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By *ingergirl2000 OP   Woman
3 days ago

West Bridgford

Recently, I’ve come to the conclusion that just about all men are at least a little bi. I bet they’ve thought about it, wondered about how it feels, might want to try it, might have a play on their own with phallic toys but keep it under wraps and would never admit to it. I bet many of them are in heterosexual relationships too. What do you reckon? Be honest. I’m not saying you’re gay but you have wondered about it and a little intrigued. That’s all I’m saying

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By *eturningFabber69Man
3 days ago

Preston

Guilty as charged.

I don't find guys physically attractive ad such, can appreciate why anyone is viewed as attractive.

But in some scenarios can be great to explore.

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By *otfunx1Man
3 days ago

Edinburgh

More than intrigued lol x

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By *ISSchievous CoupleCouple
3 days ago

Bedford

We both love bi play.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
3 days ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

Nope, nada, zip, zero, zilch - If I any inclination towards the same sex, I would’ve abandoned women long ago It’d be so much easier

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By *annyT1966Man
3 days ago

Derwentside

I certainly fall into to this category. I'm not attracted to men, but I love to play with a nice firm cock and male ass as much as I do playing with a female.

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By *inglenik07Man
3 days ago

corsham

Would you?

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By *otfunx1Man
3 days ago

Edinburgh


"Would you?"
yes please x

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By *ingh89Man
3 days ago

Birmingham

I don't think there truly a 100% straight guy.

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By *arried curious guyMan
3 days ago

Motherwell

I think when you start to chat on sites similar to this you gradually get curious and turn bi, then regret that you didn't try it years before, only thing is, it's so much easier now

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By *KnuddyMan
3 days ago

Eastbourne

Gonna say yes. But fighting myself ,wanting to a admit it.

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By *ealitybitesMan
3 days ago

Belfast

What's the general consensus on straight women?

Are they all lying to themselves too like some of you seem to think or is it actually possible that there is some serious projection going on here?

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By *arried curious guyMan
3 days ago

Motherwell


"What's the general consensus on straight women?

Are they all lying to themselves too like some of you seem to think or is it actually possible that there is some serious projection going on here?

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I think most women are no curious or have had a crush on another woman

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By *ellinever70Woman
3 days ago

Ayrshire


"What's the general consensus on straight women?

Are they all lying to themselves too like some of you seem to think or is it actually possible that there is some serious projection going on here?

I think most women are no curious or have had a crush on another woman"

I think you're wrong

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By *rickie-dickieMan
3 days ago

South Durham

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By *rickie-dickieMan
3 days ago

South Durham

Yeah, i prefer sex with men. Happy to discuss privately.

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By *maginitivemindMan
3 days ago

nottingham

Very true

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By *heVikingJarlMan
3 days ago

behind you

Would never touch a guy but love them watching me on webcam

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By *alandNitaCouple
3 days ago

Scunthorpe


"Recently, I’ve come to the conclusion that just about all men are at least a little bi. I bet they’ve thought about it, wondered about how it feels, might want to try it, might have a play on their own with phallic toys but keep it under wraps and would never admit to it. I bet many of them are in heterosexual relationships too. What do you reckon? Be honest. I’m not saying you’re gay but you have wondered about it and a little intrigued. That’s all I’m saying "

I'm not sure why some people feel the need to insist that EVERYONE is bi... is it really that hard to imagine that some people are 100% straight or 100% gay?

For me personally, I have ZERO interest in having any sort of sex with blokes. The whole idea does nothing for me.

I enjoy having my arse played with, but only by women. I don't imagine that it's a man.

Cal

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By *AYENCouple
3 days ago

Lincolnshire


"What's the general consensus on straight women?

Are they all lying to themselves too like some of you seem to think or is it actually possible that there is some serious projection going on here?

I think most women are no curious or have had a crush on another woman"

I have to agree that IMO most people, of both genders are bi, but certainly not all. K.

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By *lashman the ThirdMan
3 days ago

Leeds


"Recently, I’ve come to the conclusion that just about all men are at least a little bi. I bet they’ve thought about it, wondered about how it feels, might want to try it, might have a play on their own with phallic toys but keep it under wraps and would never admit to it. I bet many of them are in heterosexual relationships too. What do you reckon? Be honest. I’m not saying you’re gay but you have wondered about it and a little intrigued. That’s all I’m saying "

100%. Nero wasn’t gay either.. 😉

I would love to give an older guy head, but I have no interest in kissing or holding hands on the beach…🤷‍♂️

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By *r.EdibleMan
3 days ago

Fraserburgh

OP, how does playing with toys make you bi?? That's ludicrous. Given a man's sweet spot is his prostate, wanting to stimulate it either by sounding or poking his own arse does not involve any other men. You're confusing masturbation with something completely different.

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By *ealitybitesMan
3 days ago

Belfast

There is no such thing as a lesbian or gay person. They are all bi.

The so called lesbians are gagging for cock and the gay men all love a sneaky bit of pussy.

Read that twice and think how stupid and insulting it sounds and then have another think about this thread.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 days ago

Central

I think that many people have repressed interests and also that sexuality isn't rigid for everyone. But I'm open to accepting that there are people who are not going to be engaging with the same gender.

Perhaps, if we lived much longer and had a few hundred years of active sex lives, it would evolve more?

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By *uri00620Woman
3 days ago

Croydon

I don't think so....I'm not sure why that would be the case. My most adventurous partner wasn't even remotely bi. I asked him about it just out of curiosity. He said he thought about if he could be but concluded he just doesn't find cock (or men) attractive in any way.

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By *hampersDarlingWoman
3 days ago

Norwich


"What's the general consensus on straight women?

Are they all lying to themselves too like some of you seem to think or is it actually possible that there is some serious projection going on here?

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Sadly I'm straight. I can find women attractive and admire them but I'm not sexually attracted to them. I also find women's bodies attractive but I dont want want to touch them or taste them.

I personally would like to feel otherwise but I don't.

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By *ellinever70Woman
3 days ago

Ayrshire


"What's the general consensus on straight women?

Are they all lying to themselves too like some of you seem to think or is it actually possible that there is some serious projection going on here?

Sadly I'm straight. I can find women attractive and admire them but I'm not sexually attracted to them. I also find women's bodies attractive but I dont want want to touch them or taste them.

I personally would like to feel otherwise but I don't.

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Why does being straight make you sad?

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By *hyrichMan
3 days ago

lincolnshire


"More than intrigued lol x"

Me too

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By *ittlebirdWoman
3 days ago

The Big Smoke

Nope. There are 100% straight people. Men and women. They are actually the majority of people 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

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By *hyrichMan
3 days ago

lincolnshire


"I think when you start to chat on sites similar to this you gradually get curious and turn bi, then regret that you didn't try it years before, only thing is, it's so much easier now"

This

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By *apt peteMan
3 days ago

Peterborough

I started with intrigue and moved on rapidly. Must admit I do like the taste of cum in my mouth.

