FabSwingers.com forum: What are you initially attracted to?

By *rPunx OP Man
6 days ago

Hull

So on a physical level. What is the first or main thing that attracts you to someone?

Is it their face, chest/boobs, ass, legs, etc etc.

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
6 days ago

Hatfield

Face always

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By *icksaxCouple
6 days ago

Bridgend

Eyes and smiles

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By *dc1Man
6 days ago

essex and all over the south

There bum. I love a nice firm bum.

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By *ruella DeThrillWoman
6 days ago

Essex

Face & hair

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By *r. MacMan
6 days ago

Bexleyheath

Smile and ass i love seeing dimples in either

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By *layfullsamMan
6 days ago

Solihull

Cute face and friendly smile

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By *peedyGMan
6 days ago

Telford

Eyes and smile for me

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
6 days ago

Niche

Depends what I see first

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
6 days ago

little house on the praire

Face it doesn't have to be handsome just normal. The personality takes over

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
6 days ago

Up North

Face, especially eyes.

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By *r. MacMan
6 days ago

Bexleyheath

"Face it doesn't have to be handsome just normal. The personality takes over"

I'm too weird for that lol iv gotta just be loud and hope no one sees the real me

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By *indergirlWoman
6 days ago

somewhere, someplace

Eyes and mouth

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By *hortieWoman
6 days ago

Northampton

Ink leads to body leads to face. If all 3 are ticked, I'll chat.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
6 days ago

little house on the praire

"Face it doesn't have to be handsome just normal. The personality takes over

I'm too weird for that lol iv gotta just be loud and hope no one sees the real me "
You dont look weird to me

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By *icebutNortyMan
6 days ago

North West

Hair, eyes, mouth, they come as a package 🤷‍♂️

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By *r. MacMan
6 days ago

Bexleyheath

"Face it doesn't have to be handsome just normal. The personality takes over

I'm too weird for that lol iv gotta just be loud and hope no one sees the real me You dont look weird to me"

Ahhh thank you that's very nice of you beautiful xx

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By *ore_Please81Woman
6 days ago

Edinburgh

Eyes, voice and banter x

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
6 days ago

BRIDPORT

Tits, closely followed by nipples, sometimes nipples, closely followed by tits

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By *exyScientistsCouple
6 days ago

Castlebar

Kind eyes with a sexy devilish twinkle. Then shoulders, arms and hands 😈

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By *r. MacMan
6 days ago

Bexleyheath

"Kind eyes with a sexy devilish twinkle. Then shoulders, arms and hands 😈"

What about arms and hands is it the veins and stuff

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By *atador...Man
6 days ago

Aylesbury

I do love a nice bum

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By *eardedguy83Man
6 days ago

Worcestershire

Eyes, smile and personality

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By *rPunx OP Man
6 days ago

Hull

For me it's the face. More importantly the eyes. Then a cheeky smile.

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By *hrills and adventureMan
6 days ago

Winchester

The face especially with a lovely smile.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
6 days ago

Castlebar

"Kind eyes with a sexy devilish twinkle. Then shoulders, arms and hands 😈

What about arms and hands is it the veins and stuff "

No the less veins the better... just nice strong arms and shoulders. Don't have to be big. It's something about the muscle definition 😈

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By *r. MacMan
6 days ago

Bexleyheath

Ahhh I get you now x

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By *eacock1221Couple
6 days ago

Bedfordshire

Eyes and beard for me

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
6 days ago

Bristol

Eyes and smile

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By *rSuave88Man
5 days ago

Mirfield

The eyes, Chico, they never lie...

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By (user no longer on site)
5 days ago

Kidneys, they fetch a pretty penny.

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By *yrdsisWoman
5 days ago

Gleam Street

Height and weight

If they're taller and hefty ... yes please

Plus a beard.....melting

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By *ucka39Man
5 days ago

Newcastle

Face and check the eyes

Eyes tell a lot about the person

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By *r. MacMan
5 days ago

Bexleyheath

"Height and weight

If they're taller and hefty ... yes please

Plus a beard.....melting "

Damn it I'm small and hefty

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By *oubleswing2019Man
5 days ago

Colchester

Facial expression.

If it's a resting bitch/bastard type of expression, I'm immediately drawn.

If they are smiling, I run a mile. Smilers are terrifying.

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By *ust little old me 13Man
5 days ago

Preston

Always eyes,they tell you lots,in a short time,and facial expressions, little cheeky eyes and smile.... that's me done you've got me,I don't bother!Size and stuff... within reason obviously,skin is skin,it feels the same at size 8 or 18,you know what I mean hopefully I'm 10+1/2 stone,I'm no big lad,a 600lb er isn't happening for me obviously I wouldn't make inroads either, not relevant even 😀

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By *arried curious guyMan
5 days ago

Motherwell

Face, then a nice bum and natural breasts

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By *raig05Man
5 days ago

essex

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By *cl1912Man
5 days ago

Swinton

Eyes smile and an obscure one hair style

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By *effdelightMan
5 days ago

