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"What is something you have found out about your non monogamous lifestyle that people barely talk about? For me it’s how expensive condoms are getting. Outrageous. " They are free... As is testing | |||
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"What is something you have found out about your non monogamous lifestyle that people barely talk about? For me it’s how expensive condoms are getting. Outrageous. They are free... As is testing " Right!!! And lube sachets with the condoms. So cute 🤣 | |||
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"How large everyone’s roster is "  I don’t even talk anymore because I can’t have people knowing | |||
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"How large everyone’s roster is I don’t even talk anymore because I can’t have people knowing "The game is the game  | |||
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"What is something you have found out about your non monogamous lifestyle that people barely talk about? For me it’s how expensive condoms are getting. Outrageous. " Hotel rooms in Dublin   | |||
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"The drama "Oh the drama | |||
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"Distance and diary alignment are a bastard. " This ! | |||
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"Distance and diary alignment are a bastard. " One hundred per cent!!!!!! | |||
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"The expense of swinging! New lingerie £££ hotel room ££ club night ££ babysitter £££ and you may end up just fucking eachother like you could have done at home 🤣" ⬆️ that’s seriously tickled me 🤣 | |||
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"The number of people that have done rodeo. Who knew? 😯 How it would change my social life for the better and the wonderful friends I have made. How liberating it is and how it’s changed my life - the affects ripple through my vanilla personality and life generally." I feel called out by that somehow 🤣🤣 | |||
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"The number of people that have done rodeo. Who knew? 😯 How it would change my social life for the better and the wonderful friends I have made. How liberating it is and how it’s changed my life - the affects ripple through my vanilla personality and life generally." Also how dangerous thongs and G strings are. There are so many women getting their high heels caught up in their knicks, it’s like, crazy man 😲 | |||
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"That free and easy is never free. And certainly not easy. Open does not mean open to all Feelings aren’t “feelings” but are more than “feeling” " 'Til you see Marianne walk away? | |||
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"The number of people that have done rodeo. Who knew? 😯 How it would change my social life for the better and the wonderful friends I have made. How liberating it is and how it’s changed my life - the affects ripple through my vanilla personality and life generally. I feel called out by that somehow 🤣🤣" 😂😂😂 Just how many Rodeos have you done? Are there like Rodeo clubs? Can you get lessons? I’ve only seen them on Telly. I’ve asked the girls at the stables up the lane but they just look at me blankly and say they just do jumps and stuff. | |||
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"That free and easy is never free. And certainly not easy. Open does not mean open to all Feelings aren’t “feelings” but are more than “feeling” 'Til you see Marianne walk away?" Normal people? | |||
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"The number of people that have done rodeo. Who knew? 😯 How it would change my social life for the better and the wonderful friends I have made. How liberating it is and how it’s changed my life - the affects ripple through my vanilla personality and life generally. Also how dangerous thongs and G strings are. There are so many women getting their high heels caught up in their knicks, it’s like, crazy man 😲" Don’t call me out like that 🤣🤣 | |||
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"The number of people that have done rodeo. Who knew? 😯 How it would change my social life for the better and the wonderful friends I have made. How liberating it is and how it’s changed my life - the affects ripple through my vanilla personality and life generally. I feel called out by that somehow 🤣🤣 😂😂😂 Just how many Rodeos have you done? Are there like Rodeo clubs? Can you get lessons? I’ve only seen them on Telly. I’ve asked the girls at the stables up the lane but they just look at me blankly and say they just do jumps and stuff." And damn girl… you fill a T shirt. You make the small print stretch to FINE print 😂😍 | |||
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"The number of people that have done rodeo. Who knew? 😯 How it would change my social life for the better and the wonderful friends I have made. How liberating it is and how it’s changed my life - the affects ripple through my vanilla personality and life generally. Also how dangerous thongs and G strings are. There are so many women getting their high heels caught up in their knicks, it’s like, crazy man 😲 Don’t call me out like that 🤣🤣" 😂😂 Did you have to phone someone to come release you? I don’t even now how you ladies end up like that.. what are you doing to get in such a tangle? 🧐 | |||