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By *hyrichMan
3 days ago

lincolnshire


"Recently, I’ve come to the conclusion that just about all men are at least a little bi. I bet they’ve thought about it, wondered about how it feels, might want to try it, might have a play on their own with phallic toys but keep it under wraps and would never admit to it. I bet many of them are in heterosexual relationships too. What do you reckon? Be honest. I’m not saying you’re gay but you have wondered about it and a little intrigued. That’s all I’m saying

100%. Nero wasn’t gay either.. 😉

I would love to give an older guy head, but I have no interest in kissing or holding hands on the beach…🤷‍♂️"

Cue loads of older guys checking out your profile lol

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By *ony 529Man
3 days ago

coventry


"I think when you start to chat on sites similar to this you gradually get curious and turn bi, then regret that you didn't try it years before, only thing is, it's so much easier now"

Yes, exactly and because I like to dress in my wife’s things without her knowledge, one thing leads to another the fact, I’m a straight, masculine guy sort a line makes it even naughty the fact I get chatted up my son, sexy men. I just wish there was more understanding, ladies Who enjoyed seeing a guy like myself.

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By *ami4321Man
3 days ago

wrexham


"Recently, I’ve come to the conclusion that just about all men are at least a little bi. I bet they’ve thought about it, wondered about how it feels, might want to try it, might have a play on their own with phallic toys but keep it under wraps and would never admit to it. I bet many of them are in heterosexual relationships too. What do you reckon? Be honest. I’m not saying you’re gay but you have wondered about it and a little intrigued. That’s all I’m saying "

I wondered for years then finally took the plunge and liked it

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By *eordieJeansCouple
3 days ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Nope. Not at all. I’ve been in close proximity to quite a few cocks and the thought hasn’t even crossed my mind. I’m a bloke and know how disgusting we are and quite frankly don’t understand how women can find us attractive.

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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
3 days ago

Ilkeston

Definitely have to disagree. Although there are a lot of people who hide their identity for a huge range of reasons (i mean i did for a decade) it does mean that everyone has that identity. Straight people very much exist.

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By *hiversMan
3 days ago

Dinas Powys

No. I'm not squeamish about being in close proximity to other dicks as part of a three (or more) -some, but have absolutely no desire to play with the other male or ever meet a man alone to play. Whilst I do believe sexuality is very much a case of shades of grey, and no-one should ever be ashamed of where on that scale they fall, you absolutely can have people who are 100% straight.

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By *moothstaffspeepsCouple
3 days ago

Stafford

We don’t have labels but enjoy both sexes physically x

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By *ackson 501Man
3 days ago

Chesterfield

I am a little curious, in a sexless marriage so I do get a little frustrated

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
3 days ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London


"Nope. There are 100% straight people. Men and women. They are actually the majority of people 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

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This 👆

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By *oomerangboyMan
3 days ago

Staffordshire

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By *illy IdolMan
3 days ago

Midlands

I thought I was 100% straight, but then a man helped guide my cock back in his wife, and that felt good. It's a slippery slope.

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By *oomerangboyMan
3 days ago

Staffordshire

Hetro flexible….. straight but with couple I’d indulge x

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By *rMonkeyMan
3 days ago

Somewhere

Never, not even a little. No idea why some people find it hard to believe there are people who are 100% straight.

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By *lofeldMan
3 days ago

Redhill

I played a little with a mate back in education days so I kinda get some of the terrain, but have done nothing since. I can honestly say I've never looked at a bloke and fancied them, but I wouldn't totally rule out some play in an mfm situation, hence bi curious.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
3 days ago

Lincolnshire

There was a thought of whether us playing with another guy might bring out something in me.

We’ve had a number of threesomes now and I’ve even been licking C whilst she’s had a cock inside her and it’s not stirred anything.

We’ve done DVP too and I’ve got off on C’s pleasure, not crossing swords.

I’m comfortable with cocks touching etc, but there’s no tendencies at all.

I love pink shirts though 👚

K

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By *bi HaiveMan
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3 days ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Nope. There are 100% straight people. Men and women. They are actually the majority of people 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

This 👆

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Definitely this.

There's plenty of profiles that scream 100% straight. Plenty of posts and comments bemoaning attention from the same sex. Plenty of shouting capitals saying 'NO BI MEN'.

They're not fibbing.

There's nothing wrong with being bi. Equally there's nothing wrong with being straight. If people just respected others choices then I suspect there'd be less perceptions of biphobia on here (yes, it exists) and making claims that everyone is in some way at least a little bit bi/curious isnt going to help.

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By *KentMan
3 days ago

Canterbury

Everyone knows that you’re still straight if you don’t make eye contact.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
3 days ago

Crumpet Castle

Everyone questions their sexuality at some point in their life. Most have themselves sussed by a given age.

If a man says he's straight just believe him.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
3 days ago

Cheshire

Plenty of heterosexual people male and female in which same sex activity would be an anathema to them. Same as some of the gay men I used to socialise with, who in some cases hated being around women.

No such thing as every man is a bit bi.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
3 days ago

Between Sudbury and Haverhill

I depends what you’re calling “bi”. Not everyone agrees where the line should be drawn. Some think there has to be an attraction, although I’m not one of them.

I certainly don’t think that just thinking about it makes you even bi curious. I’d say there needs to be an interest in actually meeting a man for some form of sexual activity to be “bi curious”. And I’d say there has to be a desire to repeat same sex activity to be classed as bi.

Watching the occasional bi porno certainly doesn’t make you bi. And neither does letting a bloke suck your cock in a mfm threesome.

I think some guys who get divorced in their 50s or older become more interested in bisexuality when they can’t get a woman. But I do believe there’s men who would never want another bloke touching their cock.

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
3 days ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"Recently, I’ve come to the conclusion that just about all men are at least a little bi. I bet they’ve thought about it, wondered about how it feels, might want to try it, might have a play on their own with phallic toys but keep it under wraps and would never admit to it. I bet many of them are in heterosexual relationships too. What do you reckon? Be honest. I’m not saying you’re gay but you have wondered about it and a little intrigued. That’s all I’m saying "

If you take the standard statical bell curve on the premises of fully gay to fully straight, you will find that 90% of all individuals have a bit of bi in them only the extremes of the bell curve have individuals who are completely gay or straight everything else is bi, some might be 5% others 100%....

(This is where my mathematical slides would come in...)

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By *ealitybitesMan
3 days ago

Belfast


"Recently, I’ve come to the conclusion that just about all men are at least a little bi. I bet they’ve thought about it, wondered about how it feels, might want to try it, might have a play on their own with phallic toys but keep it under wraps and would never admit to it. I bet many of them are in heterosexual relationships too. What do you reckon? Be honest. I’m not saying you’re gay but you have wondered about it and a little intrigued. That’s all I’m saying

If you take the standard statical bell curve on the premises of fully gay to fully straight, you will find that 90% of all individuals have a bit of bi in them only the extremes of the bell curve have individuals who are completely gay or straight everything else is bi, some might be 5% others 100%....

