FabSwingers.com forum: Shit day! How do you cheer yourself up?

By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP Woman
4 days ago

Norwich

I'm showered and already in my lounge wear and lying on my bed feeling a bit sorry for myself.

I have also demolished a few chocolates out of a box my friend gave me yesterday.

What do you do to cheer yourself up after a bad day?

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By *hortieWoman
4 days ago

Northampton

Beer.

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By *eys00Man
4 days ago

have boots will travel

Candle, book and some nice background music. I try and leave the phone down for a while as well, add in a nice cup of tea/glass of a heavy red and I’m all good again in no time

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By *hady2000Man
4 days ago

Leeds

Probably comfort purchasing, searching Ebay for something cool 😎

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By *leasureyou69Man
4 days ago

Shropshire

Drive out for a walk away from people

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP Woman
4 days ago

Norwich

"Beer. "

Haha maybe I should try that! 🤣

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By *ucyLicks51Woman
4 days ago

Glasgow

Go a drive or a nice walk

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By *nquisitive LadyWoman
4 days ago

Midlands

"I'm showered and already in my lounge wear and lying on my bed feeling a bit sorry for myself.

I have also demolished a few chocolates out of a box my friend gave me yesterday.

What do you do to cheer yourself up after a bad day? "

Yesterday , I just went out and got some cake. X

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP Woman
4 days ago

Norwich

"Probably comfort purchasing, searching Ebay for something cool 😎 "

I have been looking for a wardrobe. I'm not sure if that counts?

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By *ookie46Woman
4 days ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Nice chilled bath and a good book. Chatting with friends always helps too

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP Woman
4 days ago

Norwich

"Go a drive or a nice walk "

I must admit I'm hibernating but it makes total sense to do that.

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By *peedyGMan
4 days ago

Telford

Love walking so do that or music helps sometimes

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By *dam1971Man
4 days ago

Bedford

Put the phone down for an hour and do something at your own pace. Reading is good, write something in a journal, draw if that’s something you used to enjoy.

Remind yourself that you’re still in control and you can make good things happen.

And share some of the chocolates

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By *hady2000Man
4 days ago

Leeds

"Probably comfort purchasing, searching Ebay for something cool 😎

I have been looking for a wardrobe. I'm not sure if that counts? "

Depends if it made you feel better or not 🤔

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By *yrdsisWoman
4 days ago

Gleam Street

Just keep thinking about the voluntary severance package that my boss is going to approve me for... only a few months to hang in for!

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP Woman
4 days ago

Norwich

"Put the phone down for an hour and do something at your own pace. Reading is good, write something in a journal, draw if that’s something you used to enjoy.

Remind yourself that you’re still in control and you can make good things happen.

And share some of the chocolates

I would have to share them with my shadow as I live on my own! 🤣

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By *aramel.desiresMan
4 days ago

Laleham

By remembering there are worse off people that myself. Turn the page and start again....with a nice e rum.

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP Woman
4 days ago

Norwich

"Just keep thinking about the voluntary severance package that my boss is going to approve me for... only a few months to hang in for!"

Sadly that's not an option for me but I'm happy for you!

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By *aramel.desiresMan
4 days ago

Laleham

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By *yrdsisWoman
4 days ago

Gleam Street

"Just keep thinking about the voluntary severance package that my boss is going to approve me for... only a few months to hang in for!

Sadly that's not an option for me but I'm happy for you! "

Thank you... just keep on with those chocolates! X

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP Woman
4 days ago

Norwich

"Probably comfort purchasing, searching Ebay for something cool 😎

I love a bit of retail therapy but like TKMaxx! Because returning to whole lot is not an issue. Lol"

I'm watching my pennies so I can look but I can't touch! 🤣

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By *atinaChica54Woman
4 days ago

Marlborough

Demolish a "share" bag of peanut M&Ms & then....Voila! All is good again in Kaff's world!

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By *iss.BellaWoman
4 days ago

Gin, chocolate, probably a lady wank

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP Woman
4 days ago

Norwich

"Gin, chocolate, probably a lady wank

One out of 3 ain't bad! 🤣

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By *idssissyTV/TS
4 days ago

Nr cricket ground birm

Considering my days depends on how bad

Often want to get pissed but don't drink

Usually comfort food

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By *uffnmuffCouple
4 days ago

London

Go to the gym I always feel better when I walk back out x

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By *itgingermanMan
4 days ago

Rotherham

Do something you don’t normally do

Message a mate who gets you laughing 😆 go spend an hour or two with them

If staying at home find something like a funny film or a stand up comedian and watch that

The best thing ever for the mind is laughter

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
4 days ago

Gloucester

Long hot bath with bubbles, bath bomb, and a cider

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By *each bumsCouple
4 days ago

SPAIN.. PERMANENTLY

"Gin, chocolate, probably a lady wank

Exactly this

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By *hrills and adventureMan
4 days ago

Winchester

Used to be a combo of beer and chocolate, but I don't drink now. I try and use mindfulness and meditation instead, but the chocolate still creeps in now and then.

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By *raveboyMan
4 days ago

Helston

I come home to my cat , and have a lovely cuddle !

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By *oeBeansMan
4 days ago

Derby

I battle through it knowing the happiness will only be temporary and the issue at large will still dominate my thoughts as I try to sleep, wondering where I went wrong in life that led me to this point... Or I just have some ice cream and watch TV

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By *outhernC0mfortMan
4 days ago

Cumbria

Mick Gordon - BFG Division

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By *RWoodyCouple
4 days ago

Lincolnshire

Depends on the severity of the 💩 I guess, but normally a malibu & and some music helps a lot.

