FabSwingers.com forum: It's a big NO to Bi Men

By *afka OP Man
47 weeks ago

Nottingham

Seems like an awful lot of Fabswingers have "No Bi men" on their profiles. Totally respect your choice, not looking to change your minds but genuinely curious as to why.

Is it because you assume we're all cock hungry monsters that can't help touching up the straight guys?

Is it because we're perceived as more of a sexual health risk?

Are you worried that the Ghey might be contagious?

Any answers?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
47 weeks ago

in Lancashire

Why not just respect others preferences..?

Whatever peoples reasons are no one has to justify themselves in such things..

Concentrate on those who will meet rather than waste energy on those who won't ..

Him/her both bi..

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
47 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

As a general rule, people don't want to sleep with people they're not attracted to.

Whatever the reason for them not finding something attractive is, doesn't matter.

I've had someone tell me they'd never fuck a woman who's ever had sex with a black guy. There's no point examining those motives. It was simply a signal to walk away 💜

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

As a bi guy, I really couldn't care what their reasons are.

That is their preference and I'll respect that.

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By *eroLondonMan
47 weeks ago

Mayfair

I don't think I've ever harboured deep-rooted curiosity about people's preferences. People have set criterias for a multitude of reasons.

Similarly I've never questioned anyone on why they have an aversion to Asian men.

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By *iddlesticksMan
47 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

"As a general rule, people don't want to sleep with people they're not attracted to.

Whatever the reason for them not finding something attractive is, doesn't matter.

I've had someone tell me they'd never fuck a woman who's ever had sex with a black guy. There's no point examining those motives. It was simply a signal to walk away 💜"

I’m not normally a one for carnal with shenanigans with fairies, but then, if there’s a dark side to them.

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By *iddlesticksMan
47 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

"I don't think I've ever harboured deep-rooted curiosity about people's preferences. People have set criterias for a multitude of reasons.

Similarly I've never questioned anyone on why they have an aversion to Asiastic Lions. "

It’ll be teeth

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By *afka OP Man
47 weeks ago

Nottingham

Thankyou for the replies, I'm not demanding justification from anyone it's more idle curiosity rather than something that bothers me.

Just find it a little baffling.

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
47 weeks ago

Niche

You'd do better to just focus on the people who do enjoy sex with bisexual men. Theres a huge number of them on this site too.

Let everyone be at peace to partake in whatever safe, sane & consenual fun turns them on.

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By *afka OP Man
47 weeks ago

Nottingham

Let everyone be at peace to partake in whatever safe, sane & consenual fun turns them on.

⬆️ Absolutely right.

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man
47 weeks ago

London

"Seems like an awful lot of Fabswingers have "No Bi men" on their profiles. Totally respect your choice, not looking to change your minds but genuinely curious as to why.

Is it because you assume we're all cock hungry monsters that can't help touching up the straight guys?

Is it because we're perceived as more of a sexual health risk?

Are you worried that the Ghey might be contagious?

Any answers? "

As a bi man would you really want to have anything to do with anyone put "No Bi guys" on their profile? There are other more openminded people out there.

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By *afka OP Man
47 weeks ago

Nottingham

As a bi man would you really want to have anything to do with anyone put "No Bi guys" on their profile? There are other more openminded people out there. "

Absolutely not, it was just a "I wonder why?" moment.

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By *andadbodMan
46 weeks ago

Liverpool

Higher risk of STIs was one comment I seen on a previous thread, this one is older than time it’s self, they think they will catch the ghey, or their hubby might get his cock jumped on? take ya pick.

No one will openly tell you the real reason for fear of backlash, they’ll say it’s a preference and respect it, like others have already said in this thread.

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
46 weeks ago

Bognor Regis

Doesn't bother myself in the least.

I try not to worry too much about other peoples preferences though, if they don't align with my own then it's a non starter anyway.

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By *ildoshagginsWoman
46 weeks ago

South Wales

Why are some people turned off, or on, by anything?

Some people don't like blondes, or do like blondes, some people find the thought of certain sex acts off putting. Like, they they generally find women's bodies nicer to look at than mens bodies..🤷

Or it could be because they're homophobic.

Does it matter? Either way, they're not into you.

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By *azmar62Couple
46 weeks ago

Hinckley

"Higher risk of STIs was one comment I seen on a previous thread, this one is older than time it’s self, they think they will catch the ghey, or their hubby might get his cock jumped on? take ya pick.

No one will openly tell you the real reason for fear of backlash, they’ll say it’s a preference and respect it, like others have already said in this thread."