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"That free and easy is never free. And certainly not easy. Open does not mean open to all Feelings aren’t “feelings” but are more than “feeling” " I do not understand that last one | |||
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"Distance and diary alignment are a bastard. One hundred per cent!!!!!! " This, but there is still an expectation from a number of people that you will drop everything to meet them. | |||
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"The number of people that have done rodeo. Who knew? 😯 How it would change my social life for the better and the wonderful friends I have made. How liberating it is and how it’s changed my life - the affects ripple through my vanilla personality and life generally. Also how dangerous thongs and G strings are. There are so many women getting their high heels caught up in their knicks, it’s like, crazy man 😲 Don’t call me out like that 🤣🤣 😂😂 Did you have to phone someone to come release you? I don’t even now how you ladies end up like that.. what are you doing to get in such a tangle? 🧐" Oh yes, I fell into the tumble drier too while waiting for help but luckily a passing tradesman heard my screams. He tried to help but somehow his clothes fell off too….. | |||
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"Distance and diary alignment are a bastard. " honestly having done long distance from here, I can say it really is stress | |||
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"That free and easy is never free. And certainly not easy. Open does not mean open to all Feelings aren’t “feelings” but are more than “feeling” I do not understand that last one" No-one ever does (sigh) | |||
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"The number of people that have done rodeo. Who knew? 😯 How it would change my social life for the better and the wonderful friends I have made. How liberating it is and how it’s changed my life - the affects ripple through my vanilla personality and life generally. Also how dangerous thongs and G strings are. There are so many women getting their high heels caught up in their knicks, it’s like, crazy man 😲 Don’t call me out like that 🤣🤣 😂😂 Did you have to phone someone to come release you? I don’t even now how you ladies end up like that.. what are you doing to get in such a tangle? 🧐 Oh yes, I fell into the tumble drier too while waiting for help but luckily a passing tradesman heard my screams. He tried to help but somehow his clothes fell off too….." Good grief, this lifestyle is a Health and Safety nightmare | |||
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"What is something you have found out about your non monogamous lifestyle that people barely talk about? For me it’s how expensive condoms are getting. Outrageous. " Getting tested  | |||
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But that ultimately this will be a positive thing!
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"Getting someone to look after your kids so you can both play together is harder than doing brain surgery in a hurricane" YES!! | |||
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"What is something you have found out about your non monogamous lifestyle that people barely talk about? For me it’s how expensive condoms are getting. Outrageous. " You can get like 40 Skyns from Amazon for under £20. And at least you only have to get the size that works for you rather than having different options. Uh, I can't really think of anything missing on mine. Excessive word vomit is pretty common throughout 💜 | |||
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"Getting someone to look after your kids so you can both play together is harder than doing brain surgery in a hurricane YES!!" New side hustle idea - offering to sit for fellow swingers so they can reciprocate (though that only works if you don’t want to swing together…) | |||
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"Getting someone to look after your kids so you can both play together is harder than doing brain surgery in a hurricane YES!! New side hustle idea - offering to sit for fellow swingers so they can reciprocate (though that only works if you don’t want to swing together…)" Sign us up! Our friends are non swingers but all have parents who babysit and we don’t 😢 then feel bad asking for help | |||
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"What is something you have found out about your non monogamous lifestyle that people barely talk about? For me it’s how expensive condoms are getting. Outrageous. They are free... As is testing Right!!! And lube sachets with the condoms. So cute 🤣" But OMG the texture of those sachet lubes is DISGUSTING | |||
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"How men say they want a girl who enjoys sex but then ghost as they are too nervous to fulfil any fantasies. " Haha yes!! Men constantly moaning they can’t get a meet but they really just want a pen pal | |||