(This is where my mathematical slides would come in...)

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If what you say is true, there should be a high probability that I am in daily contact with people who are gay or bi and yet I'm not and never have been.

I don't know anyone who identifies as anything other than straight. I've never worked with an openly gay or bi person and I don't know any members of the LGBTQ community.

I don't live in a bubble and I'm aware that 2 friends have gay siblings but I've never met them so can't claim to know them.

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By *odgerMooreMan
3 days ago

Rummage Under Jumper

Im crushingly straight. There’s a ton of advantages to being bi - but the thought of sexual contact with a bloke turns me right off. So yes there are 100% straight blokes… im one.

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By *anchesterTaurusMan
3 days ago

Prestwich

How what feels? A dick in my arse?

Christ now, sounds horrendous tbh, I don't even care for anal with women, so certainly not interested in having a dick in my own arse mate.

Oral?

I like eating pussy, I'm sorry but the idea of sperm doesn't an enjoyable one.

I've no problem with gay guys, but no, I wouldn't say it's something I'd like to try.

That said, I've had a few offers for bjs, and that is tempting because it's very warm today

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By *erotic_adventureMan
3 days ago

London, Scotland & The North,

I reckon as you ask, you need to conduct a more detailed and accurate,if not robust research process......whilst many guys here may be bi or have tendencies there are plenty that are 100% straight too.

If the boot was on the other foot and a guy said that in the forums.....well you know what the resultant effect would be

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By *alf GarnetMan
3 days ago

Adlington x

Best thing I ever did was trying bi fun in a theee some , I’ve never looked back since and had lots of fun

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By *ubInTrainingTV/TS
3 days ago

Coggeshall

I’m only a tiny bit… x

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By *avenNightsMan
3 days ago

Canvey Island

I’m bi, but probably the worst bi person ever as I won’t meet guys solo, only couples.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
3 days ago

Uttoxeter


"Recently, I’ve come to the conclusion that just about all men are at least a little bi. I bet they’ve thought about it, wondered about how it feels, might want to try it, might have a play on their own with phallic toys but keep it under wraps and would never admit to it. I bet many of them are in heterosexual relationships too. What do you reckon? Be honest. I’m not saying you’re gay but you have wondered about it and a little intrigued. That’s all I’m saying

If you take the standard statical bell curve on the premises of fully gay to fully straight, you will find that 90% of all individuals have a bit of bi in them only the extremes of the bell curve have individuals who are completely gay or straight everything else is bi, some might be 5% others 100%....

(This is where my mathematical slides would come in...)

"

“You’re not special, you’re on a normal distribution just like the rest of us..”

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
3 days ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Recently, I’ve come to the conclusion that just about all men are at least a little bi. I bet they’ve thought about it, wondered about how it feels, might want to try it, might have a play on their own with phallic toys but keep it under wraps and would never admit to it. I bet many of them are in heterosexual relationships too. What do you reckon? Be honest. I’m not saying you’re gay but you have wondered about it and a little intrigued. That’s all I’m saying

If you take the standard statical bell curve on the premises of fully gay to fully straight, you will find that 90% of all individuals have a bit of bi in them only the extremes of the bell curve have individuals who are completely gay or straight everything else is bi, some might be 5% others 100%....

(This is where my mathematical slides would come in...)

If what you say is true, there should be a high probability that I am in daily contact with people who are gay or bi and yet I'm not and never have been.

I don't know anyone who identifies as anything other than straight. I've never worked with an openly gay or bi person and I don't know any members of the LGBTQ community.

I don't live in a bubble and I'm aware that 2 friends have gay siblings but I've never met them so can't claim to know them.

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I don’t think everyone you work with or meet is going to necessarily reveal their sexual preferences to you. That doesn’t mean they’re are straight by default 🤷‍♀️

OP, I think it’s a bit presumptuous telling folk they’re kidding themselves about being straight. Sure, some people may be suppressing it, but that doesn’t mean everyone is.

Mrs TMN x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
3 days ago

Leeds

I think there's guys that are straight never curious, guys that are curious and then bi, pan & gay....

I don't think every guy has thought about another man sexually just like not every woman has.

Mrs

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
3 days ago

Crumpet Castle


"I reckon as you ask, you need to conduct a more detailed and accurate,if not robust research process......whilst many guys here may be bi or have tendencies there are plenty that are 100% straight too.

If the boot was on the other foot and a guy said that in the forums.....well you know what the resultant effect would be "

I think this point bears repeating. It was also my first thought.

I've had men try to tell me that i'd enjoy certain sexual practises.

If a man tried to persuade a woman she was in denial of being bi it wouldn't go down as well as this has from my experience.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
3 days ago

Altrincham


"I bet you're a little bit bi - Recently, I’ve come to the conclusion that just about all men are at least a little bi. I bet they’ve thought about it, wondered about how it feels, might want to try it, might have a play on their own with phallic toys but keep it under wraps and would never admit to it. I bet many of them are in heterosexual relationships too. What do you reckon? Be honest. I’m not saying you’re gay but you have wondered about it and a little intrigued. That’s all I’m saying "

My hubby, most definitely yes

My BF, most definitely not!

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By *arl50Man
3 days ago

Sheffield

It's true, maybe not consciously but if you think about any man who has watched porn, let's say a woman giving a Man a blow job it's the erect cock that is turning them on. That's what I think anyway and I include myself in that

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
3 days ago

Between Sudbury and Haverhill


"It's true, maybe not consciously but if you think about any man who has watched porn, let's say a woman giving a Man a blow job it's the erect cock that is turning them on. That's what I think anyway and I include myself in that "

Or is it the woman enjoying the erect cock that turning them on?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
3 days ago

Crumpet Castle


"It's true, maybe not consciously but if you think about any man who has watched porn, let's say a woman giving a Man a blow job it's the erect cock that is turning them on. That's what I think anyway and I include myself in that "

No. It's the thought of getting his cock sucked by a woman.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
3 days ago

Ends

I’ve thought about kissing a guy before but kissing is easy, it’s not like sex which requires some physical attraction. I just don’t have that to men or to penises more specifically (I know it’s possibly exclusionary but yeah) so whilst I’ve thought about whether I could have sex with a man, I concluded that I couldn’t and that I’m just not sexually attracted to men.

I know sexuality is broad though. There are bi romantic people out there etc. I don’t think too much about the labels unless it’s relevant- like if I’m dating a NB person for example.

I think I would probably conclude that I don’t mind flirting and perhaps one day I’ll kiss a guy for the plot but it’s just not something that is going to work for me sexually.

So am I a little bit bi? I don’t know.

Are most men? It’s simply not possible to know.