We’re openly bisexual. There’s absolutely no added risk to getting STD’s than “normal people” . Every responsible adult who has sex with others should be checked regularly. We are. We’re both on prep and doxy pep. So let’s clink those glasses and enjoy a free loving world. Xx

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
46 weeks ago

Northampton

No one will openly tell you the real reason for fear of backlash, they’ll say it’s a preference and respect it, like others have already said in this thread.

Risk is subjective. STI diagnosis statistics are not.

Gay / Bisexual men have disproportionately high rates of infection

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By *azmar62Couple
46 weeks ago

Hinckley

No one will openly tell you the real reason for fear of backlash, they’ll say it’s a preference and respect it, like others have already said in this thread.

Risk is subjective. STI diagnosis statistics are not.

Gay / Bisexual men have disproportionately high rates of infection "

Thanks for the sex education. Totally agree with you. But, responsible bi couples don’t. We only play together and We’re more choosy. We can always say no to suspicious types.

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By *AYENCouple
46 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

"Seems like an awful lot of Fabswingers have "No Bi men" on their profiles. Totally respect your choice, not looking to change your minds but genuinely curious as to why.

Is it because you assume we're all cock hungry monsters that can't help touching up the straight guys?

Is it because we're perceived as more of a sexual health risk?

Are you worried that the Ghey might be contagious?

Any answers? "

Probably a combination of all the above - I would think that bi guys are sought after and rejected in equal measure, so don't worry about it. K.

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
46 weeks ago

rochdale

I recently went to a sauna, in male mode, to satisfy a curiosity.

Turned out that scene isn't for me & I was a tad scared by the bareback sex that was going on.

Now I adore receiving anal sex, and I'm on PreP *but* I still insist on condom use.

Won't be going again.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
46 weeks ago

Birmingham

"I recently went to a sauna, in male mode, to satisfy a curiosity.

Turned out that scene isn't for me & I was a tad scared by the bareback sex that was going on.

Now I adore receiving anal sex, and I'm on PreP *but* I still insist on condom use.

Won't be going again."

Pretty much why I came off the sister site. To many guys messaging me who had bareback pics on their profile page. Think it seemed to spike after the first lockdown, but that could just be a coincidence.

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
46 weeks ago

Niche

There's a notion some people have that it's 'safe' to go bare with a married couple.

Complete and utter nonsense.

No sex is 100% safe sex.

Just SAFER with precautions.

Abstinence or solo sex, that's safe sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

"As a general rule, people don't want to sleep with people they're not attracted to.

Whatever the reason for them not finding something attractive is, doesn't matter.

I've had someone tell me they'd never fuck a woman who's ever had sex with a black guy. There's no point examining those motives. It was simply a signal to walk away 💜"

Obviously we’re all different but I’d expect my partner to challenge someone on that and I know she would.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
46 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Why not just respect others preferences..?

Whatever peoples reasons are no one has to justify themselves in such things..

Concentrate on those who will meet rather than waste energy on those who won't ..

Him/her both bi..

💯 this

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

OP, I think it’s a fair question to ask. Wanting to understand why many people have the perceptions they have of certain groups is fair. I’m not giving people a pass for opinions of entire groups that play into wider, harmful ideas.

That said, asking on fab is pointless. I’ve learned that much of the people on here

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By *ambertMan
46 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I once got told because it's more likely for a bi man to have aids.

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
46 weeks ago

North Welsh Borders

I don't care about sexual orientation tbf...as long as you're a decent person and there is mutual attraction then it's all good 🥰

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By *urry BlokeMan
46 weeks ago

No one will openly tell you the real reason for fear of backlash, they’ll say it’s a preference and respect it, like others have already said in this thread.

Risk is subjective. STI diagnosis statistics are not.

Gay / Bisexual men have disproportionately high rates of infection

Thanks for the sex education. Totally agree with you. But, responsible bi couples don’t. We only play together and We’re more choosy. We can always say no to suspicious types. "

Out of interest, what is a 'suspicious type'?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
46 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

Too much information isn't always a good thing.

If we met people we had NO info about and we were attracted to them we'd probably have a great session and think no more about it.

All sex takes is that you are physically attracted to each other.

Too much info then steers you toward other decisions..... and sometimes you just don't know why that information makes you make the choices you do.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
46 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"As a general rule, people don't want to sleep with people they're not attracted to.

Whatever the reason for them not finding something attractive is, doesn't matter.

I've had someone tell me they'd never fuck a woman who's ever had sex with a black guy. There's no point examining those motives. It was simply a signal to walk away 💜

Obviously we’re all different but I’d expect my partner to challenge someone on that and I know she would. "

Someone I know a little and thought was a rational person I'd for sure question it. On here? With some random just looking to get his dick wet? They're not going to care what I have to say, there's no point wasting my time 💜

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