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"What would you do if you heard a major argument next door, & listening to someone getting beaten? I said to my partner... Please help them...& He ignores it..... What would you do" & The option isn't calling the police | |||
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"What would you do if you heard a major argument next door, & listening to someone getting beaten? I said to my partner... Please help them...& He ignores it..... What would you do & The option isn't calling the police " Calling the police would be the only option. | |||
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"What would you do if you heard a major argument next door, & listening to someone getting beaten? I said to my partner... Please help them...& He ignores it..... What would you do & The option isn't calling the police " I’d be a nosy neighbour and knock on the door until someone opens up and find out whats going on. | |||
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"What would you do if you heard a major argument next door, & listening to someone getting beaten? I said to my partner... Please help them...& He ignores it..... What would you do" I would go put an end to it. But everyone is different. | |||
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"What would you do if you heard a major argument next door, & listening to someone getting beaten? I said to my partner... Please help them...& He ignores it..... What would you do & The option isn't calling the police " Why not? Ringing the police is the only answer. What on earth would you expect your partner to do? | |||
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"Who's being beaten up. Adult or child? " ? Does that even matter. 😳 Op. Experience has taught me to call the police and voice my concerns. If I’m wrong, I’ll apologise and explain why I did what I did. 💯 | |||
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"Who's being beaten up. Adult or child? ? Does that even matter. 😳 Op. Experience has taught me to call the police and voice my concerns. If I’m wrong, I’ll apologise and explain why I did what I did. 💯 " No but I'm trying to determine the veracity of this story because if someone was being beaten up next door to me my first thought wouldn't be to post on a swingers forum. I would be banging on the door shouting. Mr N would be intervening for sure. | |||
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"Who's being beaten up. Adult or child? ? Does that even matter. 😳 Op. Experience has taught me to call the police and voice my concerns. If I’m wrong, I’ll apologise and explain why I did what I did. 💯 No but I'm trying to determine the veracity of this story because if someone was being beaten up next door to me my first thought wouldn't be to post on a swingers forum. I would be banging on the door shouting. Mr N would be intervening for sure. " 🙌🏻 | |||
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"Why isn't calling the police an option? I'd knock on the door sometimes an interruption will stop things " Because In Ireland The Police Are Very Slow To Show Up ...( | |||
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"Call the police. Maybe go round and knock on the door. If I thought woman had bèen hit I'd make sure I'd stay until police arrived. " What if it's a man having the shit being punched out of him ? | |||
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"Call the police. Maybe go round and knock on the door. If I thought woman had bèen hit I'd make sure I'd stay until police arrived. What if it's a man having the shit being punched out of him ?" Why should that matter, post says person! Nobody has the right to abuse | |||
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"Call the police. Maybe go round and knock on the door. If I thought woman had bèen hit I'd make sure I'd stay until police arrived. What if it's a man having the shit being punched out of him ? Why should that matter, post says person! Nobody has the right to abuse" I responded to the post I responded to. I haven't responded to the original. If you want to read the post I quoted you might see the poster said ' if a WOMAN had been hit'........ You've assumed | |||
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"I would go round...IF it was a female or child being beaten....I would give the bully a 'taste'...and beat the shit out of him !!!!" What if the violent person is a woman and a man is being beaten ? | |||
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"Record it and log it with the police as a welfare concern. It's all I could do with a neighbour once " 🙏 Ok 👍 | |||
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"Call the police first, then go round and knock on their door, hopefully that would be enough to stop him abusing her. " • ...or stop her abusing him? | |||
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"Call the police first, then go round and knock on their door, hopefully that would be enough to stop him abusing her. • ...or stop her abusing him?" Why do men make comments like this? It's usually a man hitting a woman? So strange | |||
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"Call the police first, then go round and knock on their door, hopefully that would be enough to stop him abusing her. • ...or stop her abusing him? Why do men make comments like this? It's usually a man hitting a woman? So strange" It's often a woman hitting a man. Not as frequently but men are victims if domestic violence. | |||
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"Why isn't calling the police an option? I'd knock on the door sometimes an interruption will stop things Because In Ireland The Police Are Very Slow To Show Up ...(" Your in London/ Kent by your status so assuming this is not actually happening right now where you are but in Ireland? Just to clarify .. | |||
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"Call the police first, then go round and knock on their door, hopefully that would be enough to stop him abusing her. • ...or stop her abusing him? Why do men make comments like this? It's usually a man hitting a woman? So strange" I made the same comment twice earlier on. I'm a woman. It's not only a possibility that a woman could hit a man , it's a regular occurence. | |||
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"Why isn't calling the police an option? I'd knock on the door sometimes an interruption will stop things Because In Ireland The Police Are Very Slow To Show Up ...(" Where in ireland? | |||
