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By *agic.M OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Orpington

...no, this is not a continuation of the other thread...maybe a little bit, but not really 🤭.

Will keep it simple...

Gentlemen...if you are the type of man that likes (or even wants) a woman to make the first move and message first, say you're IN

Ladies...if you are the strong confident woman you claim to be 😏 and you see someone you fancy on the thread, message them 👍

Be respectful and have fun 🙏

P.S I'm in

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By *ori69Man
4 weeks ago

Castlewellan

I'm in

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By *eardedguy83Man
4 weeks ago

Worcestershire

I’m in. This could be fun….

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By *raig05Man
4 weeks ago

london

I’m up

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By *rafter69Man
4 weeks ago

upminster

In

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

In

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By *bi HaiveMan
4 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

In.

I'd say 95% of my best experiences on here (outside of clubs and socials) have been when a woman has made first contact.

It's not that I'm lazy and don't send the odd message. More that I feel there's a better chance of finding out that I'm potentially their cup of tea if I've left it for them to make a decision to make contact based on what they've seen/read. 🤷‍♂️

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By *agic.M OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Orpington


"In.

I'd say 95% of my best experiences on here (outside of clubs and socials) have been when a woman has made first contact.

It's not that I'm lazy and don't send the odd message. More that I feel there's a better chance of finding out that I'm potentially their cup of tea if I've left it for them to make a decision to make contact based on what they've seen/read. 🤷‍♂️"

I take a very similar approach myself 👍

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By *sStephenPickleMan
4 weeks ago

Ends

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By *sStephenPickleMan
4 weeks ago

Ends

I’m in ❤️

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Am in 🙂

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By *hePervertedPlumberMan
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I'm in. The bumble approach, eh!

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By *erry bull1Man
4 weeks ago

doncaster

I’m in

Awaits in anticipation

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By *irty Flirty HarryMan
4 weeks ago

East Sussex

I'm in but not holding much hope as there are not any ladies on this thread atm. Fingers cross that will change.

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By *agic.M OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Orpington

Found one strong confident woman so far 😁... or better yet she found me 🤭👍✌🙌👏

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By *JB1954Man
4 weeks ago

Reading

I will say in . Plus couples also . .

As normal in box will not light up.

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By *emonochromeMan
4 weeks ago

Watford

I’ll say in

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By *IXEN200Woman
4 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne


"Found one strong confident woman so far 😁... or better yet she found me 🤭👍✌🙌👏"

Aren't you lucky

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By *agic.M OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Orpington


"I'm in but not holding much hope as there are not any ladies on this thread atm. Fingers cross that will change."

The ladies don't necessarily have to say anything on the thread...they just send a private message if they see someone they fancy👍.

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By *ubadubdubWoman
4 weeks ago

Hereabouts

Nice thread OP. Can I copy this for the Irish forum 🙏🏻

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By *agic.M OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Orpington


"Nice thread OP. Can I copy this for the Irish forum 🙏🏻"

Absolutely ✌

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By *ustinMan
4 weeks ago

near chester

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Definitely in

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By *ootylover25Man
4 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

I'm in

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By *irty Flirty HarryMan
4 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I'm in but not holding much hope as there are not any ladies on this thread atm. Fingers cross that will change.

The ladies don't necessarily have to say anything on the thread...they just send a private message if they see someone they fancy👍. "

Ah yes I see, my hope is revived

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By *corpionixMan
4 weeks ago

Crewe

I'm in 😊

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By *uitedandbuffedMan
4 weeks ago

England

I'm in... I have never had a message from a lady directly before.

Would be a huge turn and ego boost lol

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
4 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

Ain’t nobody gonna message me 😄

The amount of women that have messaged me in all my years on Fab?

I can count them on one hand & still have some fingers left

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By *hunky GentMan
4 weeks ago

Stamford

Ok. Let's see if there's any Chunky love.

.

It would be nice to get a message that didn't say " fuck off fatty"

😆 🤣

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By *onjon123Man
4 weeks ago

Merthyr Tydfil

Im definitely in

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By *i versMan
4 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

I'm in

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By *atelotmanMan
4 weeks ago

Chatham

Oh why not I`m IN.

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By *agic.M OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Orpington


"Ain’t nobody gonna message me 😄

The amount of women that have messaged me in all my years on Fab?

I can count them on one hand & still have some fingers left"

Bro you're rocking that suit 👌...if you put more pics like that on your profile, I'm positive you'll get more messages

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By *peedyGMan
4 weeks ago

Telford

In

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By *moothdickMan
4 weeks ago

stoke

Love it when a lady makes the first move… it’s a wonderful compliment ….

