FabSwingers.com forum: Are you free now?

By *obilebottom OP Man
6 weeks ago

All over

How often do you get a message like that?

Anyway, this is a little experiment to test if this really works that I would like to conduct again with your help please.

If you were asked that very same question right now, what would your answer be? Just YES or NO please.

(You can assume it was from someone you would not mind meeting and had an hour max to sort yourself out)

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By *wilight_Muse.Woman
6 weeks ago

La La Land

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By *viatrixWoman
6 weeks ago

Redhill

Yes 👀

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By *55 ManMan
6 weeks ago

Castlerea

Yes

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By *he Flat CapsCouple
6 weeks ago

Pontypool

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By *ongandharderMan
6 weeks ago

Rotherham

No but I would want to be

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By *y serendipityCouple
6 weeks ago

Warrington

Nope

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By *WANDTGCouple
6 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

No, I'm trying to earn a living !

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By *issmorganWoman
6 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Nope, only time would be with someone I know well and have met before.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
6 weeks ago

Chatham

No.

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By *EAT..85Woman
6 weeks ago

Nottingham

Nope. I'm on a train.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
6 weeks ago

Ends

"Nope. I'm on a train. "

See you soon 🫶🏾

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By *sStephenPickleMan
6 weeks ago

Ends

No.

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair

Nø.

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By *igJohn4uMan
6 weeks ago

Devonshire

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By *ndymac888Man
6 weeks ago

Dumbarton

Yes

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By *rymedownunderMan
6 weeks ago

London/Australia

Yes. But in in Australia so chances of a meet right now on here are minimal!

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By *infullyObedientWoman
6 weeks ago

Woodley

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By *gent CoulsonMan
6 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Currently yes

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
6 weeks ago

Voldsøy

No. 🙅‍♀️

When the filters are open, we'll get several before they're closed again. A lot more if a new picture/status is posted.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
6 weeks ago

Ends

"No. 🙅‍♀️

When the filters are open, we'll get several before they're closed again. A lot more if a new picture/status is posted."

💔

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By *vaRoseWoman
6 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

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By *ickshawedCouple
6 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Free? No, I'm very expensive

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
6 weeks ago

Voldsøy

"No. 🙅‍♀️

When the filters are open, we'll get several before they're closed again. A lot more if a new picture/status is posted.

💔"

😢

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
6 weeks ago

Donut City

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By *sStephenPickleMan
6 weeks ago

Ends

"Free? No, I'm very expensive "
how much

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By *enegadeMMan
6 weeks ago

Witney

Does this count for a spontaneous social ‘grab a coffee and a chat kind of thing’ or do you mean …let’s just have a quickie kind of meet now?

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By *ickshawedCouple
6 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"Free? No, I'm very expensive

how much "

A family sized bag of tangfastics and whatever's down the back of your sofa

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By *sStephenPickleMan
6 weeks ago

Ends

"Free? No, I'm very expensive

how much

A family sized bag of tangfastics and whatever's down the back of your sofa "

Damn. That is pricey.

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By *illan-KillashMan
6 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

Today, no. I've got a seminar tonight I need to prep for.

Any other day, maybe........

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By *randMrsShebaCouple
6 weeks ago

Birmingham

Yeh I'm just going to go to Leeds to meet a cocaine addict at 1am after getting a message at 11pm.

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By *rymedownunderMan
6 weeks ago

London/Australia

"Free? No, I'm very expensive

how much

A family sized bag of tangfastics and whatever's down the back of your sofa "

Plus the bottle of lambrini!

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By *eneralKenobiMan
6 weeks ago

North Angus

Don’t get those messages since I stopped lads from messaging

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By *TRAY-CATMan
6 weeks ago

Sorry can't do right now , but message back and see what we can arrange ..

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By *r.ZeusMan
6 weeks ago

Basgiath War College

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
6 weeks ago

Cardiff

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By *hat.coupleCouple
6 weeks ago

Dartford

We are both free now, rarely have plans these days

Mrs x

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By *ildTimes.Man
6 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

No chance 🥪

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
6 weeks ago

Bristol

I’m free yes! Just probably not for you…

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Nowhere

It takes me two hours just to be remotely presentable as my sissy alter ego so it's always an impossibility

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By *ust want fun 888Man
6 weeks ago

nearby

Yeah

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By *obilebottom OP Man
6 weeks ago

All over

"I’m free yes! Just probably not for you…"

Just double checking this is what you would tell them, whoever they were. One assumes that's what you meant

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By *eo PublicMan
6 weeks ago

Lincoln

Given I'm at work it's a no. On the off chance the message came in on a rare occasion when I really was free then yes.

