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The realisation that you really like them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago

When do you realise you actually have feelings for them?

I’ll go first- when you catch yourself smiling at your phone

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By *y_CinnamonWoman
37 weeks ago

Hampshire

Every time your phone pings, you hope it's them

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
37 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I’m sorry OP, but we are never having The Sex.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago


"I’m sorry OP, but we are never having The Sex.

Mrs TMN x"

Babe thought I would travel to Scotland for sex 💀

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago


"Every time your phone pings, you hope it's them "

Yuck 😭

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago


"When do you realise you actually have feelings for them?

I’ll go first- when you catch yourself smiling at your phone "

This is actually the worst. Even more so when someone else asks what you’re smiling at. SHOOT ME.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago


"When do you realise you actually have feelings for them?

I’ll go first- when you catch yourself smiling at your phone

This is actually the worst. Even more so when someone else asks what you’re smiling at. SHOOT ME. "

Literally.

Brb I’m going to scream into a pillow

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By *oeBeansMan
37 weeks ago

Derby

When you don't overthink what to message them with. It just comes easy because you know they'll get you.

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
37 weeks ago

North Welsh Borders

When they either bring me food or suggest we go for food

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

When you start fucking it up and saying stupid shit

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
37 weeks ago

Reading

When I realise I've stopped filtering myself with them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago


"When you don't overthink what to message them with. It just comes easy because you know they'll get you."

Being understood 😍😍

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago


"When I realise I've stopped filtering myself with them."

Yep. You just be yourself

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By *herry.bombWoman
37 weeks ago

basingstoke

When you see something and think “oh __ would like that” or “I should show this to __”

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By *herry.bombWoman
37 weeks ago

basingstoke

OH and when something funny/interesting happens to you and you can’t wait to tell them about it

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By *morousAvocadoMan
37 weeks ago

Somerset


"When you see something and think “oh __ would like that” or “I should show this to __” "

I was just about to say this

Aaaaaaaaaah

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By *morousAvocadoMan
37 weeks ago

Somerset


"When I realise I've stopped filtering myself with them."

Ive only completely stopped filtering myself with one person

I guess I must have REALLY liked them 😂

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By *007ManMan
37 weeks ago

Worthing

You think about them a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

When they make my belly do a flip flop just by walking into a room.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
37 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

They bring me coffee in bed.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
37 weeks ago

Reading


"When I realise I've stopped filtering myself with them.

Ive only completely stopped filtering myself with one person

I guess I must have REALLY liked them 😂

"

Ha, like more people, I'd say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago

When you send them literally awful pictures of yourself

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
37 weeks ago

North West


"When you send them literally awful pictures of yourself "

Hahahahaha. Shit.

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
37 weeks ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

I do all of the above with people i just like, not really like like 😂😂

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By *dinburghWomanWoman
37 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"When do you realise you actually have feelings for them?

I’ll go first- when you catch yourself smiling at your phone "

I stop seeing them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago

You don’t hold in your farts x

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
37 weeks ago

North West


"I do all of the above with people i just like, not really like like 😂😂"

Yeah, I think it can be friendship like as well as a like like.

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
37 weeks ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....


"I do all of the above with people i just like, not really like like 😂😂

Yeah, I think it can be friendship like as well as a like like."

Hence why you get the pics you do from me 😂

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago


"I do all of the above with people i just like, not really like like 😂😂

Yeah, I think it can be friendship like as well as a like like."

Omg the dreaded friend zone

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
37 weeks ago

North West


"I do all of the above with people i just like, not really like like 😂😂

Yeah, I think it can be friendship like as well as a like like.

Hence why you get the pics you do from me 😂"

I have a godawful pic of me today that I’ll send you. And some other recent randomness 🥰

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago

Go for a piss and leave the door open

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By *aizyWoman
37 weeks ago

west midlands


"I do all of the above with people i just like, not really like like 😂😂

Yeah, I think it can be friendship like as well as a like like.

Omg the dreaded friend zone"

Whats wrong with being friend zoned? I've been friend zoned and I like it!

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By *r_Mrs.DSCouple
37 weeks ago

Voldsøy


"You don’t hold in your farts x"

For me, that's 3 months into a relationship and happened totally by accident

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By *r_Mrs.DSCouple
37 weeks ago

Voldsøy

When they hug you and nothing else in the world exists 🤢😭🤣

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago


"I do all of the above with people i just like, not really like like 😂😂

Yeah, I think it can be friendship like as well as a like like.

Omg the dreaded friend zone

Whats wrong with being friend zoned? I've been friend zoned and I like it!"

It’s fine if you want to be just friends. Not fine if you like someone and wanted more.

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By *aizyWoman
37 weeks ago

west midlands


"I do all of the above with people i just like, not really like like 😂😂

Yeah, I think it can be friendship like as well as a like like.