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"FANNY FARTS! Not learned in the lifestyle but during an encounter with my first sexual partner, no sex ed at school prepared me for it! Rarely happens, but a treat when it does 😂" Ha this! It's the way we feel the need to say that's the front not the back that did that afterwards | |||
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"FANNY FARTS! Not learned in the lifestyle but during an encounter with my first sexual partner, no sex ed at school prepared me for it! Rarely happens, but a treat when it does 😂 Ha this! It's the way we feel the need to say that's the front not the back that did that afterwards "I see it as a positive toot for a job well done 😂 I might try that one! Not sure I get away with it though. Hubby x | |||
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"FANNY FARTS! Not learned in the lifestyle but during an encounter with my first sexual partner, no sex ed at school prepared me for it! Rarely happens, but a treat when it does 😂 Ha this! It's the way we feel the need to say that's the front not the back that did that afterwards
I see it as a positive toot for a job well done 😂
I might try that one! Not sure I get away with it though. Hubby x"Yeah don't think you could get away with a peepee fart ha! | |||
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"So much laundry! How little swingers actually talk about sex when we socialise . We're more about the food."oh the laundry!!! | |||
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"For us would be...how hard it is to meet people you want to meet, then actually click. And after that would be the come down after a meet. That's a thing!" Can you tell me more about that come down after a meet? Just curious 😊! | |||
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"What is something you have found out about your non monogamous lifestyle that people barely talk about? For me it’s how expensive condoms are getting. Outrageous. They are free... As is testing Right!!! And lube sachets with the condoms. So cute 🤣 But OMG the texture of those sachet lubes is DISGUSTING "We haven’t opened them yet. How disappointing!! | |||
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"For us would be...how hard it is to meet people you want to meet, then actually click. And after that would be the come down after a meet. That's a thing! Can you tell me more about that come down after a meet? Just curious 😊!" I've experienced this "come down " I'm guessing it's something to do with the dopamine fix of a hot, sexually charged meet. I was chatting about it with a friend and didn't realise that others felt it too. It feels like a slump but can also be grounding. But it can then trigger the pursuit of more fun to fuel the next high and thus the cycle of slutty behaviour continues..... I think that's what people are on about when they say Fab is addictive......  | |||
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"For us would be...how hard it is to meet people you want to meet, then actually click. And after that would be the come down after a meet. That's a thing! Can you tell me more about that come down after a meet? Just curious 😊! I've experienced this "come down " I'm guessing it's something to do with the dopamine fix of a hot, sexually charged meet. I was chatting about it with a friend and didn't realise that others felt it too. It feels like a slump but can also be grounding. But it can then trigger the pursuit of more fun to fuel the next high and thus the cycle of slutty behaviour continues..... I think that's what people are on about when they say Fab is addictive...... "I’ve had come downs but mostly from seeing a partner. That back to reality/ I’m not going to see them for a while but can be a big dip after the high of a great time together. | |||
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"For us would be...how hard it is to meet people you want to meet, then actually click. And after that would be the come down after a meet. That's a thing! Can you tell me more about that come down after a meet? Just curious 😊! I've experienced this "come down " I'm guessing it's something to do with the dopamine fix of a hot, sexually charged meet. I was chatting about it with a friend and didn't realise that others felt it too. It feels like a slump but can also be grounding. But it can then trigger the pursuit of more fun to fuel the next high and thus the cycle of slutty behaviour continues..... I think that's what people are on about when they say Fab is addictive......
I’ve had come downs but mostly from seeing a partner. That back to reality/ I’m not going to see them for a while but can be a big dip after the high of a great time together. "Oh yeah I get the both of you.. Thanks for sharing. X | |||
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"How men say they want a girl who enjoys sex but then ghost as they are too nervous to fulfil any fantasies. " Because they are probably married and have taken the flirting / messaging as far as they can without identifying themselves. | |||
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"That they had garlic night before lol xx" 🤣 | |||
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