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By *ritIndianCoupleCouple
3 days ago

Midlands

I’m definitely a little intrigued. Ideal scenario would be a bi couple join us and see what happens

Mr

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
3 days ago

London (She/Her)

I think all men are at least a bit obsessed by cock

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By *sStephenPickleMan
3 days ago

Ends


"I think all men are at least a bit obsessed by cock"

Especially white men and Black men’s cocks.

One of my most traumatic experiences with racism just epitomised that for me.

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By *issmorganWoman
3 days ago

Calderdale innit


"What's the general consensus on straight women?

Are they all lying to themselves too like some of you seem to think or is it actually possible that there is some serious projection going on here?

I think most women are no curious or have had a crush on another woman"

Nope, totally straight here and it really irritates me when others can't accept some men and women are actually straight.

Lots of people are bi or curious here & there's nothing wrong in that. Lots who say they're straight, actually are though.

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By *exyInLatinMan
3 days ago

Warsop

I read a book in it and basically there is a scale I think it’s 1-7 and everyone is on that somewhere…I think 1 was completely straight. I.e no fantasies or anything and 7 so completely gay, anywhere in between is varying levels of bi and most people are in that area

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
3 days ago

London (She/Her)


"I think all men are at least a bit obsessed by cock

Especially white men and Black men’s cocks.

One of my most traumatic experiences with racism just epitomised that for me. "

🫂🫂🫂 I’m sorry, it sounds like you had to endure something awful

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By *sStephenPickleMan
3 days ago

Ends


"I think all men are at least a bit obsessed by cock

Especially white men and Black men’s cocks.

One of my most traumatic experiences with racism just epitomised that for me.

🫂🫂🫂 I’m sorry, it sounds like you had to endure something awful"

Charge it. I’m great now

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
3 days ago

London (She/Her)


"I think all men are at least a bit obsessed by cock

Especially white men and Black men’s cocks.

One of my most traumatic experiences with racism just epitomised that for me.

🫂🫂🫂 I’m sorry, it sounds like you had to endure something awful

Charge it. I’m great now "

You knows it! 💪

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By *shford_5Man
3 days ago

Ashford

Yes, bi, but only in a submissive sense. It's naughty and sexy, but if I come, which isn't always important, it's me doing it, I don't want another guy making me.

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By *arvest84Man
3 days ago

brigg

well, i am orally bi and love the taste of man cum .

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By *4bimMan
3 days ago

Farnborough Hampshire

women started it.

they made men's lifes such a living hell they decided to see how taking it up the arse went.

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By *ustamanMan
3 days ago

weymouth

I hate being pigeon holed, I've been with a man (dressed as a woman) but would be very doubtful of going with a man dressed as a man on his own. I need at the very least the convincing impression of a woman to get turned on, however when turned on I know that almost anything goes - so for me the term hetero flexible is the more accurate

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By *ein-guyMan
3 days ago

East Cowes

I don't deny it at all. Been pegged a few times and always wondered what a real one would be like

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By *obilebottomMan
3 days ago

All over

I am sure some are not. It's for them to decide. Some people can be experimental and decide others know for sure. Who cares, as long as those involved are always happy in whatever that entails.

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By *om and JennieCouple
3 days ago

Chams or Socials


"Recently, I’ve come to the conclusion that just about all men are at least a little bi. I bet they’ve thought about it, wondered about how it feels, might want to try it, might have a play on their own with phallic toys but keep it under wraps and would never admit to it. I bet many of them are in heterosexual relationships too. What do you reckon? Be honest. I’m not saying you’re gay but you have wondered about it and a little intrigued. That’s all I’m saying "

Thats quite a large brush to be tarring everyone with, for absolute clarity i have absolutely no interest in men. I don’t know where this presumption comes from that everyone must fancy everyone?

T.

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By *JB1954Man
3 days ago

Reading

I am totally straight . Yes have all males blocked on Fab. Very good reason that would not as others say. Sex in any form with another male. Yes been near . But no sexual contact. Yet some on Fab seem as had one message from a male. If tried with him . Would not want a female again ?

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By *egnMaxCouple
3 days ago

Nottingham


"Nope. There are 100% straight people. Men and women. They are actually the majority of people 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

"

^ in a nutshell.

I am straight and believe we shouldn’t generalise about the entire population.

There are as many differences within the sexes as between them.

As long as people are travelling in the direction they want to down the sexual highway (insert euphemism here) and not hurting anyone - then they should have fun out there. Whatever fun looks like to them.

Max

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By *infullyNaughtyMan
3 days ago

Staines-Upon-Thames

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By *infullyNaughtyMan
3 days ago

Staines-Upon-Thames

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By *infullyNaughtyMan
3 days ago

Staines-Upon-Thames

I’d say i can be hetero-flexible if it’s in an MMF. Like im not attracted to men but if I was in a threeway with one, then i don’t mind some light stuff like a bit of touching. That’s about it though really.

Also sorry for the last two deleted posts, my keyboard was bugging out

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
3 days ago

Swansea

OP I believe your conclusion needs further consideration.

Mrs

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
3 days ago

Bristol

I definitely am when it comes to sex.

Don't actually find men attractive but love being fucked by them.

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By *ackbydemandMan
3 days ago

Leicester

I get the backlash against the generalisation, but there are men that swear black is white that they are straight.

Then proceed to the glory holes, maybe it's a woman the other side, maybe not.

If they are that sure, they really need to make sure.

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By *idssissyTV/TS
3 days ago

Nr cricket ground birm

Don't know if bi or not and beginning not to care

I enjoy sucking cock though it doesn't make me get hard

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
3 days ago

Stourbridge


"Recently, I’ve come to the conclusion that just about all men are at least a little bi. I bet they’ve thought about it, wondered about how it feels, might want to try it, might have a play on their own with phallic toys but keep it under wraps and would never admit to it. I bet many of them are in heterosexual relationships too. What do you reckon? Be honest. I’m not saying you’re gay but you have wondered about it and a little intrigued. That’s all I’m saying "

No you are completely wrong. I’m not remotely interested in men. , I find this assertion to be quite ludicrous really.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
3 days ago

Stoke

Couldn't think of much worse than sexualy touching another guy 🤢

Mr F.

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
3 days ago

Dudley...kinda

Being curious and experimenting does not make you bi.

Putting thing up your arse to make you come doesnt make you bi.

Being equally attracted to men and women makes you bi.

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By *londebiguyMan
3 days ago

Southport

Often I've found that the ones that protest too strongly are the ones that are secretly doing it or wanting to do it.

It's happened too many times now.

Just relax and do what you feel like.

Life is just too short.

