FabSwingers.com forum: Are you free now?

By *obilebottom OP Man
10 weeks ago

All over

How often do you get a message like that?

Anyway, this is a little experiment to test if this really works that I would like to conduct again with your help please.

If you were asked that very same question right now, what would your answer be? Just YES or NO please.

(You can assume it was from someone you would not mind meeting and had an hour max to sort yourself out)

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By *ou345Woman
10 weeks ago

somewhere out there

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By *viatrixWoman
10 weeks ago

Redhill

Yes 👀

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By *55 ManMan
10 weeks ago

Castlerea

Yes

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By *he Flat CapsCouple
10 weeks ago

Pontypool

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By *ongandharderMan
10 weeks ago

Rotherham

No but I would want to be

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By *y serendipityCouple
10 weeks ago

Warrington

Nope

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By *WANDTGCouple
10 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

No, I'm trying to earn a living !

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By *issmorganWoman
10 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Nope, only time would be with someone I know well and have met before.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
10 weeks ago

Chatham

No.

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By *EAT..85Woman
10 weeks ago

Nottingham

Nope. I'm on a train.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
10 weeks ago

Ends

"Nope. I'm on a train. "

See you soon 🫶🏾

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By *sStephenPickleMan
10 weeks ago

Ends

No.

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Mayfair

Nø.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

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By *ndymac888Man
10 weeks ago

Dumbarton

Yes

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By *rymedownunderMan
10 weeks ago

London/Australia

Yes. But in in Australia so chances of a meet right now on here are minimal!

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By *infullyObedientWoman
10 weeks ago

Woodley

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By *gent CoulsonMan
10 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Currently yes

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
10 weeks ago

Voldsøy

No. 🙅‍♀️

When the filters are open, we'll get several before they're closed again. A lot more if a new picture/status is posted.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
10 weeks ago

Ends

"No. 🙅‍♀️

When the filters are open, we'll get several before they're closed again. A lot more if a new picture/status is posted."

💔

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By *vaRoseWoman
10 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

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By *ickshawedCouple
10 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Free? No, I'm very expensive

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
10 weeks ago

Voldsøy

"No. 🙅‍♀️

When the filters are open, we'll get several before they're closed again. A lot more if a new picture/status is posted.

💔"

😢

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
10 weeks ago

Basingstoke

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By *sStephenPickleMan
10 weeks ago

Ends

"Free? No, I'm very expensive "
how much

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By *enegadeMMan
10 weeks ago

Witney

Does this count for a spontaneous social ‘grab a coffee and a chat kind of thing’ or do you mean …let’s just have a quickie kind of meet now?

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By *ickshawedCouple
10 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"Free? No, I'm very expensive

how much "

A family sized bag of tangfastics and whatever's down the back of your sofa

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By *sStephenPickleMan
10 weeks ago

Ends

"Free? No, I'm very expensive

how much

A family sized bag of tangfastics and whatever's down the back of your sofa "

Damn. That is pricey.

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By *illan-KillashMan
10 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

Today, no. I've got a seminar tonight I need to prep for.

Any other day, maybe........

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By *randMrsShebaCouple
10 weeks ago

Birmingham

Yeh I'm just going to go to Leeds to meet a cocaine addict at 1am after getting a message at 11pm.

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By *rymedownunderMan
10 weeks ago

London/Australia

"Free? No, I'm very expensive

how much

A family sized bag of tangfastics and whatever's down the back of your sofa "

Plus the bottle of lambrini!

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By *eneralKenobiMan
10 weeks ago

North Angus

Don’t get those messages since I stopped lads from messaging

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By *TRAY-CATMan
10 weeks ago

Sorry can't do right now , but message back and see what we can arrange ..

