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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Norwich

I keep seeing posts on here where men say they don't cum from oral sex. Is that your experience? If so why don't you think you do?

It comes as a surprise to me tbh.

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By *eenALongTime.....Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol/Newcastle

Wish I could but for some reason it's not for me.

But I do love a good 69- I like to keep busy

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By *ootnootboopCouple
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

No problem here 🙈

Just be ready for more than a bit of a mouthful 🥵

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By *emonochromeMan
3 weeks ago

Watford

If anything my feedback has been that I cum too much so If you don’t like a full mouth full dont go there

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Norwich


"Wish I could but for some reason it's not for me.

But I do love a good 69- I like to keep busy "

Any reason why do you think?

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By *parky123Man
3 weeks ago

Lincoln

I didn’t for a long time, it just didn’t feel like I could. I can now though

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By *asher11Man
3 weeks ago

Market Harborough

much rather fill a ladies mouth than a condom

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
3 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

Yes and no.

Mrs never fails to make me cum from oral, others have yet to manage it.

But if its Mrs and another lady or gent, I'll cum no problem even if Mrs does minimal.

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Norwich


"I didn’t for a long time, it just didn’t feel like I could. I can now though"

Interesting. Do you think it's about you being relaxed and comfortable with the person you're with or is it deeper than that?

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By *omRachCouple
3 weeks ago

Wirral

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By *eenALongTime.....Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol/Newcastle


"Wish I could but for some reason it's not for me.

But I do love a good 69- I like to keep busy

Any reason why do you think? "

Baffles me as enjoy them, especially deep throat but I just want sex when I get to that point

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By *omRachCouple
3 weeks ago

Wirral

Some women have made me cum through oral - some havent.

Tom

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By *.hrisMan
3 weeks ago

Bath

I always cum from a BJ. Some days may take a little longer, but the reward always cums

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Norwich

I assumed all men did so this has been an interesting discussion so far...

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By *parky123Man
3 weeks ago

Lincoln


"I didn’t for a long time, it just didn’t feel like I could. I can now though

Interesting. Do you think it's about you being relaxed and comfortable with the person you're with or is it deeper than that? "

I’m not sure, it just felt like there was too much sensation and it was overwhelming maybe

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By *eenALongTime.....Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol/Newcastle


"I assumed all men did so this has been an interesting discussion so far..."

Why do you ask btw??

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By *arvest84Man
3 weeks ago

brigg

sometimes i do cum , outher times i dont , but i am happy either way .

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By *hesubtlegentMan
3 weeks ago

surrey

I can cum through oral but it’s generally a part of foreplay so end up finishing in the condom inside her…

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By *artorialMan
3 weeks ago

weymouth

Rarely

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By *hunky GentMan
3 weeks ago

Stamford

Yes, I do.

I love oral.

I like to watch as well.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
3 weeks ago

Between Sudbury n Haverhill

Mr always struggled to cum from oral, it would take about an hour but since being with the Mrs that changed and she can make him cum within 10 mins

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By *each BenMan
3 weeks ago

swansea

God yes, nothing more erotic than seeing a woman’s lips sliding up and down my hard throbbing cock 🍆

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bristol

I usually find blow jobs fairly underwhelming...

So for me I've never even come close to cumming from oral

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By *avethefish400Man
3 weeks ago

Chichester


"I keep seeing posts on here where men say they don't cum from oral sex. Is that your experience? If so why don't you think you do?

It comes as a surprise to me tbh.

"

I don’t always cum from oral sex

I think sometimes it feels amazing but just doesn’t get me to the point where I cum

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
3 weeks ago

near Putney Heath


"I keep seeing posts on here where men say they don't cum from oral sex. Is that your experience? If so why don't you think you do?

It comes as a surprise to me tbh.

"

My small jaw gets tired, not much of a deep throater and I want cock deep in my pussy. Lol! sorry lads. Mouth gets tired....Pussy rarely.

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By *wimmingbadgerMan
3 weeks ago

Leicester

never a problem for me with a man or woman

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By *ertiBMan
3 weeks ago

Bournemouth

I can, but it takes a few minutes and by that point I’m aware my partner’s jaw is probably getting stiff - which can be a turn-off, making it even more difficult to cum!

Only one of my exes could do it frequently, but the she had a real fetish about sucking cocks so I always knew she was doing it to make herself cum as much as me!