That and chatting with some Fab friends of course 🙂

J x

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP Woman
4 days ago

Norwich

"Used to be a combo of beer and chocolate, but I don't drink now. I try and use mindfulness and meditation instead, but the chocolate still creeps in now and then."

Thd chocolate has definitely crept in today for sure.

I do do some great work sometimes too.

No beer for me either.

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP Woman
4 days ago

Norwich

"I come home to my cat , and have a lovely cuddle ! "

I don't have a cat. You're lucky! Oh that must be lovely to come home to.

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP Woman
4 days ago

Norwich

"Long hot bath with bubbles, bath bomb, and a cider "

I may have a bath as my feet are seriously looking prehistoric in nature. I'm growing scales! Next thing I'll be green!

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By *iddle ManMan
4 days ago

Walsall

Exercise, chocolate or ice cream, and sometimes all three depending on how bad a day it has been.

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By *i married coupleXCouple
4 days ago

Bellshill

Nice hot soak in the bath with a very large glass of wine xx

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By *enda83Man
4 days ago

newcastle

My 2 personal favourite methods

Gym

get a Chinese and watch one of my favourite films

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP Woman
4 days ago

Norwich

"My 2 personal favourite methods

Gym

get a Chinese and watch one of my favourite films "

The Chinese option is definitely a way to this girls heart! 😊

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By *oshdong MingemuncherMan
4 days ago

Hull

My go to is. A run to clear my head and then put on a comedy box set like toast of London with a few cheeky rums

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
4 days ago

Midlands

Buy something. Retail therapy (usually online) does wonders for my mood but not my bank balance.

Katie.

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By *aybeLadyWoman
4 days ago

West Dublin

Have a cry if I need to, stay in bed if needed, eat crap if needed.

Do whatever you feel like doing. Take a sleeping tablet, go to bed & tomorrow is a new day.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
4 days ago

In fair Verona.

I read the agony aunt section of the newspaper, that always makes me feel better.

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP Woman
4 days ago

Norwich

"I read the agony aunt section of the newspaper, that always makes me feel better. "

Do they still exist?

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By *heGateKeeperMan
4 days ago

Stratford

A glass of rum, a flirt and a wank

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
4 days ago

In fair Verona.

"I read the agony aunt section of the newspaper, that always makes me feel better.

Do they still exist? "

I pick up some old copies from the charity shops. You can believe some of the news stories, I can’t believe Bill Clinton is saying Monica didn’t blow him under the desk. I wonder if he’ll get away with it?

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
4 days ago

Altrincham

"I'm showered and already in my lounge wear and lying on my bed feeling a bit sorry for myself.

I have also demolished a few chocolates out of a box my friend gave me yesterday.

What do you do to cheer yourself up after a bad day? "

Wine & oral from hubby 😁

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By *exxyyDy11Man
4 days ago

North West

Have you got a pet OP?

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP Woman
4 days ago

Norwich

"I'm showered and already in my lounge wear and lying on my bed feeling a bit sorry for myself.

I have also demolished a few chocolates out of a box my friend gave me yesterday.

What do you do to cheer yourself up after a bad day?

Wine & oral from hubby 😁 "

That's clearly where I'm going wrong as I have neither! 🤣

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP Woman
4 days ago

Norwich

"Have you got a pet OP? "

I did and do have a lovely dog. However when I went to live abroad my parents looked after him and now particularly my Dad would be heartbroken if I took him back.

He's in very loved and adoring hands with them and they are there most of the time. My Dad is also in his 80s. I miss him a lot though but he's in the best place as my life is much busier and I'm not around as much as them.

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By *remlin1066Man
4 days ago

durham

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By *remlin1066Man
4 days ago

durham

Play music and let it drift my thoughts away.

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP Woman
4 days ago

Norwich

I have just done some house chores and danced in my kitchen a bit and everything seems a little better now.

Thanks everyone for helping me this evening. I hope you have a good one!

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By *hickthighs25Woman
4 days ago

Stockton

Music, a good book and a big bar of chocolate 😍

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP Woman
4 days ago

Norwich

"A glass of rum, a flirt and a wank

I have done zero of those 3 options! Another time maybe..

My flirt game is at zero or minus figures today.

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By *midnight-Woman
4 days ago

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Comfort food/sugar

Hope you feel better tomorrow

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By *ilverFoxOralLoverMan
4 days ago

Where ever I lay my hat

Flirt on Fab 😁

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By *exxyyDy11Man
4 days ago

North West

"Music, a good book and a big bar of chocolate 😍"

Milk? Dark? White?

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
4 days ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

Hide until I no longer want to do stupid shit

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By *exxyyDy11Man
4 days ago

North West

"Hide until I no longer want to do stupid shit "

Queen of hide and seek eh 😂

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By *hickthighs25Woman
4 days ago

Stockton

"Music, a good book and a big bar of chocolate 😍

Milk? Dark? White?"

Milk always 🫶

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
4 days ago

somewhere, someplace

Bath, Chocolate and ladywank not necessarily in that order though 😂

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP Woman
4 days ago

Norwich

"Hide until I no longer want to do stupid shit "

Any particular place? Wardrobe, in your shell like a hermit, under the bed? Or in your own world?

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