FabSwingers.com forum: Owning your physical flaws

By *ife Ninja OP Man
46 weeks ago

Leeds

How do you feel about your physical flaws? Like it or not, we've all got them. Me....I'm overweight, have several surgical scars on my back and legs, short sighted and bald.

Personally, when you look at some of the toned people on here, I think, I'm in the wrong game, but, I can't change anything, so my mantra is, if they can't see past those things, they're probably not worth having near you.

Took a long time to own my flaws after my marriage went tits up, so how about you? 🤓🥷

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
46 weeks ago

Tamworth

I’ve had issues with food and exercise since my mid teens. I’m squidgier than I may perhaps like these days, but I’d much rather that than the deep-seated misery that comes with ruminating on every calorie I have and might eat.

I also have a fair few small scars from daft injuries over the years but they are what they are!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
46 weeks ago

Chichester

I have stretch marks which I call my life stripes from experience

Have skinny wonky left leg around knee as it’s damaged and held together with metal.

Have no big bouncy ass like many but I have small easy to handle one in place

Then I look at my plus points. Fairly attractive facially not to huge tall for a trans or big built. Chunky boobs and a nice femrod swinging between my legs that seems to act like the holy grail for many people

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By *arc PolarisMan
46 weeks ago

Château des Étoiles

Most yes because as you say battle scars.

There is still one though that triggers me badly though that's a story for another day

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By *oeBeansMan
46 weeks ago

Derby

I find people who like them and block out the rest of the world where I can live in my own bubble where I'm a 10 to everyone involved 😅

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

I have stretch marks, crow lines, thinning hair which i keep short and other issues i deal with.

I tend to focus on the good about me... I'm in decent shape for a burger muncher, have decent legs, smile, great tattoos and a decent personality

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By *oStringsFun86Man
46 weeks ago

Bristol

"I have stretch marks which I call my life stripes from experience

Have skinny wonky left leg around knee as it’s damaged and held together with metal.

Have no big bouncy ass like many but I have small easy to handle one in place

😍😍

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
46 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

My tits are small for my frame, my stomach feels odd ever since I lost too much weight too fast, I have stretch marks and scars, I hate my teeth.

But, fuck it. I'm still hot. And those who disagree, that's okay, I don't need to be everyone's cup of tea 💜

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
46 weeks ago

Niche

My life is written on me.

I am the age I am and I make the best of what I have.

I'm a lot happier now than even a year ago.

I always had a number in my head as a weight I ought to be. But when I reached it I could only do so by barely eating. My health was poorer, my boobs and bum faded away. And the only parts I liked were my stomach and thighs.

So I changed up my diet & my workouts, made friends with my squish and squatted my thighs & ass to a happy place. My lovely boobs and ass are back where they should be and I am loving them all.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
46 weeks ago

Chichester

"My tits are small for my frame, my stomach feels odd ever since I lost too much weight too fast, I have stretch marks and scars, I hate my teeth.

But, fuck it. I'm still hot. And those who disagree, that's okay, I don't need to be everyone's cup of tea 💜"

Yes

. This is the way

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By *ongJohnSilva2.0Man
46 weeks ago

Right up your street

I’ve got different colour eyebrows and I own it with pride 🤣

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By *ife Ninja OP Man
46 weeks ago

Leeds

"My tits are small for my frame, my stomach feels odd ever since I lost too much weight too fast, I have stretch marks and scars, I hate my teeth.

But, fuck it. I'm still hot. And those who disagree, that's okay, I don't need to be everyone's cup of tea 💜

Yes

. This is the way

x "

And I got to that point eventually 🤓🥷

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By *ineapplePixieCouple
46 weeks ago

Your to do list

I have stretch marks mainly around my belly button. I have a c section scar with a shelf of stubborn wobbly fat to the top of it, I hate it but have learned to accept that its not going anywhere 😅

Embrace your flaws ✌️

Tink ✨️

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By *onsw16Man
46 weeks ago

London

And you’re looking fantastic with it!

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By *issMeKate2Woman
46 weeks ago

near the river medway

Erm I am so conscious of my mum tum but I tell myself that it is part of my history.

I do exercise and sometimes heat healthy but this is a thing that never changes so I just either rock it or hide it under my lingerie.

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By *ellinever70Woman
46 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I change what I can through diet and exercise, I'm accepting of the rest

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By *issMeKate2Woman
46 weeks ago

near the river medway

"Erm I am so conscious of my mum tum but I tell myself that it is part of my history.