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
4 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…


"Ain’t nobody gonna message me 😄

The amount of women that have messaged me in all my years on Fab?

I can count them on one hand & still have some fingers left

Bro you're rocking that suit 👌...if you put more pics like that on your profile, I'm positive you'll get more messages "

Aw, thanks bruv.

Maybe I would, if I had delts like yours 😉

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By *az69Man
4 weeks ago

felsted

In.

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By *ew_balance_coreMan
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

It’s good, let’s you know she is interested and shows confidence.

Plus I’m neurodivergent, so not the best at reading people, so I can find easier to have a conversation with them.

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By *attooedlad199521Man
4 weeks ago

Bournemouth

If a woman messages me first I always think it’s a fake profile it’s that rare 🤣

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By *gf301Man
4 weeks ago

canterbury

I refuse to be dragged down by my own cynicism. Therefore, I'm in (but keeping expectations firmly in check).

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By *omCoyoteMan
4 weeks ago

Northern England

This happens to me every single night - and then I wake up!

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By *lark_KentMan
4 weeks ago

here and there

Im in...nothing to loose

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By *parkle1974Woman
4 weeks ago

Leeds

I will happily send a message first to someone. I'm definitely not a sit back and wait kinda woman x

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By *hunky GentMan
4 weeks ago

Stamford

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By *hunky GentMan
4 weeks ago

Stamford


"I will happily send a message first to someone. I'm definitely not a sit back and wait kinda woman x"

Ok, but no 'cut n paste' messages. Ok. 😆 🤣

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By *he OpalsnakeMan
4 weeks ago

Thirsk

Won't be around much til later but I'm in 😁

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By *parkle1974Woman
4 weeks ago

Leeds


"I will happily send a message first to someone. I'm definitely not a sit back and wait kinda woman x

Ok, but no 'cut n paste' messages. Ok. 😆 🤣 "

That wasn't the deal 🤣🤣

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By *hunky GentMan
4 weeks ago

Stamford


"I will happily send a message first to someone. I'm definitely not a sit back and wait kinda woman x

Ok, but no 'cut n paste' messages. Ok. 😆 🤣

That wasn't the deal 🤣🤣"

Pffffft.

Just don't call my Harry like you did last time.

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By *moothshaftMan
4 weeks ago

Coventry

I'm in.

I must say though, only now and again will I send the first message.

Been on here long enough to know that women are absolutely swamped with messages every day. They don't need me pestering them as well.

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By *hunky GentMan
4 weeks ago

Stamford

Question if we get overwhelmed with messages (i.e. more then 3) do we ignore them or 'block delete'?

😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆

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By *eyond PurityCouple
4 weeks ago

Lincs

We are in too (doesn’t say anything about couples in the original message 👀).

We would love a lady to message us.

We have had a few first messages from ladies but not for a while and we are wanting some lady love 😘

We will also reach out to a couple of gents on this post, if they are what we are looking for…

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By *ife NinjaMan
4 weeks ago

Dunfermline

In 🤞🤓

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By *odgerMooreMan
4 weeks ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

Im in - im expecting this to be a life changing experience!!

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By *viatrixWoman
4 weeks ago

Redhill

After offering you my Flake, or Crunchie or Curly Wurly, I think it is more than obvious that you give me fanny flutters…

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By *all Fly GuyMan
4 weeks ago

South West

In but won't hold my breath!

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By *viatrixWoman
4 weeks ago

Redhill


"Question if we get overwhelmed with messages (i.e. more then 3) do we ignore them or 'block delete'?

😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆 "

You post a thread saying how you can’t cope with 2,000 unread messages haha

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4 weeks ago

Ah decisions decisions ……

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By *hattymattyLDNMan
4 weeks ago

Essex

I'm in! X

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By *hunky GentMan
4 weeks ago

Stamford


"Question if we get overwhelmed with messages (i.e. more then 3) do we ignore them or 'block delete'?

😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆

You post a thread saying how you can’t cope with 2,000 unread messages haha "

2000, crikey.

