FabSwingers.com forum: Playing it cool

By *sStephenPickle OP Man
4 weeks ago

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Do you play it cool when you like someone?

Like try and act like you’re not too into them?

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
4 weeks ago

from mars

Guilty 😀

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By *histle79Man
4 weeks ago

Guildford

Nope, I’m far too eager!

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By *eliWoman
4 weeks ago

No. I'm chalant. I don't think there's a non bone in my body.

And - I like being that way. I'm naturally quite excitable day to day. Love learning new people. And when I fancy someone, although I don't think I'm flirty... it's generally pretty obvious.

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By *sStephenPickle OP Man
4 weeks ago

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"Guilty 😀"

What if they think you don’t like them

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By *sStephenPickle OP Man
4 weeks ago

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"Nope, I’m far too eager!"

Bro same

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
4 weeks ago

from mars

"Guilty 😀

What if they think you don’t like them "

Probably happens a lot 🙄

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By *sStephenPickle OP Man
4 weeks ago

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"No. I'm chalant. I don't think there's a non bone in my body.

And - I like being that way. I'm naturally quite excitable day to day. Love learning new people. And when I fancy someone, although I don't think I'm flirty... it's generally pretty obvious.

Just don’t want to be intense.

I have always felt that women see golden retriever energy as unattractive. And I’m a golden retriever

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By *sStephenPickle OP Man
4 weeks ago

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"Guilty 😀

What if they think you don’t like them

Probably happens a lot 🙄"

Try not playing it cool

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"Do you play it cool when you like someone?

Like try and act like you’re not too into them?"

No. I get all flustered and act like a complete idiot.

🤦🏻‍♀️

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By *odgerMooreMan
4 weeks ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

I play it cool and wait for the woman to crack and make the approach… make her work for it and in the end I may or may not let her have the night of her life inside my pants…. *

*whats good for getting cobwebs of a zipper??

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By *viatrixWoman
4 weeks ago

Redhill

I can’t. Lol I am a blabbering wreck and go all clumsy.

Think a Latina Miranda 😂😂😂😂😂

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
4 weeks ago

from mars

"Guilty 😀

What if they think you don’t like them

Probably happens a lot 🙄

Try not playing it cool

😎

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
4 weeks ago

Reading

I think I'm icy cool even when I'm not trying to be. I'm probably too subtle when I like someone. People don't understand that I fucking love my own company and could happily live forever, just me my kindle and my dog. So when I'm giving someone my time and attention even if I'm not slobbering over them I am still saying I LIKE YOU ENOUGH TO GIVE AWAY MY ME TIME AND SPEND THIS TIME WITH YOU.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
4 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

No. I don’t think so. That’s too gamey for me.

I’m pretty upfront if I like someone

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By *ora the explorerWoman
4 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"No. I don’t think so. That’s too gamey for me.

I’m pretty upfront if I like someone "

Although I think either nobody likes me or they’re all playing it too cool 🤣🤣. So I don’t think it works!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
4 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Fuck that game playing shit.

I’m gonna be me.

Mrs TMN x

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By *sStephenPickle OP Man
4 weeks ago

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"No. I don’t think so. That’s too gamey for me.

I’m pretty upfront if I like someone

Although I think either nobody likes me or they’re all playing it too cool 🤣🤣. So I don’t think it works!"

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By *eardedguy83Man
4 weeks ago

Worcestershire

Always upfront. Hate games.

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
4 weeks ago

from mars

If I’m playing it cool … doesn’t mean I’m playing games …. I like to know if it’s mutual or not ….

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By *eneralKenobiMan
4 weeks ago

North Angus

Too cool most of the time, they probably wouldn’t know I was interested

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By *exyScientistsCouple
4 weeks ago

Castlebar

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
4 weeks ago

Voldsøy

Depends on what I'm getting back from them. If it's reciprocated, the whole world probably knows

If not, or until it is... It's the best kept secret ever known.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
4 weeks ago

Castlebar

"If I’m playing it cool … doesn’t mean I’m playing games …. I like to know if it’s mutual or not …. "

Same as this.

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
4 weeks ago

Norwich

I haven't really liked someone for quite some time. If I did I wouldn't play it cool I'd be very upfront. For me life is too short to play it cool or play games.

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By *ad NannaWoman
4 weeks ago

East London

I get yappy.

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
4 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Acting cool? What's that then?

I get like a puppy with a new toy if I like someone - can't leave them alone and slobbering all over them!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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4 weeks ago

East Sussex

No but I won't show interest if I think it's not reciprocated. Nobody needs to put themselves in the way of that

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By *ookie46Woman
4 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Nope I’m useless so I just roll with it and own it

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By *rown.studMan
4 weeks ago

Thornaby

I’m a natural simp can’t hold back myself

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By *eliWoman
4 weeks ago

"No. I'm chalant. I don't think there's a non bone in my body.

