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By *oodtimer43 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Well when I first started out here I was given some advice

I’m now wondering what advice is the worst you’ve had maybe what’s the best advice you can give anyone

The messages I have had off people for a first message is a complete turn off but one or 3 have kept me on my toes 🙂

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By *ealitybitesMan
6 weeks ago

Belfast

The worst advice was from a couple of women instructing me who to avoid and listing all the reasons for doing so.

I didn't take the advice because the people offering it clearly had an agenda.

That has been since been proven.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
6 weeks ago

Ends

Try going to an interracial event.

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By *oodtimer43 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Shocking behaviour

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By *vaRoseWoman
6 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Gossips with an agenda about certain members

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By *sStephenPickleMan
6 weeks ago

Ends


"Gossips with an agenda about certain members"

LOL wow.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

6 weeks ago

East Sussex

I've had quite a lot of advice on various questions I've asked in the forum but as far as fab goes nobody has given me any.

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
6 weeks ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders


"The worst advice was from a couple of women instructing me who to avoid and listing all the reasons for doing so.

I didn't take the advice because the people offering it clearly had an agenda.

That has been since been proven."

Sounds familiar

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By *ealitybitesMan
6 weeks ago

Belfast


"The worst advice was from a couple of women instructing me who to avoid and listing all the reasons for doing so.

I didn't take the advice because the people offering it clearly had an agenda.

That has been since been proven.

Sounds familiar "

What I found funny was that the women giving the advice were prolific forum users and they were very tight in public with those they were warning me about.

They used words like, hideous, deranged, dangerous, monstrous, unhinged, bipolar and even suggested the other women should have their children taken away.

Strangely though when they themselves all met up, they were lovely and stunning and what fab is all about!

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
6 weeks ago

North West

The random person who suggested I go on a diet. I won't be taking that advice thank you.

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By *entleman JayMan
6 weeks ago

Wakefield

I’ve had some good advice from a couple who are experienced at visiting PDI and Cap. I’m going to take it.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

That I should cut my hair off

mmm.. ok..

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Chard

I have had some really helpful advice from various members on topics related to crossdressing! Probably the worst tip was, send her a cock pic 🤣

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
6 weeks ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders


"The worst advice was from a couple of women instructing me who to avoid and listing all the reasons for doing so.

I didn't take the advice because the people offering it clearly had an agenda.

That has been since been proven.

Sounds familiar

What I found funny was that the women giving the advice were prolific forum users and they were very tight in public with those they were warning me about.

They used words like, hideous, deranged, dangerous, monstrous, unhinged, bipolar and even suggested the other women should have their children taken away.

Strangely though when they themselves all met up, they were lovely and stunning and what fab is all about!

"

Yep, I have seen similar happen lol

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
6 weeks ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders


"That I should cut my hair off

mmm.. ok.."

Hope you told them to 'fuff off'

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By *verageHoesCouple
6 weeks ago

Leeds

That I should really consider dying my grey hair as it would "knock years off" me. I hadn't invited hair or beauty advice.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
6 weeks ago

North West


"That I should really consider dying my grey hair as it would "knock years off" me. I hadn't invited hair or beauty advice."

Eurgh. Your hair is gorgeous! 🤯

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
6 weeks ago

Up North

That my pics are too tame. Why you’d go to the effort of randomly messaging someone that I have no idea. 😂

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By *oodtimer43 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"That I should really consider dying my grey hair as it would "knock years off" me. I hadn't invited hair or beauty advice."

What a freak

Who invited opinions they came to you for what they already liked.

They invited you to kick them where the sun doesn’t shine.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

That I shouldn’t be on here.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

6 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Worst advice?

'Try clubs and socials'.

It's cost me a fucking fortune over the last 17 years......very much worth it....but my bank balance hates me. 🤦‍♂️😂😂

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By *verageHoesCouple
6 weeks ago

Leeds


"That I should really consider dying my grey hair as it would "knock years off" me. I hadn't invited hair or beauty advice.

What a freak

Who invited opinions they came to you for what they already liked.

They invited you to kick them where the sun doesn’t shine.

"

They hadn't messaged, it was on a thread. Very public!

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By *verageHoesCouple
6 weeks ago

Leeds


"That I should really consider dying my grey hair as it would "knock years off" me. I hadn't invited hair or beauty advice.

Eurgh. Your hair is gorgeous! 🤯"

Thank you ❤️

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago


"That I should cut my hair off

mmm.. ok..

Hope you told them to 'fuff off' "

👌 I tend to ignore this type of thing

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By *ir tootMan
6 weeks ago

Raccoon city


"That I should cut my hair off

mmm.. ok.."

I had this too, I don't know why people feel the need to do this.

Your hair is awsome man!

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By *ansoffateMan
6 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

That this isn't a good place to find relationships. Terrible advice.

Best advice I can give hmmm... swerve the drama.

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6 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago


"That I should cut my hair off

mmm.. ok..

I had this too, I don't know why people feel the need to do this.

Your hair is awsome man!"

Thanks🙂

It's not that I'd never do it.

I've shaved my head, had normal short hair..attempted to dye it blonde when it was short..went tangerine colour instead.

I've tried it all.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
6 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

That I’m not actually kinkster and “should try harder”

I laughed. A lot

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By *ealitybitesMan
6 weeks ago

Belfast

I've had introductory messages from strangers telling me to lose the beard or I wouldn't get to fuck them.

I've had others telling me I'm too old and too straight to have any success here but if I agreed to play bi they would consider adding me to their to-do list. Their exact words, not mine.

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By *BWSugar91Woman
6 weeks ago

Pontefract

I once had a guy who wouldn't leave. Posted here on suggestions on how to make him leave and people were horrible to me haha

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By *ay6eeMan
6 weeks ago

South Wales

Take down the pic of you in uniform.

It's a pretty common uniform around here and the pic was anonymised... but they did a good job of inciting paranoia so I made it private.

Unsure if good advice or someone trying to thin the field. 🤷🏻‍♂️

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
6 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

don't get old, your penis will shrink.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
6 weeks ago

Manchester

I've had plenty of unsolicited "advice" about my appearance and weight on here over the years. Apparently being fat makes you unfuckable and you don't belong on a site like this, who knew.

My advice is ignore 99% of the advice you receive on here

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By *BWSugar91Woman
6 weeks ago

Pontefract


"I've had plenty of unsolicited "advice" about my appearance and weight on here over the years. Apparently being fat makes you unfuckable and you don't belong on a site like this, who knew.

My advice is ignore 99% of the advice you receive on here "

Always the same. Usually when you politely decline haha

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By *ittlebirdWoman
6 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"don't get old, your penis will shrink."

How’s that working out for you?

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By *ariaxxxxWoman
6 weeks ago

London/Kent

I was advised to pay heed to usernames & he was correct 👍✌️

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By *haiababeWoman
6 weeks ago

North devon

I was told that all guys compare the girls behind there backs and that i would be better off sticking to just one fuck buddy (and he meant him)

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