I get a nose bleed if I get 2. 😆 🤣

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By *iesel74Man
4 weeks ago

Belfast

Cleared my inbox in anticipation

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By *heBFG6ft6Man
4 weeks ago

Cork

I'm all in

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By *tevi00Man
4 weeks ago

Peterborough

I'm in

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By *all Fly GuyMan
4 weeks ago

South West

Got 2 messages....buzzing

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By *unguy8700Man
4 weeks ago

portadown

IN

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By *agic.M OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Orpington


"After offering you my Flake, or Crunchie or Curly Wurly, I think it is more than obvious that you give me fanny flutters… "

Oh yes chocolate 🤤 the fastest way to my 🖤

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By *orthampton jamesMan
4 weeks ago

Northampton

I'm in, like to see what

what happens, like to be surprised

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By *rHotNottsMan
4 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

In, but please read my profile first.

Can’t believe I said that sound like a bloody woman. 😂

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By *ildmanYorksMan
4 weeks ago

Doncaster

I'm in!

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By *heerFlirtMan
4 weeks ago

Quite near Bath usually

I'm in, I don't hold out a lot of help... but fingers crossed!

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By *ohn 66Man
4 weeks ago

South Birmingham

I'm in too

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By *he free SpiritsCouple
4 weeks ago

Just outside Lichfield


"...no, this is not a continuation of the other thread...maybe a little bit, but not really 🤭.

Will keep it simple...

Gentlemen...if you are the type of man that likes (or even wants) a woman to make the first move and message first, say you're IN

Ladies...if you are the strong confident woman you claim to be 😏 and you see someone you fancy on the thread, message them 👍

Be respectful and have fun 🙏

P.S I'm in "

As a couple we do try messaging first but as soon as the gents on here find out they talking to the Mrs they turn dirty, yes the occasional flirt is OK , its the easiest way to find out what your like and into.But turning it round to make arrangements if we like the profile and attitude/personality it goes cold especially when the Mr starts talking.

Yes there are an odd few who will acknowledge us as a couple and include both within messages and their fantasies.

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By *mithy63Man
4 weeks ago

Ipswich

I'm in 😊

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By *heerFlirtMan
4 weeks ago

Quite near Bath usually


"I'm in, I don't hold out a lot of help... but fingers crossed! "

Help? Hope!!!

But it helps to hope!

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By *an8iMan
4 weeks ago

Bilston

I'm in for awhile

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By *tudFuckMan
4 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

I’m in x

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By *uddy laneMan
4 weeks ago

dudley

Cough cough, I know one thing there would be less of it if the dunking stool was still legal.

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By *ubikslongswordMan
4 weeks ago

Rubiksville

It'd be nice to be messaged first for a change 😊

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By *hunky GentMan
4 weeks ago

Stamford

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By *auls21Man
4 weeks ago

Derry

I’m in

Hoping some women crave the Northern Ireland accent

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By *viatrixWoman
4 weeks ago

Redhill

Ok, I have now messaged the only 2 male _orumites that give me fanny flutters.

One I’ve got no reply yet and message was sent hours ago…

The other was sent just now.

Talk about putting myself on the spot 😆😆😆

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By *hunky GentMan
4 weeks ago

Stamford


"Ok, I have now messaged the only 2 male _orumites that give me fanny flutters.

One I’ve got no reply yet and message was sent hours ago…

The other was sent just now.

Talk about putting myself on the spot 😆😆😆"

That's a 50% result.

Most men would be happy with that.

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By *onkey 2023Man
4 weeks ago

Carmarthen

I’m in…but would be truly amazed if anything came of it

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By *orumiteMan
4 weeks ago

Kempston

I’m in!

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By *oStringsFun86Man
4 weeks ago

Bristol

Very much a fan of this so count me in 😁

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By *asty tatsyMan
4 weeks ago

london

I’m in 😁

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By *agic.M OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Orpington


"Ok, I have now messaged the only 2 male _orumites that give me fanny flutters.

One I’ve got no reply yet and message was sent hours ago…

The other was sent just now.

Talk about putting myself on the spot 😆😆😆"

Name and shame them 😅... you sure you clicked sent? 🤔 you absolutely 100% positive you actually pressed that little "send" button?

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By *ellhungvweMan
4 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I am in.

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By *wo 4 fun with womenCouple
4 weeks ago

Aldershot

We're looking to meet a Lady so, I'm In!!

Mr

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By *dinSon19Man
4 weeks ago

Alloa

In

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By *ohiMan
4 weeks ago

from bristol

Im in x

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By *atte Lover 82Man
4 weeks ago

BERWICK-UPON-TWEED

I'm in 🤞

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By *ysteryman6998Man
4 weeks ago

essex

I’m in ❤️

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By *steve123Man
4 weeks ago

Merseyside

I’m in!