And - I like being that way. I'm naturally quite excitable day to day. Love learning new people. And when I fancy someone, although I don't think I'm flirty... it's generally pretty obvious.

Just don’t want to be intense.

I have always felt that women see golden retriever energy as unattractive. And I’m a golden retriever "

I like golden retriever energy. It's nice knowing where I stand, when people enthusiastically want me.

There's a difference between being enthusiastic and being intense. And sometimes that comes down to if I'm attracted to them. I'm well aware that I perceive behaviour differently if I'm attracted to someone. Try not to, still do.

Do you know what will always be the most attractive thing? Staying true to yourself. Don't change yourself to try and be seen by those who will never see you.

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By *peedyGMan
4 weeks ago

Telford

I'm guilty of this and it has made some think i'm not interested, it's not intentional i just don't like to seem too keen 😅.

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By *rHotNottsMan
4 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I play it cool, but I would not act like I wasn’t into them. I just don’t get all bouncy like a teenager, I might feel it , but I’m emotionally intelligent enough to know what’s going on inside and act more wisely

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By *hickthighs25Woman
4 weeks ago

Stockton

Im soooo coollll noone would ever know 👀👀👀👀

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Central

I think people can tell with me, even if I miss them, unless they are explicitly clear and obvious

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By *rown.studMan
4 weeks ago

Thornaby

"Im soooo coollll noone would ever know 👀👀👀👀"

Ice cold 🥶

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By *layfull pairingCouple
4 weeks ago

Bristol

Oh cool as ice... until the first glimpse of bare titty and my brain turns to mush and I forget to breath, let alone think....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
4 weeks ago

little house on the praire

If i like someone I show an interest but dont go full on, I like someone to show interest but not full on. If someone was playing it cool I'd assume they weren't interested and move on. Im 60 not 16.

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By *oeBeansMan
4 weeks ago

Derby

I try not to give too much away as I don't want to come off as overly eager or pushy and end up putting them off which can backfire as I think I have missed out on a few opportunities to meet people as a result and things fizzle out.

I've notlw tried be a bit more overt with my interest and if I know it's mutual, then I know I'm ok

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By *hickthighs25Woman
4 weeks ago

Stockton

"Im soooo coollll noone would ever know 👀👀👀👀

Ice cold 🥶"

Haha i lovea flirt and banter but if its more than that and i like them a little bit more i dont always neccesarily let them know overtly which has caused issues in the past

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By *ikesEmBigMan
4 weeks ago

Herts

"Im soooo coollll noone would ever know 👀👀👀👀

Ice cold 🥶

Haha i lovea flirt and banter but if its more than that and i like them a little bit more i dont always neccesarily let them know overtly which has caused issues in the past "
^^like a freezer^^

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By *hickthighs25Woman
4 weeks ago

Stockton

"Im soooo coollll noone would ever know 👀👀👀👀

Ice cold 🥶

Haha i lovea flirt and banter but if its more than that and i like them a little bit more i dont always neccesarily let them know overtly which has caused issues in the past ^^like a freezer^^

Harsh 🤣

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
4 weeks ago

North West

If I fancy someone I’m quite upfront with it. If I really like someone, I’m more of a closed book. It takes a lot for me to open up about true feelings and it doesn’t happen often 🍭

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By *estructionDollyWoman
4 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

"I try not to give too much away as I don't want to come off as overly eager or pushy and end up putting them off which can backfire as I think I have missed out on a few opportunities to meet people as a result and things fizzle out."

Same 😬 it's hard to find the right balance.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
4 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Uhh.. probably not?

I think I wear both my heart and my vagina on my sleeve.

However I do express adoration primarily through sarcasm and light bullying. So it might not be obvious enough to other people 💜

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
4 weeks ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders

I give nothing away until I know that they like me too and that usually involves them making the first move

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
4 weeks ago

Up North

"If I fancy someone I’m quite upfront with it. If I really like someone, I’m more of a closed book. It takes a lot for me to open up about true feelings and it doesn’t happen often 🍭"

I’m the exact same.

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By *oeBeansMan
4 weeks ago

Derby

Same 😬 it's hard to find the right balance. "

Exactly! I'm trying to find it now, but it can lead to me looking like a tit if I want more and they're just being friendly 😅

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By *peedyGMan
4 weeks ago

Telford

Same 😬 it's hard to find the right balance.

Exactly! I'm trying to find it now, but it can lead to me looking like a tit if I want more and they're just being friendly 😅"

I know the feeling like a tit feeling 😂

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
4 weeks ago

Altrincham

"Do you play it cool when you like someone?

Like try and act like you’re not too into them?"

Nope, I don't play games, if I like someone I tell them

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By *exyScientistsCouple
4 weeks ago

Castlebar

I'd love to just march up to someone and say "I wanna rip your clothes off" but I just can't.

And if I really fancy someone I can't even look at them. I guess that's not doing me any favours 🤣

My new years resolution was to be braver but it's not going so well 🙈

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