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By *r.ZeusMan
10 weeks ago

Basgiath War College

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
10 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

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By *hat.coupleCouple
10 weeks ago

Kent

We are both free now, rarely have plans these days

Mrs x

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By *ildTimes.Man
10 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

No chance 🥪

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
10 weeks ago

Bristol

I’m free yes! Just probably not for you…

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Nowhere

It takes me two hours just to be remotely presentable as my sissy alter ego so it's always an impossibility

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By *ust want fun 888Man
10 weeks ago

nearby

Yeah

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By *obilebottom OP Man
10 weeks ago

All over

"I’m free yes! Just probably not for you…"

Just double checking this is what you would tell them, whoever they were. One assumes that's what you meant

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By *eo PublicMan
10 weeks ago

Lincoln

Given I'm at work it's a no. On the off chance the message came in on a rare occasion when I really was free then yes.

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By *adgeyMan
10 weeks ago

Bingley

Yep as per

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By *heWanderer100Man
10 weeks ago

benfleet

At present, yes, but only for a social.

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By *avenNightsMan
10 weeks ago

Canvey Island

Yep - from guys

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By *ootnootboopCouple
10 weeks ago

Cheshire

For a stranger...... Absolutely no chance.

For someone we already know... Possibly

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By *aniel0904Man
10 weeks ago

darlington

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Yes

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By *asty tatsyMan
10 weeks ago

london

If it was someone I had been speaking with or met before yes

Otherwise no

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
10 weeks ago

Bristol

"I’m free yes! Just probably not for you…

Just double checking this is what you would tell them, whoever they were. One assumes that's what you meant "

I reread the opening post, I’d missed that it could be from anyone initially, my answer was based on the assumption it was a totally out of the blue message! It’s subjective isn’t it? It’s dependant on who sends it.. if it’s someone I know and was tempted to meet, perhaps. From a random stranger? Well if I have the time to open and read the message then yea, I’m obviously free, but not to meet them. Hope that clears it up

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10 weeks ago

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By *obilebottom OP Man
10 weeks ago

All over

"I’m free yes! Just probably not for you…

Just double checking this is what you would tell them, whoever they were. One assumes that's what you meant

I am sure they whoever they might have been, should be clear about it now and thanks gor clarifying it for them

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By *obilebottom OP Man
10 weeks ago

All over

Hard to be exact as some answers not precise enough but so far it looks statistically 50/50

So obviously that sort of approach does work for some but keep posting as the bigger the sample the more accurate the results of the survey

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
10 weeks ago

Reading

No and even if I were the answer would still be no. I never do last minute plans.

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
10 weeks ago

Bristol

"Hard to be exact as some answers not precise enough but so far it looks statistically 50/50

So obviously that sort of approach does work for some but keep posting as the bigger the sample the more accurate the results of the survey

I think the statistic might be skewed, the message frequency would be predominantly sent by men, so that should be taken into account

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By *ittlebirdWoman
10 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

No. Always no

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By *obilebottom OP Man
10 weeks ago

All over

"Hard to be exact as some answers not precise enough but so far it looks statistically 50/50

So obviously that sort of approach does work for some but keep posting as the bigger the sample the more accurate the results of the survey

I think the statistic might be skewed, the message frequency would be predominantly sent by men, so that should be taken into account "

Ok, thanks for your imput

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
10 weeks ago

Bristol

"Hard to be exact as some answers not precise enough but so far it looks statistically 50/50

So obviously that sort of approach does work for some but keep posting as the bigger the sample the more accurate the results of the survey

I think the statistic might be skewed, the message frequency would be predominantly sent by men, so that should be taken into account

Ok, thanks for your imput"

Anytime OP, hope that helps

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
10 weeks ago

Next Door

No and it's always a no to strangers. Maybe a yes, if we've met previous

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By *obilebottom OP Man
10 weeks ago

All over

"Hard to be exact as some answers not precise enough but so far it looks statistically 50/50

So obviously that sort of approach does work for some but keep posting as the bigger the sample the more accurate the results of the survey

I think the statistic might be skewed, the message frequency would be predominantly sent by men, so that should be taken into account

Ok, thanks for your imput

Anytime OP, hope that helps

Not particularly but thanks nevertheless

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By *hunky GentMan
10 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

I had 2 this week.

Very unusual for me.

But I had to decline.

Oh bugger.

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By *obilebottom OP Man
10 weeks ago

All over

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By *obilebottom OP Man
10 weeks ago

All over

"I had 2 this week.

Very unusual for me.

But I had to decline.

Oh bugger.

