive 90 minutes to you AND pay for the hotel? Lol nah I'm good | |||
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"Photos that come with a caption begging to be FABBED." Fab me, fab meeeeeeeeee  Haha. Or ‘fab if you want me to message you and tell you thank you’ and then never message. | |||
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"Photos that come with a caption begging to be FABBED." definitely this | |||
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"Noticed it is only women replying. Men on fab is annoying! Think they are all gods gift.... Responses like this one I am entitled to my own opinion? Also I have been through the motions myself..... " People who block you for having a different opinion to there's. | |||
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"Noticed it is only women replying. Men on fab is annoying! Think they are all gods gift.... Responses like this one I am entitled to my own opinion? Also I have been through the motions myself..... People who block you for having a different opinion to there's." yeah that happens a lot on here 🤷♂️ | |||
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"Noticed it is only women replying. Men on fab is annoying! Think they are all gods gift.... Responses like this one" Careful she will block you as well. | |||
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"Noticed it is only women replying. Men on fab is annoying! Think they are all gods gift.... Responses like this one I am entitled to my own opinion? Also I have been through the motions myself..... People who block you for having a different opinion to there's. yeah that happens a lot on here 🤷♂️" Careful she will block you as well 😞 | |||
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"Noticed it is only women replying. Men on fab is annoying! Think they are all gods gift.... Responses like this one I am entitled to my own opinion? Also I have been through the motions myself..... People who block you for having a different opinion to there's. yeah that happens a lot on here 🤷♂️ Careful she will block you as well 😞" It doesn’t bother me that some one from far away land blocks me, i’ve never tried to reply privately to anyone in the forums, so will leave them and their peace of mind to it 😊 | |||
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"Women with over 40 different verifications (Sexual contact), Saying sorry not my type ! Always makes me laugh, Patiently waiting on the backlash " Not backlash but I genuinely don't understand what you are trying to say. They may have 40 different verifications but you might still NOT be their type. Are you saying that because they have lots of verifications every single man should be their type (as in someone that has a lot of veris means that they will shag anyone and so why do they say you're not their type) Just block those that say you're not their type and move on. We can't be everyone's cup of tea and they may be looking for something specific that you can't offer | |||
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