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By *adgeyMan
6 weeks ago

Bingley

Yep as per

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By *heWanderer100Man
6 weeks ago

benfleet

At present, yes, but only for a social.

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By *avenNightsMan
6 weeks ago

Canvey Island

Yep - from guys

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By *ootnootboopCouple
6 weeks ago

Cheshire

For a stranger...... Absolutely no chance.

For someone we already know... Possibly

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By *aniel0904Man
6 weeks ago

darlington

Yes

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By *outhern77Man
6 weeks ago

Birmingham

Yes

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By *asty tatsyMan
6 weeks ago

london

If it was someone I had been speaking with or met before yes

Otherwise no

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
6 weeks ago

Bristol

"I’m free yes! Just probably not for you…

Just double checking this is what you would tell them, whoever they were. One assumes that's what you meant "

I reread the opening post, I’d missed that it could be from anyone initially, my answer was based on the assumption it was a totally out of the blue message! It’s subjective isn’t it? It’s dependant on who sends it.. if it’s someone I know and was tempted to meet, perhaps. From a random stranger? Well if I have the time to open and read the message then yea, I’m obviously free, but not to meet them. Hope that clears it up

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By *tephanie63Woman
6 weeks ago

BRIDGWATER

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By *obilebottom OP Man
6 weeks ago

All over

"I’m free yes! Just probably not for you…

Just double checking this is what you would tell them, whoever they were. One assumes that's what you meant

I am sure they whoever they might have been, should be clear about it now and thanks gor clarifying it for them

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By *obilebottom OP Man
6 weeks ago

All over

Hard to be exact as some answers not precise enough but so far it looks statistically 50/50

So obviously that sort of approach does work for some but keep posting as the bigger the sample the more accurate the results of the survey

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
6 weeks ago

Reading

No and even if I were the answer would still be no. I never do last minute plans.

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
6 weeks ago

Bristol

"Hard to be exact as some answers not precise enough but so far it looks statistically 50/50

So obviously that sort of approach does work for some but keep posting as the bigger the sample the more accurate the results of the survey

I think the statistic might be skewed, the message frequency would be predominantly sent by men, so that should be taken into account

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By *ittlebirdWoman
6 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

No. Always no

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By *obilebottom OP Man
6 weeks ago

All over

"Hard to be exact as some answers not precise enough but so far it looks statistically 50/50

So obviously that sort of approach does work for some but keep posting as the bigger the sample the more accurate the results of the survey

I think the statistic might be skewed, the message frequency would be predominantly sent by men, so that should be taken into account "

Ok, thanks for your imput

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
6 weeks ago

Bristol

"Hard to be exact as some answers not precise enough but so far it looks statistically 50/50

So obviously that sort of approach does work for some but keep posting as the bigger the sample the more accurate the results of the survey

I think the statistic might be skewed, the message frequency would be predominantly sent by men, so that should be taken into account

Ok, thanks for your imput"

Anytime OP, hope that helps

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
6 weeks ago

Next Door

No and it's always a no to strangers. Maybe a yes, if we've met previous

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By *obilebottom OP Man
6 weeks ago

All over

"Hard to be exact as some answers not precise enough but so far it looks statistically 50/50

So obviously that sort of approach does work for some but keep posting as the bigger the sample the more accurate the results of the survey

I think the statistic might be skewed, the message frequency would be predominantly sent by men, so that should be taken into account

Ok, thanks for your imput

Anytime OP, hope that helps

Not particularly but thanks nevertheless

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By *hunky GentMan
6 weeks ago

east of Stamford

I had 2 this week.

Very unusual for me.

But I had to decline.

Oh bugger.

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By *obilebottom OP Man
6 weeks ago

All over

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By *obilebottom OP Man
6 weeks ago

All over

"I had 2 this week.

Very unusual for me.

But I had to decline.

Oh bugger.