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By *andb69Couple
3 days ago

leeds


"Recently, I’ve come to the conclusion that just about all men are at least a little bi. I bet they’ve thought about it, wondered about how it feels, might want to try it, might have a play on their own with phallic toys but keep it under wraps and would never admit to it. I bet many of them are in heterosexual relationships too. What do you reckon? Be honest. I’m not saying you’re gay but you have wondered about it and a little intrigued. That’s all I’m saying "

Unfortunately we all occasionally reach conclusions that are wrong. The only people that believe that just about all men are a bit bi are those that are at least bit bi themselves, and therefore open to persuasion. A bit like the alpha males who claim that lesbians just haven't yet met a real man like them.

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By *antsOffMan
3 days ago

Berks

I'm straight but the closest I've been was a MMF 3some.

But nothing male on male happened.

Mostly both M doing F.

Was fun and would love to do it again.

Don't think I'd ever be interested in M on M. Not for me.

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By *h86Man
3 days ago

Nearby

I think you could make the argument that 'more men are a little bit Bi than are currently admitting it" but to say most is probably a bit too much of a stretch

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By *allipygousMan
3 days ago

Leicester

Why do some people insist that everyone is bi and some men insist on calling themselves straight because they don't fancy/kiss men but like to play with a cock (which only men have)?

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By *eordieJeansCouple
3 days ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Why do some people insist that everyone is bi and some men insist on calling themselves straight because they don't fancy/kiss men but like to play with a cock (which only men have)?"

It’s no different from saying theres no such thing as bi. They’re just greedy. It’s a load of shite.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
3 days ago

Paradise, Herts

No. I don’t agree at all

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By *hickthighs25Woman
3 days ago

Stockton

There is definitely straight men who are just that what it says on the tin, ive had partners who wouldnt be in the same room as another penis being out in a sexual situation.

Personally i never understand how a man can be straight but receive/give oral to a man im not judging its just my opinion but that is bi.

I am 100% completely straight and i would not sit and masturbate in front of a female as i dont find anything remotely hot about it as i am not attracted to females. When guys like to mutually mastaurbate there has got to be some bi curiosity there or they would not gain anything from it sexually as my clit would shrivel up and die if a woman started masturbating in my presence.

Controversial opinion but just what it is an opinion 😁

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By *usie pTV/TS
3 days ago

taunton

I am guilty of turning quite a few straight guys bi, normally happens late at night in a dark spot after everyone else has gone home.

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By *hickthighs25Woman
3 days ago

Stockton


"I am guilty of turning quite a few straight guys bi, normally happens late at night in a dark spot after everyone else has gone home."

The fact they even found thereself in a situation with you in the first place would suggest there not straight to begin with surely?

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By *4FantasyCouple
3 days ago

Spalding


"Nope. There are 100% straight people. Men and women. They are actually the majority of people 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

"

this

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By *attooboy100Man
3 days ago

Dudley


"I am guilty of turning quite a few straight guys bi, normally happens late at night in a dark spot after everyone else has gone home.

The fact they even found thereself in a situation with you in the first place would suggest there not straight to begin with surely?"

💣

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
3 days ago

honeysuckle lane

I think to & if nothing else is on offer they will because something is better than nothing

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By *allipygousMan
3 days ago

Leicester


"There is definitely straight men who are just that what it says on the tin, ive had partners who wouldnt be in the same room as another penis being out in a sexual situation.

Personally i never understand how a man can be straight but receive/give oral to a man im not judging its just my opinion but that is bi.

I am 100% completely straight and i would not sit and masturbate in front of a female as i dont find anything remotely hot about it as i am not attracted to females. When guys like to mutually mastaurbate there has got to be some bi curiosity there or they would not gain anything from it sexually as my clit would shrivel up and die if a woman started masturbating in my presence.

Controversial opinion but just what it is an opinion 😁"

Only controversial in the vacuum that is fabswingers, not in the real world.

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By *entleman JayMan
3 days ago

Wakefield

Erm. I’m very much not.

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By *ingergirl2000 OP   Woman
2 days ago

West Bridgford


"What's the general consensus on straight women?

Are they all lying to themselves too like some of you seem to think or is it actually possible that there is some serious projection going on here?

"

Society’s attitude to two women is more accepting and it’s a turn on for most. For a man to admit he might like being with a man is more difficult. Certainly for men older than 30s. Younger generations are more open to stating what they like without fear of negative reactions. Ask a man if he would have sex with a man and their instant reaction is no. That’s my point, deep down they’ve thought about it, want it or tried it but won’t admit it publicly hence they’re on Fabguys. Is there a Fabgirls? Why not?

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By *ucka39Man
2 days ago

Newcastle

Nope don't think about it and never crossed my mind as I know what I'm attracted to and it'll never change

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
2 days ago

little house on the praire

what a load of bollocks, I've been with bi men all my life i was married to one, my late partner was one, but ive also been with guys that are 100% straight with no thought of anything else. Im also a bi.l sexual female but most of my friends are straight

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
2 days ago

little house on the praire

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
2 days ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I'm most certainly not a little bit bi!

🌈🏳️‍🌈

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By *hickthighs25Woman
2 days ago

Stockton


"I'm most certainly not a little bit bi!

🌈🏳️‍🌈 "

No your not your transylvanian and fabulous 😘

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By *eeds fun guyMan
2 days ago

yorkshire

Yep

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
2 days ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"I'm most certainly not a little bit bi!

🌈🏳️‍🌈

No your not your transylvanian and fabulous 😘"

🏳️‍🌈🥳🏳️‍🌈

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By *ingergirl2000 OP   Woman
1 day ago

West Bridgford

Thanks for your thoughts. Don’t want to upset anyone or label anyone or acts. But curious since I met someone who secretly meets up with men. People know what they like, what they don’t like and what they fantasise or think about. Each to their own and happy Fabbing people

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By *urry BlokeMan
1 day ago

I've just watched a little amateur clip of two mates wanking in front of each other

One was up for more, but the other wasn't having it

That kinda added to the horn

Either way, it was 10 minutes we'll spent

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By *llgudfunMan
1 day ago

coventry

I've come to realise this. Happy to be open bi

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By *haneleviMan
1 day ago

Kidderminster


"I’d say i can be hetero-flexible if it’s in an MMF. Like im not attracted to men but if I was in a threeway with one, then i don’t mind some light stuff like a bit of touching. That’s about it though really.

Also sorry for the last two deleted posts, my keyboard was bugging out"

Id have to agree with this guy ! Long as everyone comfortable touching is fine

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By *ungfunfellaMan
1 day ago

Lincoln

Not sure it’s all lads are bi it’s more that most lads are open to trying something with a lad as it’s now more acceptable and not a huge deal n lads are more comfortable about doing it without it meaning they must be gay or don’t like women anymore…..I think that the desire was always there for guys just now they are more likely to act upon their feelings n also it’s way more accepted by people

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By *antsOffMan
1 day ago

Berks

When I first joined this site, I had men offering to suck me off and more.

I'm not anywhere near gay or bi.

Some of the guys got abusive when I said no. Me being a guy got all that, I'd hate to imagine what women have to put up with.