Were you tempted though?

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By *hunky GentMan
10 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

"I had 2 this week.

Very unusual for me.

But I had to decline.

Oh bugger.

Were you tempted though?

Both times, but I'd already had some drinks for my birthday and couldn't drive.

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By *obilebottom OP Man
10 weeks ago

All over

"I had 2 this week.

Very unusual for me.

But I had to decline.

Oh bugger.

Were you tempted though?

Both times, but I'd already had some drinks for my birthday and couldn't drive.

I wi be recording that as a yes then

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
10 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Once or twice a day usually

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By *hunky GentMan
10 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

"I had 2 this week.

Very unusual for me.

But I had to decline.

Oh bugger.

Were you tempted though?

Both times, but I'd already had some drinks for my birthday and couldn't drive.

I wi be recording that as a yes then

So close, but yet so far. 😆 🤣 😂

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Not in your area

No.

I get these on a daily basis.

In fact there's one sitting unread in my inbox right now

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By *idssissyTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Nr cricket ground birm

I get them on occasion and usually ignore as profile says no instant meets.

May make an effort if someone met before but even then rare

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
10 weeks ago

from mars

Not many … but I’m never free now !

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
10 weeks ago

South Wales

No xx

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By *etterdays2021Man
10 weeks ago

PETERBOROUGH

Here i think we just lucky by get a reply..

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By *rettydevouringnotesWoman
10 weeks ago

Wakefield

No, If I'm free it doesn't mean I'm available

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By *etterdays2021Man
10 weeks ago

PETERBOROUGH

But to awser its a no

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By *JB1954Man
10 weeks ago

Reading

Yes. One minor problem. All friends I would like to meet over an hour plus away from me

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By *layfullsamMan
10 weeks ago

Solihull

I get asked that all the time #iwish lol

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Motherwell

No , only in the weeknight evenings and every second Friday night. Mx

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By *ntelligent_tall69Man
10 weeks ago

mums cellar

Yes but that doesn't mean I'm free to be inundated

Yeah right ha, ha

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By *an8iMan
10 weeks ago

Bilston

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By *orny PTMan
10 weeks ago

Peterborough

I think you're confusing me for John Inman, OP.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
10 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

No.

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By *an8iMan
10 weeks ago

Bilston

Yes

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By *partharmonyCouple
10 weeks ago

Ruislip

The answer is always no.

The last time somebody asked it was 3am and we were overseas.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
10 weeks ago

Altrincham

No I am never free right now 😳

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By *inger_SnapWoman
10 weeks ago

Hampshire

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

No.

Always no.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"No I am never free right now 😳"

Now *this* is a username! When did you change it?

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By *exyScientistsCouple
10 weeks ago

Castlebar

Yes

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By *haringisCaring1208Couple
10 weeks ago

Lurgan

Nope

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By *s_macWoman
10 weeks ago

Traffic land

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By *inkyropecoupleCouple
10 weeks ago

carluke

Interesting reading. If I’ve counted correctly, of the people who are free now:

1 was a woman

15 were men

2 were a couple

What does that tell us?

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By *a_brunetteWoman
10 weeks ago

Wiltshire

No.

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By *urry BlokeMan
10 weeks ago

For meeting other blokes it does work

Only ever had one meet now with a woman

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By *IXEN200Woman
10 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

It's a no from me

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I never get asked that

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By *partharmonyCouple
10 weeks ago

Ruislip

We literally just received one and it was immediately deleted.

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By *remiumbondMan
10 weeks ago

Morpeth

Yes if I’m free

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By *NormalMan01Man
10 weeks ago

Harrogate

Well… technically I am free now, but all kids are asleep upstairs so no. No im not free now.

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By *ansoffateMan
10 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

You know, I haven't had one for ages.

I kind of miss it in a way 😂

There's a select few I'd quite possibly; shamelessly, hop in the car for 😁.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
10 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

I am now but my cat is lying on the sofa so as long as someone would be happy to sit on the floor come over

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By *adgeyMan
10 weeks ago

Bingley

"I am now but my cat is lying on the sofa so as long as someone would be happy to sit on the floor come over

On my way ha

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