Omg the dreaded friend zone

Whats wrong with being friend zoned? I've been friend zoned and I like it!

It’s fine if you want to be just friends. Not fine if you like someone and wanted more. "

I get it now, it has happened to me both ways, doesn't bother me tbh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago


"I do all of the above with people i just like, not really like like 😂😂

Yeah, I think it can be friendship like as well as a like like.

Omg the dreaded friend zone

Whats wrong with being friend zoned? I've been friend zoned and I like it!

It’s fine if you want to be just friends. Not fine if you like someone and wanted more.

I get it now, it has happened to me both ways, doesn't bother me tbh."

It bothers me.

Just so you know for when you friend zone me and I start crying

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By *morousAvocadoMan
37 weeks ago

Somerset


"When I realise I've stopped filtering myself with them.

Ive only completely stopped filtering myself with one person

I guess I must have REALLY liked them 😂

Ha, like more people, I'd say."

Im working on this 😁

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By *aizyWoman
37 weeks ago

west midlands


"I do all of the above with people i just like, not really like like 😂😂

Yeah, I think it can be friendship like as well as a like like.

Omg the dreaded friend zone

Whats wrong with being friend zoned? I've been friend zoned and I like it!

It’s fine if you want to be just friends. Not fine if you like someone and wanted more.

I get it now, it has happened to me both ways, doesn't bother me tbh.

It bothers me.

Just so you know for when you friend zone me and I start crying"

Noted, I'll bring extra hankies 🤧😭😂

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago


"I do all of the above with people i just like, not really like like 😂😂

Yeah, I think it can be friendship like as well as a like like.

Omg the dreaded friend zone

Whats wrong with being friend zoned? I've been friend zoned and I like it!

It’s fine if you want to be just friends. Not fine if you like someone and wanted more.

I get it now, it has happened to me both ways, doesn't bother me tbh.

It bothers me.

Just so you know for when you friend zone me and I start crying

Noted, I'll bring extra hankies 🤧😭😂"

fuck you 🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago


"OH and when something funny/interesting happens to you and you can’t wait to tell them about it "

Yes i agree with you on both of your above posts

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By *exyScientistsCouple
37 weeks ago

Castlebar


"When do you realise you actually have feelings for them?

I’ll go first- when you catch yourself smiling at your phone "

When you forget what it was like before they were there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago


"When do you realise you actually have feelings for them?

I’ll go first- when you catch yourself smiling at your phone

When you forget what it was like before they were there "

that shit sounds like LOVE! See a doctor??!

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By *exyScientistsCouple
37 weeks ago

Castlebar


"When do you realise you actually have feelings for them?

I’ll go first- when you catch yourself smiling at your phone

When you forget what it was like before they were there that shit sounds like LOVE! See a doctor??!"

It's ok I've had my vaccination for that 🤧😏

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago


"When do you realise you actually have feelings for them?

I’ll go first- when you catch yourself smiling at your phone

When you forget what it was like before they were there that shit sounds like LOVE! See a doctor??!

It's ok I've had my vaccination for that 🤧😏"

I knew I liked you guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago

When you randomly think about something stupid they did

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By *ruella DeThrillWoman
37 weeks ago

Essex


"When you randomly think about something stupid they did"

Why are you liking the stupid ones?

Set your sights higher man 🤣

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago


"When you randomly think about something stupid they did

Why are you liking the stupid ones?

Set your sights higher man 🤣"

They’re the best in bed tbh

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By *ruella DeThrillWoman
37 weeks ago

Essex


"When you randomly think about something stupid they did

Why are you liking the stupid ones?

Set your sights higher man 🤣

They’re the best in bed tbh"

No. The crazy ones are the best in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago


"When you randomly think about something stupid they did

Why are you liking the stupid ones?

Set your sights higher man 🤣

They’re the best in bed tbh

No. The crazy ones are the best in bed."

This is absolutely 💯 true 😂

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
37 weeks ago

Chester


"The realisation that you really like them - When do you realise you actually have feelings for them?

I’ll go first- when you catch yourself smiling at your phone "

So when someone tells you 'I Think its the smiling at the phone thing....' - is that a compliment 🤔

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago


"When you randomly think about something stupid they did

Why are you liking the stupid ones?

Set your sights higher man 🤣

They’re the best in bed tbh

No. The crazy ones are the best in bed."

Yes, if you mean crazy as in possessive.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago


"When you randomly think about something stupid they did

Why are you liking the stupid ones?

Set your sights higher man 🤣

They’re the best in bed tbh

No. The crazy ones are the best in bed."

🤣🤣 so true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago


"The realisation that you really like them - When do you realise you actually have feelings for them?