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"I would go round...IF it was a female or child being beaten....I would give the bully a 'taste'...and beat the shit out of him !!!!" Love people that say this. Most couldn't beat their way out of a paper bag. | |||
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"Call the police first, then go round and knock on their door, hopefully that would be enough to stop him abusing her. • ...or stop her abusing him? Why do men make comments like this? It's usually a man hitting a woman? So strange It's often a woman hitting a man. Not as frequently but men are victims if domestic violence. " Men are even less likely to seek help so we actually don’t know if it’s less frequent. | |||
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"Call the police first, then go round and knock on their door, hopefully that would be enough to stop him abusing her. • ...or stop her abusing him? Why do men make comments like this? It's usually a man hitting a woman? So strange It's often a woman hitting a man. Not as frequently but men are victims if domestic violence. " Stats and facts don't lie. I agree, men definitely do get abused, but not as much as women. | |||
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"Call the police first, then go round and knock on their door, hopefully that would be enough to stop him abusing her. • ...or stop her abusing him? Why do men make comments like this? It's usually a man hitting a woman? So strange It's often a woman hitting a man. Not as frequently but men are victims if domestic violence. Stats and facts don't lie. I agree, men definitely do get abused, but not as much as women. " No one said otherwise. | |||
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"Call the police first, then go round and knock on their door, hopefully that would be enough to stop him abusing her. • ...or stop her abusing him? Why do men make comments like this? It's usually a man hitting a woman? So strange It's often a woman hitting a man. Not as frequently but men are victims if domestic violence. Stats and facts don't lie. I agree, men definitely do get abused, but not as much as women. No one said otherwise. " Ok and your point? I'm not the one that made it about gender? Everyday I get reminded about the weird behaviour on this site 🙄 | |||
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"Call the police first, then go round and knock on their door, hopefully that would be enough to stop him abusing her. • ...or stop her abusing him? Why do men make comments like this? It's usually a man hitting a woman? So strange It's often a woman hitting a man. Not as frequently but men are victims if domestic violence. Stats and facts don't lie. I agree, men definitely do get abused, but not as much as women. " I think you'll find that modern day facts an stats do lie. Ever heard of the phrase ""Lies, Damn Lies and Statistics" We were locked down in our homes for two years for dodgy facts and statistics! | |||
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"Call the police first, then go round and knock on their door, hopefully that would be enough to stop him abusing her. • ...or stop her abusing him? Why do men make comments like this? It's usually a man hitting a woman? So strange It's often a woman hitting a man. Not as frequently but men are victims if domestic violence. Stats and facts don't lie. I agree, men definitely do get abused, but not as much as women. " Recorded stats and facts? I wonder how many go unreported... domestic violence isn't limited to physical abuse, Emotional abuse, coercion and financial abuse all full under the umbrella of domestic violence....add that into the mix and I wonder if your stats and facts would still be the same | |||
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"Call the police first, then go round and knock on their door, hopefully that would be enough to stop him abusing her. • ...or stop her abusing him? · Why do men make comments like this? It's usually a man hitting a woman? So strange" • The point was to highlight that we cannot make assumptions or be prone to conjecture. It's interesting that a woman had inferred something similar, higher up this thread, but you didn't pick up on it, remonstrating me instead. | |||
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"Call the police first, then go round and knock on their door, hopefully that would be enough to stop him abusing her. • ...or stop her abusing him? Why do men make comments like this? It's usually a man hitting a woman? So strange It's often a woman hitting a man. Not as frequently but men are victims if domestic violence. Stats and facts don't lie. I agree, men definitely do get abused, but not as much as women. Recorded stats and facts? I wonder how many go unreported... domestic violence isn't limited to physical abuse, Emotional abuse, coercion and financial abuse all full under the umbrella of domestic violence....add that into the mix and I wonder if your stats and facts would still be the same " Yeah, you're right a lot of it goes unreported and I am not ignoring the fact that men do get abused. I have never denied that. They do and it should be addressed. If you honestly think it's on the same scale then you are very wrong. | |||
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"I'm in Ireland, I just don't know what to do. In Ireland The Police Are Slow To Show. " They're really slow to show if you don't call them. | |||
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"Call the police first, then go round and knock on their door, hopefully that would be enough to stop him abusing her. • ...or stop her abusing him? Why do men make comments like this? It's usually a man hitting a woman? So strange It's often a woman hitting a man. Not as frequently but men are victims if domestic violence. Stats and facts don't lie. I agree, men definitely do get abused, but not as much as women. Recorded stats and facts? I wonder how many go unreported... domestic violence isn't limited to physical abuse, Emotional abuse, coercion and financial abuse all full under the umbrella of domestic violence....add that into the mix and I wonder if your stats and facts would still be the same Yeah, you're right a lot of it goes unreported and I am not ignoring the fact that men do get abused. I have never denied that. They do and it should be addressed. If you honestly think it's on the same scale then you are very wrong. " I don't believe I am.....But thanks for your input 😂 | |||