Grimsby

Life in the eyes and a real bum

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By *sWyldWoman
5 days ago

Edinburgh

Its a the face. Is it kind , is their a twinkle in the eyes or a cheeky smile . Then its height. However the right personality closes the deal

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
5 days ago

Altrincham

Face

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By *ornucopiaMan
5 days ago

Bexley

Rear parcel shelf

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By *ife NinjaMan
5 days ago

Dunfermline

Face 🤓

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By *etishfreakMan
5 days ago

Teddington

Bum and feet

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By *vaRoseWoman
5 days ago

Ankh-Morpork

Eyes and smile

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By *ilverFoxOralLoverMan
5 days ago

Where ever I lay my hat

"Eyes and smile "

Exactly the same for me 😁

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By *atinaChica54Woman
5 days ago

Marlborough

Face & weapon

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By *eliWoman
5 days ago

General appearance. I like lots of features but I always see as a person as a whole before I notice those features.

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By *ilverFoxOralLoverMan
5 days ago

Where ever I lay my hat

"Face & weapon"

What happens if it's a concealed weapon? 🤨

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
5 days ago

Someplace

Face.

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By *lasticpaddy1Man
5 days ago

Athlone

Eyes

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By *etwife8230Couple
5 days ago

Newport

Eyes and a cheeky smile

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By *lasticpaddy1Man
5 days ago

Athlone

"Face & weapon"
what's the best weapon you've seen guys with socially??

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
5 days ago

Gloucester

Face and body.

Then personality (this can make or break my opinion on someone)

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By *sStephenPickleMan
5 days ago

Ends

Face in real life.

On here its personality- faces seem to matter less to me.

But on other apps or in person, I really am strict in terms of pretty faces.

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By *a LunaWoman
5 days ago

o o OO o o

Face and sense of humour. If I find them attractive then they will instantly be transported to sex god in my eyes, regardless of what their body looks like.

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By *illie HardiganMan
5 days ago

Blackwood

Everything really, face, body, clothes.

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By *aughtywelsh89Man
5 days ago

Pontyclun

Eyes and tits

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By *ookie46Woman
5 days ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Face smile and eyes

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By *ittlebirdWoman
5 days ago

The Big Smoke

Eyes and thighs 😘

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
5 days ago

Carlisle usually

Depends what their most striking feature is.

Sometimes I notice eyes or smile first, sometimes it's legs or chest.

I don't have a specific thing I look for. And it's usually more about how they compose themselves than straight physical attributes 💜

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By *rookedsmileMan
5 days ago

Derbyshire

Has to be a smile for me, especially if the eyes are smiling too

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By *ariaxxxxWoman
5 days ago

London/Kent

Initially Face, then height, then arms & chest

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By *ay h500Man
5 days ago

mansfield

Honestly I'm a whole package kinda guy. I'm attracted to wide variety of shapes and sizes if in my eye they gel together in the right way.

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By *emonochromeMan
5 days ago

Watford

Face - nice smile, eyes, hair, someone well put together

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By *atinaChica54Woman
5 days ago

Marlborough

"Face & weapon

What happens if it's a concealed weapon? 🤨"

Gotta show me the armoury so there's no disappointing surprises

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By *2000ManMan
5 days ago

Worthing

Eye contact which is involuntary.

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By *rPunx OP Man
4 days ago

Hull

"Eye contact which is involuntary."
yay fuck that intensive eye contact is something else. That words really cannot explain

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By *eonknifeWoman
4 days ago

skegness

build (height and muscle mass). then facial features.

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By *eeds fun guyMan
4 days ago

yorkshire

Mf couples who love mmf with a guy like me

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By *rPunx OP Man
4 days ago

Hull

"Depends what their most striking feature is.

Sometimes I notice eyes or smile first, sometimes it's legs or chest.

I don't have a specific thing I look for. And it's usually more about how they compose themselves than straight physical attributes 💜"
nice to know it's more than physical attributes that counts

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By *llfingersandtongueMan
3 days ago

Aylesbury

"Tits, closely followed by nipples, sometimes nipples, closely followed by tits

Surely nipples are always and only closely followed by tits!

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
3 days ago

IPSWICH

Eyes/eye contact. Then their face, their expressions and reactions.

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
3 days ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Face, smile and body profile

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
3 days ago

Bristol

Due to the 'tism... Never the face. Eye contact bad.

If I'm honest... shape. Mainly hips. Curve of the upper thighs. Ass...

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By *riel13Woman
3 days ago

Northampton

Face

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By *ittleLiaisonsWoman
3 days ago

Birmingham

Kind eyes.

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By *uncornladMan
3 days ago

runcorn

hair

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By *am3032TV/TS
3 days ago

Alfreton

Cleavage, yes I’m a breast lover X

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
3 days ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

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By *eeman1200Man
3 days ago

Paulton Nr Bristol

Big tits nice bum

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By *ornucopiaMan
3 days ago

Bexley

"Kind eyes."

I often wonder how men who wear heavy black sunglasses get on with chatting people up!