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By *ickey_blue_eyes25Man
3 weeks ago

nottingham

Yes, if they’ll let me, obviously is reciprocated

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Norwich


"I assumed all men did so this has been an interesting discussion so far...

Why do you ask btw??"

Because I've never known a man not cum through oral so I was interested to hear the reasons why some men don't.

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By *asty tatsyMan
3 weeks ago

london

Yes I do 😁

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By *pentoall555Man
3 weeks ago

benfleet

I’ve never. Always need hands too

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By *weetiepie99Woman
3 weeks ago

cardiff

Not all men do, just like not all women do. It's no surprise to me at all and doesn't mean there is anything wrong or can't be enjoyed. It's not always about the end result

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Norwich


"I usually find blow jobs fairly underwhelming...

So for me I've never even come close to cumming from oral "

I didn't realise that it can be rather mundane for some people. Do you know what might make it more interesting for you or is it always going to be meh to you?

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By *AYENCouple
3 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

No problem for me and no problem for N's FWB. She wants us both to cum at the same time from oral, but we've never managed it . . . . yet

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By *hatgingerguyMan
3 weeks ago

Manchester

Rarely, but it does depend on teeth. The teeth scrape is off-putting. 🤷‍♂️

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Norwich

Oh my I don't think I'd ever even try achieving that! 😅

That sounds fun but pretty unachievable.

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By *ohnnyTwoNotesMan
3 weeks ago

golden fields


"I keep seeing posts on here where men say they don't cum from oral sex. Is that your experience? If so why don't you think you do?

It comes as a surprise to me tbh.

"

Yes but only if I have a good vibe with my partner, and I know she's enjoying the giving of the BJ.

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By *ikerdevil2025Man
3 weeks ago

Surrey

Yes I do from oral

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Norwich


"Rarely, but it does depend on teeth. The teeth scrape is off-putting. 🤷‍♂️"

You see when you say that I dont know if you're joking or serious? If you're serious that is the oddest thing I've heard. My teeth have never got involved. How does that happen?

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By *hatgingerguyMan
3 weeks ago

Manchester


"Rarely, but it does depend on teeth. The teeth scrape is off-putting. 🤷‍♂️

You see when you say that I dont know if you're joking or serious? If you're serious that is the oddest thing I've heard. My teeth have never got involved. How does that happen? "

Small mouth + girth can be challenging!

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By *inchesterGuyMan
3 weeks ago

Bexleyheath

I've never cum from oral, but I think its because we would move onto other things

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By *0rngMan
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

Nothing like squirting at end in celebration of a job well done

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By *otathletic1Man
3 weeks ago

Newquay

I absolutely love to cum in a woman’s mouth! Super easy for me!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
3 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I always cum from a BJ… giving that is 😉

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By *hirleyMan
3 weeks ago

London

Never! And yet if you tell that to a woman, they take it as a "I want to be the one to do that for you", where as it's more of a "I would rather you didn't"

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By *edonisthenryMan
3 weeks ago

Cambridge

I have no problem ejaculating if a lady sucks my circumcised cock at different speeds and curls her lips over her teeth. I can't stand being 'blown' with teeth rubbing against my glans. It's always lovely watching her swallowing my semen and not wasting my life giving liquid. I have high hopes to be 'blown' soon and suck on a wet vulva soon.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
3 weeks ago

Hampshire

They say that, because they think women will like a challenge. I don't believe a word of it!

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By *ral_lover55Man
3 weeks ago

Gravesend

It depends how good the blowjob is, the more sensual, eyes looking into mine and using her tonque all along my cock will make me cum, but just opening mouth and gobble up and down won't..

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
3 weeks ago

Between Sudbury n Haverhill


"Never! And yet if you tell that to a woman, they take it as a "I want to be the one to do that for you", where as it's more of a "I would rather you didn't" "

Why don’t you want to cum from a bj?

Mrs

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Norwich


"Rarely, but it does depend on teeth. The teeth scrape is off-putting. 🤷‍♂️

You see when you say that I dont know if you're joking or serious? If you're serious that is the oddest thing I've heard. My teeth have never got involved. How does that happen?

Small mouth + girth can be challenging!"

I must be very accommodating then! 🤣

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
3 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Men are as different as women. Some women dont cum from oral sex so why would you think all guys are the same.

Ive had some guys not cum I've had some guys cum in my mouth twice in a couple of seconds.

It's nothing to do with a woman's ability, just each man is individual

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By *irm40Man
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

I have never cum from just oral I come so close but just doesn’t happen

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
3 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Also some men prefer to cum elsewhere, fanny, tits or arse.