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By *olo180Man
4 weeks ago

Greater London

IN

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By *poolGuyMan
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

IN

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By *os19Man
4 weeks ago

Edmonton

What’s the worst that can happen.I am in.

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By *ornyharry67Man
4 weeks ago

Drogheda

I'm in

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By *pecialk555Woman
4 weeks ago

Normanton

I,m always happy to send the first message to a man as single males are unable to message me but if one fabbs my pictures & they interest me I will happily message them.

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By *irMixNSwingMan
4 weeks ago

Leicester

Always happy to hear first from the ladies. It’s just a rarity, especially given the ratios on this site!

I’m in.

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By *orny IrishMan
4 weeks ago

Rural Wiltshire

I am in.

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
4 weeks ago

stanley

I’m in but have low expectations

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By *ooleyMan
4 weeks ago

preston

In!

(I'm in an attention seeking mood today)

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By *rGenieMan
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

I'm in like the Flynn

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By *eviant-DesiresMan
4 weeks ago

Mid Cornwall

💯% in

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By *arlo56Man
4 weeks ago

Newcastle

I never bother women on here.

So I always wait for contact from them first because I know how much hassle single women get on here.

So I am in .

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By *an8iMan
4 weeks ago

Bilston

And 5 hours later nothing oh well

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By *arlo56Man
4 weeks ago

Newcastle


"And 5 hours later nothing oh well"

5 hours?

You need to be far more patient

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By *peedyGMan
4 weeks ago

Telford


"And 5 hours later nothing oh well

5 hours?

You need to be far more patient "

From my first day here i've been waiting patiently 😂

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By *pirited obeliskMan
4 weeks ago

Isle of wight

I'm in

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By *oeBeansMan
4 weeks ago

Derby

Not much expectation on this side but I'm in 😅

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By *IXEN200Woman
4 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne


"I'm in like the Flynn "

Im just a little over your age range, but please take this as a first message.......

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By *hunky GentMan
4 weeks ago

Stamford


"And 5 hours later nothing oh well

5 hours?

You need to be far more patient "

5 days more like. 😆

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By *agic.M OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Orpington


"And 5 hours later nothing oh well"

It's still early in the evening 👀...the independent strong women just recently got back from work 😁...they must unwind a bit before they come on fab 😛

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By *IXEN200Woman
4 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne


"And 5 hours later nothing oh well

It's still early in the evening 👀...the independent strong women just recently got back from work 😁...they must unwind a bit before they come on fab 😛"

This is unwinding for some

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By *uperSalopian7Man
4 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

I'm in. Evening all

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By *lue-eyed guyMan
4 weeks ago

Wetherby

Great idea.. most definitely in for it ☺

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By *orksguy1965Man
4 weeks ago

Howden

Im in

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By *andering_welshman2025Man
4 weeks ago

KIRKBY

I’m in 👍☺️

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By *rown.studMan
4 weeks ago

Thornaby

I’m in

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By *ittlebirdWoman
4 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I’m in

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By *es not the MessiahMan
4 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

I'm in

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By *an8iMan
4 weeks ago

Bilston


"And 5 hours later nothing oh well

5 hours?

You need to be far more patient "

Ive got all the patience in the world

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
4 weeks ago

stanley


"I’m in "

Evening M’Lady

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By *eroLondonMan
4 weeks ago

Soho

ⒾⓃ

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By *eb51Man
4 weeks ago

kings lynn

In

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By *picySweetheartWoman
4 weeks ago

North West

My best meets have been where I have messaged first - if I see something I like I’m going for it!

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By *nnCeeWoman
4 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

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By *eardedguy83Man
4 weeks ago

Worcestershire


"And 5 hours later nothing oh well

5 hours?

You need to be far more patient

From my first day here i've been waiting patiently 😂 "

Good things come to all who wait

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By *iss.BellaWoman
4 weeks ago

.

I'll have a nose..

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By *rSuave88Man
4 weeks ago

Mirfield

I'll throw my tuppence in 🪙

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By *peedyGMan
4 weeks ago

Telford


"And 5 hours later nothing oh well

5 hours?

You need to be far more patient

From my first day here i've been waiting patiently 😂

Good things come to all who wait "

Haha you have more faith than i do pal

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By *iss.BellaWoman
4 weeks ago

.

Sent a few

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By *eardedguy83Man
4 weeks ago

Worcestershire


"And 5 hours later nothing oh well

5 hours?

You need to be far more patient

From my first day here i've been waiting patiently 😂

Good things come to all who wait

Haha you have more faith than i do pal"

I have great staying power 😉

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
4 weeks ago

Hatfield

In ….