Thanks to a lovely someone who taught me the message filter options.

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By *azmar62Couple
1 day ago

Hinckley

We found that our sex life, although fantastic and completely healthy. We got hooked into bi play early in our relationship. You’d be surprised how much more freedom you have between the sheets. Not worrying if you have to bend over with defence mechanisms in place. Bi fun is awesome. Besides, what happens behind closed doors, stays behind closed doors.

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By *ealitybitesMan
1 day ago

Belfast


"What's the general consensus on straight women?

Are they all lying to themselves too like some of you seem to think or is it actually possible that there is some serious projection going on here?

Society’s attitude to two women is more accepting and it’s a turn on for most. For a man to admit he might like being with a man is more difficult. Certainly for men older than 30s. Younger generations are more open to stating what they like without fear of negative reactions. Ask a man if he would have sex with a man and their instant reaction is no. That’s my point, deep down they’ve thought about it, want it or tried it but won’t admit it publicly hence they’re on Fabguys. Is there a Fabgirls? Why not? "

My point is that being straight on fab is the only sexual preference that is constantly challenged by those who claim that people are only straight because they are afraid or narrow-minded.

Bisexual or gay people on fab are rightfully never asked to justify their choices.

Women are told here every day by couples that they don't know if they are bi if they haven't tried it or what harm could it do?

A straight man on fab when faced with others telling him that he really is bi is accused of protesting too much if he disagrees with the accusation.

Age has nothing to do with it. I have never once at any time in my life been curious about other men. I've never thought about it or considered trying it because I'm straight.

It's really that simple and my only issue with threads like these is that people don't seem to be able to accept that and want to tell me that I'm afraid to explore or wary of how I may be perceived.

Even this response will probably have someone reply to tell me I'm in the minority and that most men have had those thoughts at some stage.

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By *unydayMan
1 day ago

near

A lot

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By *ate234567Woman
1 day ago

maidstone


"There is no such thing as a lesbian or gay person. They are all bi.

The so called lesbians are gagging for cock and the gay men all love a sneaky bit of pussy.

Read that twice and think how stupid and insulting it sounds and then have another think about this thread. "

100%. On this site some men and couples say this to me that I must be Bi. I am not, I have female friends that is it. Do I want to sleep with them no, no desire.

Men on the other hand, yum

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By *ost SockMan
1 day ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I definitely think that some people are 100% straight.

The complicating factor for me is time. I think many 100% straight people understandably can’t imagine that changing. It does for so many people though, often very unexpectedly

I know myself I was 100% straight until sometime in my 40s. The thought had never crossed my mind. I well remember being in changing rooms and finding men rather repulsive (a strong word, I realise).

Iguess I’m saying you can be 100% straight, but assuming it’ll always be that way isn’t really something we can say

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By *r M Gray88Man
1 day ago

Morecambe

Definitely would dominate a sissy boy in MMF

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By *olin22Man
1 day ago

washington

I think all poeple are bi sum more than others enjoy i say while u can im bi so is gf

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By *pforfun56Man
1 day ago

sheffield


"Recently, I’ve come to the conclusion that just about all men are at least a little bi. I bet they’ve thought about it, wondered about how it feels, might want to try it, might have a play on their own with phallic toys but keep it under wraps and would never admit to it. I bet many of them are in heterosexual relationships too. What do you reckon? Be honest. I’m not saying you’re gay but you have wondered about it and a little intrigued. That’s all I’m saying "

You would be right, I chat to guys from couples profiles and 99% would enjoy cock play.

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By *an020279Man
1 day ago

Tamworth

In my experience if a straight guy is horny enough he will let you suck his cock ha ha!

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By *lkcoffeeMan
1 day ago

Greater London

Hmmmm, I’m 100% straight as die!

I would never be a part of mmf or the thought of having someone cock around me turns me off

Some people refers me as GREEDY

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By *omhardlyMan
1 day ago

Chester

Never been attracted to men but have enjoyed a fella wanking me off into the mouth of his wife

I’ve always had a kink for attractive Tgirls , but never tried

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
1 day ago

Cambs

I think the nature of people is to explore and experiment however straight is straight, I don't think you get to choose, it'd be awesome if you could! But I know men and women who are definitely 100% straight, my best friend (although female) wishes she wasn't but ya get the cards you're dealt ha ha

B x

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By *ihimbiherCouple
1 day ago

lightwater

Every man wants his women to be bi yet if a man is just a little bit Bi, he must be gay!

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By *atin braTV/TS
1 day ago

bristol

i guess i am but i only like dressers and trans and sissies

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By *iking 777Man
1 day ago

Aberdeen

Oh be rude not too

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By *ichard1000Man
1 day ago

Bridlington

Got to try these things

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By *allipygousMan
1 day ago

Leicester


"In my experience if a straight guy is horny enough he will let you suck his cock ha ha! "

Newsflash! The straight guy wasn't straight.

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By *allipygousMan
1 day ago

Leicester


"Never been attracted to men but have enjoyed a fella wanking me off into the mouth of his wife

I’ve always had a kink for attractive Tgirls , but never tried "

Tom, you're hardly straight.

*See what I did there?

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By *orthern StarsCouple
1 day ago

Durham

Mr is 100% straight. I definitely don't believe every man is a little bi at least.

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By *omRachCouple
1 day ago

Wirral

Definitely bi - with a few notches on my bedpost to prove it

Tom

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By *londebiguyMan
1 day ago

Southport


"Mr is 100% straight. I definitely don't believe every man is a little bi at least."

I've met and chatted to many couples who have said the same and have profiles with the same.

I've also had messages asking to meet separately from those couples make half .

Obviously, not everyone is bi, but far more than will admit to it are.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
1 day ago

Norwich


"

I would love to give an older guy head"

Says the 'Straight' guy

No wonder this place is so fucked up.

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By *olin22Man
1 day ago

washington

See alot of women on here think there hubby's bf totally straight think again poeple

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By *rill PhilMan
1 day ago

Crediton

I've never had any sexual interest in other men. I though about it once and the thought did less than nothing for me.

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
1 day ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders


"What's the general consensus on straight women?

Are they all lying to themselves too like some of you seem to think or is it actually possible that there is some serious projection going on here?

Society’s attitude to two women is more accepting and it’s a turn on for most. For a man to admit he might like being with a man is more difficult. Certainly for men older than 30s. Younger generations are more open to stating what they like without fear of negative reactions. Ask a man if he would have sex with a man and their instant reaction is no. That’s my point, deep down they’ve thought about it, want it or tried it but won’t admit it publicly hence they’re on Fabguys. Is there a Fabgirls? Why not?

My point is that being straight on fab is the only sexual preference that is constantly challenged by those who claim that people are only straight because they are afraid or narrow-minded.

Bisexual or gay people on fab are rightfully never asked to justify their choices.

