FabSwingers.com forum: Misconceptions

By *one_maverick OP Man
9 weeks ago

Leeds/Bradford

Take away the obvious that everyone is thinking (it's a sex site... I know it's much more than that btw).

What misconceptions do you think that people have about the swinging scene?

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Mayfair

Bookmarking this. I'm not a swinger but I'm keen to hear what other people have to say.

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By *one_maverick OP Man
9 weeks ago

Leeds/Bradford

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By *avtrophyMan
9 weeks ago

Bourne End

I think that people presume that all swingers fuck all other swingers without the need for connecting on another level

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By *ockwhispererCouple
9 weeks ago

Southampton

That you dont love eachother or are bored of eachother

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Chard

Limiting my comment to experience of this site, that if I am online I must be gagging for it. Sometimes I am, sometimes I am waiting for dinner to finish cooking!

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

A dab specific misconception is that us ladies on here have endless available time to service all the horny men on here LOL and have no standards.

I also think that there is a misconception that every lady on the scene is bi and wants to play with other ladies.

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By *oodmessMan
9 weeks ago

yumsville

That everyone wants to make content.

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By *oodmessMan
9 weeks ago

yumsville

That everyone is a 10/10 and comes with the best of fucking skills.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
9 weeks ago

Reading

That we all fuck on first meeting.

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By *ndymac888Man
9 weeks ago

Dumbarton

"That everyone wants to make content. "

I’ve not been asked for this but would be totally into it 😂

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By *one_maverick OP Man
9 weeks ago

Leeds/Bradford

One that I'll throw in because I get a lot of messages about it... All men are curious about men or will just close their eyes and pretend it's a woman

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By *oodmessMan
9 weeks ago

yumsville

"That everyone wants to make content.

I’ve not been asked for this but would be totally into it 😂"

Everyone seems to have a phone out

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
9 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

That swingers are liberal minded and none judgmental

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By *and12Couple
9 weeks ago

flint

That because we are on here im going to to have sex with everyone that messaged us and the hubby doesn't mind if I do

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

East Sussex

All women who are swingers are bi.

Oral sex is the only foreplay in swinging.

Everyone has sexual health checks.

All men take Viagra

All women want huge cocks, gym fit men and hours of penetration

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

East Sussex

"That swingers are liberal minded and none judgmental "

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *iss DevilWoman
9 weeks ago

Bedford

That every woman on here is submissive and would do anything for a cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Another is that women enjoy their pussy being licked like a thirsty camel for hours on end whilst being fingered like a jackhammer.

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By *ootnootboopCouple
9 weeks ago

Cheshire

"Another is that women enjoy their pussy being licked like a thirsty camel for hours on end whilst being fingered like a jackhammer. "

Beautiful 😂😂

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By *emonbuttercreamWoman
9 weeks ago

Dublin

You shouldn't ever tell a woman what to do with her body. 💓

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By *andadbodMan
9 weeks ago

Liverpool

That people will have sex with absolutely anyone with no questions asked.

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By *orphia2003Woman
9 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

That a social = fuck. Couldn't be further from the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

That everyone in the swinging scene is dirty and riddled with STI’s; in my experience it couldn’t be further from the truth.

Most are cleaner and get tested way more often than a lot of non- swingers who have never been tested!

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

That no effort is needed. That one word sentences are enough. That every couple is a cuckold dynamic.

This is mainly coming from past experience with a couples profile but as a single male it'd have to be that lots of messages aren't even looked at. I get why but it still sucks.

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By *avenNightsMan
9 weeks ago

Canvey Island

That STI’s/STD’s are rampant.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
9 weeks ago

Ends

That people will be free spirited, woke and open minded.

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By *one_maverick OP Man
9 weeks ago

Leeds/Bradford

One I'd like to throw in... Not all singles profiles are cheating on their partners just because they cannot accommodate.

This is both male and female profiles.

Another one is,

Every single male will fuck anything that gets wet

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

"One I'd like to throw in... Not all singles profiles are cheating on their partners just because they cannot accommodate.

This is both male and female profiles.

Another one is,

Every single male will fuck anything that gets wet"

True OP, that’s pretty harsh on men, they usually fuck anything that is dry too! X

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By *exyScientistsCouple
9 weeks ago

Castlebar

That the Man of a couples profile is "in charge" and makes the decisions on who/when/where the wife meets

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By *one_maverick OP Man
9 weeks ago

Leeds/Bradford

A few I've come across talking to people is... That the male is just accepting his wife is bored or he's doing it just to please her so she doesn't leave him. That it's a last ditch attempt to save the relationship.

Or that the male of the group is a door mat and the female runs the relationship and he's just a submissive guy

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By *rs GGWoman
9 weeks ago

Up North

"Take away the obvious that everyone is thinking (it's a sex site... I know it's much more than that btw).

What misconceptions do you think that people have about the swinging scene?"

That people have no barriers or limits. Just up for everything, which isn't the case.

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By *JB1954Man
9 weeks ago

Reading

Once over a ‘ Fab’ age then . Should not be meeting .

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

That all it takes to become a 'swinger' is to set up an online profile on a swingers site, throw in the word 'genuine', pop a couple of nude photos up and hey presto....you're guaranteed people will be interested in you and you'll be meeting in no time at all.

Zero effort required.

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By *one_maverick OP Man
9 weeks ago

Leeds/Bradford

"That all it takes to become a 'swinger' is to set up an online profile on a swingers site, throw in the word 'genuine', pop a couple of nude photos up and hey presto....you're guaranteed people will be interested in you and you'll be meeting in no time at all.

Zero effort required. "

You mean to say that not everyone on here are sex crazed nymphos?

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By *rookedsmileMan
9 weeks ago

Derbyshire

That it's open minded.

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By *ools1964Man
9 weeks ago

Swadlincote

That it's a male driven thing, it's not... really it's not, the women want orgasyms, trust me dude ok... the WOMEN WANT ORGASYMS.

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