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I get the odd woman message me every now and then

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By *agic.M OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Orpington


"Sent a few "

🙌👏🎉

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By *eddManMan
4 weeks ago

teddington

I’m IN

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By *entleman JayMan
4 weeks ago

Wakefield

Definately in.

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By *orny IrishMan
4 weeks ago

Rural Wiltshire


"Sent a few "

My inbox must be broken 🤔😪

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By *j72Man
4 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Ladies first was the way I was brought up, its polite that way. Count me in

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By *aker2345Man
4 weeks ago

Gillingham

I'm in.

I won't be holding my breath!

Although I can't see it happening from my experience of being here three or four years. I don't think I've had one female ever message me off of her own back as a single female.

You get the very very odd couple but it is exceptionally rare. I'm talking one message a year if you're lucky.

There's just simply isn't enough proper filters here so women can filter out the prolific guys or people they genuinely don't want to talk to. The way the filters work they filter out the wrong things to be effective.

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By *r. MacMan
4 weeks ago

Bexleyheath

I'm in

id love to see if any will tbh

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By *_D1998Man
4 weeks ago

tamworth

I'm in

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By *strajgMan
4 weeks ago

Plymouth

I'm in

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By *uke_silverMan
4 weeks ago

London

I wonder, if I wrote a helper that was always looking for "I'm in" threads and said the magic phrase, how well I'd do.

Probably not much better than ad hoc, but I'm in.

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By *hunky GentMan
4 weeks ago

Stamford


"Sent a few "

That's a few down 300 to go. 😆

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By *asyeyeMan
4 weeks ago

Nanda Parpet

Women message first 🤯 no way, I don't believe it. I'm in 👀😬

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By *r. MacMan
4 weeks ago

Bexleyheath

Any luck?

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By *ato030Man
4 weeks ago

North Wales

Better late than never. Im in

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By *hepostman22Man
4 weeks ago

Crewe

In

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By *viatrixWoman
4 weeks ago

Redhill

2 favourable replies.

RESULT. 🙌🏻 🙌🏻 🥳 🥳

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By *hunky GentMan
4 weeks ago

Stamford


"2 favourable replies.

RESULT. 🙌🏻 🙌🏻 🥳 🥳 "

Where was mine. Pffft. 😆 🤣

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By *r. MacMan
4 weeks ago

Bexleyheath

Damn it its like the lottery

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By *ouse-pkMan
4 weeks ago

Nantwich

Im in

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By *ild_oatsMan
4 weeks ago

the land of saints & sinners

It’s always great to receive a well written message from anyone….

So count me in…

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By *reston DaveMan
4 weeks ago

Preston

I'm in...keeping fingers crossed

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By *ou only live onceMan
4 weeks ago

London

I'm in. Let the inbox bombardment commence!

😉

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By *effdelightMan
4 weeks ago

Grimsby

I love it. Feel free x

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By *d4funtimesMan
4 weeks ago

Cambridge

Definitely joining

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By *atinaChica54Woman
4 weeks ago

Marlborough

Well I've put my two penny's worth in & have sent a couple of messages to those that give me a minge twinge...let's see, shall we?

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By *itand50Man
4 weeks ago

London

In x

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By *ondonlad90Man
4 weeks ago

London

Am in

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By *wansJack83Man
4 weeks ago

Nr Yeovil

I’m in.

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By *aimevoirMan
4 weeks ago

London

I’m in too ! Lets start the day with some spicy chat

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By *ornyOlder1000Man
4 weeks ago

Bury

I’m in.

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By *allard971Man
4 weeks ago

otley

I’m in. Let’s see if this works!

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By *rightonsteveMan
4 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

In

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By *HE ONLY PLAN IS NO PLANMan
4 weeks ago

Westmidlands

your having a laugh mate women message men on here that may happen if you have a female partner and that's only because they want some Bi fun .

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By *naughtysubbyMan
4 weeks ago

Swadlincote

I’m in

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By *oingMan
4 weeks ago

Co. Antrim

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By *att71Man
4 weeks ago

North Wilts

I'm in

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By *edsquid303Man
4 weeks ago

Traveling with work

Yes absolutely

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By *andadbodMan
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

always in 👍🏻

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By *akedMMan
4 weeks ago

Witney

I am in

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By *ongKnightMan
4 weeks ago

Northampton

I’m in. 🙂

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By *eliWoman
4 weeks ago

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How many men are in compared to women?

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