Were you tempted though?

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By *hunky GentMan
6 weeks ago

east of Stamford

"I had 2 this week.

Very unusual for me.

But I had to decline.

Oh bugger.

Were you tempted though?

Both times, but I'd already had some drinks for my birthday and couldn't drive.

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By *obilebottom OP Man
6 weeks ago

All over

"I had 2 this week.

Very unusual for me.

But I had to decline.

Oh bugger.

Were you tempted though?

Both times, but I'd already had some drinks for my birthday and couldn't drive.

I wi be recording that as a yes then

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
6 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Once or twice a day usually

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By *hunky GentMan
6 weeks ago

east of Stamford

"I had 2 this week.

Very unusual for me.

But I had to decline.

Oh bugger.

Were you tempted though?

Both times, but I'd already had some drinks for my birthday and couldn't drive.

I wi be recording that as a yes then

So close, but yet so far. 😆 🤣 😂

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Not in your area

No.

I get these on a daily basis.

In fact there's one sitting unread in my inbox right now

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By *idssissyTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Nr cricket ground birm

I get them on occasion and usually ignore as profile says no instant meets.

May make an effort if someone met before but even then rare

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
6 weeks ago

from mars

Not many … but I’m never free now !

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
6 weeks ago

South Wales

No xx

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By *etterdays2021Man
6 weeks ago

PETERBOROUGH

Here i think we just lucky by get a reply..

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By *rettydevouringnotesWoman
6 weeks ago

Wakefield

No, If I'm free it doesn't mean I'm available

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By *etterdays2021Man
6 weeks ago

PETERBOROUGH

But to awser its a no

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By *JB1954Man
6 weeks ago

Reading

Yes. One minor problem. All friends I would like to meet over an hour plus away from me

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By *layfullsamMan
6 weeks ago

Solihull

I get asked that all the time #iwish lol

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Motherwell

No , only in the weeknight evenings and every second Friday night. Mx

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By *ntelligent_tall69Man
6 weeks ago

mums cellar

Yes but that doesn't mean I'm free to be inundated

Yeah right ha, ha

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By *an8iMan
6 weeks ago

Bilston

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By *orny PTMan
6 weeks ago

Peterborough

I think you're confusing me for John Inman, OP.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
6 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

No.

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By *an8iMan
6 weeks ago

Bilston

Yes

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By *partharmonyCouple
6 weeks ago

Ruislip

The answer is always no.

The last time somebody asked it was 3am and we were overseas.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
6 weeks ago

Altrincham

No I am never free right now 😳

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By *inger_SnapWoman
6 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

No.

Always no.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"No I am never free right now 😳"

Now *this* is a username! When did you change it?

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By *exyScientistsCouple
6 weeks ago

Castlebar

Yes

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By *haringisCaring1208Couple
6 weeks ago

Lurgan

Nope

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By *s_macWoman
6 weeks ago

Traffic land

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By *inkyropecoupleCouple
6 weeks ago

carluke

Interesting reading. If I’ve counted correctly, of the people who are free now:

1 was a woman

15 were men

2 were a couple

What does that tell us?

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By *a_brunetteWoman
6 weeks ago

Wiltshire

No.

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By *urry BlokeMan
6 weeks ago

For meeting other blokes it does work

Only ever had one meet now with a woman

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By *IXEN200Woman
6 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

It's a no from me

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By *elboy1978Man
6 weeks ago

Jarrow

I never get asked that

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By *partharmonyCouple
6 weeks ago

Ruislip

We literally just received one and it was immediately deleted.

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By *remiumbondMan
6 weeks ago

Morpeth

Yes if I’m free

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By *NormalMan01Man
6 weeks ago

Harrogate

Well… technically I am free now, but all kids are asleep upstairs so no. No im not free now.

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By *ansoffateMan
6 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

You know, I haven't had one for ages.

I kind of miss it in a way 😂

There's a select few I'd quite possibly; shamelessly, hop in the car for 😁.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
6 weeks ago

Cardiff

I am now but my cat is lying on the sofa so as long as someone would be happy to sit on the floor come over

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By *adgeyMan
6 weeks ago

Bingley

"I am now but my cat is lying on the sofa so as long as someone would be happy to sit on the floor come over

On my way ha

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