Women are told here every day by couples that they don't know if they are bi if they haven't tried it or what harm could it do?

A straight man on fab when faced with others telling him that he really is bi is accused of protesting too much if he disagrees with the accusation.

Age has nothing to do with it. I have never once at any time in my life been curious about other men. I've never thought about it or considered trying it because I'm straight.

It's really that simple and my only issue with threads like these is that people don't seem to be able to accept that and want to tell me that I'm afraid to explore or wary of how I may be perceived.

Even this response will probably have someone reply to tell me I'm in the minority and that most men have had those thoughts at some stage.

"

Well said!

People see straight on your profile and think it's a challenge to try and 'turn you' - "Aren't you a little curious?" - no. "I bet you would if you were horny enough?"

I wish people would stop telling others how they should think or feel or what they should try

If someone tells you they're straight, believe it and move on

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By *avexxMan
1 day ago

cheshire


"What's the general consensus on straight women?

Are they all lying to themselves too like some of you seem to think or is it actually possible that there is some serious projection going on here?

Society’s attitude to two women is more accepting and it’s a turn on for most. For a man to admit he might like being with a man is more difficult. Certainly for men older than 30s. Younger generations are more open to stating what they like without fear of negative reactions. Ask a man if he would have sex with a man and their instant reaction is no. That’s my point, deep down they’ve thought about it, want it or tried it but won’t admit it publicly hence they’re on Fabguys. Is there a Fabgirls? Why not?

My point is that being straight on fab is the only sexual preference that is constantly challenged by those who claim that people are only straight because they are afraid or narrow-minded.

Bisexual or gay people on fab are rightfully never asked to justify their choices.

Women are told here every day by couples that they don't know if they are bi if they haven't tried it or what harm could it do?

A straight man on fab when faced with others telling him that he really is bi is accused of protesting too much if he disagrees with the accusation.

Age has nothing to do with it. I have never once at any time in my life been curious about other men. I've never thought about it or considered trying it because I'm straight.

It's really that simple and my only issue with threads like these is that people don't seem to be able to accept that and want to tell me that I'm afraid to explore or wary of how I may be perceived.

Even this response will probably have someone reply to tell me I'm in the minority and that most men have had those thoughts at some stage.

Well said!

People see straight on your profile and think it's a challenge to try and 'turn you' - "Aren't you a little curious?" - no. "I bet you would if you were horny enough?"

I wish people would stop telling others how they should think or feel or what they should try

If someone tells you they're straight, believe it and move on"

...this

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
1 day ago

Reading

I think all people are on the spectrum with few being totally straight or totally gay. But it seems society is less accepting of men being bi than women (thank you porn industry and pervasive thoughts that bi men are disease vectors).

I love being able to explore my bi side and wish everyone felt able to explore.

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
1 day ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"Recently, I’ve come to the conclusion that just about all men are at least a little bi. I bet they’ve thought about it, wondered about how it feels, might want to try it, might have a play on their own with phallic toys but keep it under wraps and would never admit to it. I bet many of them are in heterosexual relationships too. What do you reckon? Be honest. I’m not saying you’re gay but you have wondered about it and a little intrigued. That’s all I’m saying

If you take the standard statical bell curve on the premises of fully gay to fully straight, you will find that 90% of all individuals have a bit of bi in them only the extremes of the bell curve have individuals who are completely gay or straight everything else is bi, some might be 5% others 100%....

(This is where my mathematical slides would come in...)

If what you say is true, there should be a high probability that I am in daily contact with people who are gay or bi and yet I'm not and never have been.

I don't know anyone who identifies as anything other than straight. I've never worked with an openly gay or bi person and I don't know any members of the LGBTQ community.

I don't live in a bubble and I'm aware that 2 friends have gay siblings but I've never met them so can't claim to know them.

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and what you say is very true, because most do not act on the impulses.

Social conditioning and religious

faith over centuries have removed the natural impulse.

But you will find that it's not all gone.

It just takes a simple item commenting on how another person looks. That's the primal instinct of bi coming out.

Like I said most don't act on it.

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By *AYENCouple
1 day ago

Lincolnshire


"Every man wants his women to be bi yet if a man is just a little bit Bi, he must be gay!"

I always thought the word bi means both, as in someone who partakes in both gay and straight sex. So that would surely make them both gay and straight. K.

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By *issmorganWoman
1 day ago

Calderdale innit


"Every man wants his women to be bi yet if a man is just a little bit Bi, he must be gay!"

Thankfully mine doesn't want me to be bi,which is a good job really.

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By *electableicecreamMan
1 day ago

The West

It's bullshit sorry. No, not everyone is a little bit bi.

Saying they just haven't acted on the impulse is simply trying to prove something by the absence of evidence. Might as well be burning witches.

I have found that pushier gay and bi men use this trope as an excuse to transgress boundaries and make unwelcome advances.

In my case I slept with a few guys out of curiosity before I turned twenty. I thought men were rough and smelly and it didn't turn me on in the slightest. So asked and answered. I'm straight.

Plus I see enough dick in threesomes that if I wanted to engage with one I have ample opportunities.

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By *iddick27Man
1 day ago

Birmingham

Doubt

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By *allipygousMan
1 day ago

Leicester


"Recently, I’ve come to the conclusion that just about all men are at least a little bi. I bet they’ve thought about it, wondered about how it feels, might want to try it, might have a play on their own with phallic toys but keep it under wraps and would never admit to it. I bet many of them are in heterosexual relationships too. What do you reckon? Be honest. I’m not saying you’re gay but you have wondered about it and a little intrigued. That’s all I’m saying

If you take the standard statical bell curve on the premises of fully gay to fully straight, you will find that 90% of all individuals have a bit of bi in them only the extremes of the bell curve have individuals who are completely gay or straight everything else is bi, some might be 5% others 100%....

(This is where my mathematical slides would come in...)

If what you say is true, there should be a high probability that I am in daily contact with people who are gay or bi and yet I'm not and never have been.

I don't know anyone who identifies as anything other than straight. I've never worked with an openly gay or bi person and I don't know any members of the LGBTQ community.

I don't live in a bubble and I'm aware that 2 friends have gay siblings but I've never met them so can't claim to know them.

"

Realitybites, bi people are mainly undectable, we appear as normal human beings until confronted by the genitalia of our own sex, but I find it hard to believe in your 60 years on earth you've never met someone where your gaydar hasn't sounded in your head like a klaxon?

