FabSwingers.com forum: Most common ways to say

By *aron Van Winkle OP Man
10 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

What’s the best excuse you’ve had when you’ve been blown out?

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By *ilverfox for youMan
10 weeks ago

Hull

Worst is an instant block rather than a no thank you !!

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By *enelope2UWoman
10 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Just ghost no reply

no show

no communication...

they just vanish

Yet don't block so still probably jacking off in silence

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By *enelope2UWoman
10 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

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By *enelope2UWoman
10 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

"Worst is an instant block rather than a no thank you !! "

I insta block those that don't read profiles and or are vile in a first message.. but if they read a profile they'd know why they would be blocked

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
10 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Uh.

The only time I remember it happening it recent years was that his dad was dying and he needed to go take care of that 💜

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Best excuse I ever got was..

"I can't meet you as planned because I have just got back from seeing my mum and I have left my phone there so have to go back to get it. She lives 10O miles away" (true story)

2nd best was for a second sex meet.

"I am going on holiday to France now for 3 weeks, so have to cancel "

I saw the him driving a HPC bus along the NDR when he was meant to be on holiday, so was just an excuse.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
10 weeks ago

Next Door

He was staying down south with family and he was drive back home, up north.

Can't meet today, as my brother wants a lift back as well.

But later that day, he posts a meet up for that afternoon and then has a veri saying what a lovely afternoon it was .

🤷‍♀️

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By *aron Van Winkle OP Man
10 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

Does anyone have a go-to when politely letting someone down gently?

Or even a copy and pasted rejection?

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By *viatrixWoman
10 weeks ago

Redhill

Not a copy-paste, but I say “it is going to be a no, but thanks for your nice message. Happy Fabbing”

Obviously this is only sent to people who have sent a nice message. The FAF at your place u av condoms luv or we go bareback get fuck all and blocked.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
10 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

Your not my type 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *ools and the brainCouple
10 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

We had a couple who we'd arranged a social meet message to say they couldn't make it as their daughter was unwell.

About an hour later they put up a status looking for a meet as they'd been let down.

" Ouch"

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
10 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Does anyone have a go-to when politely letting someone down gently?

Or even a copy and pasted rejection?

A straight no thanks, I'm no longer interested does the job for me.

I don't want to lie or give them something to try and convince me about. Just a simple no 💜

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
10 weeks ago

Altrincham

"Most common ways to say - no thank you. - What’s the best excuse you’ve had when you’ve been blown out?

I've never been blown out dharlink

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By *NormalMan01Man
10 weeks ago

Harrogate

"Worst is an instant block rather than a no thank you !! "

This happens far too frequently

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By *EAT..85Woman
10 weeks ago

Nottingham

That they were struggling a little with life and were going to take a three month break in (china/Australia/can't remember). They ran their own local business, so definitely not a thing

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
10 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).

"Does anyone have a go-to when politely letting someone down gently?

Or even a copy and pasted rejection?

I say

"Not for me thanks, good luck with your fab adventures".

I deliberately emphasise it's about me not a reflection on the sender.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
10 weeks ago

Ends

"Does anyone have a go-to when politely letting someone down gently?

Or even a copy and pasted rejection?

I say

"Not for me thanks, good luck with your fab adventures".

I deliberately emphasise it's about me not a reflection on the sender.

And thank you because I feel better knowing that

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By *hortieWoman
10 weeks ago

Northampton

My most memorable was at least a reply of 'oh no, not for me thank you' after he saw my friends only pics and instantly blocked me 😂

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"Worst is an instant block rather than a no thank you !! "

I don't actually mind that 🤷🏻‍♂️

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
10 weeks ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders

I've had a couple of corkers.