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"Call the police first, then go round and knock on their door, hopefully that would be enough to stop him abusing her. • ...or stop her abusing him? Why do men make comments like this? It's usually a man hitting a woman? So strange It's often a woman hitting a man. Not as frequently but men are victims if domestic violence. Stats and facts don't lie. I agree, men definitely do get abused, but not as much as women. Recorded stats and facts? I wonder how many go unreported... domestic violence isn't limited to physical abuse, Emotional abuse, coercion and financial abuse all full under the umbrella of domestic violence....add that into the mix and I wonder if your stats and facts would still be the same Yeah, you're right a lot of it goes unreported and I am not ignoring the fact that men do get abused. I have never denied that. They do and it should be addressed. If you honestly think it's on the same scale then you are very wrong. I don't believe I am.....But thanks for your input 😂" Yeah, you're just a pick me  nice to know | |||
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"Call the police first, then go round and knock on their door, hopefully that would be enough to stop him abusing her. • ...or stop her abusing him? Why do men make comments like this? It's usually a man hitting a woman? So strange It's often a woman hitting a man. Not as frequently but men are victims if domestic violence. Stats and facts don't lie. I agree, men definitely do get abused, but not as much as women. Recorded stats and facts? I wonder how many go unreported... domestic violence isn't limited to physical abuse, Emotional abuse, coercion and financial abuse all full under the umbrella of domestic violence....add that into the mix and I wonder if your stats and facts would still be the same Yeah, you're right a lot of it goes unreported and I am not ignoring the fact that men do get abused. I have never denied that. They do and it should be addressed. If you honestly think it's on the same scale then you are very wrong. " You are right it is not on the same scale but it's often more deadly as female abusers tend to use things to beat. | |||
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"Call the police first, then go round and knock on their door, hopefully that would be enough to stop him abusing her. • ...or stop her abusing him? Why do men make comments like this? It's usually a man hitting a woman? So strange It's often a woman hitting a man. Not as frequently but men are victims if domestic violence. Stats and facts don't lie. I agree, men definitely do get abused, but not as much as women. Recorded stats and facts? I wonder how many go unreported... domestic violence isn't limited to physical abuse, Emotional abuse, coercion and financial abuse all full under the umbrella of domestic violence....add that into the mix and I wonder if your stats and facts would still be the same Yeah, you're right a lot of it goes unreported and I am not ignoring the fact that men do get abused. I have never denied that. They do and it should be addressed. If you honestly think it's on the same scale then you are very wrong. I don't believe I am.....But thanks for your input 😂 Yeah, you're just a pick me nice to know "You know nothing about me, but yeah crack on 😂 | |||
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"Two women said it three times... Look on the bright side Nero - manliness confirmed "• I'm off to the Gurdwara, Grånny. I need my calmness and solitude. | |||
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"What would you do if you heard a major argument next door, & listening to someone getting beaten? I said to my partner... Please help them...& He ignores it..... What would you do" I called the police on my neighbour the other day. 111. Told them DV in progress. Car sent within 20 mins. | |||
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"I'm in Ireland, I just don't know what to do. In Ireland The Police Are Slow To Show. " 2 and a half hours of not knowing what to do! And still no phone call to the police Seriously.... | |||
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"I'm in Ireland, I just don't know what to do. In Ireland The Police Are Slow To Show. 2 and a half hours of not knowing what to do! And still no phone call to the police Seriously...." Yup, just checked the statistics, we're too late, they just went up .1 🤦♂️ | |||
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"Call the police first, then go round and knock on their door, hopefully that would be enough to stop him abusing her. • ...or stop her abusing him? Why do men make comments like this? It's usually a man hitting a woman? So strange It's often a woman hitting a man. Not as frequently but men are victims if domestic violence. Stats and facts don't lie. I agree, men definitely do get abused, but not as much as women. Recorded stats and facts? I wonder how many go unreported... domestic violence isn't limited to physical abuse, Emotional abuse, coercion and financial abuse all full under the umbrella of domestic violence....add that into the mix and I wonder if your stats and facts would still be the same Yeah, you're right a lot of it goes unreported and I am not ignoring the fact that men do get abused. I have never denied that. They do and it should be addressed. If you honestly think it's on the same scale then you are very wrong. I don't believe I am.....But thanks for your input 😂 Yeah, you're just a pick me nice to know " | |||
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"Op what happened in the end? Did you call the police? Mrs" Hi, I didn't cos I'm afraid him myself ☹️ | |||
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"Op what happened in the end? Did you call the police? Mrs Hi, I didn't cos I'm afraid him myself ☹️" *Afraid of Him | |||
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"Call the police. Maybe go round and knock on the door. If I thought woman had bèen hit I'd make sure I'd stay until police arrived. What if it's a man having the shit being punched out of him ?" Same as my first answer. X | |||
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"Call the police to help. I've never understood why it's a man's role to involve himself in something that could place him in danger when the woman sits back and does nothing too. " Totally agree… I’ve got involved a cpl of times over the years and it didn’t end good .. even got hit on the head with a stiletto heel, from the girl who was getting the abuse.. he abused her, I grab him, she hits me… call OB | |||
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