I’ll go first- when you catch yourself smiling at your phone

So when someone tells you 'I Think it’s the smiling at the phone thing....' - is that a compliment 🤔 "

I don’t know if I understand what you mean?

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By *eliWoman
37 weeks ago

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When my face does this if I think about them. Or they message me. Or someone asks after them.

Oh because I can be a bit of a 'mare for truly opening up to people - when I can do that. They feel safe I guess.

When songs make me think of them.

Nauseating crap I know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago


"When my face does this if I think about them. Or they message me. Or someone asks after them.

Oh because I can be a bit of a 'mare for truly opening up to people - when I can do that. They feel safe I guess.

When songs make me think of them.

Nauseating crap I know."

make sure that shit doesn’t turn into love, babe

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
37 weeks ago

Chester


"The realisation that you really like them - When do you realise you actually have feelings for them?

I’ll go first- when you catch yourself smiling at your phone

So when someone tells you 'I Think it’s the smiling at the phone thing....' - is that a compliment 🤔

I don’t know if I understand what you mean?

"

If they're smiling at their phone from your messages, is that a good sign?

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By *sWyldWoman
37 weeks ago

Edinburgh

When you think it might be dangerous to keep seeing them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago


"The realisation that you really like them - When do you realise you actually have feelings for them?

I’ll go first- when you catch yourself smiling at your phone

So when someone tells you 'I Think it’s the smiling at the phone thing....' - is that a compliment 🤔

I don’t know if I understand what you mean?

If they're smiling at their phone from your messages, is that a good sign? "

absolutely!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago


"When you think it might be dangerous to keep seeing them! "

Oh god I’m there. I’m so there.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
37 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"When you think it might be dangerous to keep seeing them!

Oh god I’m there. I’m so there. "

When you realise they don't like you in " that " way... FML 🤣

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By *ynamite500Man
37 weeks ago

Angus

When they live rent free in your head and you get the butterflies. There will always be one in your life... mostly just a fond memory!☹️

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago


"When you think it might be dangerous to keep seeing them!

Oh god I’m there. I’m so there.

When you realise they don't like you in " that " way... FML 🤣"

When you realise they don’t like you in that way and it sucks but you don’t want to let go

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago


"When they live rent free in your head and you get the butterflies. There will always be one in your life... mostly just a fond memory!☹️"

I enjoy liking someone. But it always gets to that point where I want more than just flirting

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By *ynamite500Man
37 weeks ago

Angus


"When they live rent free in your head and you get the butterflies. There will always be one in your life... mostly just a fond memory!☹️

I enjoy liking someone. But it always gets to that point where I want more than just flirting"

Sometimes mate, if you genuinely and deeply like them..you just have to let them go... That's how you know what you felt was real and genuine! It's a double edged sword. Only ever fallen on it once .(had a few relationships, though I always felt I held back )I doubt I will ever again...(looking for my tiny violin 🎻)😥

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
37 weeks ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

The smile when you see their name pop up on your phone.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
37 weeks ago

Chester

When they have time for you

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
37 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"When you think it might be dangerous to keep seeing them!

Oh god I’m there. I’m so there.

When you realise they don't like you in " that " way... FML 🤣

When you realise they don’t like you in that way and it sucks but you don’t want to let go"

Ain't that the truth

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
37 weeks ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

The flutters when they call you by a pet name 🫠

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By *izandpaulCouple
37 weeks ago

merseyside

Never had any feelings other than a friendship with anyone we have met.

Just not looking for anything that would come anywhere close to a relationship of any description.

I would also assume this is the same for people we meet.

Its all about swinging and recreational sex and meeting new people for what generally is just for a couple of times.

I have a relationship, I have a husband.

Not looking for a new one and if I was it wouldn't be from a swingers site.

Think the people we meet tend to feel the same about swinging. Maybe we approach the lifestyle in a different angle to some others.

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By *otsowickedCouple
37 weeks ago

Galway

When you can't stop thinking about them, want to talk to them all the time, seeing them is the highlight of your week,

Can never get enough of them, the chats, the touch of their hand.

The instant consuming jealousy when they are with someone else.

That's how we felt from the start and the best decision we both made to be together ❤️

Mrs

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By *izandpaulCouple
37 weeks ago

merseyside


"Never had any feelings other than a friendship with anyone we have met.

Just not looking for anything that would come anywhere close to a relationship of any description.

I would also assume this is the same for people we meet.

Its all about swinging and recreational sex and meeting new people for what generally is just for a couple of times.

I have a relationship, I have a husband.

Not looking for a new one and if I was it wouldn't be from a swingers site.

Think the people we meet tend to feel the same about swinging. Maybe we approach the lifestyle in a different angle to some others.

"

Think I've got this thread all wrong.

Thought it was for swinging meets not some form of dating or long term relationship scenario.

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