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Norwich


"Men are as different as women. Some women dont cum from oral sex so why would you think all guys are the same.

Ive had some guys not cum I've had some guys cum in my mouth twice in a couple of seconds.

It's nothing to do with a woman's ability, just each man is individual"

Because all the men I have given oral to have cum that's why!

I wasn't meaning to be the authority on men like some!

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By *unydayMan
3 weeks ago

near

Always cum lots

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By *hirleyMan
3 weeks ago

London


"Never! And yet if you tell that to a woman, they take it as a "I want to be the one to do that for you", where as it's more of a "I would rather you didn't"

Why don’t you want to cum from a bj?

Mrs"

It's not that I don't want to 😅 just never happened 🤷‍♂️

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By *anderingArtistMan
3 weeks ago

an abstract world

I can come from a blowjob and have done in the past. It's an enjoyable feeling of warm and wet and it's a hospitable environment for the ol' chap to reside in.

For me, it depends on the technique and whether I feel it appropriate. The latter is because blowjob's tend to happen at the start of proceedings and sometimes I may wish to delay the ejaculate so I can give you a good old rodgering.

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By *hovskolMan
3 weeks ago

South Manchester

I find it hard to get the right balance of feeling, too much and it's painful. Need to wank the base a bit too. Like the idea of it though

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
3 weeks ago

little house on the praire


"Men are as different as women. Some women dont cum from oral sex so why would you think all guys are the same.

Ive had some guys not cum I've had some guys cum in my mouth twice in a couple of seconds.

It's nothing to do with a woman's ability, just each man is individual

Because all the men I have given oral to have cum that's why!

I wasn't meaning to be the authority on men like some!

"

well this thread is all men dont.

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Soho

Despite the intense pleasure I don't ejaculate from a blow job. Never have done. I don't see it as a failing, it's just an inconsequential bedroom quirk.

I still enjoy it nevertheless.

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Norwich


"Men are as different as women. Some women dont cum from oral sex so why would you think all guys are the same.

Ive had some guys not cum I've had some guys cum in my mouth twice in a couple of seconds.

It's nothing to do with a woman's ability, just each man is individual

Because all the men I have given oral to have cum that's why!

I wasn't meaning to be the authority on men like some!

well this thread is all men dont. "

Thanks for explaining. It's almost like I can't read that for myself. To ascertain an answer, was after all, my reason for posting.

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By *ewtothis345Man
3 weeks ago

ayr

I love the feeling but I have never cum from a blowjob alone, I find it really turns me on more than anything and makes me want to fuck another hole instead

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By *cottish guy 555Man
3 weeks ago

London

I've always been able to. Just a matter of how long.

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By *xfordjohnMan
3 weeks ago

Oxford

I can cum from oral if I'm really aroused. It all depends on what's gone on before and around me.

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By *969lovesheelsMan
3 weeks ago

lancing

I've always come from oral

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By *ittleJohn5Man
3 weeks ago

Wickham Market

It’s small but it works

Finding someone to do it, is the difficult bit

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
3 weeks ago

Between Sudbury n Haverhill


"Never! And yet if you tell that to a woman, they take it as a "I want to be the one to do that for you", where as it's more of a "I would rather you didn't"

Why don’t you want to cum from a bj?

Mrs

It's not that I don't want to 😅 just never happened 🤷‍♂️"

Ah ok I misunderstood what you meant sorry

Mrs

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By *hirleyMan
3 weeks ago

London


"Never! And yet if you tell that to a woman, they take it as a "I want to be the one to do that for you", where as it's more of a "I would rather you didn't"

Why don’t you want to cum from a bj?

Mrs

It's not that I don't want to 😅 just never happened 🤷‍♂️

Ah ok I misunderstood what you meant sorry

Mrs"

No bother, glad I clarified my statement 😅

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By *ickafterdarkMan
3 weeks ago

London

Never been a problem for me. Maybe I have just been lucky with finding skilled ladies

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By *orny IrishMan
3 weeks ago

Rural Wiltshire

💯 I cum from oral. Some quicker than others depending on the giver and how they stimulate things. 😈

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By *un-sized 6.5Man
3 weeks ago

melton

Never cum thru oral unless I’ve had to lend a 🤚🏻 to get me there 💦

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By *urvyLady4BlackMen OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Norwich

Thanks for all your replies everyone. I was just really curious.

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