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By *ennedyken 1 OP   Man
7 days ago

Limerick

Hi guys have had the conversation with my wife about being with other men . We talked about in a few years she might look back with regent that she didn't have as much fun as she could have .any suggestions on what to do next or should I leave it there . Heading to Prague this week hopefully might be a opportunity for her

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By *aomilatteCouple
7 days ago

Midlands

What happens next really depends how the conversation went?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
7 days ago

Reading

Does she know you have a single profile here?

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By *ools and the brainCouple
7 days ago

couple, us we him her.

Don't force the issue.

Why don't you just enjoy your break and forget about swinging.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
7 days ago

couple, us we him her.

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By *ennedyken 1 OP   Man
7 days ago

Limerick

As I said we've had that conversation she knows I had a few meets with women .not that I'm on fab but as said we don't want to regret things in years to come

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By *ennedyken 1 OP   Man
7 days ago

Limerick

Just got it into my head that I want her to have fun

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By *ools and the brainCouple
7 days ago

couple, us we him her.


"Just got it into my head that I want her to have fun "

You want,but what does she want?

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By *ennedyken 1 OP   Man
7 days ago

Limerick

She agreed she should but hasn't v

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
7 days ago

Crumpet Castle


"Just got it into my head that I want her to have fun "

I'm pretty sure she can manage that herself when she is good and ready.

I'd wager a bet that it's really your desire

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By *igboobstCouple
7 days ago

barrow

Just tell her about your profile on here that should do it

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By *ennedyken 1 OP   Man
7 days ago

Limerick

Is that what you did

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By *ennedyken 1 OP   Man
7 days ago

Limerick

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By *uke OzadeMan
7 days ago

Ho Chi Minge City


"Just tell her about your profile on here that should do it "

Do this but as a limerick so it’s particularly apt for the location

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
7 days ago

Crumpet Castle


"Just tell her about your profile on here that should do it

Do this but as a limerick so it’s particularly apt for the location "

A man known as KennedyKen

Longs for his wife to shag many men

He mentioned his profile

So she followed in his style

But she never fucked Ken again

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By *eanShaziaPk85Couple
7 days ago

Nottingham

I told my wife I joined as a couple on fab and showed her all the attention she was getting but shut me down real quick saying the men just want free sex. So had to change my approach again to make things work u know ur wife better then anyone am sure u find a way to crack her open lol

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
7 days ago

The Heart of Hollownest, Dudleyish.


"As I said we've had that conversation she knows I had a few meets with women .not that I'm on fab but as said we don't want to regret things in years to come "

Well if you have already met other ladies, telling her about your fab profile shouldnt be an issue.

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By *he MinionMan
7 days ago

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"Just tell her about your profile on here that should do it

Do this but as a limerick so it’s particularly apt for the location

A man known as KennedyKen

Longs for his wife to shag many men

He mentioned his profile

So she followed in his style

But she never fucked Ken again"

Perfect

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
7 days ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders


"Hi guys have had the conversation with my wife about being with other men . We talked about in a few years she might look back with regent that she didn't have as much fun as she could have .any suggestions on what to do next or should I leave it there . Heading to Prague this week hopefully might be a opportunity for her"

Why are you asking a bunch of randomers. Have a conversation with your wife and listen to her

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By *midnight-Woman
7 days ago

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"Just tell her about your profile on here that should do it "

I reckon too

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By *allipygousMan
7 days ago

Manchester


"Hi guys have had the conversation with my wife about being with other men . We talked about in a few years she might look back with regent that she didn't have as much fun as she could have .any suggestions on what to do next or should I leave it there . Heading to Prague this week hopefully might be a opportunity for her"

Why go all the way to the Czech Republic to seek opportunity? What's wrong with British cock? 🐓

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
7 days ago

Crumpet Castle


"Hi guys have had the conversation with my wife about being with other men . We talked about in a few years she might look back with regent that she didn't have as much fun as she could have .any suggestions on what to do next or should I leave it there . Heading to Prague this week hopefully might be a opportunity for her

Why are you asking a bunch of randomers. Have a conversation with your wife and listen to her "

I'm hurt

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By *ea monkeyMan
7 days ago

Manchester (he/him)

This sounds like guilt talking. You want her to engage and indulge in this so you don’t feel bad about the secrets that you’re keeping and by default it makes your actions seem right.

You can’t make someone be into swinging and basic honesty is the cornerstone of any relationship

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By *issmorganWoman
7 days ago

Calderdale innit


"Just got it into my head that I want her to have fun "

She's the one that needs to want to have fun op.

I'll say the same as I do on all the other identical threads.

You need to talk to her, there's no other way I'm afraid, you know you're own wife and what she's up for.

Ask her if she'd be into having some fun with other men and that you'd find it a turn on.

If she says no, you need to leave it though.

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
7 days ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders


"Hi guys have had the conversation with my wife about being with other men . We talked about in a few years she might look back with regent that she didn't have as much fun as she could have .any suggestions on what to do next or should I leave it there . Heading to Prague this week hopefully might be a opportunity for her

Why are you asking a bunch of randomers. Have a conversation with your wife and listen to her

I'm hurt "

Why Granny? Do you need a cold compress or a plaster?

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
7 days ago

BRIDPORT

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By *ootloversheff92Man
7 days ago

Sheffield

I'm also getting into this. Slow steps and everything at her pace and when shes ready. No need to rush anything

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By *ittlebirdWoman
7 days ago

The Big Smoke


"Just got it into my head that I want her to have fun "

You answered your own question OP. This is in your head. Not your wife’s 🤷‍♂️

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
7 days ago

Central

You need to keep talking but be prepared for her not to want to do anything. Pressure is an interest killer

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
7 days ago

Altrincham


"Hi guys have had the conversation with my wife about being with other men . We talked about in a few years she might look back with regent that she didn't have as much fun as she could have .any suggestions on what to do next or should I leave it there . Heading to Prague this week hopefully might be a opportunity for her"

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KEEP TALKING!!! Keep your conversations open, honest and without judgement and talk when you're both ready to, don't force it.

Me n hubby and me and the BF have had some very difficult conversations about what we want to do and the best advice I can give you is to be honest, ask Mrs to be honest. And enjoy because once you find what you want the experience is fantastic!

💞

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
7 days ago

Altrincham


"I'm also getting into this. Slow steps and everything at her pace and when shes ready. No need to rush anything "

And that's exactly what you have to do because it's Mrs who has to be 10000% on board - us women are programmed differently to you blokes and we need a little bit more emotion. Keep Mrs happy and you could open up a whole new world for yourselves

💞

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