One cancelled because 'he was just about to leave the house when his elderly neighbour collared him and asked if he could help him move his living room furniture around'

The other I was due to go to a club event with, he messaged as I getting ready to say 'he was now going with someone else, might see me in there'

Karma was kind, he messaged an hour later to say 'she'd stood him up, so he could come now'

Told him to 'fuck right orf, I was nobody's booby prize

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By *oodtimer43Man
10 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Love this response fair play to you

He made you an option and was himself the last in line

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By *vaRoseWoman
10 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

The funniest was you look like my sister 🤣

Another was telling me I look like Edna mode 🤣🤣🤣

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
10 weeks ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders

"Love this response fair play to you

He made you an option and was himself the last in line "

It was the 'oh well, if you change your mind because I'm at a loss now'

I said 'oh well, thats not my problem'

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
10 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).

"Does anyone have a go-to when politely letting someone down gently?

Or even a copy and pasted rejection?

I say

"Not for me thanks, good luck with your fab adventures".

I deliberately emphasise it's about me not a reflection on the sender.

And thank you because I feel better knowing that"

Really ?

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By *inger_SnapWoman
10 weeks ago

Hampshire

A broken arm, complete with a photo of the x-ray.

No, I didn't believe him.

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By *hunky GentMan
10 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

The most popular one I get is:

Fuck off fatty.

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By *avtrophyMan
10 weeks ago

Bourne End

Recently had a reply after revealing a face pic on another site that read. So handsome but not my type which I thought was great… bullshit obviously but nicely done

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By *tr8MrEMan
10 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

"The most popular one I get is:

Fuck off fatty.

Close to mine..."no chance, fuck off ugly"

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By *aron Van Winkle OP Man
10 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

"The most popular one I get is:

Fuck off fatty.

Close to mine..."no chance, fuck off ugly""

I wish they’d make thing clearer for us? 🤷‍♂️

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By *hunky GentMan
10 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

"The most popular one I get is:

Fuck off fatty.

Close to mine..."no chance, fuck off ugly"

I wish they’d make thing clearer for us? 🤷‍♂️"

Innit bruvs

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By *orphia2003Woman
9 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Had to work late and phone ran out of juice.

Car wouldn't start. Saw car in club car park later.

Friend had asked him to attend event instead. She cancelled on him, asked to come with me as' it's really expensive for single man'. Oh dear, fuck off!!!

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
9 weeks ago

Niche

If I've been chatting and the chat fades out or if we share face pics and there's no click or chemistry?

I'll get really creative and say something like.

'Hey, I've enjoyed chatting with you but I'm just not getting any real chemistry here so it's probably best to leave things here. Can't be helped. Take care!'

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By *aron Van Winkle OP Man
9 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

"If I've been chatting and the chat fades out or if we share face pics and there's no click or chemistry?

I'll get really creative and say something like.

'Hey, I've enjoyed chatting with you but I'm just not getting any real chemistry here so it's probably best to leave things here. Can't be helped. Take care!'"

Sure, but can I still look at your legs for a bit?

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
9 weeks ago

Niche

"If I've been chatting and the chat fades out or if we share face pics and there's no click or chemistry?

I'll get really creative and say something like.

'Hey, I've enjoyed chatting with you but I'm just not getting any real chemistry here so it's probably best to leave things here. Can't be helped. Take care!'

Sure, but can I still look at your legs for a bit? "

Well sure! Looking is free 😎

Just don't make it weird 🤪🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Fuck. Off

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By *ir tootMan
9 weeks ago

Raccoon city

"Fuck. Off"
🤣

Something about the word fuck hits different huh.

You really feel it.

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
9 weeks ago

Bristol

"Fuck. Off 🤣

Something about the word fuck hits different huh.

You really feel it."

That’s “Fuck. On” you’re thinking about

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
9 weeks ago

Niche

"Fuck. Off"

Punctuation is everything 😍

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I usually try to be polite if we've chatted because sometimes all seems well and then they'll send messages that just give me the ick ..... so I say thanks don't wish to take things further hope they find what they are looking for.

I listen to my instincts and so if the ick is triggered more than once it's a polite no thanks.

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By *ir tootMan
9 weeks ago

Raccoon city

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
9 weeks ago

Niche

Not just a 'fuck off'

It's a 'fuck right the way off to the ends of fuck-off-ery then fuck off some more!'

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