I do exercise and sometimes heat healthy but this is a thing that never changes so I just either rock it or hide it under my lingerie.

Heat= eat (phone autocorrect!)

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
46 weeks ago

Norwich

Everything gets baggier as you get older. To be honest it’s the diminishing function that I find more difficult than the deterioration in appearance.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
46 weeks ago

Chichester

"My tits are small for my frame, my stomach feels odd ever since I lost too much weight too fast, I have stretch marks and scars, I hate my teeth.

But, fuck it. I'm still hot. And those who disagree, that's okay, I don't need to be everyone's cup of tea 💜

Yes

. This is the way

And I got to that point eventually 🤓🥷"

Yes love x it’s the best way to be. Perfection is an illusion of chasing an imaginary ideal that can’t exist as we age everyday and change in time

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By *ealitybitesMan
46 weeks ago

Belfast

Like most people I have scars and flaws I'm not happy with but I'm 60 years of age so I've no option but to own them.

They are part of what makes me who I am.

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
46 weeks ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

I had years of the person i loved putting me down and using them as a weapon against me...it took me a while but I no longer let them rule my life, I still have my wobbles but 🤷‍♀️.

I know I'm no model, I have some gnarly scars and skin issues in places. But the people who like me regardless of all of that and me as a person are the ones I am more bothered about having in my life than just any random person.

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By *morousCouple8Couple
46 weeks ago

holiday in Kent

Are we listing them? Urgh. I have stretch marks, I am wobbly and should lose weight but I don’t bother. I have stretch marks and scars - a surgery scar on my bum which I wonder if people notice when bending me over. I look back at some of our footage and don’t like how I look, then I look at those who are ravishing me and they either don’t care, or love it all equally. So fuck it. This is me.

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By *hilloutMan
46 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I had horrendous acne on my back as a teenager and young adult. I did an aggressive treatment that mostly sorted it, but was left with many a mark and blemish as a result.

I've learned to accept it over the years and am no longer shy with my shirt off.

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By *evious daveMan
46 weeks ago

cheshire

lots of scars and completely blind in my my left eye from 9 years of age

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Don't see them as flaws. Just me.

Take it or leave it!

Can't change how I'm made

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

I'm extremely proud of my medically altered body. Not just anyone is going to get to see my naked body and them. Its a privilege.

I had a left breast mastectomy and LD reconstruction.

My left breast has no nipple, just an oval scar on it. I cannot feel much on that side.

I have a right hip replacement due to cancer in my hip. Have that scar also.

I'm as a result very particular who I sleep with.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
46 weeks ago

Utero

Low lighting, alcohol and a devil-may-care attitude…

Flaws? what flaws?

Rather some stretch marks than a shitty tattoo

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
46 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

I find the way I feel about my physical appearance has more to do with my mental/emotional confidence than my actual physical condition.

It’s easy to turn to fab to try to get some quick external validation, but it’s meaningless and insincere and so can actual turn out to be damaging rather than helpful to your confidence

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By *ambertMan
46 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I am one giant flaw. But it makes me hilarious

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
46 weeks ago

Reading

I have lumps, bumps, scars and marks all over my body. My knees are fucked and I have a weak shoulder that never really recovered after dislocation. But they all tell my story and I'm proud of what my body has survived.

Some people will find me attractive and others won't, but that is their choice.

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By *idethestormMan
46 weeks ago

northants

Can't own a lack of confidence, that was something taken away as a child by my mum and step dad, but I just try and get on best I can, do suprise myself sometimes. And my weight yeah diet starts Monday just dont know which one yet

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By *enda83Man
46 weeks ago

north

The only one I hate and won’t ever be able to own is my shit thin grey hair haha, I don’t mind my full abdominal incision scar, not even that bothered about my shit bag scar or the hernia that’s on it haha but the hair does my fucking head in

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
46 weeks ago

East Sussex

My feet aren't very nice to look at and you can see I'm an older woman. I don't think of these or any of the things mentioned here as flaws though.

Watching yourself grow older can be a challenge but what are you going to do !? 🤷‍♀️

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By *emonochromeMan
46 weeks ago

peterborough

I don’t consider any part of me to be flawed, just different

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By *issP69Woman
46 weeks ago

Neath

My c section scar I love. I have some very minimal loose skin and stretchmarks from 5stone+ weight loss. Embrace it

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By *ife Ninja OP Man
46 weeks ago

Leeds

I'm encouraged that people own their flaws 🤓🥷

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By *arkdawsonMan
46 weeks ago

around

"How do you feel about your physical flaws? Like it or not, we've all got them. Me....I'm overweight, have several surgical scars on my back and legs, short sighted and bald.