Mind you, I know someone who has a gay son (he has a boyfriend who he lives with) and he's as camp as a row of pink tents but she can't see it. Maybe you're like that, gay/bi blind 🤷🏾‍♂️

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By *ootyhunter69Man
1 day ago

bushey


"Recently, I’ve come to the conclusion that just about all men are at least a little bi. I bet they’ve thought about it, wondered about how it feels, might want to try it, might have a play on their own with phallic toys but keep it under wraps and would never admit to it. I bet many of them are in heterosexual relationships too. What do you reckon? Be honest. I’m not saying you’re gay but you have wondered about it and a little intrigued. That’s all I’m saying "

Just abit

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By *eorgesdad69Man
1 day ago

Long Eaton

I gave into my gay leanings at around 50 and now pretty much exclusively have male lovers and the majority of them are married and come to me to satisfy their oral pleasures some want to fuck me but it’s mainly oral xx

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By *underlandfellaMan
1 day ago

sunderland

Way past a little bit

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By *obbsCDMan
1 day ago

Truro

It was like an itch I'd never scratched. When I did I really enjoyed it.

Still love sex with women as well.

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By *ealitybitesMan
1 day ago

Belfast


"Recently, I’ve come to the conclusion that just about all men are at least a little bi. I bet they’ve thought about it, wondered about how it feels, might want to try it, might have a play on their own with phallic toys but keep it under wraps and would never admit to it. I bet many of them are in heterosexual relationships too. What do you reckon? Be honest. I’m not saying you’re gay but you have wondered about it and a little intrigued. That’s all I’m saying

If you take the standard statical bell curve on the premises of fully gay to fully straight, you will find that 90% of all individuals have a bit of bi in them only the extremes of the bell curve have individuals who are completely gay or straight everything else is bi, some might be 5% others 100%....

(This is where my mathematical slides would come in...)

If what you say is true, there should be a high probability that I am in daily contact with people who are gay or bi and yet I'm not and never have been.

I don't know anyone who identifies as anything other than straight. I've never worked with an openly gay or bi person and I don't know any members of the LGBTQ community.

I don't live in a bubble and I'm aware that 2 friends have gay siblings but I've never met them so can't claim to know them.

Realitybites, bi people are mainly undectable, we appear as normal human beings until confronted by the genitalia of our own sex, but I find it hard to believe in your 60 years on earth you've never met someone where your gaydar hasn't sounded in your head like a klaxon?

Mind you, I know someone who has a gay son (he has a boyfriend who he lives with) and he's as camp as a row of pink tents but she can't see it. Maybe you're like that, gay/bi blind 🤷🏾‍♂️"

I've obviously met people through work etc that are gay or bi and some of those have been extremely camp but I don't know any of them.

I was speaking about those I actually know within family or friendship circles.

There is genuinely no-one that openly identifies as gay or bi. Beyond that I can't say with certainty but my point was that the law of averages would mean that if percentages are as high as claimed then I should know some who are not straight and yet I don't.

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By *pen to offers!Man
1 day ago

Carlisle

5 years ago I’d have considered myself 100% straight, but I was involved in a mmmf meet and watched the guys playing whilst the lady was riding me and it made me curious from then on.

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By *ryton 123TV/TS
24 hours ago

Chatham

Im not attracted to men full stop. But love to wank and suck there focks.

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By *ilverfox for youMan
24 hours ago

Hull

Don mind someone sucking me now and then when I’m desperate and can’t find a woman !!

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By *allipygousMan
22 hours ago

Leicester


"Recently, I’ve come to the conclusion that just about all men are at least a little bi. I bet they’ve thought about it, wondered about how it feels, might want to try it, might have a play on their own with phallic toys but keep it under wraps and would never admit to it. I bet many of them are in heterosexual relationships too. What do you reckon? Be honest. I’m not saying you’re gay but you have wondered about it and a little intrigued. That’s all I’m saying

If you take the standard statical bell curve on the premises of fully gay to fully straight, you will find that 90% of all individuals have a bit of bi in them only the extremes of the bell curve have individuals who are completely gay or straight everything else is bi, some might be 5% others 100%....

(This is where my mathematical slides would come in...)

If what you say is true, there should be a high probability that I am in daily contact with people who are gay or bi and yet I'm not and never have been.

I don't know anyone who identifies as anything other than straight. I've never worked with an openly gay or bi person and I don't know any members of the LGBTQ community.

I don't live in a bubble and I'm aware that 2 friends have gay siblings but I've never met them so can't claim to know them.

Realitybites, bi people are mainly undectable, we appear as normal human beings until confronted by the genitalia of our own sex, but I find it hard to believe in your 60 years on earth you've never met someone where your gaydar hasn't sounded in your head like a klaxon?

Mind you, I know someone who has a gay son (he has a boyfriend who he lives with) and he's as camp as a row of pink tents but she can't see it. Maybe you're like that, gay/bi blind 🤷🏾‍♂️

I've obviously met people through work etc that are gay or bi and some of those have been extremely camp but I don't know any of them.

I was speaking about those I actually know within family or friendship circles.

There is genuinely no-one that openly identifies as gay or bi. Beyond that I can't say with certainty but my point was that the law of averages would mean that if percentages are as high as claimed then I should know some who are not straight and yet I don't. "

Ah, I understand what you're saying now.

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By *iger3Couple
18 hours ago

Dunstable

We both like Bi play

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By *igboobstCouple
18 hours ago

barrow

Being honest im worked as straight but I have sucked a cock but I don't fancy guys just in the heat of the moment I will consider and have done reached for a cock and wrapped my lips round it which leaves me confused rather van curious in my opinion but I dunno

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By *Wood82Man
18 hours ago

rotherham

Guilty here

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By *ature male OldhamMan
18 hours ago

Royton nr Oldham

Hands up...I'm guilty 🖐️

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By *ony 529Man
9 hours ago

coventry


"Being honest im worked as straight but I have sucked a cock but I don't fancy guys just in the heat of the moment I will consider and have done reached for a cock and wrapped my lips round it which leaves me confused rather van curious in my opinion but I dunno "

Yes, exactly the same. I’m a straight guy in the normal world, but once I slip into the wife’s stuff, anything could happen.

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By *ackmeoviMan
9 hours ago

Wales

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By *ackmeoviMan
9 hours ago

Wales


"Being honest im worked as straight but I have sucked a cock but I don't fancy guys just in the heat of the moment I will consider and have done reached for a cock and wrapped my lips round it which leaves me confused rather van curious in my opinion but I dunno

Yes, exactly the same. I’m a straight guy in the normal world, but once I slip into the wife’s stuff, anything could happen. "

so true!

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By *arvest84Man
9 hours ago

brigg

yes , i am oraly bi only

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By *ickawitchCouple
9 hours ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Recently, I’ve come to the conclusion that just about all men are at least a little bi. I bet they’ve thought about it, wondered about how it feels, might want to try it, might have a play on their own with phallic toys but keep it under wraps and would never admit to it. I bet many of them are in heterosexual relationships too. What do you reckon? Be honest. I’m not saying you’re gay but you have wondered about it and a little intrigued. That’s all I’m saying "

I bet you wouldn’t be surprised at the amount of “straight” guys offering to do me the “honour” of letting me suck their cock if it gives them access to my wife.

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
9 hours ago

Bristol

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