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By *ovetolick78Man
3 days ago

The Shire

Eyes and a cheeky smile, nice bum never hurts either

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
3 days ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

Eyes and lips , a nice smile

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By *upersonic SamMan
3 days ago

wigan

A playful personality, the rest is all the cherry on the cake

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By *hickthighs25Woman
3 days ago

Stockton

A cheeky, funny personality

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By *mmaleiaWoman
3 days ago

Trowbridge

Eyes, smile, humour, attentiveness, bum

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By *ittylover123Man
3 days ago

donegal

Females in general its a thing nature induced in me!

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By *ew_balance_coreMan
3 days ago

Birmingham

Probably face and hair

I like strong eyebrows and nose.

Body wise probably bum

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By *ivilised matureMan
3 days ago

East Sheen/ Barnes

Aura it depends on the time and place. Conversation comes high on the list

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By *dible_KinkCouple
3 days ago

ABERDEEN

Definitely eyes and smile.

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By *handlerMonicaCouple
3 days ago

Leicester

Physically, it's always the face first. A nice smile goes a long way! x

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By *obtributeMan
3 days ago

Somerset

Face... eyes and a kind smile. Then a nice bum

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By *enuine MikeMan
3 days ago

Guildford

The car they drive 🤣🤣

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By *andadbodMan
3 days ago

Liverpool

eyes, smile then bottom

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By *r Man45Man
3 days ago

North West

Eyes, big brown smokey eyes accompanied by a gorgeous bright smile

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By *he Silver FuxMan
3 days ago

Uttoxeter

Rare earth magnets and the fluffy side of velcro

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By *he Silver FuxMan
3 days ago

Uttoxeter

"Rare earth magnets and the fluffy side of velcro"

Just kidding… a pulse

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By *LiamMan
3 days ago

Midlands

Face, smile, body, hair

In that order

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By *valanche6969Man
3 days ago

Blackburn

Automatically drawn to a nice mouth/lips! Followed by eyes!

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By *egDaySkipperMan
3 days ago

Liverpool

As long as their arse is nice they can have a butchers daughter face

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
3 days ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"Face, smile, body, hair

In that order"

I have two of those 🤣

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By *inc69Man
3 days ago

Market Rasen

As a whole, her curvy figure. If it’s facial then deffinatly her eyes! 😍

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By *offysmangoMan
3 days ago

Colchester

Their belly, and butt

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
3 days ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

Face.

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
3 days ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

Belly usually

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By *ary69321Man
3 days ago

Newcastle upon tyne

Thighs, it's great to see nice thighs in yoga pants, not to big not thin.

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By *ildo_swagginsthe3rdWoman
3 days ago

Wales

Their penis.

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By *uvs2snogMan
3 days ago

Now living in Spain - Vistabella

A sexy top showing loads of cleavage

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By *xstaceyxxTV/TS
3 days ago

longeaton,ng10

There body and legs.

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By *ameisnawtyMan
3 days ago

anywhere

Eyes, smile and bum

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By *rgasmatron1970Man
3 days ago

Bromley

Eyes, as they are the gateway to the soul

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By *ogue78Man
3 days ago

Edinburgh

Eyes and bum... Most definitely

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By *estructionDollyWoman
3 days ago

Manchester

100% the face, I'm not that fussed about a body and like all sorts of types but the face I really need to be attracted to to want to kiss them

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By *peedyGMan
3 days ago

Telford

"100% the face, I'm not that fussed about a body and like all sorts of types but the face I really need to be attracted to to want to kiss them"

Agree

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By *rPunx OP Man
2 days ago

Hull

"Face & weaponwhat's the best weapon you've seen guys with socially?? "

A sharp wit??

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By *eyond PurityCouple
2 days ago

Lincolnshire

Eyes. Always the eyes.

And the way someone holds themselves; I'm talking deportment, not grabbing at yer bits!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
2 days ago

Leeds

Face (smile/eyes)

Mrs

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By *attledogMan
2 days ago

Hull

Glint in the eyes, and smile

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By *ichards CockMan
2 days ago

Ashby De La Zouch

On here there usually is no face pic, at least initially. That leaves the body. I like a reasonable body, too scrawny or too chubby is not my thing.

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By *evil-AngelWoman
2 days ago

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Nice eyes and smile with a beard

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By *ermite12ukMan
2 days ago

Solihull and Romford

Legs.(Usually wearing tights/stockings and usually never bare.)

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By *lackjack1stMan
2 days ago

London

Her Face and body shape.

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By *lofeldMan
2 days ago

Redhill

Face, eyes, and then I work my way down

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By *ikeC81Man
2 days ago

harrow

A nice smile and boobs

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By *rimal InstinctCouple
2 days ago

Carlisle

"So on a physical level. What is the first or main thing that attracts you to someone?

Is it their face, chest/boobs, ass, legs, etc etc."

Face ie kind/cheeky as opposed to grumpy/bored, stature and vibes they give off.

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By *anctionedSecretsCouple
2 days ago

S. Northants

Eyes and smile... But there are many profiles here that don't share these (ours included).

The it would be down to their attributes... And the background of the photo

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