Took a long time to own my flaws after my marriage went tits up, so how about you? 🤓🥷"

Flaws ? I’d have to come back to you OP off the top of my head I can’t think of any right now on the spot

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
46 weeks ago

Didcot

Lost the hair on my head in my 20s and by my mid 30s didn't even have any body hair, loosing the hair on my head was absolutely devastating but I eventually come to terms with it, loosing body hair was less of a blow, Now neither bother me, lots of guys shave their heads these days as soon as they start getting male pattern baldness and lots of guys shave or wax body hair and especially pubic hair (shame as I love hairy men) Now my only real issues are over weight and sticky out belly button.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

my tiger stripes (which took a while to grow on me but now i love them)

a hell of a mangled scar in my belly button (surgeon fucked that up)... some other scaring from previous surgeries... due to add another scar from yet another surgery soon... oh and squidgy belly but that im still in love hate with haha xx

but i am who i am

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By *ny1localMan
46 weeks ago

READING

Depends who I'm with, after serious deep tissue burns on 30% of body ,and resulting skin grafts, I'm wary of showing off my body, but, I'm also aware some folks like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

I would have to consider anything on me a flaw first.

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By *unguy2429Man
46 weeks ago

worthing

I hate my face

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By *sWyldWoman
46 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Since I turned 40 I've stopped letting how I feel about my flaws stop me from doing things I want to do.

I'm working hard to be kinder to myself though it's hard to break the habit of a lifetime .

While I could list 100s of flaws I see , I also know that others don't see them in the way I do, just as I don't see their perceived flaws as they do.

Once you accept that, things get easier x

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By *ittleJohn5Man
46 weeks ago

Wickham Market

Have a flaw

It’s my tiny cock,still embarrassed by it but making the best of it, and starting to enjoy the embarrassment

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By *recticWoman
46 weeks ago

taunton

I’ve lost 16 stone over the last 20 months and it shows. While it’s not the be all and end all, I’m having a 360 tummy tuck, a breast lift with implants and an armpit lift in February and I’ll go back after my thighs done later in the year.

So then I can focus on what I don’t like next and fixate on that until I resolve that and the next issue consumes my life.

So in short, I’m mental

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By *onsw16Man
46 weeks ago

London

"My life is written on me.

I am the age I am and I make the best of what I have.

I'm a lot happier now than even a year ago.

So I changed up my diet & my workouts, made friends with my squish and squatted my thighs & ass to a happy place. My lovely boobs and ass are back where they should be and I am loving them all."

and looking fabulous with it

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By *ife Ninja OP Man
46 weeks ago

Leeds

"I’ve lost 16 stone over the last 20 months and it shows. While it’s not the be all and end all, I’m having a 360 tummy tuck, a breast lift with implants and an armpit lift in February and I’ll go back after my thighs done later in the year.

So then I can focus on what I don’t like next and fixate on that until I resolve that and the next issue consumes my life.

So in short, I’m mental "

16 stone! Impressive 🤓🥷

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By *aughtydealcoupleCouple
46 weeks ago

Walmer, Deal

Definitely have flaws flabby belly bum thighs stretch marks galore I don't like them but not much can be done as many other health issues

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By *morousCouple8Couple
46 weeks ago

holiday in Kent

So then I can focus on what I don’t like next and fixate on that until I resolve that and the next issue consumes my life.

So in short, I’m mental "

That’s so impressive. Well done

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By *gent CoulsonMan
46 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

As I am getting older, I have no option but to embrace them

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
46 weeks ago

kent

Character is born from imperfections… and I have a lot of character x

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By *ad NannaWoman
46 weeks ago

East London

I don't see anything about me physically to be a flaw.

Everyone has some kind of scar/extra fat/weird thing going on.

They're who we are.

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By *ovebunny70Woman
46 weeks ago

portsmouth

I'm beginning to accept my flaws and wobbly bits and it's a good feeling

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By *ellhungvweMan
46 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"Don't see them as flaws. Just me.

Take it or leave it!

Can't change how I'm made

I am with this. I am what I am and I can live with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Scars & bumps

my body reads of time playing sport and working in dangerous locations

Injuries … ankle fusion, broken bones but hell it’s a life I want to tell stories to my grandchildren if I ever get any!

Scars like tattoos ( which I don’t have) tell a story ! A great accumulation of memories and history

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By *hagTonightMan
46 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

I dont really have any. I like my 6pack bod. I work on it everyday too

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